Best Sextech Podcasts (2024)

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Ep. 14 Sextech: Health & Pleasure, with Dr Elliot Justin 40:15

24d ago40:15

40:15

Unlock the secrets to better sexual health for men as we chat with Dr. Elliot Justin, a pioneering mind in sex tech, wearables, erectile dysfunction, and cardiac health. Use LEE15 at checkout to get 15% off anything on Dr. Justin’s website: https://myfirmtech.com/ Instagram: @myfirmtech TikTok: @myfirmtech Dr. Justin's YouTube channel: https://www.…

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Ep. 17: Surrogate Partner (Part 2), with Michelle Renee 50:42

1d ago50:42

50:42

What if true sexual desire stems not from physical intimacy but from emotional safety and connection? My discussion with Michelle Renee, surrogate partner and professional cuddler, takes you through the critical steps of cultivating internal safety by setting boundaries and trusting your instincts. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of intimac…

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Ep. 16: Surrogate Partner (Part 1), with Michelle Renee 44:55

2d ago44:55

44:55

In this episode, we sit down with Michelle Rene, an intimacy guide and professional cuddler from San Diego, to uncover the layers of the unique therapeutic practice of being a surrogate partner. Michelle collaborates closely with talk therapists to support clients grappling with emotional and physical intimacy issues. To contact Michelle: MeetMiche…

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90. Swingin' (Not So) Singles 46:33

5d ago46:33

46:33

Friend of the show and brand new author Stephanie Sigler is joining Wolf and Stefani this week and she is opening up... about all things ENM! A multiple-award winning sėxuality coach, she's here to share her tips on everything from how to navigate a group chat when you're chatting about "group activities" and what NOT to do on lifestyle apps to the…

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89. Putting the i in Infidelity 30:38

12d ago30:38

30:38

A man in Britain is suing Apple for the dissolution of his marriage. Could his wife have been upset about his years of infidelity? No way- clearly, his iOS is to blame. This week, Stef and Wolf sit down to ask why this case is happening, what designers could do differently to prevent these situations, how to best keep your everyday messages private…

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Ep 15: Religious S#xual Repression, with Chantelle 43:35

15d ago43:35

43:35

What happens when the teachings of your faith collide with the realities of married life? Chantelle shares her deeply personal and courageous journey of growing up in the Mormon church and the profound impacts its teachings on sex and intimacy had on her relationships. Here's your first step in spicing up your sex life--get Lee's free erotic massag…

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88. Shelter Me: Securing The Ones Who Safeguard Others 41:12

20d ago41:12

41:12

Stefani spent many years working in shelters for people at risk: homeless shelters, domestic violence shelters, and shelters for young people who didn't feel safe at home. There's one thing they all lacked: pretty much any kind of cybersecurity. Yeah! The people who are protecting the most vulnerable among us are often operating from a pretty vulne…

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87. Gold Medal Gossip 28:39

27d ago28:39

28:39

It's summer in an even-numbered year and you know what that means! No, not easier math for numerologists... the Olympics are back! And while neither Goerlich is known for their athletic acumen, Stefani is here to answer all of Wolf's questions about the latest gossip coming out of Paris. From cardboard beds to a cornucopia of condoms... we've got a…

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Ep. 13: Confidence After Divorce, with Lori 46:54

1M ago46:54

46:54

After 33 years of marriage and 15 years of intimacy deprivation, Lori's journey of self-discovery and reclaiming her sexuality is nothing short of inspiring. Tune in to hear how Lori navigated the emotional and physical impacts of her ex-husband's erectile dysfunction and his resistance to alternative forms of intimacy. Discover how Lori's courageo…

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Ep. 12: Vaginal Rejuvenation, with Lana Kerr 34:31

1M ago34:31

34:31

As we age, so do our vaginas and vulvas, and Lana Kerr, the esteemed founder and CEO of Lumisque, gives us a lifeline to vaginal rejuvenation. She navigates us through the hormonal rollercoaster of peri- and post-menopause, and gets frank about everything from vaginal dryness to clitoral health, dismantling misconceptions as we go. This episode isn…

