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We're Mike and Kim Anderson and we believe in a world where blended families experience a future full of hope, connection, and peace. That's why we focus on helping couples in stepfamilies move from a place of confusion and conflict to a life of confidence and connection. Thanks for joining us to discover how you can live the blended family life you really want! If you've been following us for a while — yes, we recently changed the podcast name from "The Blended Family Coaching Show" to "Ble ...
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Are you feeling overwhelmed by all the stress and trauma in our world? Do you feel like the world is becoming more and more polarized? Love Is Us is the antidote. Here we learn about love and we celebrate it in its many forms. We talk about relationships with intimate partners, family, friends, in the community, and in the workplace. We also discuss relationship structures, sex, and self-love. This is a shame-free, life-affirming space where people can feel free to explore what love means to ...
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Step Parent World

Martin Lock Step Parent/Family Coach

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Firstly thank you for listening and viewing my podcasts. Step parenting can be crazy but also rewarding. My podcasts are for all step and biological parents within a step family who may need help and advice from myself and other parents. Take what you need from each podcast and share to anyone who you feel might need and benefit from these recordings. Overtime I will be trying to cover most step family topics and inviting some fascinating guests to join me to share their stories and parentin ...
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Welcome to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! If you are in need of resources that deal with remarriage, step-parenting, co-parenting, preparing to blend, or divorce-proofing your marriage, we are here to serve you! Blended Kingdom Families is a step-family ministry that is committed to providing resources for individuals, families, and churches by implementing biblical foundations and practical tips. Our mission is to break the generational cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite bl ...
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Stepmom Wisdom Circle

Claudette Chenevert The Stepmom Coach

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The Stepmom Wisdom Circle podcast is a heartfelt, enlightening, and practical guide for stepmoms navigating the unique challenges of blended family dynamics. Hosted by a seasoned stepmom and professional coach with over three decades of experience, this podcast provides a supportive space for stepmoms to explore their roles, build strong relationships, and foster harmonious families. From candid discussions on setting boundaries and managing conflict, to invaluable advice on communication an ...
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Love them like your own, wear matching t-shirts, plan joyful joint holidays with your über civil co-parent, and you'll all live happily ever after. Stepfamily schmepfamily, we're just family! But for the rest of us mere mortals, the "Step" in Stepfamily should not -- and usually *cannot* -- be ignored. This podcast will help you adapt to, understand, and embrace your new family paradigm, one phase at a time. Whether you're widowed, a divorced dad, a single mom, a married stepmom, or a living ...
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✨ Ever wish you could unlock your inner wellness guru without chanting mantras in the mountains or living off kale smoothies forever? 🧘‍♀️ In this episode of LIFING 101, we’re diving into the wild world of self-healing! No crystals or incense required (unless you’re into that). We’re talking practical, and downright doable tips to help […] The post…
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Today I talk with Leslie Draffin, a former TV news anchor who stopped her cycle of addiction to wine with the help of microdosing mushrooms (psilocybin). She now combines her knowledge of microdosing, women’s cycles, and somatic practices to help women reconnect with themselves and heal. Leslie Draffin is a somatic psychedelic guide, sensual embodi…
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Children of divorce who are hurt, angry, rejecting, and distant (HARD) are challenging to parent. They can be rude, uncooperative, and disagreeable. It's difficult to relate to or connect with them, and they can appear hardened against the love and guidance you want to provide. When conflict between two homes intensifies, children often become enta…
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Sulhee Jessica Woo's love language is packing lunch. When she sends her three kids off to school, she includes themed lunches, snacks cut into cute shapes, and sweet notes to give them some support while they're away. If you want to level up your kid's school lunches, she has some suggestions. This episode, Sulhee Jessica Woo shares advice from her…
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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges …
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🏋🏽‍♀️Tired of being tired? Ready to trade in couch potato vibes for quality living? In this episode, “Getting Physical- The Prescription for Quality Living”, we’re writing and giving you the ultimate ‘Prescription’—no doctor’s note needed and no co-pay required! Discover how you can boost and transform your mood, boost your energy, and turn ‘ugh’ d…
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Resources: Episode 193. The Advantage of Learning The Basics BEFORE You Blend CLICK HERE to receive a curated podcast list to help you learn the Basics of Blending Episode 109. Preparing to Blend: The Couples Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily [with Ron Deal] Book by Ron Deal: Preparing to Blend: The Couple's Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily …
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The intersection of marriage and parenting often creates tension for stepcouples that leads to disagreements and, as a result, slows down relationship building. Listen to Ron Deal and Gayla Grace give valuable input on how to become a parenting team and strengthen your marriage in the process as you cope with common stepfamily dynamics such as: dif…
