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Why You Won't Find the Intimacy You Long for If You're Needy GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman

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What allows for growth of intimacy? You want an emotionally rich, intimate relationship. You'll never find it--in any healthy fashion--if you're needy. That's why you need to do your own work first!


You know I talk about "doing your own work" first frequently. It's because you need to be the healthiest you can be to attract--and sustain--a healthy, emotionally intimate relationship. You simply cannot do it if you are needy! (If you want to work on this, I can help.)


Today, I'm talking once again with Rabbi Manis Friedman. He brought such great information to you in an episode with him a few months ago, and I could hardly wait to talk with him again to bring you more good stuff!


You have real needs, and one of those is for love. That's the way it is with this being human business!


But, it's the "not needy" part of you that can attract a healthy, emotionally available partner!


Why does Rabbi Mannis Friedman talk so much about humility? What does it mean? What does humility in a relationship look like? It is an important ingredient in an emotionally intimate relationship. He'll tell you why today.


Do you believe--and understand--what Rabbi Friedman says?


"I'll never fix myself at your expense."


You'll want to understand that fully, and he explains it well today.


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and celebrated host of the cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America


World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. Over 150,000 copies of his provocative yet entertaining tapes, both audio and video, have been sold.


His first book, Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? was widely praised by the media and is now in its fourth printing. He has been featured internationally and has appeared on more than 50 television and radio talk shows.


Rabbi Friedman has helped thousands with his deep understanding of the human spirit and simplified common sense tips for our daily lives. A father of 14, and a great-grandfather, Rabbi Friedman spends his time traveling the world, lecturing on the topic of relationships. He says,


"Intimacy is an art."


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy relationship
  • What is real emotional growth
  • Why you are wise to work at releasing the needy part of you
  • The big difference between "being needy" and "needing to share" my life with another
  • Why it's important to do no harm
  • Why the focus has to be on making your partner's life better
  • Rabbi Friedman's three steps that shift businesses into growth

CONTACT INFO FOR RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN

Website:: TheJoyofIntimacy.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @Manis-Friedman

Facebook: @Manis-Friedman

Instagram:

Twitter: @Manis-Friedman

YouTube:


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#intimacy #emotionalintimacy #dontbeneedy #tooneedy #RabbiManisFriedman #joyofintimacy

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse



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What allows for growth of intimacy? You want an emotionally rich, intimate relationship. You'll never find it--in any healthy fashion--if you're needy. That's why you need to do your own work first!


You know I talk about "doing your own work" first frequently. It's because you need to be the healthiest you can be to attract--and sustain--a healthy, emotionally intimate relationship. You simply cannot do it if you are needy! (If you want to work on this, I can help.)


Today, I'm talking once again with Rabbi Manis Friedman. He brought such great information to you in an episode with him a few months ago, and I could hardly wait to talk with him again to bring you more good stuff!


You have real needs, and one of those is for love. That's the way it is with this being human business!


But, it's the "not needy" part of you that can attract a healthy, emotionally available partner!


Why does Rabbi Mannis Friedman talk so much about humility? What does it mean? What does humility in a relationship look like? It is an important ingredient in an emotionally intimate relationship. He'll tell you why today.


Do you believe--and understand--what Rabbi Friedman says?


"I'll never fix myself at your expense."


You'll want to understand that fully, and he explains it well today.


>>>>>> Don't miss all the good stuff at the bottom of this page for you. Many free & low-cost resources to help your relationships!


GUEST: RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and celebrated host of the cable television series, Torah Forum with Manis Friedman, syndicated throughout North America


World-renowned author, counselor, lecturer, and philosopher, Rabbi Manis Friedman uses ancient wisdom and modern wit as he captivates audiences around the country and the world. Over 150,000 copies of his provocative yet entertaining tapes, both audio and video, have been sold.


His first book, Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore? was widely praised by the media and is now in its fourth printing. He has been featured internationally and has appeared on more than 50 television and radio talk shows.


Rabbi Friedman has helped thousands with his deep understanding of the human spirit and simplified common sense tips for our daily lives. A father of 14, and a great-grandfather, Rabbi Friedman spends his time traveling the world, lecturing on the topic of relationships. He says,


"Intimacy is an art."


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • The difference between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy relationship
  • What is real emotional growth
  • Why you are wise to work at releasing the needy part of you
  • The big difference between "being needy" and "needing to share" my life with another
  • Why it's important to do no harm
  • Why the focus has to be on making your partner's life better
  • Rabbi Friedman's three steps that shift businesses into growth

CONTACT INFO FOR RABBI MANIS FRIEDMAN

Website:: TheJoyofIntimacy.com

Podcasts:

LinkedIn: @Manis-Friedman

Facebook: @Manis-Friedman

Instagram:

Twitter: @Manis-Friedman

YouTube:


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

Instagram: Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler


WANT TO ASK ME QUESTIONS AND HAVE DIRECT ACCESS TO ME IN MY SECRET (Off Facebook) GROUPS?

Be first to get my videos, or attend my webinars. Even, two group Ask Me Anything calls each moth.

You can. Join my Optimize Circles! CLICK HERE

And, get my 21 Steps to Empowered Emotional Savvy via email FREE!


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships

FREE ebook: How to Spot a Hijackal®


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


#intimacy #emotionalintimacy #dontbeneedy #tooneedy #RabbiManisFriedman #joyofintimacy

#relationshipadvice #Hijackals #toxicpeople #RhobertaShaler #healthyrelationship #personalwholeness

#narcissists #borderlines #antisocial #difficultpeople #emotionalabuse #verbalabuse #toxicrelationships #manipulation #walkingoneggshells #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #abuse #narcissisticabuse



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