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86. The En-Creep-ification of Data 43:29

1M ago43:29

43:29

The amount of peer-to-peer surveillance these days has gotten downright creepy. Behavior we'd never tolerate from our neighbors (staring in our windows, jotting down our dog-walking schedule) have become ubiquitous through the use of things like Ring cameras and other "internet of things" home products. Wolf and Stefani talked about app-based surve…

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Ep. 11: Maximizing Pleasure, with Susan Bratton 1:05:44

1M ago1:05:44

1:05:44

Join me and Susan Bratton, a sexual wellness hacker and intimacy guru, in this revealing conversation. We discuss the often-misunderstood landscape of female desire and sexual pleasure, the game-changing concept of the Sexual Soulmate Pact, orgasmic cross-training, and natural libido boosters. Resources from Susan: Free e-book for more passionate l…

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85. Talking S-E-X at RSA 47:43

2M ago47:43

47:43

RSA is one of the biggest Information Security conferences in the country, drawing 50,000 people to San Francisco from around the world to learn from some of the leading voices in technology... and for some reason? They gave Stefani a microphone. This week's episode, recorded live at RSA, features her thoughts on how the internet is rewiring our er…

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Ep. 10: Long-Lasting Passion, with Monica 37:28

2M ago37:28

37:28

Ever wondered how to keep the fire burning in a relationship that's spanned the decades? Monica, our charming guest, opens up about her nearly 34-year dance of love and how she and her husband keep their love life exciting. The comedian on TikTok Monica talked about: @thefreshkingbenjamin Hormone-free suppository for feminine dryness (consult a doc…

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84. The Rise of Digital S3x Work 55:04

2M ago55:04

55:04

Friend of the show and all-around badass, Kurt Fowler is back with us to discuss his new book The Rise of Digital S3x Work out now from NYU Press. The internet has revolutionized s3x work perhaps more than any other profession and Kurt is here to tell Wolf & Stefani all about how innovative workers are using the internet to attract clients, shape p…

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Federal Privacy Legislation? For Real? 32:58

2M ago32:58

32:58

In this episode, Dara discusses the history of the U.S. attempts at federal privacy legislation and the newest bipartisan bill being proposed. What are the obstacles and likely objections to the proposal? Will anything actually get done in an election year? Dara and James discuss these topics and more.…

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Ep. 9: Masturbation (part 2 of 2), with Erica Leroye 44:23

2M ago44:23

44:23

Could unlocking the secrets of self-pleasure be the key to not just bliss but also healing? Join us as we uncover the surprising connection between personal pleasure, pain management, and psychological healing. Erica’s website: https://www.flowcode.com/page/creativebodyrelease.com Erica Leroye’s email: erica@creativebodyrelease.com IG: @erica_leroy…

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83. Wolf & Stef Go To PenguiCon 37:32

2M ago37:32

37:32

Stef & Wolf were invited to be Guests of Honor at PenguiCon 2024 and they are here to report on 48 hours of pure awesomeness. Lots of talks (they gave four separate presentations) and LOTS of great questions later... they're here to tell you all about it. Have you ever wondered what you get when you combine Open Source, Sci Fi, and S3x Toys? You'll…

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Ep. 8: Masterbation (Part 1 of 2), with Erica Leroye 42:00

2M ago42:00

42:00

Embark on a transformative exploration of sexual well-being and self-discovery with our esteemed guest, Erica Leroy, an expert in sexual health and education. This episode promises to shed light on the empowering practice of masturbation, a subject often shrouded in secrecy but integral to our personal health journeys. Contact Erica Leroye: erica@c…

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82. Stopping Data P0rn 45:42

2M ago45:42

45:42

Hey there, Mr(s) Incognito Mode! You're doing all the right things when you browse online. No one knows what you're searching for and you know better than to actually make an account on the sexywebz, right? Yeah... we've got some bad news for you. This week Stef and Wolf are joined by Alessandro Polidoro, technology attorney and digital rights acti…

