Thoughts on Thoughts is a podcast for people looking to be more self aware, have healthier relationships and to be more fulfilled in life. The podcast is hosted by three therapists who want to share things that they have taught their clients and also things they have put to use themselves that have enriched their lives and made them healthier people. They also hope to have a little fun along the way so if that's what you're looking for, this is the place for you. Support this podcast: https: ...
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132. Tips for Learning How to Trust Yourself
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Sometimes anxiety or trauma can make it hard to feel like you can trust your own mind and gut instincts. In this episode we give you tangible tips for how to learn to trust yourself! ___________________ Follow along on social media for more free tips! Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thoughts.podcast/?hl=en Fac…
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Here is a 5 minute guided meditation you can listen to whenever you need to ground and recenter yourself. Enjoy! ___________________ Follow along on social media for more free tips! Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thoughts.podcast/?hl=en Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/thoughtspod/ --- Supp…
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In this episode we share our top 10 favorite alternatives to talk therapy. Talk therapy may not be something you want to engage in, pay for, or for whatever reason it may not be a fit for you right now. We think there are many ways to approach healing and coping mentally so we wanted to share some of our favorites. If you are enjoying the podcast p…
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129. Q&A: Parenting Style Differences, Tweens with Anxiety, Where Do I Start with Healing Trauma?
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In this episode we are answering more submitted listener questions! -If I have a tween with bad anxiety, do I have my child work with a child psychologist or a therapist who specializes in anxiety? -What should I do if I want my spouse to parent their way but sometimes I think they are just mean to the kids? -Where do you start with trauma? -What i…
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128. How to Let Go of Something When it isn't Right For You (Job, Relationship, etc.)
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Sometimes you can get to a point with something where you know it isn't right or healthy for you so how do you leave it? In this episode we discuss how to know when something isn't a fit for you in your life and how to let go of it. This episode also pairs nicely with Episode #113 How to Have Hard Conversations (linked below). Please rate and revie…
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127. How to Deal With Difficult Coworkers
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Work stress and difficult coworkers can definitely impact mental health so here's an episode with some tips for navigating these things! We give an overview how to set boundaries with your colleagues and how to know when it's time to go to HR, etc etc. If you want us to go into anything more in depth just let us know! You can connect with us via em…
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126. Mock Therapy Session: What is Your Ideal Day?
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Today one of us is sitting on the therapy couch to answer the question "What is your ideal day?" This is an important question to ask so that you can figure out what is standing in your way and keeping you from living the life you want. Please leave us a review if you enjoyed the episode! We so appreciate the support! ___________________ Follow alo…
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125. 37 Ways to Get Healthier Dopamine Highs
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This is a follow-up episode to our episode all about dopamine (episode #123). This time we are giving you even more ideas of ways to increase your dopamine levels naturally. Enjoy! ___________________ Follow along on social media for more free tips! Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thoughts.podcast/?hl=en Facebook- …
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124. Q&A: Strategies for Compartmentalizing, What Are Most People In Therapy For & More!
