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Welcome to The Decoding Success Podcast - the show for high-performers who have used their trauma to fuel their success. If you have ever felt like a black sheep, someone who experienced isolation, neglect, or disconnection, you're in the right place as we guide our community to feel seen, understood, and connected to their highest selves. Matt LeBris hosts our weekly show, as he dives deep with world-renowned leaders in business, entertainment, sports, science, health, and literature, providing invaluable insights on emotional, mental, physical, financial, and spiritual well-being. Each episode features deep, transformative conversations designed to reconnect you with your true self. Our mission is to guide you on a journey of self-discovery, helping you go from feeling isolated to feeling seen, from anxious to connected, from being hard on yourself to giving grace. Whether you're seeking to identify your path to healing trauma, anxiety or dark days, make mindset shifts to step into your highest self, or break free from what no longer serves you, The Decoding Success Podcast is here to help. While you might hear some woo-woo things, make no mistake because you're going to get the real, raw, born-and-raised New Yorker out of Matt. And, with conversations featuring the likes of Mel Robbins, Grant Cardone, Dr. Nicole LePera, Patrick Bet-David, Gabby Bernstein, Dr. Caroline Leaf, Daymond John, and many more, you're bound to discover the golden nuggets you're seeking as you pursue your desire to transform your life from the inside out. Tune in to discover practical advice, inspiring stories, and powerful tools to elevate every facet of your life. Join us and become part of a community where you can thrive and become the best version of yourself.

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347. You Don’t Need a “Sorry” to Heal 7:31

9 days ago7:31

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Have you ever confronted someone who hurt you — only to be met with denial, defensiveness, or gaslighting? In this powerful solo episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , Matt LeBris breaks down one of the most overlooked truths in modern healing: you don’t need anyone’s apology to validate your pain — and you definitely don’t need it to begin healing. If you’ve ever waited for an “I’m sorry” that never came… this episode is for you. Matt shares: The 3 things you actually do need to heal Why seeking external validation can keep you stuck How to reclaim your power after being hurt The importance of courage, commitment, and patience in your healing journey Why healing is an inside job — and how to take the first step Whether you’ve been hurt by family, a friend, or a partner, this episode will help you shift your focus inward, validate your own experience, and move forward — even if the people who hurt you never acknowledge what they did. If you’ve ever thought, “I just need them to admit it,” this one’s for you. Share this episode with someone who’s been hurt and is still waiting for closure. Let them know they already have everything they need to begin again.…

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346. Healing Doesn’t Erase Your Triggers (And That’s Okay) 5:45

12 days ago5:45

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In this solo episode of the Decoding Success Podcast , we’re diving deep into a truth that’s often left out of the conversation around healing: just because you’ve done the work doesn’t mean you’ll do life perfectly afterward. Whether your healing has come through therapy, meditation, ayahuasca in the jungle, or Mike Tyson’s favorite toad—this episode is your reminder that progress isn’t perfection. Triggers will still show up. You’ll still snap sometimes. Old wounds might sting again. But all of that is part of the process. This isn’t about being flawless. This is about being more aware, more grounded, and more human as you continue walking your path. 🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why healing doesn’t mean you’re “healed” forever The truth about triggers, setbacks, and emotional reactions How self-awareness brings progress — not perfection Why people in your life are mirrors, and what they’re reflecting back A powerful reframe that gives you grace while doing the work How your relationships (especially with parents) silently shape your path You were guided to this episode for a reason. Maybe to receive this message. Maybe to pass it along. Either way — don’t let it stop with you. Click that share button, drop this in a friend’s inbox, your family group chat, or bring it into a convo at the office. You never know who needs the reminder that they’re still worthy, still healing, and still human — even if they aren’t getting it perfect. Until next time, be blessed. Peace ✌️…

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345. Why Healing Feels So Heavy (And Why You’re the One Chosen to Do It) 5:08

16 days ago5:08

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In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast , we're diving into a truth that doesn’t get talked about enough: healing isn’t just hard — it’s heavy. And not just because of the work it takes, but because you’ve been chosen to carry out an assignment that generations before you never got to. Whether you’re already deep in your self-discovery journey or you’re standing on the edge of it wondering if you’re strong enough to begin — this episode is your sign. The weight you’re carrying might not even be yours. It might belong to the people who came before you, and the ones who come after. I’m unpacking my personal story, the generational layers we inherit, and the reason this path feels so damn heavy — because you’re the one brave enough to break the cycle. 🎯 What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why healing feels heavier than anyone talks about How to know if you’ve been “called” to break generational cycles The difference between self-imposed pressure vs. ancestral assignment Why the work you’re doing now will change your future (and your family’s) What to do when your courage starts to fade A powerful reframe that makes the weight feel a little lighter If this episode hit home, share it with someone in your circle who’s also carrying a heavy load. Whether it's a friend, a sibling, or someone at the water cooler — this message wasn’t meant to stop with you. Hit that subscribe button so you don’t miss upcoming episodes as we continue to unpack what it means to rise above, heal deeply, and live fully. Until next time — be blessed. Peace. ✌️…