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In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fix…
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There are different ways to approach trauma. Today I talk with Karen Corona about how transformative it can be to use the creative sides of our brains to access our own power to heal. She combines creativity with IFS (Internal Family Systems) to help women reconnect with themselves. She’ll explain how this works, offer techniques you can try, and t…
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Most of us start off on the blending journey with some ambiguity about how to deal with the complex dynamics that will come as families merge. It usually doesn't take long before you're blindsided by the reality that there's SO MUCH MORE to blending than first anticipated. Feelings of overwhelm, frustration, and disappointment might hit and you rea…
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Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds…
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Resources: Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We …
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Today's teens struggle with perfectionism and mood swings, and their parents struggle to have hard conversations with them, according to a recent survey. Teen psychologist Lisa Damour explains how parents can better support their kids as a new school year begins. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Pol…
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Feeling like an outsider in your own step-family? Discover empowering solutions to common step-parenting challenges in this episode of our podcast. I reflect on the heartfelt feedback from our last outdoor session and introduce you to the life-changing help packages available on my website. You'll gain insights into my tailored three-step process d…
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As a blended family couple, it's not uncommon to experience sexual pitfalls that bring additional stress to your relationship. How do you prevent physical intimacy issues and work through those that have shown up? In this episode, Ron Deal and Gayla Grace talk about how to build trust and emotional safety to overcome common pitfalls such as: the co…
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In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intent…
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What if the key to your happiness lies in an old 'filing cabinet' of forgotten emotions? Join me, Martin from Step Parent World, as I unpack a heartfelt conversation I had with a stepmom. We explore how our minds store unresolved feelings and the profound impact they have on our well-being. If you’ve ever felt weighed down by past memories or emoti…
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What's one of THE most challenging "feats" for blended couples to successfully master? Building a healthy, collaborative parenting partnership! What makes this so difficult? The sensitive topic of parenting can naturally kick off an emotionally-charged conversation, ending in disagreement, conflict, and disconnection. If you're anything like us, yo…
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Dating at age 60 is not like dating at 25! Today I talk with Dating Coach Deb Dutcher about how to start the dating process, what dating apps to try, how to find the right partner for you, and how to make it fun. While she focuses on the boomer generation, what she has to say applies to anyone who is over 45, maybe has been divorced or widowed, and…
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Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while address…
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Feeling tired but can’t seem to recharge? Feeling like you’re spinning the wheel of exhaustion? Welcome to ‘Rest Roulette: The Secret R&R Hacks,’ where we spin the wheel on the secret types of rest you never knew you needed! In this episode of ‘Rest Roulette,’ we’re breaking down the secret rest and relaxation hacks that’ll […] The post Rest Roulet…
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Can you really choose to become a step-parent, or is it a role that finds you? We'll explore this thought-provoking question, inspired by a poignant discussion with one of our clients. Step-parenting is rarely a conscious choice; it's a path we often find ourselves on as we fall in love and gradually step into this complex role. We emphasize the im…
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Resources Episode 191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys] Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards: The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a Family Click here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult re…
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The dynamics of blended family life can bring hopelessness, and we lose the ability to see a future where God can make our situation better. But there’s always hope for a brighter tomorrow. In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr. Lee Warren, a neurosurgeon who has experienced personal trauma and loss, and explains the difference between our mind …
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Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty …
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Ever wished you could carry a human-sized teddy bear around to help you through life’s ups and downs? Ever wish your best friend came with a “hug now” button? Or maybe you’re the designated human Kleenex for your circle of friends? Well, good news—you can, and it’s called an Emotional Support Human! In this episode, […] The post ESH – Emotional Sup…
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Unlock the secret to stronger relationships by understanding your personal values! In today's episode, we start by celebrating the heartwarming stories and fabulous feedback from our listeners, like the step-mom who transformed her family dynamics through open communication. Discover how recognizing and discussing your top five values with your par…
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Are you an empty nester? Are you feeling lonely? Empty nesters often feel lonely, so you certainly aren't alone! But how can you feel more connected in your relationships? How can you feel more connected to yourself? In today's episode I talk about the different factors that contribute to feeling lonely in the empty nest. I also offer a few suggest…
