Best PRhoberta Shaler PhD Podcasts (2024)

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Contrary Ways to Overcome Detox, Pain, Addiction & Shame GUEST: Dr. Will Horton 38:10

4+ y ago38:10

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Wow! I was so prepared to ask tough questions of my guest, Dr. Will Horton, because I found some of the claims he made sounded outrageous to me. Really? And, I asked those tough questions about addiction, recovery, pain, and shame...and more! When I read one of his book titles, my antennae went up: "How to Get Others to Do What You Want and Have Th…

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The Upsides For Workplace Warriors To Lead And Succeed - GUEST: Jordan Goldrich 36:11

5y ago36:11

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Do you feel like a warrior when you go to work? Do you feel like you MUST be a warrior? Warriors are tough. Is that a necessity for getting people to work together and produce desired results? My conversation with Jordan Goldrich, author of Workplace Warrior, had some surprises. The subtitle of his book is "People Skills for the No B.S. Executive."…

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Ass-Kickin' Advice for Step-Moms GUEST: Kathy Hammond 38:57

5y ago38:57

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We have so many images of step-moms. Angels, devils, and everything in between! My guest, Kathy Hammond, is the author of How to Kill Your Husband's Ex, Attorneys and Then Some: Ass Kickin' Advice for Stepmoms. You might relate! She says, "Books on step parenting hope to evoke a kumbaya feeling. That might work if everyone involved in the step fami…

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Why Health and Healing Require Trust and Listening GUEST: Dr. Elizabeth Hughes 45:06

5y ago45:06

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What do you do when you don't feel well? Do you ignore it and hope it will go away? Do you become interested in the needs of your body? Just because your parent had a disease or condition, do you believe you're next? Today's guest, Dr. Elizabeth Hughes, has exciting news: "YOUR FUTURE IS NOT WRITTEN IN YOUR DNA." What would change for you if you be…

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Mid-Life Dating, Sex & Finding True Love GUEST: Jonathon Aslay 39:25

5y ago39:25

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Fearful? Skeptical? Not sure you trust yourself to choose well? Unsure about trusting when you start to date again? You'll likely have some of that when you're dating in mid-life, especially if you have left a toxic relationship? You hear the term, self-love, so often these days. Do you know what it really means? What are your assumptions about it?…

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How Living in Alignment with Your Human Design Leads to Success GUEST: Chetan Parkyn 32:17

5y ago32:17

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HUMAN DESIGN? What immediately came to mind when you read that? Human Design is a system that "illustrates the genetic codes in our personal makeup, both from a conscious perspective, and also from the unconscious ancestral input," as today's guest, Chetan Parkyn says. "We get distracted in our lives from the moment we arrive here. We become condit…

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Love, Lust & Love-Bombing! How to Tell the Difference to Stay Safe GUEST: Dr. Terri Orbuch 28:47

5y ago28:47

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Never mistake love-bombing for love! Never mistake lust for love! Great advice for dating! Today's episode with Dr. Terri Orbuch is SO important, especially when you're dating. And, even more especially if you're dating after leaving a difficult, or toxic, relationship. You need to know these distinctions so that you feel more confident in the dati…

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Healing Brain Fog, Fatigue & Depression Naturally GUEST: Dr. Brindusa Vanta 37:04

5y ago37:04

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GO WITH YOUR GUT! How many times have you heard that? Sure, most folks are talking about intuition and gut feelings, but did you know that the seat of health is in your gut, your microbiome? Worth knowing, right? Better yet, and more worth knowing, is learning about taking good care of your microbiome to encourage health, in every way. Dr. Brindusa…

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Overcoming the Heartbreak Of and For Foster Kids - GUEST: Richard Villasana 42:41

5y ago42:41

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You've likely heard so much in the news about the separation of children from their families at the United States borders. Children kept in cages. Overcrowding conditions that don't seem to improve. And, the issues of children being placed in foster homes for their own safety has always been with us. HOW DO WE MAKE THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM WORK WELL …

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What's the Relationship Between Autoimmune Conditions & Emotional Well-being GUEST: Sharon Sayler 47:49

5y ago47:49

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Do you think that there is a connection between what goes on in your emotional life and what goes on in your body? You betcha! Today's episode starts with me giving you some insights into the hows, whys, and benefits of creating uninterrupted time in your life frequently. Do you do that? Most people don't, so take this in. It can make a HUGE differ…

