Do Social Stories Really Work? School For School Counselors podcast

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Why do some school counselors get a seat at the table while others get sidelined, no matter how qualified they are? In this episode, we’re breaking down what actually builds trust with school leaders and how to develop the on-the-fly fluency and presence that turn you into the go-to, not the afterthought. ----- Being good at your job isn’t always enough. You can have the training, the data, and a deep commitment to students... and still get left out of the decision-making process on your campus. Why? Because influence in schools isn’t about credentials. It’s about trust. In this episode, we’re talking about what actually earns school counselors a seat at the table, and why the real key isn’t advocacy, a perfect program, or another use-of-time chart. You’ll learn: Why some school counselors get access and others don’t The five relational traits that build real trust with administrators How to develop on-the-fly fluency that earns instant credibility When it’s time to stop chasing influence and pivot strategically And how to start showing up like a trusted advisor, even without the title If you’ve ever been passed over, second-guessed, or told to “just follow the model,” this episode is your blueprint for stepping into leadership the right way, without burning out or selling out. Because trusted advisors aren’t appointed. They’re revealed- one moment at a time. Need a downloadable recap of this episode? Say no more! Go here to get a free copy. ********************************* ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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5 School Counseling Mistakes That’ll Bite You in August 25:32

9 days ago25:32

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What you forget in May will come back to bite you in August. In this episode, we cover 5 school counseling mistakes that cause chaos when the year starts- and how to avoid them while you still can. You’re running on fumes. May is chaos. And the last thing you want is another “end-of-year checklist.” But here’s the truth: what you forget now will turn into a full-on mess in August. We’re walking through 5 school counseling mistakes that seem small in May but turn into massive headaches when the new year hits. These aren’t the obvious ones, either. We’re talking about the subtle slip-ups that leave you scrambling, frustrated, or starting from scratch… again. You’ll learn: What to jot down now that’ll save your sanity in the fall Why “data reflection” doesn’t have to mean hours of spreadsheets How to close out the year with intention (even if you’re over it) The one thing you’re probably skipping that sets the tone for August A smarter, simpler way to stay sharp over the summer (without burning out) If you’re a school counselor trying to finish strong without falling apart , this episode is for you. Mentioned in this Episode: School for School Counselors Mastermind List of Closure Activities for Students ********************************* ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Should I Quit My School Counseling Job? 30:11

15 days ago30:11

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You’ve been holding it in all year. The long hours, the invisible work, the constant pressure to stay calm while everything around you feels like it’s unraveling... And now that the school year’s winding down, one question keeps echoing louder than the rest: “Can I really do this again next year?” In this deeply personal episode, I’m not here to hand you a checklist or tell you what to do. I’m here as a fellow counselor, walking through the same hard questions- right alongside you. We’ll talk about: The quiet signs it might be time to move on (even if nothing “dramatic” has happened) What staying with intention actually looks like Why redesigning your role could work- and when it absolutely won’t A gut-check framework that helps you make the call without spiraling And what to do if you feel like you don’t even have a choice right now If you’ve ever felt like the only one who’s wondering whether it’s time to go, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone- and you don't have to feel stuck. ********************************** ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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When You Love School Counseling But Hate How It Feels 30:11

23 days ago30:11

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You love school counseling. You believe in the mission. But right now, it just isn't feeling right. If you’ve been wondering whether you’re burned out, questioning if you can make it through another year, or feeling disconnected from the work you once loved... this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about: Why April and May hit school counselors especially hard The difference between burnout and professional fatigue Five evidence-based strategies to protect your energy, motivation, and heart Why now is not the time to make big career decisions Forget about self-care clichés. We need to talk about real tools to help you finish strong- and remind you why you started in the first place. Whether you're tired, frustrated, or just not feeling like yourself at work... You're not alone. And you're not broken. Let’s talk about how to keep showing up without burning out. ********************************** ⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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The Three Types of School Counselors: Which One Are You? 25:57

4 weeks ago25:57

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⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Ever meet another school counselor and realize halfway through the conversation… you’re not doing the same job at all? It’s not your imagination! Right now, the title "school counselor" covers very different realities- and depending on which kind you’re seen as, your future in this profession could look very different, too. In this episode, we’re uncovering what’s really happening inside our profession: The three types of school counselors showing up on campuses today- and the hidden risks each one faces The national shifts happening right now (from chaplains replacing counselors to SEL being banned in some states) Why your professional identity matters more than ever, and what happens if you don't define it for yourself How to start building skills that make you harder to replace, even when the system keeps changing Because good intentions won’t protect your job. Being the go-to for assemblies, spirit weeks, or “positive messaging” campaigns won’t protect your role either. Only real skill, clarity, and strategic leadership will. If you're ready to stop hoping the system fixes itself- and start protecting the work that actually matters- this episode is for you. Sources Consulted: Selected legislative bills related to school counseling, accessed via LegiScan (including AL HB 583, TX SB 559 and HB 1122, PA HB 249, IN SB 523, MS HB 286, HB 566, HB 371, HB 1533, WV HB 3507, and NV AB 298), April 2025 American School Counselor Association (ASCA) website, accessed April 2025 Alabama School Counselor Association (ALSCA) website, accessed April 2025 ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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When Behavior Intervention Just Feels... Wrong 28:57

