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#87 - How To Overcome Neediness
Manage episode 214158562 series 29793
When it comes to dating, there is one common issue that men have that will kill any chance you have to build attraction or a relationship: neediness.
Neediness and needy behavior is the Anti-Sex equation. No matter what else you have going for you in your life — you could travel the world, you could be world famous, you could be a millionaire with a mansion and a yacht — neediness will ultimately make people nope the hell out of your life, whether you’re in a relationship, or just trying to start one. Neediness drives people away because it's that’s a sign that someone's just not ready for a relationship.
But overcoming neediness isn't about following rules like "only text X number of times" or "only see her Y times per week"... it's about addressing the source of needy behavior.
Show Highlights:
- Why women are turned off by needy behavior
- How neediness is a sign of other dating deal-breakers
- Why men with low self-esteem have a harder time finding lasting relationships
- How fear causes needy behavior
- Why most men never overcome neediness
...and so much more.
Related Links:
Where Do You Get Your Validation?
Avoid These Dating Deal Breakers
Better Dating Through Mind Control
Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube.
Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove
Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.doctornerdlove.com/books
184 episodes
Manage episode 214158562 series 29793
When it comes to dating, there is one common issue that men have that will kill any chance you have to build attraction or a relationship: neediness.
Neediness and needy behavior is the Anti-Sex equation. No matter what else you have going for you in your life — you could travel the world, you could be world famous, you could be a millionaire with a mansion and a yacht — neediness will ultimately make people nope the hell out of your life, whether you’re in a relationship, or just trying to start one. Neediness drives people away because it's that’s a sign that someone's just not ready for a relationship.
But overcoming neediness isn't about following rules like "only text X number of times" or "only see her Y times per week"... it's about addressing the source of needy behavior.
Show Highlights:
- Why women are turned off by needy behavior
- How neediness is a sign of other dating deal-breakers
- Why men with low self-esteem have a harder time finding lasting relationships
- How fear causes needy behavior
- Why most men never overcome neediness
...and so much more.
Related Links:
Where Do You Get Your Validation?
Avoid These Dating Deal Breakers
Better Dating Through Mind Control
Don’t forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher and on YouTube.
Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove
Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.doctornerdlove.com/books
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