GOOD NEWS! Everyone Doesn't Have to Like You. GUEST: Tonya Hofmann

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Were you brought up with the underlying understanding that, if you were a good person, everyone would like you? Most folks are.

So, you do your level best--even once you're an adult--to be pleasant, agreeable, and interesting so that will happen.

Sometimes, you go the extra mile in hope, right?

And, after you turn yourself into a pretzel, they still withhold approval and interest.


So, today's topic will relieve you of the notion that you are supposed to jump all the hoops that each person sets up, and find a way to get them to like you.


I know, as an adult, you might be able to say "I don't care whether people like me or not."

But, is it the truth that you actually--deep down--FEEL that way?


If so, you may be free of these expectations. If it's not true yet--or, you'd like it to be more true, today's episode offers valuable insights that can help!


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

Answers to...

  • What helped you step around fear and create an international organization?
  • Were you afraid of what folks would think, or say?
  • How did your past promote or prevent you from doing this easily?
  • Why do we focus on others so much, and on what they think?
  • How did you get over the "Everyone Has to Like Me" issue?
  • Why do you need to filter some people out of your life?
  • What are your special "rules" for deciding who to keep in your life and how?

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GUEST: TONYA HOFMANN


-CEO & Founder of the Public Speakers Association & Wowdible

-Globally Sought-After Speaker

-Cover of 5 Magazines

-Best Selling Author of 7 International Books

-Winner of Multiple National and International Industry and Association Awards

-Host of Tonya Hofmann’s Wow TV Show


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You can by visiting her website.


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Website: PublicSpeakersAssociation.com

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