5 weeks ago28:57

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⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** Behavior charts. Consequence ladders. ABC data. They’re everywhere- and school counselors are often expected to be in the middle of it. But what happens when the behaviorist framework you're handed feels completely misaligned with your counseling instincts? What if you’re tired of being the “behavior person” when all you want is to help kids feel safe and understood? In this episode, I'm naming the tension between behaviorism and trauma-informed care, and why school counselors are so often stuck in the middle. We’ll explore how to hold both structure and compassion… and how to begin stepping back into the role that actually reflects your training. If you’ve ever felt caught between compliance and connection, this one’s for you. [00:00] Why behavior plans feel off for counselors [03:00] Behaviorism basics (and why it still dominates) [06:45] Trauma-informed care: the “can’t,” not “won’t” lens [10:00] Can you hold structure and compassion? [14:00] Real-life examples: escape and attention-seeking [16:30] The problem isn’t just strategy—it’s your role [17:30] Three frameworks that actually work [20:00] How to stop being “the behavior person” [24:00] Four ways to shift the narrative [27:00] Final encouragement + your next step References Barth, R. P., Lee, B. R., Lindsey, M. A., Collins, K. S., Strieder, F. H., Chorpita, B. F., Becker, K. D., & Snowden, L. R. (2004). Evidence-based practice in mental health services for youth. The Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, 31 (2), 213–233. https://doi.org/10.1007/BF02287377 Berger, E., Green, S., & Dalton, L. (2019). Educator perceptions of trauma-informed care in schools: A qualitative study. School Mental Health, 11 (3), 483–496. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12310-019-09323-z Blaustein, M., & Kinniburgh, K. (2010). Treating traumatic stress in children and adolescents: How to foster resilience through attachment, self-regulation, and competency . Guilford Press. Greene, R. W., Ablon, J. S., & Goring, J. C. (2003). A transactional model of oppositional behavior: Underpinnings of the Collaborative Problem Solving approach. Journal of Psychosocial Nursing and Mental Health Services, 41 (11), 20–25. https://doi.org/10.3928/0279-3695-20031101-08 Overstreet, S., & Chafouleas, S. M. (2016). Trauma-informed schools: Introduction to the special issue. School Mental Health, 8 (1), 1–6. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12310-016-9184-1 Perry, B. D. (2006). Fear and learning: Trauma-related factors in the adult education process. In S. Johnson & K. Taylor (Eds.), The Neuroscience of Learning and Development (pp. 123–142). Jossey-Bass. Perry, B. D., & Szalavitz, M. (2017). The boy who was raised as a dog: And other stories from a child psychiatrist’s notebook (3rd ed.). Basic Books. The National Child Traumatic Stress Network. (n.d.). Trauma-Informed School Strategies During COVID-19 . https://www.nctsn.org/resources/trauma-informed-school-strategies-during-covid-19 ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling.…

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Behavior Plans, Explained 24:44

6 weeks ago24:44

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⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** You’ve been looped into a student’s behavior. The teacher wants it fixed. Admin wants a behavior plan. And now everyone’s looking at you. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I don’t even know where to start,” this episode is for you. We’re walking through the full behavior intervention process, from collecting ABC data to building a real Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP), so you know exactly what’s involved, what your role should be, and how to stop being the person everyone hands it off to. You’ll learn: What actually makes a behavior plan effective Where school counselors fit into the process (and where we don’t) How to avoid the “throw spaghetti at the wall” method of intervention Why consistency- not quick fixes- is what really moves the needle This episode won’t give you a one-size-fits-all template. But it will help you understand the full picture, speak the language of your behavior teams, and start showing up like the professional you already are. Resources: American School Counselor Association. (2022). ASCA ethical standards for school counselors . https://schoolcounselor.org/ethics Chandler, L. K., & Dahlquist, C. M. (2015). Functional assessment: Strategies to prevent and remediate challenging behavior in school settings (4th ed.). Pearson. Shahan, T. A. (2022). A theory of the extinction burst. Perspectives on Behavior Science, 45 (3), 495–519. https://doi.org/10.1007/s40614-021-00297-z U.S. Department of Education, Institute of Education Sciences, National Center for Education Evaluation and Regional Assistance. (n.d.). What Works Clearinghouse . https://ies.ed.gov/ncee/wwc/ ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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What Schools Get Wrong About ADHD 20:37