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Ep. 7: Yoni Eggs, with Lyuba Venable 1:03:04

2M ago1:03:04

1:03:04

Prepare to be enlightened as I sit with Luba Venable, a seasoned sex and relationship coach, who unveils the transformative power of yoni eggs. Our conversation takes you on a journey from personal empowerment to pelvic health, revealing how these mystical tools are more than just spiritual trinkets. They are allies in enhancing women's wellness an…

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81. Zoom Dating 20:43

3M ago20:43

20:43

Stefani is out sick, but don’t worry- it’s not Covid! Speaking of the pandemic? Since 2020, the rise of Zoom dates has become a fascinating phenomenon. These virtual meet-cutes not only offer a practical solution for distance or health concerns but also introduce a whole new dynamic to the dating scene. Weaving in tips on avoiding romance scams wit…

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Ep. 6: Dating With Confidence, with Marie Ruzicka 44:10

3M ago44:10

44:10

Imagine unlocking a deeper sense of joy and empowerment in your most intimate moments. That's precisely the journey we embark on with the effervescent Marie Ruzicka, who reveals the transformative power of intimacy education and the ripple effects it has on confidence and relationships. We reflect on how using just a few techniques to pleasure a ma…

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80. Deepfakes and the End of Reality 1:02:23

3M ago1:02:23

1:02:23

This is the 80th episode of Securing Sexuality. Each week, Stef and Wolf sit down at their desks to chat about the world of intimacy and technology... or do they? How can you tell if the voices you're hearing right now belong to the people you think they do? Can you be sure that the faces you see on your screen are real? Do the Goerlichs exist at A…

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Ep. 5: Talking Asexuality with Aubri Lancaster 55:38

3M ago55:38

55:38

Aubrey Lancaster, ASEC-certified sexuality educator, guides us into the rich tapestry of intimacy, exploring limerence, sensual attraction, and the myriad ways we relate to each other beyond the physical. We confront the concept of libido, dispelling the myth that it is the cornerstone of sexual activity, and instead celebrate the array of intimaci…

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79. The All-Seeing AI? 38:23

3M ago38:23

38:23

One of the top questions listeners ask the Securing Sexuality Home Team is how to minimize the amount of data they feed to "the machine." Unfortunately, we don't have a good answer for you, especially now that AI seems to be developing...gaydar? Tune in this week as Wolf and Stef discuss the subtle, even subliminal data points that Large Language M…

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Ep. 4: Harnessing Sexual Energy, with Linda Bogdanov 53:51

3M ago53:51

53:51

Tune in for an expedition with Linda Bogdanov, a divine feminine coach who reveals the alchemy of intertwining our divine feminine and masculine energies. We discuss integrating tantra into the tapestry of our daily lives, from sacred morning rituals to amplifying sensual pleasure with mindfulness. Linda's website: https://www.tantrikasoul.com Lind…

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Breaking the Future 33:34

3M ago33:34

33:34

SXSW is a safari to the future according to Todder Moning, Lead Futurist at U.S. Bank. But, as Mike Bechtell, Chief Futurist at Deloitte, pointed out in his Fintech House fireside last year: futurists are always wrong. Why attempt to predict the future if you are likely to be wrong? This year Todder and Eric Schurr, Chief Strategy Officer at Sunris…

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78. Gender, Gamification, and GDPR 36:16

3M ago36:16

36:16

Keigh-Lee Paroz is a U.K. based data privacy expert who is deeply passionate about human rights, accessibility, gender equality, and the ways in which technology can influence all three. This week, she's joining Wolf and Stef to explain Europe's General Data Protection Regulation and how better security practices can build a better world. Show Note…

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77. The New Peeping Toms 37:23

3M ago37:23

37:23

We're all familiar with the way that big businesses collect, analyze and sell our personal data. No one LIKES it, but most of us have resigned ourselves to the fact that the stuff we share on social media is going to be, well, shared. But what happens when the entity tracking your location, sharing your personal data (address, religion, political v…

