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The Iron Table is a forum where Black men can discuss topics from their perspective. Topics range from relationships, mental health, emotional health, life skills, social awareness, etc. As iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), the idea is that men sharpen men. The sharpening can happen when men are willing to be transparent and proactive in addressing situations and circumstances that can tear us down when not handled. While this is geared toward men, the topics affect women and the family. ...
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Can romantic music teach us about the evolution of love? Join us at "The Iron Table" as Bryant, Keith, and Steve kick off our return from summer hiatus with a warm and reflective conversation. We catch up on our summer adventures—Steve’s journey to mindfulness, Keith’s balancing act with work and back-to-school hustle, and Bryant’s family-centric s…
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Would you know how to navigate the choppy waters if a family member's private life suddenly became very public on a platform like OnlyFans? Join us at the Iron Table, where Bryant, Keith, Danny, and Steve dissect the entangled web of family dynamics and the digital age's adult content platforms. We're not just talking about the shock and the why; w…
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On April 10, 2024, Orenthal James Simpson (OJ) died after dealing with cancer. His achievements in life, Hiesman, NFL, TV, film, all took a backseat as the world watched in horror as be was being charged with the killing of his ex-wife and another man. His slow-speed chase even preempted the NBA Playoffs that year. I can remember as I sat riveted w…
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When the everyday chaos of fatherhood meets the ironclad bonds of brotherhood, you know you're in for a treat. Join the brothers, minus our beloved Danny, for a heartwarming and occasionally side-splitting romp through the potholes and triumphs of parenting, the costs of daycare that leave us with lighter wallets and heavier hearts, and the quest t…
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Have you ever found yourself yearning for the simpler times when relationships unfolded in the analog world? Together with my brothers Keith, Danny, and Steve, we're pulling up a chair at the iron table to dissect the convoluted ways social media has redefined our connections with one another. From the haunting grip of past relationships that refus…
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Have you ever stood at the crossroads of patriotism and cultural identity and wondered where you fit in? That's the heart of our Black History Month episode, where we, Bryant, Keith, Danny, and Steve, gather at the Iron Table to stir up a rich dialogue blend, celebrating black men's resilience and diversity. Anchoring our conversation in personal e…
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Ever caught yourself chuckling over your own botched New Year's resolution? You're in good company at The Iron Table, where we swap tales of resolutions gone awry and the comical trials we endure. Imagine navigating the temptations of Facebook Marketplace or the siren call of pepperoni pizza while trying to stay true to our healthier ambitions. We'…
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Who decides how our culture should be? And why is it that wealth has become more important than cultural identity in our society? This is the kind of introspective discussion we, your hosts Bryant, Keith, Danny, and Steve, will have in today's episode. Exploring our personal experiences - we'll share how these encounters have reshaped our perspecti…
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In this episode of The Iron Table, we talk about roles within marriage and how it's easy to get into specific roles and gender norms. A man typically is to provide and protect, but what if the woman is putting herself in harm's way time and time again? Just as a woman is typically the nurturing caregiver, what if her man tends to ignore suggestions…
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Recently, a video spread on social media about a woman and a man who ran into a problem on their first date. They approached a restaurant, and the woman felt she was above said restaurant based on her appearance and who she was. The gentleman explained that he had other plans that fell through because of her timeliness in getting ready. This was th…
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When you think of teams, what comes to mind? We tend to think about sports and how a team comprises more than one individual. Team sports include Tennis, Basketball, Baseball, Football, Soccer, etc. The common theme is there is more than one person involved. Do teammates always get along all day, every day... No. Do they get on each other's nerves …
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Today, young boys are bombarded with the media, portraying them as threats as early as the 3rd grade. Society has shown them few alternatives outside of prison and the grave. The media has such a hold on them that when someone who cares approaches them with concern, they instantly get aggressive and defensive. For some, they are doomed from the sta…
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Why is it that when a person of color makes a mistake, it's like we all made it? When we take one step forward and are "Almost There," something happens, and we are back at the starting line. Why is it that other groups who do that don't get ridiculed or scrutinized like us? The previous week there was an incident where some claimed to have been ab…
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This is an Iron Table Short, a nugget of truth for everyday use. Dating has changed from the days of drive-in movies, walks in the park, skating, and going to a house party. The activities have morphed into expensive meals costing $50 a plate, concert tickets, and lavish activities. Often, men have to do this on the first date! Yet what does it get…
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Fighting. We've all fought or seen a fight at school, on the playground, and, unfortunately, sometimes at home. Usually, fights are the result of miscommunication. It would be nice if fights were only on TV; however, that is not life. Miscommunication has its roots. It goes back further than your relationship, your parent's relationship, and your p…