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In this episode we are answering all of your submitted questions about therapy! What do therapist struggle with the most, our advice for those starting grad school & more. Enjoy! ___________________ Follow along on social media for more free tips! Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thoughts.podcast/?hl=en Facebook- h…
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Dopamine has been getting a lot of attention lately and for good reason! In this episode, we discuss how you can maintain and achieve healthier dopamine levels in your brain. It's possible! We hope the ideas we share will help you get more quality dopamine highs that will benefit your brain and mental health. ___________________ Follow along on soc…
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122. Reduce Your Mental Load with Radical Acceptance
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In this episode, we share with you one of our favorite distress tolerance skills that we teach in therapy- radical acceptance. We discuss how to use radical acceptance to navigate times of stress, overwhelm and how to use this skill to reduce your mental load. This coping strategy can truly be a game changer! ____________________ Follow along on so…
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121. What to Expect in a First Therapy Session
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If you have ever wondered what starting therapy is like or what to expect in a first session with a therapist, we have all the answers for you in this episode! Hopefully this episode can give you a road map of sorts for how therapy starts and can ease any pre-first session anxiety you may be experiencing. ____________________ Follow along on social…
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120. How To Start Your Own Self-Care Club
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Need something life giving, connecting and fun in your life? Well, self-care club has entered the chat! In this episode we tell you what a self-care club is (seems self explanatory but is it?) and give you ideas for how to get your own started. This is truly so FUN and we hope you love this idea just as much as we do! If you want to hear our other …
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119. Reduce Your Mental Load With Seasonal Journaling
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This is our first episode in a new miniseries dedicated to helping you reduce your mental load/emotional labor. The mental load is all of the invisible, back of the mind stress that we carry with us every day that can really take a toll on mental health. With this miniseries, we hope to give you real tools that can help you significantly reduce the…
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When it comes to mental health, sometimes we can get stuck on solely focusing on decreasing unhappiness instead of also doing things to increase joy and positive feelings. In this episode we give you some ideas for how to have a mindset shift that allows for increasing joy and happiness in your life. ____________________ Don't forget to check out o…
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In this episode we share one of our favorite parenting tips! We are going to revisit the idea of being a thermostat instead of a thermometer when it comes to handling our kids' tantrums and struggles. This mindset shift has helped us immensely in our own parenting experiences and we hope it will help you as well! This is the episode that we mention…
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116. Preserving Your Mental Health in a Social Media World with Heidi Robey
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Social media...we love it, sometimes hate it, gotta have it but often want to escape it! Social media can have a big impact on our mental health so we wanted to have a conversation about this with Heidi Robey! Heidi is a mental health advocate and comedian who uses content creation on TikTok, IG, FB and Youtube to share humor as well as her own per…
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115. How to Support Teens Who are Struggling with Mental Health with Heather Ransom, LCSW, RPT
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In this episode we discuss how to support teenagers who are struggling with their mental health and how to help them build resilience. We are joined by Heather Ransom, LCSW, RPT. Heather is a licensed clinical social work and registered play therapist. She is EMDR trained (you know how much we love EMDR) and she works a lot with trauma, attachment,…
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114. A Look Into Maternal Mental Health with Joni Lybbert, PMHNP
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In this episode we have the opportunity to talk with Joni Lybbert! Joni is a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner and the host of "The Sad Moms Club" podcast and she is an expert in postpartum and maternal mental health. We chatted about recurrent struggles postpartum and in motherhood in general and how we navigate those struggles with our…
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Let's chat about how to have difficult conversations! We talk about how to navigate setting boundaries and being emotionally flooded while having hard conversations with others Are you feeling pressured to respond to people who are trying to have hard conversations over text? We've got some thoughts on that. --- Support this podcast: https://podcas…
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Breathwork can be a powerful tool for releasing emotion, healing trauma, and calming the central nervous system. In this episode Taylor will guide you through three different breathing techniques that you can use when you need to create some moments of calm in your day. The article Taylor referenced in the episode: https://www.healthline.com/health…
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On this, the 50th day of January, we decided we needed an episode that may help make life feel a little bit better. We (KJ and Jessica) frequently nerd out to each other over Marco Polo about routines and systems we have that make our lives easier (and help keep our mental loads lighter). In this episode we bring you along for the conversation and …