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344. How to Know If They’re Your Person 5:44

19 days ago5:44

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After years of deep inner work, self-discovery, and turning inward, I stumbled upon a perspective on love and soulmates that I wish I had heard sooner — and it’s changed how I view relationships completely. In this episode of the Decoding Success Podcast, I’m sharing a powerful truth that redefines what it means to find your person . We’re breaking down the misconception that your soulmate has to see the world exactly as you do. Instead, I’m offering something new: what if your soulmate is the one who sees red while you see blue, and together… you make purple? This episode is for the black sheep, the seekers, the lovers who’ve ever felt misunderstood in relationships. It’s for those of you looking for connection — not perfection — and wondering what true alignment really looks like. 🔑 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: What I recently discovered about soulmates that shifted everything Why shared values matter more than identical perspectives How your differences with someone can actually deepen connection The metaphor of red, blue, and purple — and why it’s so important How to reframe your view of compatibility and partnership What real love and acceptance look like in a conscious relationship Whether you're in a relationship, calling in love, or still healing, this short episode will open your heart and help you recognize your person when they arrive. 🎧 Tune in and find peace in the purple. Loved this episode? Make sure you’re subscribed so you never miss what’s next. If you're watching on YouTube, hit that subscribe button. If you’re listening on the go, head to the show notes for a direct link to watch the episode. And hey — if someone came to mind while you were listening, send this to them . You never know how one message can shift someone’s perspective. Until next time, Be blessed. Peace. — Matt…

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343. Your Pain Got You Here, But It Won’t Take You Further 8:07

23 days ago8:07

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If you've used your pain as fuel to achieve success, you’re not alone. Many of us—especially black sheep—have turned rejection, isolation, and past wounds into motivation. But what happens when that fuel runs out? In today’s solo episode, Matt shares a critical realization that could change the way you approach success: Pain-driven ambition has a limit. It can get you to a certain level, but after that, it stops working. So, what comes next? How do you transition from pain-fueled drive to something more sustainable and fulfilling? What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ Why pain is an effective motivator—but only for so long ✅ The hidden cost of using pain as your primary source of success ✅ How to identify when your fuel source is running dry ✅ What to replace pain with to continue growing in life and business ✅ The key question you need to ask yourself right now: What’s fueling you beyond pain? This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like your success is tied to proving people wrong, escaping your past, or avoiding pain. Matt breaks down what he wishes he knew earlier and gives you a powerful call to action to redefine your motivation moving forward. 🎧 Listen Now and take your next step toward a healthier, more sustainable drive for success. 👉 Share this episode with someone you know who has leveraged their pain to push forward but might be struggling with what comes next. 🔗 Watch on YouTube or listen on-the-go – Check the show notes for the direct links! 🚀 Join the conversation: 📩 DM Matt on Instagram @MattLeBris with your biggest takeaway from this episode! Until next time, be blessed. Peace. ✌️…

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342. How Micro-Dosing Alone Time Can Transform Your Life 10:44

26 days ago10:44

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As a black sheep, you’ve probably felt the sting of isolation—whether it was self-imposed or something you experienced growing up. But what if the very thing you once resented could become your greatest asset? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , I’m breaking down why healthy isolation is the key to healing, clarity, and transformation. If you’ve been avoiding alone time, distracting yourself with social media, or constantly surrounding yourself with people, it’s time to reintroduce solitude into your life—on your own terms. 🚀 In This Episode, I’m Breaking Down: ✅ Why black sheep often have a negative association with isolation ✅ How intentional alone time helps you grow and find clarity ✅ Why constantly staying social might be holding you back ✅ The difference between painful isolation vs. healthy solitude ✅ How to micro-dose isolation to make it a natural part of your life 🔑 Key Takeaway: Isolation isn’t a prison—it’s a path to healing, and healing isn’t lonely—it’s liberating. 💡 Your Challenge: Try micro-dosing isolation this week. Whether it’s 10 minutes of silence, a tech timeout, or a solo walk—give yourself the space to reconnect with YOU. 🎧 Hit play now and start shifting your perspective on isolation today! 📩 Know someone who needs to hear this? Send this episode their way & make sure you’re subscribed so you never miss an episode of Decoding Success !…

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341. Why You Can’t Save Everyone (And What to Do Instead) 11:23

