From money-woes, to wedding drama, and emotional spending, your favourite online sisters jump it all in this weeks episode of #TMSHotTakes. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Intro: Welcome to Audio Only & Courtney’s Blocked Bath 02:38 ‘Poverty is an underrated trauma…’ 15:59 The Scandalous Cost of Weddings 32:49 Emotional Spending & Consumerism 48:58 Learning to N…

In today’s episode, the sisters weigh in on last week’s episode with none other than Adella Afadi. From seeking freedom from the male gaze to repairing our relationship with self, sex and the male gaze - tune in to reflective and candid conversation on how, and why, women should strive for the same. Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to the conversation sis…

Join your favourite online sisters in this mid-week episode as they share their thoughts on the upcoming UK General Election. The complex feelings women might feel towards the recent series of engagement and pregnancy announcements on social media. And their tales of being young, dumb and in love as they reflect on a viral TikTok trend. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONAT…

When it comes to social movements, humans tend to swing from one extreme to another. Today we sit down with our good sis Adella Afadi to ask the question, have we gone too far with some of our responses to internet trends and conversations on the male gaze, being a ‘pick me’ and recovering from people pleasing? 💌 Introducing our guest Adella Afadi …

Marriage and commitment is hard, but cheating might not be the answer… Join your favourite online sisters as they share their thoughts on Netlfix’s The Ultimatum South Africa and the Ashley Madison Scandal. Plus in the exclusive audio they delve into thoughts on the Diddy, Jalen Noble and modern men. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy:…

Your favourite online sisters are back! In this episode, they reflect on the conversations they had with the brothers on fatherhood, marriage, dating and the gender wars. They share thoughts on how to approach toxic relationships with parents, the importance of healing, and financial management in romantic relationships. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the B…

'Daddy Issues' and exploring our relationships with father figures as topics we haven't shied away from on the To My Sisters Podcast, and in this episode, we sit down with the wonderful Tope & Ije to discuss the lessons they've learned from being married for a combined 35 years. They share wisdom on the power of commitment, selflessness, and how th…

The time has come for us to sit down with some brothers and discuss dating, marriage, character development and ultimately explore the gender wars! In today's episode we sit down with two friends and great men in our lives; Claud & Kenny, to discuss how can men and women come to a place of understanding and friendship to build community and healthy…

In this episode, your favourite online sisters discuss the future of the To My Sisters Podcast, the good, bad, and ugly sides to female friendships and relationships with other women in general. And they explore how being intentional about community building can revolutionise your whole life. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https:/…

Your favourite online sisters are back with another episode of their thoughts on life and internet culture. From wanting to unsubscribe from adulthood to boycotting celebrities after the Met Gala and the nature of modern-day social activism. ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future Academy: https://www.tomysisters.com/donate 📚 ORDER our book here: h…

The dating streets are still causing woe to our sisters, and with the seemingly endless tragic tales of romantic pursuit, the sisters decided it was time to share some advice on the girls in the arena. In today’s episode, your resident sisters share some game on some of the top dating mistakes to avoid, to help you navigate the streets just a littl…

Blackface makeup, stranded on an island for 15 years, Drake vs Kendrick Lamar, and the sassy man era? It seems like the world caught on fire since we left you all from our latest episode! Luckily, the sisters are here to help you navigate and do some firefighting in today’s midweek special hit - TMS Hottakes! ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Future…

The dating scene is hard enough to navigate by yourself, but even trickier when you’re not sure exactly how to honour and maintain your personal boundaries. Intimacy, character, love and all the juiciness when potential partners come in to the mix. In today’s episode, the sister talk about dating escapades, how to develop healthy romantic boundarie…

The sisters are back with another mid-week pick-me-up where they’ll be discussing the hottest topics of the week. From the rise in single mother slander and the trend of insulting your besties, to the rise of veneer techs and what you need to know in your early 20s…it’s another piping hot episode of #TMSHottakes! ☀️📚🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Bright Fu…

We're living in a time where you don't have to wait long to get what you want due to innovative technology, and this can cultivate a habit of impatience. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters discuss how to cultivate patience, hope, and character as you wait for your relationship and career goals to manifest. ☀️🇬🇭 DONATE to build the Br…

From ‘straw purchases’ and creators heading back to a 9-5, to discovering your partner is cussing you out in bed?! It’s your official midweek boost coming in hot and piping - nothing other than #TMSHottakes. Stay tuned for the sister’s gist and more in the latest episode! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing…