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If you're feeling like you have the attention span of a goldfish, like you don't know how to socialize in person anymore and/or you want your phone to be something you forget about instead of something that's constantly fused to your hand and burning your eyeballs...then this episode is for you. We also struggle with these things so we are here to …
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There's a lot of preparation that happens prior to having a new baby join your family. In today's episode we discuss some of the things we have personally done and recommend doing prior to having a baby to help your mental health postpartum. It would be helpful to listen to this episode if you are pregnant, hoping to be or are a family member of so…
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108. Some Life Hacks to Help You Get Motivated
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You are about to hear some life hacks to help you with motivation when you are feeling burned out. In this episode we share some of the systems that we have personally used to help ourselves get things done when we are running on empty. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thoughtsonthoughtspodcast/support…
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107. Case Study: The Characters of "The Family Stone"
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It's time for another cozy holiday case study with the movie "The Family Stone". We love this movie and 'tis the season for fully analyzing all of the family dynamics it contains. We hope you enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thoughtsonthoughtspodcast/support
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106. Navigating Holiday Stress: Traditions & Gift Giving
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Today we are talking about holiday stress! We process through some of our own stressors and how we are working through them and how to navigate gift giving to reduce the mental stress of the holidays. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thoughtsonthoughtspodcast/support
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105. Managing Your Triggers When Parenting
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In this episode we discuss how to recognize what is going on internally for you amidst parenting struggles. We process through some situations that have come up for us recently with our own difficulties parenting and share some tips for how to manage stressful moments and triggers when they arise. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotif…
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104. Case Study: The Characters of "Gilmore Girls"
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What better way to combat the ill effects of Daylight Savings and seasonal depression than by doing a deep dive on the characters of "Gilmore Girls" and their attachment styles? Okay there are definitely other ways but this is what we chose to do so tune into this episode if you want to hear some psychoanalysis of your favorite TV characters. Bette…
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103. Q&A: Long Distance Relationships & Attachment Issues, Parenting Around Playground Battles, Work/Life Balance as Parents & Why We Ghosted the Podcast
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We're back for the first time in a year! The podcast is not dead. In this episode we address the following: -Where have we been? Including hearing about why Jessica has listened to all 400+ episodes of "Dateline" in the past year (it's wild). -How to navigate a long distance relationship if you have insecure attachment -When to intervene when your …
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102. Case Study: The Characters of "The Holiday"
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If you enjoy learning about mental health topics through the analysis of TV and movie characters (I mean...don't we all?) then this will be a fun listen for you! We analyzed the characters of our favorite holiday movie, "The Holiday". Who is anxious, who is avoidant, and who is secure? Does anyone escape the anxious/avoidant trap? All important que…
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In this episode we talk about how to navigate your expectations of therapy and your therapist. What can you expect from the relationship you have with your therapist? What does healing really look like? How long does therapy take? We talk about all those things and more in this quick chat. Enjoy! Don't forget to check out our Relationship Resilienc…
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100. Divorce and Co-Parenting with Jessica Frew
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In this episode we welcome Jessica Frew to the podcast who is our definition of a powerhouse! She shares her story of divorce and betrayal trauma and how she is now navigating co-parenting with her ex-husband and current husband. She talks with us about what it means to her to be bold and how her life-altering experiences have shifted how she loves…
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99. Encore Episode: A Minimalist Approach to Holiday Gift Giving
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If you're feeling a bit overwhelmed with gift giving this season tune in to hear all our tips for keeping things minimal and stress free! We like to keep things simple for the holidays because it helps eliminate decision fatigue and keep us focusing on connection rather than consumerism. If you aren't minimal about the holidays NO WORRIES! Live you…
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98. How To Be The Buffalo with Ashlynn Mitchell
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Ashlynn Mitchell is one of our favorite people to learn from! In this episode she teaches us how to face the storms of life head on with the mindset shift of "being the buffalo". Ashlynn tell us how she has done this in her life as she has faced betrayal, divorce, grief and all that comes in life's storms. We know you will love this episode- thank …
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This week we answer questions you submitted about romantic relationships! We talk about what to do if one partner is an extrovert and the other is an introvert, navigating changes that happen in the relationship after having a child, communication surrounding sex and more. We hope you enjoy this episode and please keep sending us your questions to …