4 weeks ago11:23

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As someone who’s walked the path of self-discovery, healing, and transformation, it’s natural to want the same for the people you love. But here’s the hard truth: you can’t heal others—and trying to do so comes at a cost. In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , I’m breaking down why the black sheep doesn’t change the herd—it charts its own course toward healing. If you’ve ever felt frustrated watching people around you resist growth, this episode will shift your perspective and help you reclaim your energy. 🚀 In This Episode, I’m Breaking Down: ✅ Why trying to change others is a losing battle ✅ How your healing journey can inspire (but not force) transformation ✅ The hidden ways we waste energy on people who aren’t ready to change ✅ Why proximity is power and how to attract the right people into your life ✅ How to surrender and find peace when others refuse to grow You don’t have to carry the weight of someone else’s healing—your job is to focus on your own. And when you do, you become a magnet for change instead of a force that meets resistance. 💡 If you’ve been pouring energy into people who aren’t ready for growth, this episode will free you from that struggle. 🔔 Hit play now and start reclaiming your energy today! 📩 Know someone who needs to hear this? Share this episode with them and subscribe so you never miss an episode of Decoding Success !…

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340. The Truth About Healing No One Talks About 10:48

5 weeks ago10:48

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We hear about healing all the time—but there’s something no one talks about: healing doesn’t mean forgetting. For years, I thought the key to moving forward was erasing the pain of my past. I wanted to forget the rejection, the hurt, the moments that shaped me in ways I didn’t understand at the time. But here’s the truth: forgetting your pain is a disservice to your growth. In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , I’m diving deep into why your pain holds the key to your potential and how to transform your past struggles into fuel for your future success. 🚀 In This Episode, I’m Breaking Down: ✅ Why we unconsciously try to forget our pain (and why it doesn’t work) ✅ How numbing through habits like work, money, or distractions keeps you stuck ✅ The mindset shift that turns your past pain into personal power ✅ Why embracing your experiences leads to stronger relationships, boundaries, and self-worth ✅ A practical strategy to leverage your past pain for your future gain You can’t change what’s happened—but you can choose how it shapes your future. The second you stop trying to forget is the moment you unlock your true potential. 💡 If you’ve ever felt like you just want to “move on” from your past, this episode will shift your perspective and give you a new way to reclaim your story. 🔔 Hit play now and start transforming your pain into power today! 📩 Know someone who needs to hear this? Share this episode with them and subscribe so you never miss an episode of Decoding Success !…

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339. Success Isn’t Enough If You’re Chasing the Wrong Thing 13:50

5 weeks ago13:50

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You set a goal. You grind. You achieve. The applause rolls in. The texts, the recognition, the high of success—it’s everything you thought you wanted. And then… it fades. So what happens next? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , I’m breaking down why chasing the spotlight leaves you feeling empty—and what actually leads to real, lasting fulfillment. Because the truth is, success isn’t enough if you’re chasing it for the wrong reasons. 🚀 In This Episode, I’m Breaking Down: ✅ Why achievements alone won’t make you feel whole ✅ How childhood validation patterns shape our drive for success ✅ The hard truth about why the applause always fades ✅ How to separate your worth from your accomplishments ✅ Two game-changing mindset shifts to create true fulfillment I’ve been there—chasing achievement after achievement, hoping for lasting validation. But the real shift happens when you stop depending on external recognition and start defining success on your own terms. 💡 If you’ve ever felt lost after reaching a goal, or wondered why success doesn’t feel as good as you thought it would, this episode is for you. 🔔 Hit play now and start redefining fulfillment today! 📩 Loved this episode? Share it with someone who needs to hear this message. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Decoding Success !…

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338. The One Thing You’re Hiding That’s Keeping You Isolated 12:01

6 weeks ago12:01

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What if I told you there’s one thing you might be hiding that’s keeping you from deeper relationships, real connections, and even personal growth? For years, I wore a mask—acting bulletproof, unfazed, like nothing could touch me. But in reality, I was just blocking myself from true connection and reinforcing my own isolation. In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , I’m sharing the hard truth: hiding your pain is holding you back. The version of you that acts like nothing’s wrong might feel like protection, but it’s really keeping you from the relationships and love you deserve. 🚀 In This Episode, I’m Breaking Down: ✅ Why we act “bulletproof” and the real cost of doing so ✅ How protecting yourself is keeping you disconnected ✅ The power of vulnerability and how it transforms relationships ✅ How to find safe spaces to start sharing your truth ✅ Actionable ways to break free from emotional isolation I get it—being vulnerable isn’t easy. But when we hide our wounds, we perpetuate isolation. And when we share our truth, we cultivate belonging. 💡 If you’ve been hiding your struggles, afraid to open up, or feel like no one truly sees you, this episode is for you. 🔔 Hit play now and start breaking free from emotional isolation today! 📩 If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Decoding Success !…

