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Unmasking Narcissistic 'Love': Why Narcissists Can't Love Anyone.

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In this week's episode, I answer the crucial question: "Can a narcissist love you?"

It's hard to believe that someone who professes to love you could be so cruel, but what's even more horrifying is the possibility that your entire relationship was built on lies and the love you felt was entirely one-sided. Understanding the complexities of narcissistic relationships can be overwhelming, but I'm here to help you make sense of it all.

I unpack:

  1. What love means to the narcissist
    Discover the unique and often twisted perception of love from a narcissist's perspective.
  2. What a narcissist means when they say, "I... LOVE... YOU."
    Learn the true intent behind a narcissist's declaration of love and how it differs from genuine affection.
  3. Did they ever love you?
    Explore whether a narcissist is capable of true love or if their emotions are merely a facade.
  4. How to differentiate between "LOVEBOMBING" and genuine affection
    Understand the signs of love bombing and how to distinguish it from someone who genuinely wants to make you happy.
  5. Do they love you if they only make you miserable a small percentage of the time?
    Delve into the confusion of intermittent positive reinforcement and its impact on your perception of love.

To process your own trauma you can book an online appointment with me here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Until the next episode, REMEMBER......
You are worthy of soooo much love.
And you are certainly worthy of a whole lot more than Fake Love and Flying Monkeys.
Nova 💜

Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
https://linktr.ee/novagibson
And follow on these platforms to discuss each and every episode!
Facebook group -
https://www.facebook.com/groups/822368872683676/?ref=share
Instagram (@novas_narcissistabuse_recovery)
Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert)
TikTok (@nova_gibson)
YouTube (@novagibson_)
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Send us a Text Message.

In this week's episode, I answer the crucial question: "Can a narcissist love you?"

It's hard to believe that someone who professes to love you could be so cruel, but what's even more horrifying is the possibility that your entire relationship was built on lies and the love you felt was entirely one-sided. Understanding the complexities of narcissistic relationships can be overwhelming, but I'm here to help you make sense of it all.

I unpack:

  1. What love means to the narcissist
    Discover the unique and often twisted perception of love from a narcissist's perspective.
  2. What a narcissist means when they say, "I... LOVE... YOU."
    Learn the true intent behind a narcissist's declaration of love and how it differs from genuine affection.
  3. Did they ever love you?
    Explore whether a narcissist is capable of true love or if their emotions are merely a facade.
  4. How to differentiate between "LOVEBOMBING" and genuine affection
    Understand the signs of love bombing and how to distinguish it from someone who genuinely wants to make you happy.
  5. Do they love you if they only make you miserable a small percentage of the time?
    Delve into the confusion of intermittent positive reinforcement and its impact on your perception of love.

To process your own trauma you can book an online appointment with me here
You can purchase a copy of my book ‘Fake Love – Understanding and Healing from narcissistic Abuse’ here
Join the private Facebook discussion group here
Join me on instagram here
Join me on TikTok at @nova_gibson
Until the next episode, REMEMBER......
You are worthy of soooo much love.
And you are certainly worthy of a whole lot more than Fake Love and Flying Monkeys.
Nova 💜

Thankyou so much for listening! I hope you found the information in this episode informative and validating. Lets face it. This type of abuse is confusing! Many people just don't 'get it', but I do, and you now know this a safe place to not just feel heard...........but understood.
Please remember the information you hear in this episode is not intended to substitute for therapy, is general information, and strictly the opinions of the host based on her years of experience working with thousands of victims of narcissistic abuse.
If you would like to make an appointment for individual counselling with me at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Counselling Service, please visit my website at www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au, or email me at nova.pollard123gmail.com
To order your copy of Fake love please use the link below.
https://linktr.ee/novagibson
And follow on these platforms to discuss each and every episode!
Facebook group -
https://www.facebook.com/groups/822368872683676/?ref=share
Instagram (@novas_narcissistabuse_recovery)
Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/NovaGibsonNarcissisticAbuseExpert)
TikTok (@nova_gibson)
YouTube (@novagibson_)
Youtube
@novagibson_

  continue reading

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