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Recently, I started to look into the option of going solar for energy use. There are a lot of benefits to going solar, the effects on the environment, potential utility savings, etc. There are also negatives to going solar. It may not be for everyone. In doing the research, sitting through presentations, and going through the facts and figures, I r…
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The great Scottish Poet Robert Burns once said, "The best-laid plans of mice and men sometimes go awry." So did one of our frequent guests of The Iron Table. In this episode, Bryant & Keith try to cheer up their friend Danny, who is stuck at the airport (he flew Spirit), with a random conversation about Top 5s. Will their tactics work? Will Danny "…
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When was the last time you heard or felt that you were enough? Do you think that your value is only in what you offer? Do you have a community that pours into you? Do you have someone that is pulling for you? Do you have someone that is pushing you in the right direction? It's hard sometimes to feel that you are worthy of love, that you deserve som…
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We've come to the last episode of 2022. It's been an incredible year. We are grateful that you have stood with us for two years. This episode brings to the table two women who have stood by our sides and supported this venture. It's interesting who this is Season 2, Episode 14. 2/14, or February 14th, is recognized as Valentine's Day, the day the w…
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A friend once told me that back in the day, boys were told to avoid two things: Girls and Guns. We weren't told why and now look at society. Men are running around with a lack of information on girls, and they are running around with little to no information on guns. We are left to fend for ourselves from the types of firearms, ways to obtain guns,…
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"Cancel Culture," as defined by Merriam-Webster, is the practice or tendency of engaging in mass canceling to express disapproval and exert social pressure. Cancel Culture first hit the mainstream in the late 2010s, becoming the norm in the early 2020s. It happens when a person states an opinion or viewpoint that goes against the norm. It may even …
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As men, we have been conditioned to "tough it out" or "suck it up." However, is that a healthy way to communicate our needs? Are we even communicating our needs at all if we stay silent? This episode discusses the subtle and not-so-subtle ways men ask for help. This is only the beginning. The hardest step is the first! Also, if you need an excellen…
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What is the definition of manhood? Is it a definition derived from personal experiences? Is it something observed or passed down? Can manhood be taught in adulthood? What are some of the characteristics a man should have if they are to be considered a man? How should a man, who possesses traits of manhood, treat a woman and allow themselves to be t…
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In the 80s a rap group named Whodini released a track called "Friends". It had me thinking about who are my friends and how rare is it that I still have the same friends from grade school. Double that by including friends from grade school, that I talk to on a regular basis. Regular being at times multiple times a week. In this episode, I brought i…
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Dating in the 20th Century... No, wait, this is the 21st Century. Let's just say dating that way; this is relevant to yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Now, as I was saying, dating, many of us have been there, done that, and will likely do it again. It is a necessary activity that one must do if they are heading in the direction of marriage. Those wh…
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Statistics say that over 50 percent of marriages end in divorce. Yet life doesn't stop at divorce. Over time, a person may desire to get back into the dating scene. But is that too soon? Has enough time passed that the heart has had a chance to heal? For men, how do we process life after divorce? How do we approach dating after such an experience? …
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Recently the world witnessed a shocking event. At the Oscars, the world watched a comedian make a joke and the resulting action. Initially, the world reacted two ways. Some said Chris deserved to get slapped, and others said Will was wrong. This goes deeper than right or wrong. We witnessed two Black men, or brothers, experiencing a traumatic event…
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There are plenty of games in life. We all have our favorites, card games, board games, and video games. They all have rules and instructions that come in the box. Yet the game of life seems to have so many restrictions and modifications. Yet how can you win when the directions are not in the box? Here we talk about the loan game. We try to level th…
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Culture it's a multilayered word. For some, it could mean their ethnicity. For others, their identity. Our cultural upbringing shapes us all. Whether it is stories and activities passed down or observing individuals who look similar to us, we all are influenced by our culture. Through triumphs and struggles, we have achieved great things. However, …
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The Iron Table is on the road! We set up shop inside the MECCA of Black men communication - The Barbershop. The barbershop where men talk about all things life. It could be relationships, child raising\rearing, work habits, culture, and current events. This episode starts a new series where the Iron Table will go into the Barbershop to chop it up w…
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The saying goes, "Married people should continue to date," but what does that mean? What activities fall under actions while "dating," and what activities fall under the category of "courting"? Our hosts look at this statement from two different lenses in this episode. Is there a right or wrong answer? Should married couples change the way they loo…