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Money is emotional. That's why it can be a touchy subject for couples — whether they're preparing to blend or if they've been blending for a while. Discussing finances can lead to very real challenges. The process of "merging money" can easily become complicated and overwhelming for blended family couples. The complexities tap into deeper emotions …
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Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communicati…
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Join us for this laugh-out-loud episode, “First Dates and Fumbles: Surviving the Awkward Early Stages of Dating”, where we navigate the treacherous waters of early dating. We’ll be diving into the cringeworthy, the charming, and the downright confusing world of first date conversations From the dreaded first date jitters to creepy questions, we’re …
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Resources: Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Stranded Stranger / Trapped Teammate Dynamic) Episode 5. How to Get Over the Hurts and Triggers From Your Past Dr. Patricia L. Papernow - Stepfamily Relationships Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answ…
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Ghosts of marriage past—triggers from past hurt that we carry into a new relationship—are common for blended family couples. But emotional ghosts don't just appear from relationship baggage. We can be triggered by childhood wounds, grief, or other hurts that leave a residue on our heart and create hypersensitivity to getting hurt again. As a result…
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In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with commun…
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Ready or not, here comes another dive into the dating pool in the wild world of dating! In this episode, we ask the big question: Are you really ready to jump back into the dating pool, or are you still clinging to your emotional floaties? We’ll help you figure out if you’re truly ready to […] The post Dating! Ready or Not? first appeared on LIFING…
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I (Mike) have had so many moments of just feeling stuck. I wondered how we would ever move forward and I figured out pretty early on that I wouldn't be able to sort out all the complex chaos without some support. The problem was, I had no idea what kind of support we needed. And when we were stuck in unhealthy patterns that kept leading to disconne…
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In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting rela…
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In this episode, we dive into the world of dating types and explore why we keep falling for the same kind of people, and dating the same person over and over. We’ll discuss the ups and downs of sticking to a ‘type’. Join us as we share cringe-worthy dating stories, investigate the meaning behind our […] The post Dating Beyond Your Usual Suspect fir…
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With a baby on the way, you'll need to babyproof your home — and your relationship. In this episode, how to strengthen your connection with your partner and survive the newborn phase. Learn how to navigate fairness in domestic responsibilities, keep a cool head on little sleep, and your new roles. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastch…
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Ever wondered why your contributions as a step-parent often go unnoticed? Uncover practical strategies to feel more appreciated and valued in our latest episode of Step Parent World. We revisit the theme of appreciation, inspired by your positive feedback, and provide actionable steps to transform your feelings of being unappreciated. From asking i…
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Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know! We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share Ready for some extra support? We all need some extra support along the blending journey — we're here to help. You can connect with us…
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How do we help kids who are struggling with addictive behaviors such as pornography, drinking, drugging, video game addiction, or others? In this episode, Ron Deal speaks with Dr Adrian Hickmon, founder of Capstone Treatment Center, about the best approach, particularly for blended families. Hickmon says it starts by understanding the pain and void…
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Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting…
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In this episode of Blending Love and Laughs: Stepping Into the World of Stepfamilies, we dive into the fascinating world of blended families, where love, laughter, and a few challenges come together to create unique family dynamics. We’ll explore the latest statistics and prevalence of stepfamilies, , exploring just how common and diverse these fam…
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If you're dating, this episode is for you! My guest, Kelly Gagalis, recently created a dating safety program called "Swipe Safely" in order to help more women (and gay men) understand how they can take steps to protect themselves so they can enjoy the rewards dating has to offer. Kelly Gagalis is a Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years c…
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It's hard to accept that grief is simply a part of every blended family's journey. But that's your reality because everyone in your family has experienced some kind of loss along the way. If you aren't able to acknowledge grief and create a safe space to process through it, you'll miss out on valuable opportunities that lead to healing. In this epi…
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Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advi…
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Psychologist Becky Kennedy, author of the book "Good Inside: A Guide to Becoming the Parent You Want to Be," urges parents to spend more time raising thoughtful humans instead of fixing their behavior. This episode originally published September 26, 2022. Learn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoices NPR Privacy Policy…
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