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How to Forgive Who Broke Your Heart GUEST: Terri Levine 31:33

5y ago31:33

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FORGIVENESS! It sounds right. Sounds good. But, what does it really mean to forgive someone? On Emotional Savvy, I'm often talking about those relentlessly difficult, toxic people that I call #Hijackals®. #Narcissists are #Hijackals, and they will do all they can to have power over you in every way, and exert control wherever they can. My guest, Te…

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HUGGING! Helpful, Healing, or Back Off! GUEST: Dr. Stone Kraushaar 38:07

5y ago38:07

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HUGGING? Love it? Hate it? Only for really close people? Hug everybody? Big questions! Hugging has had a renaissance in the last twenty years, and has even found its way into corporate culture. Should it be there? Is it appropriate? I know people have some strong feelings about hugging. How about you? This conversation with Dr. Stone covers all the…

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Solving Invisible Issues for Women Leaving the Military GUEST: Ariel Shivers-McGrew 34:00

5y ago34:00

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We are grateful for a woman's service in the military. We need to consider the issues a woman faces when leaving the military, and re-entering civilian life. Those of us who have not served need to understand these issues because we can help. I asked my guest, Ariel Shivers-McGrew, what the greatest benefit she received from being a woman in the mi…

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GOOD NEWS! Everyone Doesn't Have to Like You. GUEST: Tonya Hofmann 36:33

5y ago36:33

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Were you brought up with the underlying understanding that, if you were a good person, everyone would like you? Most folks are. So, you do your level best--even once you're an adult--to be pleasant, agreeable, and interesting so that will happen. Sometimes, you go the extra mile in hope, right? And, after you turn yourself into a pretzel, they stil…

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Becoming Unshakable Even Post-Betrayal GUEST: Dr. Debi Silber 39:51

5y ago39:51

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HAVE YOU EVER FELT BETRAYED? HAVE YOU EVER FULLY BEEN ABLE TO TRUST YOURSELF OR ANOTHER AGAIN? This episode looks at different forms of betrayal, including infidelity. Who typically betrays? One of the questions I had for my guest, Dr. Debi Silber, was on the topic of parental betrayal. Often, a person doesn't want to think or believe that they wer…

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Detoxing Life: Home, Health and Heart GUEST: Brianna Wilkerson 42:50

5y ago42:50

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Ever feel overwhelmed? That's all too common, right? Does it seem to happen too often? Life is busy. Expectations are high. You feel pushed and pulled by different needs of different people and roles in your life. STRESS! Today, take a breather and listen in. With my guest, Brianna Wilkerson, a holistic health coach, we're giving you some great tip…

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Strong Men AREN'T Controlling! GUEST - Elliott Katz 38:29

5y ago38:29

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Oh, a little--maybe, an understatement--controversy here! You'll want to weigh in in the comments, I'm betting. Elliott Katz, today's guest, suggests that today's man is confused about his role in a relationship. Could be. What do you think? Of course, we talked about this at length. When I read Katz' book, Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, I had…

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Is Positive Self-Talk Actually Effective? Brain Stuff! GUEST: Dr. Marcia Reynolds 39:17

5y ago39:17

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Is positive self-talk always positive? is it effective? Does positive self-talk have any downsides? Can it always work? Important questions, and today's guest, Dr. Marcia Reynolds, has given this a tremendous amount of thought and consideration. Such valuable work! Dr. Reynolds says, "Rationalizing and defending your behavior keeps you nestled in a…

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How to Stand Your Ground in the Face of Parental Alienation - GUEST: Nikki Bruno 42:20

5y ago42:20

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Are you Co-Parenting with a slippery, toxic ex who tries to turn the children against you? Today's guest, Coach Nikki Bruno, had that experience, and she fought back...successfully! I asked her about her experiences leading to her development of her 10-Step Plan to counter parental alienation, and she shared her story. You'll want to hear it! Stayi…

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Helping Troubled Teens Find Their Way and Thrive GUEST: Dr. Brian Licuanan 45:29

