She Only Hit You Because She Knows You Won't Hit Her Back - Pt. 1

The Iron Table

On April 10, 2024, Orenthal James Simpson (OJ) died after dealing with cancer. His achievements in life, Hiesman, NFL, TV, film, all took a backseat as the world watched in horror as be was being charged with the killing of his ex-wife and another man. His slow-speed chase even preempted the NBA Playoffs that year.
I can remember as I sat riveted watching the O.J. Simpson verdict unfold, the collective exhale of a nation grappling with race and justice was palpable. That moment, seared into the American consciousness, serves as the backdrop for our latest discussion at the Iron Table, where my brothers Keith, Danny, and Steve join me to dissect the complex legacy left by Simpson's acquittal. We navigate the tangle of emotions and societal ripples that emerged from a trial that became a watershed moment in our nation's history, with ramifications touching on everything from celebrity culture to the persistent disparities in the justice system.
There's an unspoken tension that weaves through the fabric of America, often erupting when we least expect it. This episode goes beyond the surface to examine the deep-seated notions of race and identity that influence our experiences and perceptions. From the courtroom to the streets, we scrutinize the constructs of black and white, considering how these artificial divisions shape our reality. We confront uncomfortable truths — like the circumstances, if any, where violence becomes justifiable — and wrestle with the implications for both men and women caught in the web of domestic unrest.
Finally, we turn the lens inward, reflecting on the personal and spiritual dimensions of conflict resolution within relationships. The conversation becomes intimate as we share our own insights on setting boundaries and the power of truth and accountability. It's a candid examination of where faith intersects with personal responsibility, and how the toughest challenges in our relationships can lead to profound growth. Join us for an episode that isn't just about sharing thoughts — it's about igniting a spark for change and understanding in the complex world we navigate together.

Chapters

1. Iron Table (00:00:00)

2. Justice System and Racial Disparity (00:06:43)

3. Underlying Tensions in Black vs. White (00:12:13)

4. De-Escalation and Gendered Violence (00:18:41)

5. Setting Boundaries in Relationships (00:29:29)

6. Time for Everything Under the Sun (00:40:14)