7 weeks ago20:37

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⭐️ Want support with real-world strategies that actually work on your campus? We’re doing that every day in the School for School Counselors Mastermind . Come join us! ⭐️ ********************************** We’ve got to stop calling it "defiance" when it’s actually dysregulation . In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on what ADHD really is- and why the strategies we often use in schools aren’t cutting it. You’ll learn: Why ADHD isn’t a behavior problem (and what it actually is) The critical difference between knowing and doing Why worksheets, clip charts, and “just try harder” don’t work What school counselors can do instead to actually help If you’ve ever had a student who “knows the rules” but can’t seem to follow them, this one’s for you. And if you’re tired of seeing kids punished for things they haven’t learned how to manage yet? You’re in the right place... Let's go! Resources: American Psychiatric Association. (2013). Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders (5th ed.). Arlington, VA: American Psychiatric Publishing. Barkley, R. A. (1997). ADHD and the nature of self-control . New York, NY: Guilford Press. Barkley, R. A. (2011). Executive functions: What they are, how they work, and why they evolved . New York, NY: Guilford Press. Brown, T. E. (2013). A new understanding of ADHD in children and adults: Executive function impairments . Routledge. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (2022). Data and statistics about ADHD . https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/data.html Quinn, P. O., & Madhoo, M. (2014). A review of attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder in women and girls: uncovering this hidden diagnosis. The primary care companion for CNS disorders , 16 (3), 27250. Shaw, P., Eckstrand, K., Sharp, W., Blumenthal, J., Lerch, J. P., Greenstein, D. E. E. A., ... & Rapoport, J. L. (2007). Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder is characterized by a delay in cortical maturation. Proceedings of the national academy of sciences , 104 (49), 19649-19654. ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Beyond the Behavior Bouncer 14:21

8 weeks ago14:21

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** In the previous episode, we talked about what happens when a behavior referral isn’t really about the student- and how counselors can shift out of the “removal service” role and into real consultation. But what if that doesn’t feel realistic? This bonus episode tackles the pushback: What if your admin expects you to remove students, no questions asked? What if your teachers are too burned out to reflect? What if you barely have time to breathe, let alone consult? We’re walking through the most common objections counselors have and how to shift your role anyway, one step at a time. If last week’s episode made you think, “That sounds great, but it won't work on my campus,” this one’s for you. ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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The Behavior Problem School Counselors Aren't Supposed to Talk About 24:57

8 weeks ago24:57

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** You get the call: “Can you come get this student?” But when you walk in, it’s clear- this isn’t really about the kid. It’s about stress. Dysregulation. Maybe even burnout. For the adult . And if school counselors keep stepping in without asking bigger questions, we’re not solving the problem… we’re just keeping the cycle going. In this episode, we’re talking about: How to tell when a referral isn’t about student behavior The Five-Minute Behavior Consult you can use with teachers today How to support staff without becoming the fixer Why this shift protects your energy- and your job If behavior support is starting to feel like your full-time job, this episode is for you. 00:00 Introduction: The Daily Struggles of School Counselors 02:10 Understanding Adult Dysregulation in Schools 07:17 Identifying Signs of Adult-Induced Student Behavior Issues 11:30 The Five Minute Behavior Consult: A Solution-Focused Approach 17:35 Implementing Change Despite Administrative Challenges 21:00 The Role of School Counselors in Shaping School Culture 24:40 Elevating the Role of School Counselors References: Gallup. (2022, June 1). K-12 workers have highest burnout rate in U.S. Gallup News. https://news.gallup.com/poll/393500/workers-highest-burnout-rate.aspx Schwartz, S. (2022, June 15). Stress, burnout, depression: Teachers and principals are not OK right now, new data confirm. Education Week. https://www.edweek.org/teaching-learning/stress-burnout-depression-teachers-and-principals-are-not-doing-well-new-data-confirm/2022/06 Steiner, E. D., & Woo, A. (2021). Job-related stress threatens the teacher supply: Key findings from the 2021 State of the U.S. Teacher Survey (RR-A1108-1). RAND Corporation. https://www.rand.org/pubs/research_reports/RRA1108-1.html ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Do Social Stories Really Work? 25:46