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76. The Pleasure Engineer: A Conversation with Raven Faber 54:11

4M ago54:11

54:11

What do you get when you cross a Structural Engineer with a pleasure products home party? If you're super lucky, you get Raven Faber- the brilliant mind behind EngErotics! This week she's joining Stef and Wolf to discuss materials science, multilevel marketing, and why everyone needs to pay close attention to what their favorite toys are made of. B…

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75. WTF is FinDomme? 39:44

4M ago39:44

39:44

Have you ever wanted to lounge at home while devoted minions pay your bills and send you presents? Living that fantasy might seem relaxing, but in reality? It's a whole lot of work. This week, Stefani is telling Wolf all about the world of FinDomme (or Financial Domination) a majority-female online form of power exchange. Join us as we learn about …

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74. This Little Piggy Went Bankrupt 56:05

4M ago56:05

56:05

This week, we're learning all about pig butchering! No, Stefani is not forsaking her Jewish roots to go "whole hog," but she is going to learn all about this insidious and devastating form of romance scam. Join Stef and Wolf as they chat with Sean Gallagher, Principal Threat Researcher for Sophos X-Ops. Prior to joining Sophos, he was an informatio…

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Ep. 2: From Hairstylist to Heart Whisperer, with Michelle 1:09:57

4M ago1:09:57

1:09:57

Ever felt like your voice in the bedroom was more of a whisper than a roar? Let's change that narrative together. I'm Lee Jagger, and alongside my insightful guest Michelle, we're bringing you a candid episode where we peel back the layers on sex, communication, and the transformative journey of self-discovery. From erotic massage to the empowering…

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Ep. 3: Myths of Sexual Incompatibility, with Jaiya & Ian Ferguson 1:15:03

4M ago1:15:03

1:15:03

Have you ever wondered if you could have a more fulfilling sex life? Prepare to have that curiosity satisfied as sexologist Jaya and her partner Ian Ferguson, of the Blueprint Breakthrough, join me for an invigorating discussion that redefines the meaning of sexual connection. Together, we peel back the layers of erotic blueprints, a revolutionary …

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Ep. 1: Over 2000 Penises Later... 14:57

4M ago14:57

14:57

When life handed me lemons, I not only made lemonade—I started a lemonade empire. I'm going to take you through my unconventional journey from being a single mom and homeless to an erotic massage therapist whose hands have touched over 2,000 penises. Feel the rawness of my early days in the industry, with awkward first encounters that soon became t…

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73. Air B & Busted! 38:02

4M ago38:02

38:02

Ah, the old No-Tell Motel, where Film Noir gumshoes conduct parking lot stakeouts, illicit lovers find forbidden romance, and every 3rd episode of COPS- Tallahassee is filmed. Sadly, the glory days of by-the-hour shenanigans have largely been replaced by the app-based vacation rental. In every city in the world, folks can check into a private spot …

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72. Cyborgification and Robotic Relationships: A Conversation with Dr. Jo Ann Oravec 56:22

5M ago56:22

56:22

This week, Stefani ventures into dark places she's never been before. That's right! This week, we're gonna get Psychodynamic. Stef and Wolf are joined by robotics researcher and all around badass Dr. Jo Ann Oravec to have a conversation about ego-centrism, artificial intelligence, and the hope that someday we might marry our robots....or become one…

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71. Taylor Swift and the Stepford Internet 41:04

5M ago41:04

41:04

From the Republican Party to the local sports bar, everyone in America is talking about Taylor Swift this week. But why are they so obsessed with her and WTF does it have to do with Securing Sexuality? This conversation starts out with Stefani's desire to finally convince Wolf that football is fun... but it quickly becomes an exploration of misinfo…

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Rock The Bedroom - Trailer 2:14

5M ago2:14

2:14

Ready to strip away the shame and giggle over the secrets of sexual empowerment? I'm Lee Jagger, your daring guide through the hushed whispers of the bedroom, and I'm here to fling open the doors to conversations we've all been starving for. My journey has led me to touchpoints of intimacy with over 2000 penises, and I'm pouring that uninhibited kn…

