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Solomon's Paradox: How to Apply Your Own Wisdom

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Are you the type of person that gives so much love, compassion, and encouragement to others, but forget to give to yourself?

I definitely do and it frustrates me.

I sometimes feel like a hypocrite or an imposter who can’t take his own advice. Then I would doubt my ability to give and help people because I was not good enough, smart enough, or wise enough.

Why is it so hard to love myself?

Turns out I'm not the only one who has this problem, according to University of Waterloo psychologist, Igor Grossman, who coined this phenomenon as Solomon’s Paradox.

Read the research paper here: https://uwaterloo.ca/wisdom-and-culture-lab/sites/ca.wisdom-and-culture-lab/files/uploads/files/grossmann_kross_-_exploring_solomons_paradox_-_article_proof.pdf

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Are you the type of person that gives so much love, compassion, and encouragement to others, but forget to give to yourself?

I definitely do and it frustrates me.

I sometimes feel like a hypocrite or an imposter who can’t take his own advice. Then I would doubt my ability to give and help people because I was not good enough, smart enough, or wise enough.

Why is it so hard to love myself?

Turns out I'm not the only one who has this problem, according to University of Waterloo psychologist, Igor Grossman, who coined this phenomenon as Solomon’s Paradox.

Read the research paper here: https://uwaterloo.ca/wisdom-and-culture-lab/sites/ca.wisdom-and-culture-lab/files/uploads/files/grossmann_kross_-_exploring_solomons_paradox_-_article_proof.pdf

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Send me a voice message with anything thoughts, feedback, praise, takeaways, or stories you want to share with this podcast at http://victorung.com/podcast.

Subscribe to get your free list of 11 Emotional Intelligence exercises and to get updates on this podcast and blog at http://victorung.com/subscribe.

Schedule your first FREE coaching call with me to personally work on building your own emotional intelligence and resiliency: http://victorung.com.

Become a Patron to support this content: http://patreon.com/humanup.

Clap for me on my blog on Medium: http://medium.com/@victorung.

--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/victorung/message

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