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The Perils of Pleasing

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Wisdom nuggets to keep your ears open for:

  • Why it's easier to people please
  • The difference between ‘niceness’ and ‘kindness’
  • How it can feel like it’s easier to be pleasing vs living as our most authentic self
  • Why it's often a case of ‘alignment’…or rather ‘misalignment’
  • The importance of having a lot of compassion for self
  • What we are afraid of that leads us to the people-pleasing in the first place
  • How biology wires for pleasing
  • The things in our current day world that make us more susceptible to pleasing
  • How social media plays a role
  • What we need to be aware of to avoid unhealthy amounts of pleasing
  • What skills help us overcome it
  • The learning we need in order to move past pleasing and into healthier interactions
  • Who we have to be in order to not people please
  • The startling truth that others don’t really like it when we people please
  • Learning not to ‘over’-explain. How to make it clean and clear
  • Understanding It’s not about being nice….(hint: we tell you what it IS about)
  • What it means to be an authentic human being…(spoiler alert: it's not pleasing)
  • The superpower we already possess that is kryptonite to pleasing

CONNECT WITH CARLA

Carla is a mindset & performance coach working with high-achieving, high-performance entrepreneurs who are dealing quietly with too much stress.

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Jennifer is an intuitive business strategist working with spiritually-minded business owners to help them create a scalable business that acts as a container for their soul's purpose.

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Archived series ("Inactive feed" status)

When? This feed was archived on August 05, 2024 13:14 (12d ago). Last successful fetch was on February 26, 2024 19:21 (6M ago)

Why? Inactive feed status. Our servers were unable to retrieve a valid podcast feed for a sustained period.

What now? You might be able to find a more up-to-date version using the search function. This series will no longer be checked for updates. If you believe this to be in error, please check if the publisher's feed link below is valid and contact support to request the feed be restored or if you have any other concerns about this.

Manage episode 317283249 series 2786602
Content provided by Carla Royal, Jennifer Flynn, and Juliet Fay. All podcast content including episodes, graphics, and podcast descriptions are uploaded and provided directly by Carla Royal, Jennifer Flynn, and Juliet Fay or their podcast platform partner. If you believe someone is using your copyrighted work without your permission, you can follow the process outlined here https://player.fm/legal.

Wisdom nuggets to keep your ears open for:

  • Why it's easier to people please
  • The difference between ‘niceness’ and ‘kindness’
  • How it can feel like it’s easier to be pleasing vs living as our most authentic self
  • Why it's often a case of ‘alignment’…or rather ‘misalignment’
  • The importance of having a lot of compassion for self
  • What we are afraid of that leads us to the people-pleasing in the first place
  • How biology wires for pleasing
  • The things in our current day world that make us more susceptible to pleasing
  • How social media plays a role
  • What we need to be aware of to avoid unhealthy amounts of pleasing
  • What skills help us overcome it
  • The learning we need in order to move past pleasing and into healthier interactions
  • Who we have to be in order to not people please
  • The startling truth that others don’t really like it when we people please
  • Learning not to ‘over’-explain. How to make it clean and clear
  • Understanding It’s not about being nice….(hint: we tell you what it IS about)
  • What it means to be an authentic human being…(spoiler alert: it's not pleasing)
  • The superpower we already possess that is kryptonite to pleasing

CONNECT WITH CARLA

Carla is a mindset & performance coach working with high-achieving, high-performance entrepreneurs who are dealing quietly with too much stress.

Website - CarlaRoyal.com

Facebook - Carla Royal Coach

Linkedin - Carla Royal

Instagram - CarlaRoyalCoach

Sign up to receive Carla's weekly newsletter for inspiration, motivation, and tips for living with more ease and flow - Subscribe

CONNECT WITH JENNIFER

Jennifer is an intuitive business strategist working with spiritually-minded business owners to help them create a scalable business that acts as a container for their soul's purpose.

Stop by and get a bit of inspiration and guidance with our online oracle deck- Subscribe

Website – TheBalanceMaven.com

Instagram- TheBalanceMaven

Facebook - TheBalanceMaven

CONNECT WITH US!

If you love The Riffing on Realness Podcast, rate the podcast and/or write us a review!

You can do that HERE ! Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE so you don’t miss out on new episodes dropping every week. And don’t forget to share it with your friends!

Thank you for listening and being a part of this community! It means a lot to us!

Finally, are there topics you'd like us to cover? Please let us know.

  continue reading

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