Gateway Episode #17 FIND YOURSELF – the questions podcast | Navigating Preteen Years: Communication and Connection with Marcus Aurelius Higgs

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Join us for an insightful discussion with Marcus Aurelius Higgs as we explore communication techniques to build stronger connections with your preteen.

In this episode, host Bernd Wenske welcomes special guest Marcus Aurelius Higgs, a communication coach dedicated to helping parents navigate the crucial preteen years. With over 15 years of international experience, Marcus provides valuable insights to support parents in maintaining meaningful relationships with their preteens. Discover practical strategies, multicultural perspectives, and timeless advice on connecting with your preteen in this thought-provoking conversation.

The preteen years, often a period of identity formation and shifting dynamics, can be challenging for both parents and their children. In a recent episode of the FIND YOURSELF- the questions podcast, communication coach M. Aurelius shared invaluable insights into navigating this critical phase. From the importance of a strong identity to fostering collaboration, open communication, and encouraging healthy risk-taking, Higgs provided a wealth of knowledge for parents seeking to connect deeply with their preteens.

Marcus emphasizes the significance of a strong identity for both parents and preteens. He articulates how our actions stem from our identity, and understanding oneself is key to navigating the shifting dynamics of the preteen years. By focusing on self-awareness and recognizing the Delphic aphorism “know thyself,” parents can guide their children through this identity-breaking phase, helping them cultivate resilience and self-belief.

Higgs advocates for understanding and respecting different values and virtues held across cultures. The framework suggests creating a space for collaborative problem-solving, recognizing the wisdom of the child, and promoting autonomy supportive parenting. By inviting preteens to contribute to critical conversations, parents can bridge cross-cultural dynamics and foster thoughtful, diverse perspectives.

Addressing the challenges of communication, Higgs underscores the importance of storytelling and active listening. Engaging preteens in conversations and respecting their viewpoints becomes instrumental in nurturing open communication and values transmission.

By exploring the world together, parents and preteens can nurture curiosity, mutual respect, and problem-solving skills. By affirming achievements and instilling a belief in doing hard things, parents play a pivotal role in unveiling the potential of their preteens. This approach fosters a proactive attitude towards challenges and instills the confidence to navigate life’s complexities.

Marcus stesses out that it is never too late to start building a meaningful connection with one’s preteen. He emphasizes the significance of progress, illustrating that taking even a single step towards understanding and connecting with the preteen can lead to significant growth in the relationship.

The conversation with Marcus Aurelius Higgs sheds light on the multifaceted aspects of nurturing and connecting with preteens. By embracing principles of communication, collaboration, and self-discovery, parents can foster a supportive environment for their preteens, aiding them in developing resilience, self-belief, and a strong sense of identity.

Listeners can reach out to Maurcus directly through his web-profile marcushiggs.com and connect with him on a personal level. They can learn how he can support them as they navigate their own personal growth and development journey along side their preteen. Check it out today!

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