Best Nicole Cottrell Podcasts (2024)

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Lovers, but also fighters: Part 2 40:02

2y ago40:02

40:02

It’s a NOBA first! In part two of a two-part series, Renee and Nicole welcome special guests Gregory and Jonathan—their husbands. In a fun, but also serious, conversation, the couples share how they’ve loved and fought their way through 15-plus years of marriage. They also realize how much each other is a lot like the person they married. Intro mus…

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Lovers, but also fighters: Part 1 38:45

2y ago38:45

38:45

It’s a NOBA first! In part one of a two-part series, Renee and Nicole welcome special guests Gregory and Jonathan—their husbands. In a fun, but also serious, conversation, the couples share how they’ve loved and fought their way through 15-plus years of marriage. They also realize how much each other is a lot like the person they married. Intro mus…

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Friends, but also sisters: Part 2 47:24

2y ago47:24

47:24

In part 2 of Friends, but also Sisters, Renee and Nicole continue their discussion on all things friendship, including red flags and green flags in relationships, as well as more of their own friendship story. With candor, vulnerability, and humor they share how to engage your friends, fight for your friendships, and be the best BFF ever. Intro mus…

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Friends, but also sisters: Part 1 48:04

2y ago48:04

48:04

Why is making and keeping friends so difficult? What constitutes a healthy friendship? What are friendship red flags? In this episode, part 1 of 2, Renee and Nicole tackle these questions and more from friends, besties, frenemies, and the ever-evasive “sister” relationship. With candor, vulnerability, and humor they share their own friendship story…

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Whiteness, but also colorism: Part 2 47:41

2y ago47:41

47:41

In conclusion of their 2-part discussion on whiteness and colorism, Renee and Nicole continue to share personal and cultural stories around this topic to reveal how, too often, cultural standards of “beauty” impact the most vulnerable so those in power can remain in power. Mentioned in this episode: - Woke Racism by John McWhorter Intro music “Bhan…

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Whiteness, but also colorism: Part 1 46:07

2y ago46:07

46:07

In Part 1 of a 2-part series on whiteness and colorism, Renee and Nicole define these terms and discuss how they might appear in different societies to the exclusion and oppression of people with darker skin tones. They share personal and cultural stories around this topic to reveal how, too often, cultural standards of “beauty” often impact the mo…

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Rambling, but also reasoning 1:02:15

2y ago1:02:15

1:02:15

Renee and Nicole are back with their first ever shoot-the-breeze-episode, in which you are invited into their back-and-forth of trying to figure out this week’s topic. They end up discussing mentoring, heaven and hell, Oprah, and justice, among other things...including Renee discovering that she prefers monogamy. Welcome to the process. Special app…

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Kid talk, but also real talk: Part 2 1:00:14

2+ y ago1:00:14

1:00:14

In part 2 of having conversations with kids about real issues, Renee and Nicole discuss the ongoing dialogues they have with their children about race and racism. Whether it’s sorting out identity, understanding cultural concepts, or navigating complex interactions, they share their own stories of how they’ve been learning as they go, alongside the…

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Kid talk, but also real talk: Part 1 55:13

2+ y ago55:13

55:13

NOBA episodes have tackled big questions, but what about when it’s time to speak to your children about certain issues? In this episode, Part 1 of 2 on talking to children about sex and racism, Renee and Nicole share insights and personal anecdotes on how to speak to kids about sex, addressing consent, masturbation, and shame. Mentioned in this epi…

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Spiritual abuse, but also murder, espionage, and orgies: Part 2 44:25

2+ y ago44:25

44:25

What do spiritual abuse, murder, espionage and orgies have in common? Listen to Part 2 as Renee and Nicole unravel this mystery, and more, with their usual humor and personal insight—as they discuss the forms spiritual abuse takes and how God is leading people forward to wholeness and hope. Mentioned in this episode: -Jawaharlal Nehru, delivering h…

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Spiritual abuse, but also murder, espionage, and orgies: Part 1 42:24

2+ y ago42:24

42:24

What do spiritual abuse, murder, espionage and orgies have in common? Listen as Renee and Nicole unravel this mystery, and more, with their usual humor and personal insight—as they discuss the forms spiritual abuse takes and how God is leading people forward to wholeness and hope. Mentioned in this episode: -Escaping the Maze of Spiritual Abuse: Cr…

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Deconstructing, but also reconstructing: Part 2 47:13

