How to pick up 68 GIRLS' CONTACTS in one afternoon

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In this video and article I talk about how to pick up high volume of contact acquisitions through daygame approach. I've discussed this topic at length before, but this piece brings concise and renewed awareness to guys who are looking to increase the number of contacts they pick up. The first point is to approach in a venue that enables high-volume approach. I find intra-city bustling stations are the number-one way to accomplish this. It is simply the case that the greater # of interactions/collisions with females per unit time, the greater number of approaches the male can make, and therefore the greater number of contacts he can pick up. Most guys will say, "Yeah but I don't live in a high-volume area like that." And my response is: the same way it's the responsibility of the male to take the initiative to approach, period, it's also the responsibility of the male to move to an area that is conducive to high-volume approach. So plan to eventually make a move to a big city. If you cannot do that for a while, figure out which areas around your community are most populated (e.g., malls, etc.). Rejection will be the overwhelming majority of cold approaches no matter what. So the male should expect to make, on average, between 3-7 approaches for every contact he picks up. Some days he will seemingly get all rejections. Other days he will be seemingly rapid-fire picking up contacts left and right. But nevertheless numbers balance out and, overall, simply putting oneself in an intra-city, intra-station venue enables the highest probability of high-volume contact acquisition. Once the male establishes an appropriate venue, the irony regarding the pickup of high-volume contacts is that the male must focus on exactly *not* doing that. I preach that process-, not outcome-, orientation is important in keeping the male's mindset clean/free from behavioral regulation and contrivance, which in turn only serve to make the male less attractive in his interactions. The male must be as deregulated as possible in his interactions (i.e., completely winging them) and must engage women for short, not rambling, convos. The male's ultimate aim should be that his convos evolve to be hyper-short and deregulated. Guys tend to feel uncomfortable and regulated making short, forward convos initially (i.e., they want to stand there talking for 5-10 minutes), but recognize that insofar as you pick up the girl's contact, the trajectory of the interaction is a toss-up regardless. In other words, whether you pull her contact within 30 seconds or 8 minutes, the chance of her flaking vs eventually agreeing to a date isn't affected either way. Girls will always flake in perpetuity. Her willingness to accept a date in some form is almost always state-dependent, not based on the arbitrary degree of connection you felt you established with her during the cold approach. So let that give you comfort in knowing that your initial convo can feel super-abrupt/rushed, yet she's still just as likely to flake or accept a date anyway. If you want to pick up lots of contacts, the focus of your approach days must be high-volume rejection. Your aim at the start of an approach day should *not* be, "I'm going to pick up x number of contacts today." It needs to be, "I'm going to take a high number of rejections today." This is the starting point for...

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