9 weeks ago25:46

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be . ⭐️ ********************************** You’ve been asked to read a Social Story to a student—again. And if you're being honest… you’re not sure it’s actually doing anything. In this episode, we’re taking a closer look at the research behind Social Stories: Where they came from and what they were actually designed to do What the peer-reviewed literature says about their effectiveness (and what it doesn’t) How they can support emotional regulation... if you use them the right way The time frame for change (hint: it’s slower than you think) What to say when someone insists you “just need a social story” Plus, you’ll get practical guidance on when and how to use Social Stories, and a free downloadable cheat sheet to help you back up your decisions with confidence. If you’ve ever wondered, “Is it me… or is it the tool?” —this episode is for you. Bonus: Grab the printable Social Stories resource pdf here 00:00 The Social Story Dilemma 01:49 Origins and Purpose of Social Stories 03:08 Research Findings on Social Stories 09:02 Emotional Regulation and Social Stories 11:44 Practical Advice for School Counselors 21:20 Conclusion and Resources ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Bullying or Just Drama? The School Counselor’s Guide to Getting It Right 23:27

10 weeks ago23:27

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➡️ JOIN THE WAITLIST FOR THE BEHAVIOR BREAKTHROUGH KIT! Every school counselor has been there—stuck in a conversation where the word "bullying" is thrown around, but something feels off. A parent demands action because their child was left out of a game at recess. A teacher sends a referral for a “bullying” case that turns out to be a one-time disagreement. Meanwhile, students facing real, targeted harassment often go unnoticed in the noise. So, how do you cut through the confusion and handle these situations the right way ? Here’s what I'm talking about in this episode: - The 3 key markers of real bullying (and why missing even one changes everything) - The biggest mistakes schools make when defining bullying—and how to fix them - How to explain bullying vs. drama to parents, teachers, and admin (without the pushback) - What to do when students over-report (or under-report) bullying - The exact words to use when a parent insists, “This IS bullying!” If you’re tired of mediating every social conflict and want a clear strategy for handling true bullying cases, this episode is for you. 00:00 Introduction: The Bullying Dilemma 01:23 Understanding the Difference: Bullying vs. Drama 05:15 Key Indicators of Bullying 06:54 Handling Peer Drama 08:57 Communicating with Parents and Administrators 12:48 Effective Responses to Bullying and Peer Conflict 19:27 Resources ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Relational Aggression and Bullying 21:41

11 weeks ago21:41

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"It's just middle school drama." "Ignore them, and it'll stop." "You're gonna have to toughen up." Sound familiar? These are the kinds of dismissive responses students often hear when they report bullying or relational aggression—and they’re not helping. In fact, with 1 in 5 students reporting being bullied and 41% of those fearing it will happen again , we’ve got serious work to do. In this episode, we’re diving deep into relational aggression and cyberbullying , breaking down what makes these behaviors so damaging, why they often go unnoticed, and—most importantly—how school counselors can step in effectively. You’ll learn: ✅ The subtle ways relational aggression shows up in schools (and how to spot it) ✅ How cyberbullying is evolving and why it’s getting harder to combat ✅ Practical, real-world strategies for supporting students and stopping these behaviors before they escalate Plus, I’m giving you a sneak peek at my upcoming Behavior Breakthrough Kit —a game-changing resource packed with evidence-based strategies, a behavior intervention flowchart, and more tools to help you handle tough behavior challenges with confidence. [ Go here to join the waitlist] If handling concerns around relational aggression, cyberbullying, and behavior intervention are keeping you up at night, this episode is for you. 00:00 Introduction 00:26 The Reality of Bullying Statistics 01:37 Understanding Relational Aggression 04:14 The Rise of Cyberbullying 05:43 Emotional and Academic Impact 06:58 Intervention Strategies 07:58 Creating Safe Reporting Spaces 09:32 Collaborating with Teachers 10:33 Supporting Targeted Students 15:33 Behavior Breakthrough Kit 19:51 Conclusion ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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How to Handle Student Behavior Like a Pro 23:25