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337. Trusting Yourself When Others Gaslight You 12:29

6 weeks ago12:29

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Have you ever shared your experience with someone, only to be told, “That never happened” or “You’re remembering it wrong”? Whether it’s in relationships, family dynamics, or past trauma, having your reality denied what many now call gaslighting can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, and even questioning yourself. In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , we dive deep into the emotional toll of having your experience dismissed, why it happens, and how to reclaim your trust in yourself despite external doubt. 🚀 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✅ Why people deny reality (and how to recognize their intentions) ✅ The psychological impact of being told your experience isn’t real ✅ How to stop second-guessing yourself and trust your gut ✅ Why perception shapes reality—and how to stand firm in yours ✅ When to have hard conversations and when to walk away 💡 You don’t need validation from others to own your truth. If you’ve ever felt dismissed, manipulated, or gaslit, this episode will give you the tools to stand strong in your reality. 🔔 Hit play now and take back your power today! 📩 Loved this episode? Share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!…

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336. Reclaiming Your Worth When You Feel Overlooked 11:17

7 weeks ago11:17

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Have you ever felt overlooked, unprioritized, or like an afterthought in the relationships that matter most? Whether it’s family, friends, or romantic partners, feeling like the low man (or woman) on the totem pole can be frustrating and emotionally exhausting. In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , we dive deep into the pain of feeling unimportant, how it impacts our actions and mindset, and, most importantly, how to reclaim your self-worth and prioritize yourself. 🚀 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✅ Why feeling unprioritized leads to self-sabotage and emotional drain ✅ How childhood neglect and craving attention shape our adult behavior ✅ The power of chosen family and surrounding yourself with the right people ✅ Why prioritizing yourself first teaches others how to treat you ✅ When and how to have the hard conversations about feeling undervalued 💡 Feeling unseen or undervalued? It’s time to change that. This episode will empower you to take back your energy, shift your mindset, and step into your worth. 🔔 Hit play now and start prioritizing yourself today! 📩 Loved this episode? Share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!…

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335. Why You’ll Never Get the Approval You’re Chasing 11:12

7 weeks ago11:12

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Are you constantly seeking validation from people who never seem to give it to you? Do you feel emotionally drained, anxious, or stuck in a cycle of chasing approval? In this episode of The Decoding Success Podcast , we dive deep into the emotional cost of seeking validation and why reclaiming your personal power is the key to self-worth. 🚀 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: ✅ Why high achievers often seek approval from the wrong people ✅ The hidden toll of emotional and physical exhaustion in the pursuit of validation ✅ How to recognize what others can and can’t give you ✅ The game-changing mindset shift to take back your energy ✅ How to reframe rejection and turn it into personal empowerment The truth is, approval from others is a bonus—not a requirement. It’s time to stop waiting for validation and start validating yourself. 💡 If you’ve ever felt unseen, unappreciated, or stuck in a loop of seeking recognition, this episode is for you. 🔔 Hit play now and start reclaiming your power today! 📩 Loved this episode? Share it with someone who needs to hear this message. Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!…

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Why the People Who Hurt You Are the Ones Who Help You Grow 11:45

14 weeks ago11:45

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Today, I’m diving into the transformative power of pain and why, in some cases, the people who’ve hurt us are the same ones who propel us toward our greatest growth. I open up about reframing our perspective on painful experiences—because while we can’t control the events themselves, we do have a say in how we interpret and learn from them. If you’ve ever felt resentment or been stuck in the aftermath of hurt, this conversation is all about helping you see the lessons in your pain, find gratitude for the journey, and move forward with a clearer sense of purpose and emotional intelligence. KEY POINTS / TAKEAWAYS Pain as Transformation Pain can be a catalyst that reshapes who we are and what we do next. Shifting Perspectives We can’t always control what happens, but we can choose how we view it—and that shapes our outcome. Gratitude for the Hard Stuff Over time, even painful experiences can reveal the gifts they bring—like clarity, growth, or newfound strength. Process the Hurt Identifying who hurt us and how is the first step to turning pain into a lesson rather than a lingering wound. Emotional Intelligence Embracing the ups and downs of our story helps us develop deeper emotional awareness and resilience. CALL TO ACTION / LINKS / RESOURCES Website: https://mattlebris.com Instagram: @matt_lebris Twitter: @matt_lebris TikTok: @matt_lebris…

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Stop Rushing Your Healing: How to Align Intention, Patience, and Courage 16:22

15 weeks ago16:22