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Podcast experts say that you do not get into your groove until the 20-25th episode range. This is Season 2, Episode 1. In this episode, our hosts reconnect for the 1st time in 2022. So much has happened individually since the last episode of 2021, and we take a moment to reconnect and catch up. This is a more personal look at your host, and we've a…
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Its been about 20 months since the start of the COVID-19 pandemic. This pandemic has affected our families, the healthcare system, the industry, supply chains, and many other facets of life. But rarely does anyone talk about the Education system. Sure we are focused on our children having to wear masks or someone not wanting them to wear masks. But…
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Music is the universal language. The beat with the words can take us from incredible highs (Rock, Classical, Hip Hop, and R&B) to significant lows (Blues, Country, Instrumentals). If I said the title, some songs would take you back to when life could have been simpler. Maybe it's a first kiss, family cookout, the birth of a child, etc. But those sa…
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Recently the verdict of the Rittenhouse trial had us thinking. Would he have had the same considerations as the shooter if he was a Black man? If he was a Black man who shot and killed two White men and injured another, would the trial have taken this long? Regardless of his age, the facts state that he secured an AR-15 rifle, was driven crossed st…
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This episode is different. First, we've taken The Iron Table on the road. During the getaway weekend, there was an opportunity to share experiences in dating and put in perspective topics, including: · Dating with Kids · Responsibilities and Roles in Dating · Dating after Divorce · Following His plan for your dating life · Dating While Recovering f…
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Whether it’s the hand, switch, belt, or even vacuum cleaner cord, we've all had stories of being disciplined by our parents, aunts & uncles, and grandparents. I even remember when you could get a spanking in school and a whoopin' at home! We all know the sheer fear of hearing our parents come home and KNOWING it was about to go down. We'd hide anyw…
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Dr. Jawanza Kunjufu's book "Countering The Conspiracy to Destroy Black Boys" talks about making a concerted and deliberate effort to break the cycle of black boys being labeled - disruptive, challenging, and developmentally delayed. In the school systems, our black boys are labeled as having ADHD or ADDD and being placed in special classes to drive…
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Top 5's in anything is always debatable. Whether it’s sports players, cars, iconic personalities, or even basic cereal, they are often used as conversation starters and harmless fun. Well, today's episode is just that. Your two hosts talk about their Top 5 R&B love songs of all times and why. Now feel free to talk back to us with your Top 5 (too ba…
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Roommates. Most of us have had one. For some, it started at home with siblings. For others, it began in high school and college. We've all had to join financial forces to survive, or maybe we didn't want to be alone. In this episode, we discuss the joys and sorrows of roommate life. Somehow, the conversations shape into growing and nurturing a rela…
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Why is it that Mother's Day gets all the attention and effort? Moms get flowers, fancy dinners, gift cards to actual stores, and just about anything with numbers in front of the decimal place. Yet when it comes to Father's Day, it’s a chore. Dad has to get up and start the grill for his day. He gets ties (we've been a pandemic, so when will he wear…
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We've all been down this road. We've all had exes. Whether you’re in your teens or approaching a century, you've had a relationship end. Sometimes the breakup is smooth, and you both can be cordial when you see each other. Sometimes you break up, and your paths may never cross again. But what if you can't have a peaceful breakup? OR what if you sti…
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Student Loans... When many hear those two words, their mood instantly changes. Many have had to sign on the dotted line, to be able to stay within the school and, once done, face the reality of repayment. It’s almost a necessary evil. Here we discuss the impact student loans have on the economy and the current & future workforce.…
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2020 is the "Year of Streaming" with so many options from Netflix, Hulu, Disney +, etc., there is plenty to watch. Today's episode focuses on what's currently on our watchlist and what types of movies\tv shows we don't care for. Also, one of our hosts finally confronts the guest about something they did to them over 20+ years ago that left a lastin…
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Remember when soap and water were all you needed to be clean? You could jump in the shower, get dressed, and go. That was then; this is now. You need more than just the old tried and true these days. You currently have to build a routine if you want to be clean. As we get older, so do our bodies and scent. Learn what you can do to keep her close or…
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Your Hosts are at it again, bringing you critical yet taboo topics. In this episode, we discuss the topic of Vasectomy using our personal experiences with this medical procedure. We talked about the circumstances that brought us to consider getting a vasectomy. We highlight the two ways the operation can be done, the recovery process, AND our thoug…
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Spiritual Intimacy - When you hear that term, do you wonder if that means you must become vulnerable or transparent to your mate? Have you wondered why your significant other might struggle with this issue? Well, look no further. We look at this topic and highlight it from a males' point of view. We talk about what thoughts could go through his min…
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