5y ago45:29

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Kids don't always grow out of things. They grow through things! And, you need to be there to see it, understand it, and know what to do to help when things seem to be going sideways! Today's guest, Dr. Brian Licuanan, and I talk about the difficulties in seeing problems kids want to hide from us, whether we're their parent, grandparent, teacher, or…

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3 Shifts That Can Make You Unstoppable After Toxic Relationships GUEST: Connie Pheiff 34:32

5y ago34:32

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Wow! Does thinking of yourself as being UNSTOPPABLE light you up? Then, you'll love today's episode! Connie Phieff was adopted--but she didn't know it until later in life--and lived her young life a bit like Cinderella. Now, you know that's not good, right? Cook, clean, take care of the kids, repeat! How Connie overcame the pain of her past toxic l…

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Why It's Up to You to Take Charge of Your Emotional Reality GUEST: James L. Creighton 41:39

5+ y ago41:39

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Got Empathy? That's one key that unlocks the willingness to enter into a problem-solving process with your partner, according to today's guest, Dr. James. L. Creighton. You need more! Dr. Creighton says: "Empathy allows us to enter into the emotional reality of our loved ones, so that even when there are differences, there is still shared experienc…

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Dating After Divorce: Why Focusing on Relationship Potential Can Be Dangerous GUEST: Lara Richer 33:29

5+ y ago33:29

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Dating? Is it a joy, a pleasure, a pain, or a concern? Sometimes, it's each of those, right? And, sometimes, it's just downright scary! If you've had past relationship with toxic people, or toxic relationships in your family, friends, or at work, you'll find this episode valuable. We also talk about the issues that come up when dating after divorce…

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The Joys & Pitfalls of Entering a New Relationship at MidLife GUEST: Dr. Margaret Rutherford 40:57

5+ y ago40:57

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Are you a little shy about dating, or moving into a new relationship after a divorce? What if you've been married once or twice? Do you have confidence to date again? Do you have confidence in choosing a new partner after divorce? OK! Yes, there are a few fear-inspiring issues about dating again after a divorce, right? Can I trust a new person? Can…

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How You Can Overcome a Nasty Past and Thrive GUEST - Joy Idries 46:20

5+ y ago46:20

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Sometimes, we learn out greatest lessons by going through terrible pain and trauma. It's never "worth it," in my opinion. But, it does change us, and can be the catalyst for our insights and growth. So, in that sense, we can be grateful for it. How that change shows up is in our attitude, understanding, and often in the quality of help we get to he…

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What's Up With Emotionally Unavailable People? GUEST: Dr. Marni Feuerman 35:40

5+ y ago35:40

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A comment complaint I hear in my practice--especially, of course, from people who have #Hijackal parents, partners, or exes, is that S/HE IS NOT EMOTIONALLY AVAILABLE! I belong to many groups on Facebook, and this is a common complaint there, too. "I'm attentive, collaborative, loving, nurture, and even compliant, and my partner just doesn't give a…

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Why You Won't Find the Intimacy You Long for If You're Needy GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman 45:26

5+ y ago45:26

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What allows for growth of intimacy? You want an emotionally rich, intimate relationship. You'll never find it--in any healthy fashion--if you're needy. That's why you need to do your own work first! You know I talk about "doing your own work" first frequently. It's because you need to be the healthiest you can be to attract--and sustain--a healthy,…

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How to Help Schools Be Safer for Kids in Tough Situations GUEST: Aaron L. Smith 50:35

5+ y ago50:35

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TOO MUCH BULLYING! TOO MANY TEEN SUICIDES! This needs to stop, and we need to do whatever we can to stop bullying now, and intervene with bullying victims immediately. Did you ever imagine that the internet would be so full of stories of bullying? And, then, did you think that the next thing would be too many teen suicides? Yes, it's a natural prog…

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How To Make Lemonade From Lemons a Hijackal Left Behind GUEST: Stepahni Roberts 37:15

5+ y ago37:15

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Escaping the Hijackal Trap! That's the name of one of my books, AND the focus of today's interview with Stephani Roberts. First, you have to recognize you're in a #Hijackal trap, right? Then, you have to move on to find your best next steps. Today, Stephani Roberts shares her journey from first recognition that she was in an emotionally abusive rel…

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Easing Out of Our Clutter & What Our Parents Left Behind GUEST: Sharon McRill 47:11

