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So it's really happening. Your husband was sitting with you and suddenly asked for a divorce. "I really think we should separate. It's not working for me anymore." The papers have been filed, he moved out, and you're here with the kids.Wow! You got blindsided, all right. What now?Getting a divorce is like getting tossed into an emotional blender. All at the same time, you're feeling angry, betrayed, sad, depressed, anxious, helpless, and a whole bunch of other things. Listen to Dear Aunt Sus ...
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You HAVE to listen to this episode! I got to interview Rosalia Labate, who is not only a CDFA (Certified Divorce Financial Advisor), but also a forensic accountant! Listen in to learn just exactly what that means, and how she can help you in a sticky divorce. Here's her contact info: Rosalia Labate 1225 Franklin Avenue Suite 325 Garden City, New Yo…
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When I started working with divorcing women, I didn't realize that there is a huge shift happening in the world of matrimonial law - and Paige Zandri, with her firm Artese Zandri, is one of the pioneers. The focus of Paige and her team is to support and nurture clients during the process, with not only access to needed experts, but also making sure…
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Getting a divorce is a highly emotional process, so frequently we don't think about practical issues that can have a devastating impact on our finances! In this episode, I was privileged to speak with Stacy Francis, founder of SavvyLadies.org and CEO of Francis Financial. Listen to Stacy tell you about hidden income and wealth, how to make sure you…
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Have you ever heard the saying, "It takes a village to raise a child"? It takes a team to survive getting divorced! Listen to this episode to learn more about building your team, and the resources you might need. Here are the links I promised in the episode: Mini-course - "How to Get Through Tough Days in One Piece" Get it here: https://ravitrose.c…
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Can't tell you how many times I've been asked, "How can I every trust another person ever again?" Marriage is the most potent attachment a human can experience - and if we don't heal from the loss of that attachment, it will color your relationships for the rest of your life. In this episode, we'll talk about how to start (and continue!) that heali…
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When we're getting divorced, those super intense emotions cause us to do things that we might not ordinarily do. Last time we talked about taking the high road; this week we're going to learn how to interrupt those emotional spirals and decide if what you're planning to do is a good idea... or not. Susan Petang is a Certified Life Coach specializin…
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During a divorce, all kinds of super intense emotions might pop up. We may start feeling rage, vindictiveness, or intense despair that might cause us to do things we wouldn't normally do. So when we're in the throes of it, how can we rein ourselves in? Listen to this episode for not only why it's important to get back control, but how to do it! Sus…
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Mantras aren't always for religious or spiritual purposes. We can create life mantras to help us learn how to process the hurt from past relationships (and the divorce!), as well as build self-confidence. Listen to this episode to learn how they can help you, and some handy ones you can start using right now! If you want to learn more about dating …
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Welcome to "No More Losers: Dating After Divorce"! I'm your host, Susan Petang, from The Quiet Zone Coaching. You may remember me from my "Dear Aunt Susan" podcast. I'm back for a season of advice on dating after divorce. We'll talk about healing from your past relationships, how to show your best side to potential partners, and what you have to do…
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There are two sides to everything. Sometimes even more! What do we do when our side doesn't agree with their side? What do we say when our mother-in-law criticizes every. Single. Thing. We. Do. And. Say? Listen to this episode for tips on setting boundaries and limits, and ways to keep from getting frustrated when other people do stuff they just sh…
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OK, so maybe you don't love your toenail fungus. But you learned some things because you had it - that you're really strong to handle discomfort, that you're smart enough to know to go to the doctor, and that you'll never get toenail tips again! Seriously, though, learning to appreciate what we have and not take things for granted is what's going t…
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We all have a dialogue running in our heads, constantly. What is yours saying to you? Do you kiss your mother with that mouth? Seriously, though, how do you speak to yourself? In this episode, we'll talk about self talk, cognitive distortions, and what you can say to yourself instead of what you already are (which will make you more self confident)…
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Values, Purpose, and now Spirituality - it's a three-legged stool that gives us the foundation for our attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors. So why is it so important to have a spiritual belief system? What if you're an atheist? What's the difference between spiritual and religious? In this episode, Aunt Susan helps guide you through it all, and helps…
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So many of us struggle with our purpose! It's important to have at least some idea of why we're here, and what we're meant to do in this lifetime. It colors the way we think, act, and believe, and dictates the paths we follow and the decisions we make. Our purpose can change as we get older and the circumstances we live in change, too! So how do we…
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Why is it important to create a list of values? And which ones are the most important? In this episode, Aunt Susan talks about values, why they're important, and what you can use them for! I teach my clients the life skills their parents never did - the important ones, like dealing with stress ,frustration, other people's drama, and the general BS …
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Were you wondering about meditation but aren’t sure what it’s all about? Maybe you’ve tried it and can’t sit still long enough! In this episode, Aunt Susan gives you the reasons why it’s a good idea to meditate, and some easy hacks to make it doable. I teach my clients the life skills their parents never did - the important ones, like how to deal w…
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In this episode, Aunt Susan explains how you can pick apart the negative emotions that create the BITCH in us so you don’t keep repeating them over and over again! I help my clients learn the life skills their parents never taught them - the important ones, like learning how to manage stress, frustration, irritability, drama, and the B.S. of life. …
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What emotions lie behind our bitchiness? What can we do to stop being bitchy so the people we love don't suffer from us? In this episode, I'll take you on a journey of not only the "why," but also what to do when you've taken the bitchy-bait and are falling in the bitchy rabbit hole. I help my clients learn the life skills their parents never taugh…
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Those of us who come from dysfunctional families have a similar story. As kids, we thought all the crazy stuff going on around us was normal. We didn't understand how messed up everything was. When we go into therapy, there are two things shrinks don't tell you about that you need to move forward. Sure, they'll help you with what made you unhappy i…
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Welcome to Season 2!! Bacon is very important to me. It's so important that I'm willing to challenge my doctor - and my high cholesterol - to enjoy it with my hubby on the weekends. What could that possibly have to do with defining our value system and outlining a standard of behavior? Tune in to find out! Dear Aunt Susan - Advice on Being Human is…
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You asked, I heard you! I’m starting a mini-series on dealing with toxic people, environments, and other-people's-drama. In this episode, I'll give you 8 Ways to Communicate that are essential groundwork for resolving conflict and dealing with other people's B.S. I'll also explain two types of Listening: Active and Reflective Listening - how yo do …
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This episode contains more questions on The Law of Attraction, hard answers for Ryan, having control in the face of uncertainty, and much more! Don't forget to send your questions and feedback to: SusanatTheQuietZone@gmail.com What do you want to hear about? What do you like about the show? What don't you like? Your Aunt Susan want to know!…
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WEBINAR: From Locked Down to Opened Up: Life Skills Your Parents Never Taught You (how to thrive in a post-pandemic world) You can watch the webinar here: https://youtu.be/CQ2YIqlU4ak or listen to it as a podcast. 2020 was a year of not only the pandemic, but demonstrations & social unrest, a contentious election, and a whirlwind of change that has…
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Life gets busy. Work, our spouse, our kids, and even the dog need attention. How do we resolve the frustrations we experience everyday? And when do we take the time to think about the bigger questions of life, the Universe, and how we fit into it all? Aunt Susan is like the favorite aunt that you go to for advice, comfort, and a different perspecti…
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Welcome to Dear Aunt Susan - Advice on Being Human! In this episode, Aunt Susan answers questions about: Getting motivated Letting life's little annoyances go Why miserable people are miserable! Rejuvenating in the middle of a work day Using your thoughts to reshape your life One small step you can take to change your life Corporations: Why do thei…
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