2+ y ago47:13

47:13

In part two of their honest conversation about deconstruction, Renee and Nicole conclude by offering hope for those who are ready to reconstruct. Although they offer no pat answers or simple solutions, their insights and stories demonstrate the value—and necessity—of moving away from forced religion and walking toward authentic faith. Intro music “…

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Deconstructing, but also reconstructing: Part 1 43:17

2+ y ago43:17

43:17

Through their own personal deconstruction stories and experience from within the church, Renee and Nicole have a candid conversation about faith deconstruction. But they don’t stop there. Instead, they offer insight, empathy, and hope for those finding their way forward, while also dismantling what needs to be left behind. Intro music “Bhangra, but…

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Questions, but also answers: Part 2 50:50

2+ y ago50:50

50:50

Renee and Nicole continue answering audience questions, which include their views on people who choose not to have children, tapping into the spirit world and conjuring the dead, white supremacy at the Olympics, their favorite hobbies, and their career trajectories. It really is the everything, and even more. WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://…

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Questions, but also answers: Part 1 48:59

2+ y ago48:59

48:59

Renee and Nicole answer audience questions, including inclusion within the church, their decisions on how to school their children, and what they love and hate about their Enneagram types. WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/bIiC7CxBd-c Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/…

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Body insecurity, but also confidence: Part 2 40:15

3y ago40:15

40:15

Body image, self esteem, negative messages, and our relationship with food are all up for discussion in part 2 of Body insecurity, but also confidence. In this episode, Renee and Nicole continue to speak vulnerably about the tension between these ideas and how health often doesn't look like what we think it will. TW: eating disorders Intro music “B…

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Body insecurity, but also confidence: Part 1 44:08

3y ago44:08

44:08

Our relationship with our bodies is always changing. We often move from loving them to seeing them as a frenemy to betraying them daily. In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss the topic of body image and how theirs has shifted over the years. They discuss childhood messages, media, and abuse and how each of those contributed to their view of the…

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The orgasm gap, but also pleasure: Part 2 45:36

3y ago45:36

45:36

Get ready for more titillating and arousing conversation, as Renee and Nicole continue with part 2 of "The Orgasm Gap." In this episode they discuss shame, self-pleasuring, science, and all the bits in between-and offer practical ideas on how to close the gap and get more "OH’S" in your life. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregor…

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The orgasm gap, but also pleasure: Part 1 41:05

3y ago41:05

41:05

Let's talk about sex, baby. But more specifically, let's talk about the ever elusive, but always welcome, orgasm and why the "orgasm gap" exists. In this rousing and titillating episode, Renee and Nicole break down the reasons for the orgasm gap, but more importantly what you can do to enjoy sex more and how to close the gap. They share ideas on ho…

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Boundaries, but also expanses: Part 2 1:03:12

3y ago1:03:12

1:03:12

In part 2 of their discussion on boundaries, Renee and Nicole tackle the meaty topics of setting boundaries with parents, around politics, with significant others, children, and within the church. Whew. They also discuss the best boundary-setter of all: Jesus. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.c…

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Boundaries, but also expanses: Part 1 43:18

3y ago43:18

43:18

In part 1 of a two-part discussion, Renee and Nicole break down the need for boundaries and how setting them is an act of self-compassion. They talk setting boundaries with parents, within the church, and in toxic relationships. Be warned: we use a lot of explicit language in this one. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” and outro by Gregory Kyle …

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Traditional church, but also organic church 1:03:46

3y ago1:03:46

1:03:46

Does how we gather or where we gather as Christians matter? Is it possible to live a Christian church life modeled after the book of Acts? In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss their own personal church expression: organic church and how it's changed the way they think of "church." They talk pastors, leadership, raising up children, and the mes…

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Sexist, but also racist 1:03:36

3y ago1:03:36

1:03:36

In a NOBA first, Renee and Nicole respond directly to a current cultural event—the Atlanta shootings, which took the lives of six Asian women. In this episode, they dismantle the arguments and defenses given for such an atrocity, while underscoring the need to face such lies head on in order to preserve truth and honor the victims. Intro music “Bha…

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Diverse, but also one 52:58

3y ago52:58

52:58

The conversation around diversity has been ongoing, spurred on by the events of 2020. But what should diversity in the church look like and why is it so difficult to achieve? In this episode, Renee and Nicole address these questions, and more, with their usual honesty and humor—with a declaration of whose responsibility this work truly is. Intro mu…

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Praying, but also hearing 1:11:01