12 weeks ago23:25

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You know that moment—the banshee scream echoes down the hall, and suddenly, all eyes are on you. The walkies go off, teachers are calling your name, and once again, you’re expected to drop everything and handle the latest behavior meltdown. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. This time of year, behavior issues ramp up, and school counselors often find themselves at the center of the storm. But honestly, most of the advice out there on behavior intervention is not designed for you. You’re not a teacher managing a classroom. You’re not an administrator making discipline decisions. So what should your role be? In this episode, we’re looking at: ✔ Why traditional behavior strategies don’t always work for school counselors ✔ The three biggest obstacles standing in your way ✔ Real, practical de-escalation techniques that actually work in the moment ✔ How to handle the pressure, the judgment, and the constant disruptions And if you’re exhausted from being called to behavior crises over and over again, we’ve got support for you. 💡 The Behavior Breakthrough Kit is coming soon—practical, ready-to-use tools to help you navigate behavior intervention with confidence. [Click here to join the waitlist.] 💡 Want real-time troubleshooting and expert support? Join us inside the School for School Counselors Mastermind. Get weekly case consultations and practical strategies you won’t find anywhere else. [Click here to learn more] Behavior intervention doesn’t have to drain you. Let’s talk about what actually works. 00:00 The Banshee Scream: A School Counselor's First Experience 01:25 Welcome to the School for School Counselors Podcast 02:09 The Reality of Behavior Intervention in Schools 03:32 Real Talk: Effective Behavior Intervention Strategies 04:10 The Authoritative Counselor Approach 05:30 Challenges in Behavior Intervention 10:43 Practical Techniques for De-escalation 20:00 Support and Resources for School Counselors 22:41 Conclusion: Navigating Behavior Intervention Together ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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The Fat-Free Fix That’s Failing School Counselors 22:25

13 weeks ago22:25

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As busy school counselors, we often find ourselves reaching for quick-fix solutions to help our students. But are these convenient resources truly serving our students' needs? In this episode, I challenge the effectiveness of "print and pray" materials that have become way too common in our field. Thinking back to the misguided "fat-free" diet craze of the 90s, I explore how mass-produced school counseling worksheets and activities might be doing more harm than good. Because while they promise quick results and seem helpful on the surface, they often lack the substance needed for meaningful change. 00:00 Introduction: 90s Diet Culture 02:21 The Problem with "Print and Pray" Resources 04:33 Effective Counseling Strategies 06:50 Behaviorism and Counseling 08:15 Trauma-Informed Care in Counseling 09:48 Solution-Focused Brief Therapy 12:39 Practical Tips for School Counselors 20:11 Conclusion ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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How to Make Your School Feel Less Toxic (No Admin Approval Needed) 18:11

15 weeks ago18:11

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Can small acts of kindness truly transform a school environment? Or is that just wishful thinking? As we dive into Random Acts of Kindness Week , I’m sharing my firsthand experiences as a school counselor navigating workplace challenges—and how I discovered that the simplest gestures can have the biggest impact on school culture. Imagine a school where stress doesn’t rule the day, burnout isn’t lurking around every corner, and job satisfaction actually exists —all because kindness became a deliberate daily habit. In this episode, we’ll break down the science behind kindness - how it can actually reduce stress, boost resilience, and create ripple effects across an entire campus - for adults AND students. If you’re looking for a practical, zero-cost strategy to not only shift your school’s atmosphere but also protect your own mental health, this episode is for you. Grab daily Kindness Week challenges here. ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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School Counselors Deserve Better! The Advocacy Problem No One Admits 26:59

16 weeks ago26:59

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* Happy National School Counseling Week! Or maybe not? There’s a growing divide in how school counselors feel about this week—some dive in with enthusiasm, while others don't want to be bothered. And honestly, after what I’ve been seeing lately, I get it. In this episode, I talk through the uncomfortable truths about school counseling advocacy : what’s missing, why it matters, and how we’ve been misled about who’s actually fighting for us. (Spoiler: If you think your national organization has your back, you might want to think again.) I also break down concerning new legislation across the country, exposing the lack of organized advocacy in our profession, and sharing why our current efforts just aren’t cutting it. But here’s the thing— we’re not powerless. There’s a better way to advocate, and it starts with YOU. If you’re tired of the same old conferences and feel-good slogans while school counseling falls apart behind the scenes, this episode is for you. 00:00 Mixed Reactions to National School Counseling Week 01:23 Facebook Group Insights 02:49 Legislative Concerns and ASCA's Role 04:30 Critique of ASCA and Advocacy Issues 14:30 State Organizations and Legislative Challenges 21:46 Call to Action and Positive Notes 22:32 Listener Submissions: Why We Love School Counseling ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Mastering Caseloads in School Counseling 27:20

17 weeks ago27:20

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* *Leave a voicemail here for a chance to be featured in an upcoming podcast episode!* In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson discusses managing school counseling caseloads efficiently. Using an iconic conveyer belt tv scene as an analogy, she highlights the overwhelmed feeling counselors often experience and the need to triage student needs effectively. Johnson shares her method for tracking her student interactions, stressing the importance of developing sustainable habits. She references James Clear's "Atomic Habits" to emphasize the significance of cues, cravings, responses, and rewards in creating lasting habits. Additionally, she touches on upcoming events like the listener feature opportunity and the upcoming 'Your Super Power Driven Program' masterclass on February 9th. Join her in improving your counseling practice and ensuring no student falls through the cracks. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 01:03 The Candy Factory Analogy 02:54 Challenges of Managing Caseloads 04:16 Strategies for Tracking Caseloads 14:05 Developing Effective Habits 22:22 Upcoming Events and Opportunities ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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A Realistic Approach to National School Counseling Week 30:31