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96. Encore Episode: SAD Meets Hygge- the Art of Celebrating Life & Coziness
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The seasons are changing and that means the nights are getting longer and it’s beginning to get cold. This change in seasons can bring with it a change in mood. In this episode we discuss SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder) and how to treat it. One of the ways we delve into deeply is the Danish concept of Hygge (pronounced hoo-gah). This concept of c…
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We have gotten so many questions about how to navigate friendship breakups. This episode will speak to what to do if you are feeling like a friendship is no longer healthy for you, what to do if you are broken up with/ghosted by a friend and how to heal from broken friendships. Don't forget to check out our Relationship Resilience Course: https://t…
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If being a foster parent is something that has been on your heart and mind or you are curious and want to learn more about it then give this episode a listen! We talked with Rachel Garrett, a licensed foster parent and CASA, about her experience with being a foster parent and we learned so much from her. She talked about the fears and misconception…
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93. A Look at Grief Through the Lens of 9/11
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In this episode, KJ reads the story, "What Bobby McIlvaine Left Behind" which was written by Jennifer Senior for The Atlantic. This is a true story about the McIlvaine family who lost Bobby McIlvaine (beloved son, brother and soon to be fiance) when he was killed the morning of 9/11/2001. This story illustrates how grief can be processed so differe…
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In this episode we talk about secondary trauma- what is it, how can you know if you are experiencing it and what you can do to heal it. We packed this short episode full of information and we hope you find it helpful! Don't forget to check out our Relationship Resilience Course: https://thoughtsonthoughts.podia.com/relationship-resilience Follow al…
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91. My Infertility Journey: A Rare, High Risk Pregnancy
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Why has Jessica been living in the hospital for two months? She tells us all about it in this episode! Dealing with unexpected, difficult news and dealing with things she can't control has been a huge part of Jessica's infertility journey. In this episode you will hear her discuss how she is dealing with some big unknowns currently. We hope you lov…
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In this episode, we hear from Jessica about how her infertility journey is going. We talked to her for the first time about this back in 2019 (episode is linked below if you want to start there) and it is very evident that Jessica has worked hard on healing emotionally through this process. She breaks down for us how she has processed the reality o…
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89. Q&A- Navigating Friendship Breakups, How to Support Not Enable & Lots of Boundaries Talk!
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In this episode we are answering some listener questions! The focus is mainly on navigating relationships through breakups, setting boundaries, non-traditional addictions and social media. Enjoy! Don't forget to check out our Relationship Resilience Course: https://thoughtsonthoughts.podia.com/relationship-resilience Follow along on social media fo…
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88. The Mental Health Benefits of Decluttering with Lisa Tselebidis
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If you are feeling overwhelmed by clutter or wanting to change something in your living space to feel better, listen to this episode for a motivation boost! We chatted with Lisa, professional organizer/minimalist/KonMari Consultant about how decluttering can act like therapy. She shared with us how tidying can lower stress and anxiety levels and ga…
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We'll be the first to say that setting healthy boundaries can be really hard and it takes practice! In this episode we discuss how to know when boundaries are needed in a relationship, how to set them, and what to do if the reaction to a boundary being set is not what you were hoping for. Healthy relationships require healthy boundaries so it is im…
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Here it is, the episode full of our best advice for parenting teens. So much physical and emotional development happens in the teen years which can lead to mood swings, unpredictable behavior and major boundary pushing. This is normal but can be a strain on the parent-child relationship so we are here to help! If you have additional questions pleas…
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Jessica takes over hosting this week's episode and teaches us all about how to make healthy, meaningful friendships as an adult. As you listen to this episode you may think, "Wow, Jessica seems to have a lot of friends." Well she does and it's because she truly implements all of the things she is going to teach you in this episode in her own life. …
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84. A Look Into OCD with Michelle Berntson
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Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health disorder that causes extreme cycles of obsessions (intrusive thoughts) and compulsions (behaviors) in those affected by it. In this episode, we talk with Michelle Berntson who was diagnosed with OCD at a young age. She gives us a look into her life managing her OCD and anxiety and clears up som…
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83. The Books We Love & Think You'll Love Too
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In this episode we each talk about the books that have helped us in our personal and professional lives. We talk about the books that helped us see the world differently, helped us as therapists and are close to our hearts. Can we be too sappy about books? NAH. Check this episode out if you are looking for a new book to read or are always trying to…
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