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The Joys & Pitfalls of Entering a New Relationship at MidLife GUEST: Dr. Margaret Rutherford

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Are you a little shy about dating, or moving into a new relationship after a divorce?

What if you've been married once or twice? Do you have confidence to date again? Do you have confidence in choosing a new partner after divorce?


OK! Yes, there are a few fear-inspiring issues about dating again after a divorce, right?

Can I trust a new person?

Can I trust myself?

Will you see red flags?

When am I ready for emotional intimacy?

When do I consider moving to the bedroom and sexual intimacy?

What do I need to talk about to help a new partner understand me?

When do I talk about my past relationships?


Oh, yes! A few things to consider, for sure. That's why this fabulous conversation with Dr. Margaret Rutherford is so valuable--and practical--for you to listen to right now...and to share with your friends who are thinking about dating again.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • What you need to discuss with a new partner
  • When is the right time to talk about your past relationships
  • How to approach dating again, especially after a difficult, toxic relationship
  • Aging is real. How to talk about all that.
  • What about boundaries?
  • How do you solve problems in a new relationship

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD


Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a clinical psychologist, has practiced for twenty-six years in Fayetteville, Arkansas., Her work can be found at DrMargaretRutherford.com, where she blogs weekly, as well as HuffPost, Psych Central, The Mighty, the Gottman Blog and others. She hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression, will be published by New Harbinger in 2019.


Dr. Margaret as she's known to her followers decided to extend the walls of her practice almost 7 years ago and now blogs and podcasts about her ideas on depression, perfectionism and its antidote -- vulnerability. Her podcast has earned more than half a million downloads as people are tuning in to learn more about therapy and what makes real change happen.


FREE GIFT FROM DR. RUTHERFORD: Not at this time.


CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD

Website: DrMargaretRutherford.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn:

Facebook: Facebook.com/DrMargaretRutherford

Instagram: DrMargaretRutherford

Twitter:

YouTube:


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

Pinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#midlifedating #afraidtoloveagain #trustingagain #midliferelationshipissues #drmargaretrutherford

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse



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Are you a little shy about dating, or moving into a new relationship after a divorce?

What if you've been married once or twice? Do you have confidence to date again? Do you have confidence in choosing a new partner after divorce?


OK! Yes, there are a few fear-inspiring issues about dating again after a divorce, right?

Can I trust a new person?

Can I trust myself?

Will you see red flags?

When am I ready for emotional intimacy?

When do I consider moving to the bedroom and sexual intimacy?

What do I need to talk about to help a new partner understand me?

When do I talk about my past relationships?


Oh, yes! A few things to consider, for sure. That's why this fabulous conversation with Dr. Margaret Rutherford is so valuable--and practical--for you to listen to right now...and to share with your friends who are thinking about dating again.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • What you need to discuss with a new partner
  • When is the right time to talk about your past relationships
  • How to approach dating again, especially after a difficult, toxic relationship
  • Aging is real. How to talk about all that.
  • What about boundaries?
  • How do you solve problems in a new relationship

>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Join my OptimizeCircles.com and get the insights and support you want--safely off social media and it works just like Facebook! Many other free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD


Dr. Margaret Rutherford, a clinical psychologist, has practiced for twenty-six years in Fayetteville, Arkansas., Her work can be found at DrMargaretRutherford.com, where she blogs weekly, as well as HuffPost, Psych Central, The Mighty, the Gottman Blog and others. She hosts a weekly podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Her new book, Perfectly Hidden Depression, will be published by New Harbinger in 2019.


Dr. Margaret as she's known to her followers decided to extend the walls of her practice almost 7 years ago and now blogs and podcasts about her ideas on depression, perfectionism and its antidote -- vulnerability. Her podcast has earned more than half a million downloads as people are tuning in to learn more about therapy and what makes real change happen.


FREE GIFT FROM DR. RUTHERFORD: Not at this time.


CONTACT INFO FOR DR. MARGARET RUTHERFORD

Website: DrMargaretRutherford.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn:

Facebook: Facebook.com/DrMargaretRutherford

Instagram: DrMargaretRutherford

Twitter:

YouTube:


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

Pinterest: Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#midlifedating #afraidtoloveagain #trustingagain #midliferelationshipissues #drmargaretrutherford

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse



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