13. Spotting and Responding to Positive Projections in Child Therapy

Connection Therapy

Brenda has introduced us to the concept of projections, both positive and negative, and how they appear in our interactions with clients. These projections, especially the positive ones, can be subtle and challenging to identify, yet they play a crucial role in the therapeutic process.

Today, Brenda is focusing on positive projections and how they might show up when working with child clients. These projections are often disguised as compliments or statements that might seem insignificant at first glance but carry deeper meaning. They can be hard to spot because they blend in with everyday conversation.

For example, you might hear a child say something like, “You’re really good at drawing,” or “I wish I could be as smart as you.” While these statements seem innocent, they might actually be projections of the child’s own desires, aspirations, or unmet needs.

When you notice a child client making a positive projection, the first step is to acknowledge it. But don’t stop there—use this as an opportunity to explore what the child might be projecting.

Positive projections provide a valuable opportunity to help children develop empathy and self-awareness. By guiding them to explore why they admire certain traits in others, you’re helping them understand their own feelings and how they relate to others.

By intervening, you help the child bring these thoughts to the surface. This awareness allows them to accelerate their personal growth, as they begin to recognize and articulate their own dreams and aspirations.

It’s a process that transforms a simple statement into a powerful tool for self-discovery and social development. Positive projections, though harder to spot, offer valuable opportunities for therapeutic growth

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