Shame and embarrassment are feelings we can be so afraid of, that it holds us back from wholeheartedly pursuing our dreams and purpose. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters sit down to discuss how to overcome discouragement and exist loudly and confidently in a world that bullies you into shrinking. 👟 GRAB YOUR STEP AEROBICS TICKET: ht…

Your weekly dosage of serious unserious takes from the TMS hosts is back! On this week’s hot block, we talk about catfish, the rising trend of trad wife aesthetics and dating expectations. Not to mention…the UK Thanos is back yet again? 👟 GRAB YOUR STEP AEROBICS TICKET: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/step-up-for-ghana-tms-x-the-forth-club-fundraise…

We all have our goals written down with our ideal timeline in mind; graduate, get married, buy a house, change the world, and live happily ever after 👀. But what happens when you realise that life is sending you in a different direction to your plans. Join your favourite online sisters and they discuss reevaluating your motivations, redefining purp…

Sisters, your midweek boost has dropped hot off the press! The question is - are you ready for it? From ghosting your WHOLE FAMILY, questioning whether or not men have artistic skills, to ‘clean hoarding’…the sisters are locked in with another hot episode on TMS Hottakes. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing…

The internet streets have been rocked and are still dealing from the revelation of the evil that goes on behind the scenes. From the shocking stories of abuse to scandalous tales of what the very rich and very powerful do for money - the sisters have a candid conversations on the reality of how difficult it is to be integral in the face of money an…

From crime, to the illuminati, join your favourite online sisters as they deep dive into current trending topics such as the viral Tumelo interview clip and the 4B feminist movement. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online therapy: https:/…

Marriage continues to be a sensitive topic for many of the sisters in the 21st century. With the rising global divorce rates, the perversion of faith and patriarchy, and so many questioning whether marriage is really worth it, the sisters weigh in on pertinent conversations on whether marriage really is outdated for the ‘modern woman’. 📚 ORDER our …

Your mid-week boost of TMS Hottakes is back, and in this episode, we're getting through our hefty bank of dillemmas. From height insecurities to heeding warning signs from our parents, tune in to another session where we get deep into our agony aunt bag! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www…

We're fast approaching the end of the first quarter of 2024, and it feels as though many of us have had a whirlwind start to the year! In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on the lessons they've learned so far and across the board - and the transformation that has occured in spiritual, mental, emotional and spheres. Tune into another wholesome …

In today's episode, the sisters talk about some strategies to overcome the depression that can be adulting (at least, in the UK), the epidemic of digitally altering photos, and the temptation to...steal?! All this and more in TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.co…

The process of maturing isn't always easy for women, and choosing to be a better woman is a daily practice. In today's episode, the girls talk about their own journey of 'becoming', the reality of pursuing wisdom, and what it looks like to truly step into the woman of purpose that God has called you into. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/to…

What extremes are permissable when you've done wrong to your partner? Would you go on a podcast to profess your undying love? Is it wise to marry young - especially with all these divorces left right and centre? The tea, as usual, is piping hot with another serving of TMS Hottakes. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to t…

Navigating dating and relationships seems to be a minefield these days, and identifying red flags can be even more challenging. In today’s episode, the sisters talk about the rising levels of ‘no-good men’, identifying red flags and what to do when we’ve overlooked ALL the warning signs. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign u…

Is Love REALLY blind? What kinky sexual requests are 'too much'? Why do we have so many grown folks playing high school teenagers on Netflix? Is Tyler Perry at it again? Coming to you hot with another episode of TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For afford…

Join your favourite online sisters in this episode as they share lessons they took from the viral TikTok storytime ‘Who TF Did I Marry?!’ from spotting the red flags to desirability politics and so much more. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessib…

What do you do if your husband buys his sister-in-law a Valentine's Day Gift? Are sending blue heart emoji's enough to repair a broken relationship after infidelity? What to do when your man stays lying? All this gist and a catch-up on all our fun times and trips awaits you in this episode of TMS Hottakes 💫 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/…

Healing isn't easy. From dealing with generational trauma to the pain we caused ourselves, it seems like the girls are in a season of trying to overcome old wounds that have penetrated deep below the surface. How do we move on in a meaningful way that is authentic and holistic? Prepared for an intense chat on today's episode of TMS! 📚 ORDER our boo…