5+ y ago47:11

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Any chance you have "stuff?" Or, whatever you prefer to call it! Maybe, you've had it for awhile, and you're attached to it. Maybe, you are always saying you're going to deal with it. Maybe, you just inherited it from parents who have passed. Maybe, it's a HUGE energy leak, and every time you think about it, you want to run away! Maybe, today is th…

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What is Emotional Savvy & Using it to Heal Relationships Energetically GUEST: Kerri Hummingbird 52:21

5+ y ago52:21

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Wow! Seventy three episodes and I'm finally talking about what Emotional Savvy means. You know that "to be savvy" means that you know what's up and what's going on. You're awake, aware, and alert. You're "with it!" Great! You may have the practical knowledge, but it's not much use if it's not applied. Relationships require emotional savvy. Otherwis…

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Why We're Reluctant to Call It Abuse: One Woman's Story of Escape GUEST: April Giaque 38:26

5+ y ago38:26

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Why are we so reluctant to call it abuse? Today's episode starts with my response to this question. Of course, no one wants to think of themselves as being abused. So, you justify it, rationalize, and make excuses for it. Sometimes, you even decide it's your own fault! WRONG! And, I'll explain why today. Verbal abuse and emotional abuse start small…

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Is There a Right Way or Wrong Way to Divorce? GUEST: Jennifer Hurvitz 39:55

5+ y ago39:55

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DIVORCE! Many people fear that process. Others welcome it. Where are you on this spectrum? Is there really a right to divorce? Is there a wrong way to divorce? What makes the difference? WHO makes the difference? My guest, Jennifer Hurvitz, is the best selling author of the novella, One Happy Divorce, and winner of the Best Television Episode Scree…

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Is There a Growing Chasm Between Men & Women? GUEST: Robert Manni 43:06

6y ago43:06

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Men and Women. How different are men and women from one another? What about the research on the differences between men's and women's brains? How does this play out in behavior? What you need to know first! You'll hear fascinating perspectives from today's guest, so I've opened this episode with some actual, researched facts about the differences i…

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How to Prevent Others from Stealing Your Peace of Mind. GUEST - Shanthi Yogini 46:11

6y ago46:11

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Would you like more peace of mind? Do you let other people steal your peace of mind? Then, today's episode will be of great interest to you! Do you feel badly when you think you're judging? Do you catch yourself judging other people's motives? Do you know the difference between judgment, discernment, and observation? In today's episode, those are t…

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What About Men...and Those Confused By Them? GUEST: Robert Kandell 44:16

6y ago44:16

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Is life confusing for men these days? Are men confusing to you these days? So, what's this all about? Why are men and women confused about the roles of men? Or, are they? My guest thinks they are! Personally, I think that there is much confusion over roles, and that they are fluid in each family. It's a BIG, IMPORTANT conversation for every couple …

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Dating? How to Spot Men Who'll Only Waste Your Time GUEST Ronnie Ann Ryan 49:12

6y ago49:12

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Are you dating? Have you kissed more than your fair share of frogs? Today's episode will help you stop doing that. Really! Although it's addressed to women, MEN, you need to listen in, too. You need to know this! Women, are you with a man who won't protect your name and won't protect the relationship, either. Any chance that he won't profess you to…

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The Mindset Shift It Takes To Live the Life You Want GUEST Ashley Logndon 46:58

6y ago46:58

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Wow! It's 2019. Happy New Year! Did you make New Year's Resolutions? Are any the same as last year? Oops! Why is that? Why do we make resolutions and let them drop? Or, say we want something to happen in our lives, and do little to get it? Or, say we believe something, and not demonstrate it by living it? Today's show is about actually taking the s…

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What You Need First If You Want to Have Great Relationships. Host Dr. Rhoberta Shaler 11:16

6y ago11:16

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Today's episode is so important: a required ingredient for a great relationship! And, it may not be what you think. We all live, work, or play with other humans, and we know it sometimes takes more skills than at other times. Some people are more work. Some people are toxic and you need to recognize that right away, and steer clear! And, you may th…

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How to Have the Best Divorce From a Narcissistic Hijackal GUEST: Jason LeVoy 43:42

