16: How to Handle Midlife Mean Girls Without Losing Your Cool

Blooming in the Middle

Most of us have encountered at least one woman who seems nice at first, welcomes you into the fold of friendship then subtly – or not so subtly – makes you start questioning yourself and wondering if you’re imagining things.

Things like being targeted for unkind or critical remarks. Or becoming the subject of gossip. Or learning that you’ve been excluded from an event where other friends were invited. Surely no one would do these things intentionally, right?

It’s hurtful and confusing. It can be downright infuriating.

It’s also a sign that you’ve stepped into the line of fire from a grown-up mean girl.

Join me on today’s episode, where we’ll talk about why some women are mean to other women and how you can respond in ways you’ll feel good about the next time you come face to face with a grown-up mean girl in your life.

Find the full transcript for this episode and other resources for navigating midlife at bloominginthemiddle.com/16

Jody Cates helps women in midlife dream into a new future, age with confidence, and grow satisfying relationships with their adult kids, parents, and partner. For step-by-step support, apply for Jody's Blooming in the Middle Signature Program here, and she'll be in touch to invite you to a discovery call.
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