18 weeks ago30:31

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode, Steph Johnson, a full-time school counselor, talks through National School Counseling Week, sharing her thoughts on its purpose and the many mixed emotions it stirs among school counselors. Steph addresses various reactions from excitement to frustration and offers simple strategies for observing the week on campus. She highlights the importance of effective advocacy, explains why internal support and relationship-building are crucial, and emphasizes the value of recognizing and validating counselors' efforts. Additionally, Steph provides insights into the School for School Counselors Mastermind and encourages listeners to share their voices for an upcoming podcast episode. 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of National School Counseling Week 03:55 Different Reactions to National School Counseling Week 08:03 Challenges in Advocacy and Support 11:57 Effective Advocacy From the Inside Out 22:18 Low-Stress Ways to Observe National School Counseling Week ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Stop Using AI Like This: What Every Counselor Should Know 31:35

19 weeks ago31:35

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode, Steph Johnson continues exploring how artificial intelligence is influencing school counseling. She unpacks the risks of depending too much on AI-generated tools and stresses the need for strong professional judgment to evaluate the quality and relevance of resources. Steph also dives into the ethical challenges posed by AI- including protecting student privacy- and underscores the irreplaceable value of authentic, human connection in counseling. This conversation is a call to action for school counselors to reflect on their practices, rekindle their passion for their craft, and deepen their impact on students. Episode Highlights: 00:00 Feeling Undervalued on Campus 00:25 Recap of AI in School Counseling (Previous Episode) 01:10 Professional Fluency: The Key to Credibility 04:23 Perceptions of School Counseling Work 07:05 The SEL Lesson Debate 13:00 Risks of AI-Generated Resources 24:28 Ethical Concerns: AI and Student Privacy 30:06 A Call to Reignite Your Passion ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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A.I. and School Counseling 22:23

20 weeks ago22:23

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson addresses the growing trend of integrating artificial intelligence (AI) in school counseling. Steph shares her concerns about the premature adoption of AI tools and their potential to undermine the core values and techniques of effective counseling. She emphasizes the importance of human connection, evidence-based techniques, and professional fluency over quick AI-generated solutions. This episode delves into the ethical implications, the dangers of AI biases, and the need for critical thinking before relying on AI-generated resources, encouraging school counselors to remain cautious and informed as they navigate this evolving technology. 00:00 Introduction to AI in School Counseling 01:31 The AI Hype and School Counseling 02:59 Concerns About AI in Counseling 04:51 Ethical Considerations and Professional Fluency 07:44 Personal Use and Limitations of AI 15:45 AI's Hallucinations and Biases 20:10 Next Steps ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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What I'm Using Most in My School Counseling Office These Days 22:08

21 weeks ago22:08

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* This episode surveys some of the things I'm using most in my school counseling office right now to promote connection, self-awareness, and emotional well-being. 00:00 Welcome Back! 00:29 Holiday Reflections and New Year Goals 02:49 Preparing for the Spring Semester 05:15 Favorite Counseling Office Supplies 17:56 Join the Free Community 19:10 Final Encouragement Resources: Greatness Cards Conscious Discipline Feelings Buddies All Other Materials (in my Amazon Storefront) ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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One Big Reason Behavior Charts Fail (And What You Can Do Instead) 32:18

23 weeks ago32:18

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today to become the school counselor you were meant to be .* Have you ever worked with a student labeled as “ODD” and felt like nothing you tried was working? In this episode, I’m revisiting one of our most talked-about topics: oppositional defiant behaviors in schools. But instead of focusing on the label, we’re reframing the conversation to explore what’s really happening beneath the surface. I’ll walk you through why traditional strategies like behavior charts often fail these students, and more importantly, how you can build stronger connections and create real change. This episode is packed with practical strategies, fresh perspectives, and a little dose of encouragement to keep going. Let’s rethink how we approach oppositional behaviors—and discover better ways to help our students thrive! 00:00 Welcome and Holiday Hustle 03:45 Introduction to Oppositional Defiant Disorder 08:55 Understanding and Addressing ODD 18:29 Building Relationships and Support 28:02 Final Thoughts and Encouragement ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Prep NOW for a Stress-Less Spring Semester 20:08