In today's episode of TMS Hot Takes your favorite online sisters play a game (badly), discuss the rhetoric surrounding women out-earning men, who would you want to pass first out of you and your partner, and they answer a heartfelt dilemma from a sister trying to support a friend who has just lost their parent. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr…

Constant body changes are a normal part of womanhood. From your monthly hormonal cycle to rapid weight gain and loss, learning to love your body can be a tough ride. In today's episode, your favourite online sisters share their experiences with body dysmorphia, battling the desire for the male gaze, and learning to love themselves in a society that…

Getting lost in daydreams is now becoming an addiction according to the girlies - so what do we do when reality just isn't hitting right? From mental escapism to our favourite films, not to mention our travel hacks and 'girl dinners' - TMS is back with another hot-off-the-press episode of TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomys…

Sometimes we need to be raw and honest about the ugly - and in today's episode, the sisters are taking on the 'ugly' behind comparison, envy, and jealousy. From our own experiences of comparison and jealousy, to talking about the challenges facing women being pitted against each other, tune into another episode where we go deep into what it takes t…

So is it true that we're in the advent of 'monitoring spirits'? Are Black Women once again being told to be 'softer' to embrace their femininity? Are we joining what seems like an imminent world war? From bringing back slang words to the Barbie 'snub', it's the latest tea served piping hot on another episode of TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: …

Whilst it may always appear like things are fine and dandy and #SoPlatonic between Courtney and Renée, the sisters are transparent about the reality of trouble in friendship paradise. They also touch base on female friendships more broadly, and whether or not it's realistic to expect to have lifelong, healthy female friendships in the age of loneli…

Apparently women are going childless by CHOICE and folks aren't happy about it? Not to mention, it looks like luxury products are in the bin too? We'll be chatting about this (as well as some more gist) on this week's TMS Hottakes! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For …

We're coming to the end of the month and the girls seem to be losing momentum! From being transparent about our own shortcomings, to addressing how we overcome self-sabotage and failure, the sisters get real about what it takes to bounce back. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing list: https://www.tomysister…

From 'wasted virginity' to the clash between self-love and romance - in this week's episode, the TMS Hottakes is packed with the latest gist and girl talk over at the sisterhood HQ. Tune in now for the latest episode guaranteed to add some much needed heat to your day! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the mailing li…

It seems like a lot of the sisters are feeling blue, especially with the pressures of life starting to creep up on us! From processing undealt-with trauma, to supporting sisters going through mental health challenges, the girls share their thoughts, experiences, and more - in the latest TMS episode! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysist…

Hey sisters! We're back at it again with your midweek fix, coming in HOT with what's trending, our latest thoughts and a little bit of chit chat. From sisters poisoning their bestie due to jealousy, more Katt Williams drops and tuning into Marvel's latest series, it's about time to get into TMS Hottakes! 🔥 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/t…

Dating felt like the dumps for a lot of the sisters last year, and even though women are starting to embrace singleness, there's still a lot of women out there who have given up hope to find a life partner. In today's episode, the sisters weigh in on what it looks like to embrace singleness this year, and whether finding 'Mr Right' is nothing but a…

Introducing TMS Hottakes - the sisters' take on the hottest topics of the week! The sisters asked, and we delivered. The official mid-week gist, candid conversation, and opinionated space where we'll be talking everything from our takes on the latest TikToks, conspiracy theories, movies, and more. Make sure you have either a tea or a wine in hand s…

Starting 2024 with a bang! Now that the sisters have the prayers and affirmations necessary to speak life into 2024, the sisters talk about how the girls NEED to channel their energy, overcome the past and make 2024 their best year yet! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 F…

Would it be a New Year without affirming the sisters ahead of 2024? In today’s episode, your resident sisters share the TOP affirmations and prayers women NEED in 2024. From boosting your confidence to securing the bae, tune in get some of the words you need to water in the next few months! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sig…

What a Merry Christmas indeed! Amidst the fun and festivities of the season, join the sisters as they talk about some of the biggest challenges that we’ve had to overcome over the course of the year. From overcoming old trauma and dealing with huge setbacks, ’tis the season to rest, reflect, and grow. 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysi…

From repairing relationships with our mothers, to whether relationships with older men can be wholesome? Tune into another episode of asking the sisters those burning questions you’ve had and more! 📚 ORDER our book here: https://linktr.ee/tomysisters 💌 Sign up to the newsletter: https://www.tomysisters.com 💕 For affordable and accessible online the…