6y ago43:42

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Best divorce possible from a narcissistic Hijackal? Does such a thing exist? Stay tuned. Yes, divorce is often messy, and definitely messier when there is a difficult person, or a toxic person involved, those people I call Hijackals®! All divorces--in my opinion--go in two clear ways: one end is a Divisive Divorce, and the other end is the Collabor…

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How to Create the Intimacy You Crave Without the Fear GUEST: Allana Pratt 42:27

6y ago42:27

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In today's episode, I'm talking about what it takes to get past the fear of intimacy that a past relationship has taught you. It happens so often, doesn't it? You fall in love, and really trust someone. You are tell them your secrets, and share your vulnerabilities. You so want to have that one person you can share life with, warts and all. You wan…

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Great Relationships Require Trust. How Can You Build & Rebuild it? GUEST: Scott Schilling 45:08

6y ago45:08

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In today's episode, I'm talking about what you really need to have if you want a great relationship. If you have the ingredients, you can put them into the relationship. If you're missing them within yourself, and you go looking for them in another, you won't be able to have the relationship you know you want. You've heard me say many times that yo…

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Speaking Up! Escaping Domestic Abuse: What It Takes & Why It Takes So Long GUEST: Mickie Zada 45:08

6y ago45:08

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In today's episode, I give you some new perspectives--and effective words to say--when people treat you in ways you do not appreciate. For many listeners, "ways I do not appreciate" usually come from one particular person, a #Hijackal®. Whether that is true for you or not, you want to feel and be confident that you can trust yourself to speak up wh…

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What About Mediation? And, Debunking Divorce As Failing or Not Good For the Kids GUEST: Anthony Diaz 51:57

6y ago51:57

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In today's episode, I give you five solid reasons why mediation is a good choice...and, why it may not work well with a #Hijackal! There are several important things to know about mediation. Some folks don't know about them, and I wanted to be sure you did. It's important when deciding how to proceed to resolve differences in partnerships of any ki…

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Finding Yourself Again After Trauma, Grief & Loss GUEST: Dr. Sherry Cormier 53:02

6y ago53:02

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In today's episode, I talk about steps you can take to manage the pain of trauma or loss. You've experienced these things, no matter when in your life they occurred. Until you work them through, they will interfere with your health and the health of your current relationships, as well as with your perspective on life. You don't want to be carrying …

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Believe Behavior! Why Narcissists Exploit & Laugh at Your Vulnerabilities GUEST - Kim Saeed 42:20

6y ago42:20

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In today's episode, I talk about something that is SO important to keep top of mind. Too many people readily believe the words a person speaks, even when their behavior is screaming the opposite. Why do they do that? Why do you? It's an interesting, though detrimental, habit. Yes, it's a habit, one that you learned as a child. Today, I give you som…

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Are You Spiritually-Minded? What About Intuition? GUEST - Terry Wildemann 43:48

6y ago43:48

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In today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Are you spiritually-minded?" Being spiritually-minded is not simply having an interest in spiritual things. It's much more than that. Are you basing your thinking on the spiritual principles you hold dear? That's the real question. What about the mind? Your mind? Can you point to it? Can it be surgical…

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The Impact of Emotional Abuse on Children and The Adults They Become. GUEST: Dr. Jonice Webb 41:23

6y ago41:23

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EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor UNDERSTANDING THE IMPACT OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT ON CHILDREN...AND ON THE ADULTS THEY BECOME. GUEST: DR. JONICE WEBB, Author of the first book written on Childhood Emotional Neglect ( CEN ) In today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Do you…

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Go for the Gold. Be a Leader in Your Own Life. GUEST: Lisa Marie Platske 41:14

6y ago41:14

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EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor GO FOR THE GOLD. BE A LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFE GUEST: LISA MARIE PLATSKE, AWARD-WINNING LEADERSHIP EXPERT DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Important Principles To Achieve the Results You Want Today, I'm sharing four important--actually essential--principles …

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Relieving the Mess of Chronic Stress in Toxic Relationships GUEST: Dr. Ganz Ferrance 50:17

6y ago50:17

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In today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER talks about 'Clearing Your Head When Chronic Stress and Anxiety Have Clouded Your Thinking.' Much research has been done that shows the effects of chronic stress coupled with chronic anxiety. When you're in a troubling or toxic relationship, you have that combination of stress and anxiety. It has been shown t…

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