24 weeks ago20:08

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* Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind today for the techniques, support, and confidence you need to handle whatever this semester throws your way.* In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson addresses the common issue of school counselors feeling unprepared, whether broadly from grad school or specifically day-to-day. She offers actionable tips to prepare for the new semester, emphasizing the importance of decluttering both physical and digital spaces, setting up efficient systems, and planning for self-care. Steph also highlights the significance of tracking program data and creating templates for repetitive tasks to save time. Finally, she encourages a simple return plan and shares the benefits of the School for School Counselors Mastermind community. 00:00 Introduction: The Challenge of Feeling Unprepared 01:02 Welcome to the School for School Counselors Podcast 01:44 Preparing for the New Semester: Decluttering 05:43 Digital Organization: Reducing Cognitive Load 06:54 Setting Up Systems for Success 12:02 Self-Care Plans for the Spring Semester 14:40 Creating a Simple Return Plan 17:46 Final Thoughts and Encouragement ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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A Super-Simple Challenge to COMPLETELY Change Your Year 14:33

25 weeks ago14:33

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind to finally feel supported in your career In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson addresses the end-of-semester doubts many counselors feel about their impact. She emphasizes that the true value of school counseling lies in small, often unnoticed moments that ripple through students' lives. Steph shares personal experiences, the science of gratitude, and introduces 'gratitude expansion' to help counselors find deeper meaning and resilience in their work. This insightful discussion is meant to empower and validate counselors, especially during stressful times of the academic year. 00:00 Facing the End of the Semester 01:10 The Power of Small Moments 02:40 Listener Review and Community Support 04:03 A Story of Impact and Reflection 06:10 The Science and Practice of Gratitude 10:43 Implementing Gratitude in Your Daily Routine 12:54 Encouragement and Conclusion References/For Further Reading: Algoe, S. B. (2012). Find, remind, and bind: The functions of gratitude in everyday relationships. Social and Personality Psychology Compass, 6 (6), 455-469. https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1751-9004.2012.00439.x Amabile, T. M., & Kramer, S. J. (2011). The progress principle: Using small wins to ignite joy, engagement, and creativity at work. Boston, MA: Harvard Business Review Press. https://hbr.org/2011/05/the-power-of-small-wins Baumeister, R. F., Bratslavsky, E., Finkenauer, C., & Vohs, K. D. (2001). Bad is stronger than good. Review of General Psychology, 5 (4), 323-370. https://doi.org/10.1037/1089-2680.5.4.323 Emmons, R. A., & McCullough, M. E. (2003). Counting blessings versus burdens: An experimental investigation of gratitude and subjective well-being in daily life. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 84 (2), 377-389. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022-3514.84.2.377 ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Four-Tenths of One Percent Means You're NOT Failing 30:24

26 weeks ago30:24

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind to finally feel supported in your career In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson discusses the unrealistic expectations set by comprehensive school counseling programs and offers practical advice on how to find peace and redefine success in the field. By focusing on what is within their control, embracing small victories, and finding joy in their daily tasks, school counselors can better manage the pressures of their role. 00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of School Counselors 00:34 Welcome Back: Revisiting a Popular Episode 00:52 The Holiday Pressure and Unrealistic Expectations 04:49 Making Peace with a Non-Comprehensive Program 09:15 The Circle of Control: Focusing on What You Can Change 13:05 The Reality of Comprehensive Programs 19:06 RAMP Status: Putting Things in Perspective 27:16 Final Thoughts ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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When Less is More in Your School Counseling Program 32:27