3y ago1:11:01

1:11:01

Prayer, and its practice, is a common conversation in Christian circles. But what about hearing from God? In this episode, Renee and Nicole share how they each hear from God, as well as some of the unique, unexpected, even supernatural ways God has communicated with them. Because discerning how God speaks can be just as important as praying. Intro …

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Jesus, but also therapy 1:12:46

3y ago1:12:46

1:12:46

Believers have a long, weird history with therapy, or really their lack of therapy. But why? In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss some of the lies and misconceptions around Christians and therapy. And instead, they offer a refreshing, funny, honest view of the need for therapy and how it can actually complement, not hinder, your faith. Intro m…

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Adopted, but also spiritually homeless 45:14

3y ago45:14

45:14

How can we be adopted into God's family, but often find ourselves searching for a place to call home? In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss the often difficult tension between being a faith-filled person who longs for a faith-filled community—and how it can look differently than we might have imagined. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gr…

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Looking back, but also looking ahead 47:37

3+ y ago47:37

47:37

There's excitement in looking to the future with all the hope a new year can bring. But there's also value in taking stock of what we've learned from the previous year. In this episode, Renee and Nicole do both as they discuss the impact of 2020 and how it changed them and us all, but also how it exposed the promise of what's to come. Intro music “…

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Action, but also inaction 51:36

3+ y ago51:36

51:36

Many times we are told we need to "wait on the Lord," or "be still." But what about the times we have to grab hold of our faith and push forward? In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss when to move and when to pause and how both are faith-filled. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/…

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Common, but also chosen 54:31

3+ y ago54:31

54:31

Why doesn't Mary—the brave, bold mama of Jesus—get much airplay in the American church? Renee and Nicole discuss the dichotomy of a common everyday girl being the favored one, and how that invitation is extended to each of us. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/…

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Pure, but also untamed 1:02:03

3+ y ago1:02:03

1:02:03

In this episode, Renee and Nicole tackle the sometimes controversial and nuanced topic of "purity culture" and how it's affected their own views on sex and what it means to be "pure". Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/By Renee Ronika Bhatti-Klug, Nicole Cottrell

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Ill, but also the illest 47:24

3+ y ago47:24

47:24

In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss their dealings with autoimmune diseases. Despite the experienced pains of their infirmities, a healthy dose of the good medicine of laughter takes its effect in the conversation. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/…

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Our enneagram types, but also ourselves 51:27

3+ y ago51:27

51:27

In this episode, Renee and Nicole offer up some much needed levity and discuss the ever-popular topic of the enneagram. But in doing so, they challenge the stereotypes that exist around personality tests. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/By Renee Ronika Bhatti-Klug, Nicole Cottrell

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Believing, but also doubting 45:02

3+ y ago45:02

45:02

In this episode, Renee and Nicole share their personal stories of doubt in the midst of faith and how the two are linked in discovering true knowing. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/By Renee Ronika Bhatti-Klug, Nicole Cottrell

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Dissenting, but also nonpartisan 50:41

3+ y ago50:41

50:41

In this episode, Renee and Nicole discuss one of their most controversial topics to date: President Trump. With openness and humor, they recount their personal stories of how they have seen the world differently since the 2016 presidential election to now, on the eve of one of the most contentious elections in history. Intro music “Bhangra, but als…

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Moms, but also dreamers 42:57

3+ y ago42:57

42:57

In this episode, Renee and Nicole tackle the ever-so-emotionally-complicated topic of motherhood. With six children between them, they honestly discuss the pressures, temptations and beauty of mothering, but also the fact that it's okay if being a mother is not your lifelong dream...and how the both/and can carry you through. Intro music “Bhangra, …

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Married, but also individuals 39:05

3+ y ago39:05

39:05

In this episode, Renee and Nicole open up the conversation of what it means to be a wife. They discuss the often-tenuous yet always-beautiful relationship between being married to someone, but still being an individual within that relationship. How do you live as “one” and still honor your unique self? Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregor…

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One race, but also two 47:20

3+ y ago47:20

47:20

In the first-ever episode of Not Only, But Also, Renee and Nicole introduce themselves, discuss their experiences growing up bi-racial, and share how this in-between space, representing two different cultures, helped shape their view of themselves and the world. Intro music “Bhangra, but also jazz” by Gregory Kyle Klug https://gregorykyle.com/…

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CHARLOTTE MASON FOR BEGINNERS 13:21