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70. Making the Scary Stuff Fun 54:52

5M ago54:52

54:52

This week Stef and Wolf are joined by the cybersecurity's Ring Master, Ean Meyer! He's here to tell us all about manatees, muppets, and how to make scary topics accessible- a challenge many clinicians and educators also wrestle with. How can we get folks to learn skills to keep themselves safe? Why is making them even more afraid not an ideal strat…

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69. I've Got A Bingo! 40:39

5M ago40:39

40:39

From fashion trends to SCOTUS rulings, this episode has a something for everyone. Join us as we try to get a cover-all on the 2024 Predictions Bingo card put out by one of Stefani's favorite brands. There's no sponsored content here- just rollicking conversation about abortion pills, TradWives, and the RenFaire. Laugh along with us- but be sure to …

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68. The Science of Femme Tech with Dr. Ashley Winter 43:04

6M ago43:04

43:04

One of the biggest complaints that Stefani hears in her practice is that there are so many treatment options for men who struggle with arousal disorders and relatively few available for women. It can be disheartening for many clients to feel like the medical community isn't taking their needs (or their bodies) seriously... and if there's one thing …

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67. His & Hers, Part Two: Revisiting Stefani's Favorite Episode of 2023 45:56

6M ago45:56

45:56

This has been a busy year for the Securing Sexuality Home Team! Wolf and Stef talked to some incredible experts and recorded dozens of podcast episodes, Comms Director Frank and the crew helped us host our first ever live conference, and we even visited a cyber brothel! But which episodes were our favorite of 2023? In a year full of so much, what s…

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66. His & Hers, Part One: Revisiting Wolf's Favorite Episode of 2023 57:03

6M ago57:03

57:03

This has been a busy year for the Securing Sexuality Home Team! Wolf and Stef talked to some incredible experts and recorded dozens of podcast episodes, Comms Director Frank and the crew helped us host our first ever live conference, and we even visited a cyber brothel! But which episodes were our favorite of 2023? In a year full of so much, what s…

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65. For Mature Audiences Only 38:49

7M ago38:49

38:49

It's that time of year again! PornHub has released its annual report on viewer trends and Stefani can't wait to unwrap it. Join Wolf and Stef this week as they discuss what surprised them about 2023's top fantasies, offers their insights into why some themes are more popular than ever, and they debate whether or not she should start her own channel…

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64. Is Kinky Social Media Safe? 43:10

7M ago43:10

43:10

It seems like it's impossible to live in the 21st century without sharing parts of our lives on different social media platforms. LinkedIn for professional networking, Facebook to keep up with the family, the website-formerly-known-as-Twitter when you're just dying to ruin your mood. Every facet of life has it's own dedicated website- including our…

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63. Under His Eye: Covenant Eyes and Shameware Security 49:22

7M ago49:22

49:22

Perhaps the most common question people ask Wolf these days is how they can evaluate an app or other digital product before using it themselves or sharing it with others. This week, we'll use the recent example of Speaker of the House Mike Johnson's revelation that he and his son use the Covenant Eyes "accountability" app to track their digital beh…

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62. Spending Thanksgiving in The Matrix with Tilly Bridges 35:51

7M ago35:51

35:51

Life is weird these days. Everyone is polarized. The news is a clusterf!ck. And now we have to hang out with Racist Uncle Joe and eat some overcooked turkey. Thankfully (see what we did there?!) Wolf and Stef are joined this week by Tilly Bridges, the author of Begin Transmission: the Trans Allegories of the Matrix to talk about how we can use our …

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61. Your Body Or Your Bank Account 35:48

7M ago35:48

35:48

How much would you pay for a stolen credit card number? A social security number? Can you put a price on someone's online identity? What about just their medical records? In this weeks episode, Stefani has questions about healthcare hacking: why it happens, how to recognize it, and why someone would bother stealing the records of her last flu shot.…

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