27 weeks ago32:27

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⭐️ Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind to build a "stress-less" career In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson addresses an issue many school counselors face: the overwhelming number of "urgent" student requests. She argues that constantly "saving the day" might actually hurt student development and introduces a framework for triaging student concerns. Drawing on research by Ryan and Deci on self-determination theory, she emphasizes the importance of fostering student autonomy for psychological well-being. Steph outlines key questions counselors can use to decide when to intervene or step back, aiming to balance immediate support needs with opportunities for student growth. The episode also touches on strategies for explaining this approach to school staff, keeping professional fluency, and joining the School for School Counselors Mastermind group to discuss and refine these practices. 00:00 Introduction: The Overwhelmed School Counselor 00:49 Welcome to the Podcast 01:48 The Problem with Being a Superhero Counselor 07:13 The Importance of Student Autonomy 13:03 A Framework for Triage in School Counseling 20:15 Implementing Autonomy Supportive Strategies 28:45 Building Professional Fluency 30:37 Conclusion and Resources Link to Decision-Making Question List ********************************** Resources: Eagle, J. W., Dowd-Eagle, S. E., Snyder, A., & Holtzman, E. G. (2015). Implementing a multi-tiered system of support (MTSS): Collaboration between school psychologists and administrators to promote systems-level change. Journal of Educational and Psychological Consultation, 25(2-3), 160-177. Epstein, J. L. (2018). School, family, and community partnerships: Preparing educators and improving schools (2nd ed.). Routledge. Friend, M., & Cook, L. (2017). Interactions: Collaboration skills for school professionals (8th ed.). Pearson. Reeve, J. (2009). Why teachers adopt a controlling motivating style toward students and how they can become more autonomy supportive. Educational Psychologist, 44(3), 159-175. Ryan, R. M., & Deci, E. L. (2017). Self-determination theory: Basic psychological needs in motivation, development, and wellness. Guilford Press. Su, Y. L., & Reeve, J. (2011). A meta-analysis of the effectiveness of intervention programs designed to support autonomy. Educational Psychology Review, 23(1), 159-188. ********************************** Our goal at School for School Counselors is to help school counselors stay on fire, make huge impacts for students, and catalyze change for our roles through grassroots advocacy and collaboration. Listen to get to know more about us and our mission, feel empowered and inspired, and set yourself up for success in the wonderful world of school counseling. Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you! Did someone share this podcast with you? Be sure to subscribe for all the new episodes!!…

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Are You Chasing the Right School Counseling Goals? 22:33

28 weeks ago22:33

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In this episode of the 'School for School Counselors' podcast, host Steph Johnson discusses a major misstep she nearly made by trying to follow someone else's advice rather than staying true to her authentic style. She explores the unrealistic expectations placed on school counselors, scrutinizing the ideal ASCA model and encouraging listeners to focus on meaningful change rather than unattainable perfection. Steph highlights the significance of becoming an expert in areas that create real impact instead of adhering to scripted tasks, and urges school counselors to pursue authenticity and connection in their professional roles. 00:00 Introduction: A Near Miss and a Lesson Learned 00:47 Welcome to the School for School Counselors Podcast 01:59 The Misstep: Following Someone Else's Plan 03:06 The Importance of Authenticity 06:45 Rethinking School Counseling Goals 07:20 The Reality of School Counseling Standards 14:59 Becoming an Expert and Making a Difference 19:15 Conclusion: Embracing Change and Staying Motivated ******* GET YOUR FREE HOLIDAY OUTREACH PLANNING GUIDE HERE GET YOUR FREE ROLE-PLAY TECHNIQUE GUIDE HERE ******* Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!…

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How Can We Truly Support Gifted & 2E Students? 20:49

29 weeks ago20:49

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In this episode of the School for School Counselors podcast, host Steph Johnson talks through the unique challenges faced by gifted and twice exceptional students. Despite their abilities, these students often struggle with perfectionism, social isolation, and managing dual needs. Steph discusses practical strategies for school counselors to support these students. She also introduces the new "Technique of the Week" segment as well as insights into the goings-on in her own school counseling program. 00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Gifted Students 01:34 Understanding Gifted and Twice Exceptional Students 05:14 Diving Deeper into Gifted Students' Challenges 07:44 Strategies for Supporting Gifted Students 13:59 Technique of the Week GET THE FREE OUTREACH PLANNING GUIDE HERE GET THE FREE ROLE-PLAY TECHNIQUE GUIDE HERE References/Resources: Assouline, S. G., & Whiteman, C. S. (2011). Twice-exceptional learners: Psychological and educational perspectives. Psychology in the Schools, 48(3), 205-214. Baum, S. M., & Owen, S. V. (2004). To be gifted and learning disabled: Strength-based strategies for helping twice-exceptional students achieve success in school and life. Prufrock Press. Foley Nicpon, M., Allmon, A., Sieck, B., & Stinson, R. D. (2011). Empirical investigation of twice-exceptionality: Where have we been and where are we going? Gifted Child Quarterly, 55(1), 3-17. Reis, S. M., Baum, S. M., & Burke, E. (2014). An operational definition of twice-exceptional learners. Gifted Child Quarterly, 58(3), 217-230. ******* Hang out in our Facebook group Jump in, ask questions, share your ideas and become a part of the most empowering school counseling group on the planet! (Join us to see if we're right.) Join the School for School Counselors Mastermind The Mastermind is packed with all the things your grad program never taught you IN ADDITION TO unparalleled support and consultation. No more feeling alone, invisible, unappreciated, or like you just don't know what to do next. We've got you!…

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Dignity-Driven Holiday Outreach Programs 25:04

30 weeks ago25:04