4y ago13:21

13:21

CHARLOTTE MASON FOR BEGINNERS// Education in American schools has failed our children, families, communities and our nation. The hopes of leaving “no child” behind has left all children bored and listless. We find that instead of cultivating our nation’s children to reach their full potential, our schools are stamping out generations who can’t thin…

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Part 2 Chat about race, books, Charlotte Mason, and the gospel with Nicole Cottrell 25:19

4y ago25:19

25:19

This is part two of a two part series where Nicole and I discuss race, books and applying Charlotte Mason’s ideas to this cultural moment. In this video, Nicole and I compare and contrast AmblesideOnline and the Alveary. We also share some inspiring Charlotte Mason quotes and of course how the gospel is always relevant. Enjoy! See part one of this …

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Part 1 Chat about race, books and Charlotte Mason with Nicole Cottrell 29:31

4y ago29:31

29:31

Part 1 Chat about race, books and Charlotte Mason with Nicole Cottrell// This is part one of a two part series where Nicole and I discuss race, books and applying Charlotte Mason’s ideas to this cultural moment. In this video, we chat about applying the gospel when we discuss race with our children. We also talk about books, biographies and stories…

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Joy Chats about Charlotte Mason Kindergarten with Rebecca from AHumblePlace 29:15

4y ago29:15

29:15

Today I’m chatting with my friend Rebecca from AHumblePlace.com. She wrote a delightful Kindergarten curriculum to help mamas learn the beauty and simplicity of a Charlotte Mason education in the early years. We chat about how she came to create this resource for moms new to homeschooling and trying to apply Charlotte Mason’s principles. We hope yo…

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Ep9- The Bank of Dad - Teaching about money through jobs around the house 32:44

5y ago32:44

32:44

In this episode, Kevin and Joy discuss the research they've done to set up their money-earning systems for their young children (ages 10 and younger). They pull ideas about money management from Dave Ramsey and Dave Owen's book The First National Bank of Dad. If you want more money-management training for your kids then just giving an allowance, th…

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Ep8 - John Taylor Gatto's 14 Principles of an Elite Education discussed 57:38

5y ago57:38

57:38

Kevin and Joy go through the list of 14 Principles of an Elite Education presented by John Taylor Gatto, 20th century educator. As we go through them together, we enjoy the overlap with classical education and specifically the principles of education discovered by Charlotte Mason. Enjoy!

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Ep7 - Q & A (part 2) Choosing a homeschool philosophy and finding community 18:37

5y ago18:37

18:37

In this episode, Joy advocates personal reading time for mamas and Kevin talks about his favorite Brit, Winston Churchill. Choosing an educational philosophy and finding community are within reach. Books referenced in this episode: Beauty in the Word by Stratford Caldecott Toward of Philosophy of Education by Charlotte Mason Educating the Wholehear…

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Ep6 - Q & A Preschool years essential checklist! 34:56

5y ago34:56

34:56

Reading aloud, developing good habits, limiting screens, family devotions and free play are all on the table for this discussion. Kevin and Joy talk about establishing good habits in younger children. They also discuss the benefits they've received through reading with their children. Books referenced in this episode include: Treasure Island, The R…

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Ep5 - Family Road Trips! Hacks, packing tips and sanity savers 38:40

5y ago38:40

38:40

In this episode, Kevin and Joy talk about their experience driving all across the country (twice!) with their large family. Nature study, bathroom breaks, laundry, food systems and more they cover it all! If you are trying to convince your family to drive across the country with you, this is the episode to listen to!…

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Ep4 - What are the benefits of homeschooling? 28:13

5y ago28:13

28:13

Kevin and Joy discuss the benefits they have experienced homeschooling their six children. Socialization, wake up times, curriculum, schedules, nutrition and more - they hit on all the hot button topics. If you already homeschool, this episode will reinforce your decision. If you don't yet homeschool, you may resonate with some of their experiences…

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Ep3 - Considering homeschooling? This is for you! 39:42

5y ago39:42

39:42

In this episode, Kevin and Joy talk about what they would tell friends considering homeschooling. What does the homeschooling schedule look like? What are some priorities for grammar school or high school could be considered? Is it actual work? They discuss all of this and more in this episode.

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Ep2 - Educational goals! 28:36

5y ago28:36

28:36

In this Episode, Kevin and Joy give their list of top five goals for homeschooling their six children. Listen and they reveal to each other their different (and sometimes overlapping) goals. You might even be inspired to discuss homeschooling goals with your spouse!

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