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Mary: When Your Kid's Worries Disrupt Bedtime

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In today’s episode, Mary shares how her 4 year old son, Oliver seems to be struggling after the loss of his infant cousin. Oliver began to show signs of regression with bedtime during which he seems to experience high anxiety and fears. Sleep regression is normal and very understandable when dealing with something as big as death. Mary explains how Oliver is most open and communicative at bedtime. While it may seem intuitive to re-enforce this behavior so that Oliver continues to open up at bedtime, it's actually important to not keep reinforcing the behavior of doing this right before sleep. Instead, keep the intention to connect to your child, but change the time and place for it.

CW: Brief mention of Infant Loss and Death

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Time stamps:

7:35 Regression in your child’s sleep is normal when dealing with difficult times

11:40 Common for kids to open up most around bedtime. Parenting can feel counterintuitive to stop your child from expressing themselves at bedtime and switch that openness to a different time of the day.

16:40 The worry box or the worry tree

26:03 Bedtime techniques/mindfulness practices

Leslie-ism: Help your child to understand: feelings come and feelings go

Here are two books mentioned in this episode.

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