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The Final Flight of Captain Forrester | 1. The Mystery of Tiny 05 38:05

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Wire Talk was created to encourage and equip moms throughout the challenging and life-changing journey of motherhood. Each week on Wire Talk Karen Stubbs offers godly, practical advice on the topics every mother has questions about: mom guilt, our children’s faith, potty-training, divorce, our teenagers dating, and more!

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Wire Talk was created to encourage and equip moms throughout the challenging and life-changing journey of motherhood. Each week on Wire Talk Karen Stubbs offers godly, practical advice on the topics every mother has questions about: mom guilt, our children’s faith, potty-training, divorce, our teenagers dating, and more!

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465: What Moms Really Want on Mother’s Day 20:15

1 day ago20:15

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Mother’s Day can be sweet, stressful, or just plain disappointing—sometimes all at once! In today’s episode, Karen and Emily get real about unmet expectations, social media comparison, and the emotional weight this day can carry. They also share stories from their own celebrations—some simple, some funny, and some that didn’t go as planned. Whether you're anticipating brunch with your people or dreading a day that feels heavy, this conversation will remind you: it’s okay to name what you need and celebrate in a way that feels meaningful to you. Episode Recap: 1:37 - Mother’s Day can be a mixed bag of emotions 3:35- There’s a lot of pressure surrounding celebrating well 7:00- Social media can quickly steal your joy 9:05 - How can we communicate what we want for Mother’s Day effectively? 12:30 - What if you want a special day but you know your family won’t plan anything? 16:21 - How do you navigate a difficult Mother’s Day? Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV) “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” Questions for Discussion: What emotions does Mother’s Day bring up for you this year—joy, sorrow, both? Have you ever been disappointed by an unmet expectation on this day? What did you learn from it? What would your ideal Mother’s Day actually look like—and how can you communicate that clearly? How can you support another mom who may be hurting or overwhelmed this year? Resources: Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927…

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464: How to Welcome Your College Kid Home Well 29:27

8 days ago29:27

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Your college student has changed—and so has your family. In today’s episode, Karen and Emily talk about preparing for the emotional and practical realities of having a college student return home for the summer. From setting clear expectations to embracing the growth in your child, you'll walk away with practical tips (and encouragement) to navigate this bittersweet transition with grace! Episode Recap: 3:45 - Karen shares how re-entry was with different kids coming home from college 8:08- How can I temper my expectations before my kiddo comes home? 11:05 - Encourage your college student to get a job! 13:00 - How do we prepare our younger kids for their sibling’s reentry? 15:52 - What’s reasonable to ask of my college kid while they’re home? 21:34 - Is it ok for me to tell my college kid how their actions made me feel? If so, what’s the best way to do that? 25:19 - We have to allow our children to grow and learn on their own because God is at work in their lives. Don’t try to smooth the road out for them, let them learn. Scripture for Reflection: Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV) "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens." Questions for Discussion : How has your family dynamic changed since your child left for college? What expectations do you need to reset—both for yourself and for your college student—before they return home? How can you communicate boundaries and responsibilities clearly without treating your college student like a child? In what ways can you celebrate and embrace who your child is becoming as a young adult? Resources: Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927…

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463: Surviving Seasons of Solo Parenting 28:55

15 days ago28:55

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When your husband’s job pulls him away from home, it can leave you holding the weight of family life alone—and it’s exhausting. Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose husbands are frequently gone due to their line of work. From managing toddler tantrums and homeschooling to navigating resentment and self-pity, Karen shares hard-won wisdom from her own years in the trenches. Don’t miss Karen’s honest encouragement about what it means to trust God and stay grounded through the hard seasons! Episode Recap: 2:35 - Karen’s husband Greg travelled extensively with his job during their early family years 6:10 - How did you manage the inconsistency in your husband’s work schedule? 10:25 - We have to bring God into our daily walk as moms, He will sustain us 11:30 - My husband works in a traumatic field, how do I support him without letting the darkness and stress of his job affect our family? 15:05 - How do I help my husband get on board with what I’m doing at home since he’s away so often 18:23 - Emily’s tips for keeping preschooler occupied while mom homeschools other child 21:15 - I’m a working mom and my husband is in residency. I struggle with resentment and self-pity, how did you handle these emotions? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 73:26 (NIV) “My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” Questions for Discussion: What do you find most difficult when your husband is away—emotionally, practically, or spiritually? Have you ever struggled with self-pity or resentment in your parenting journey? What helped you move forward? Karen talks about letting go of the “scoreboard” in marriage and not expecting equal contribution all the time. How does that idea sit with you? What are some practical ways you could invite God into your hard season right now? If you’re parenting a strong-willed toddler, which of Karen and Emily’s ideas could you try this week? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Check out the Scoreboard of Life session within Karen’s The Six Truths of Motherhood curriculum: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/available-for-purchase/products/six-truths-study-guide…

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462: Why We Call It Good Friday 28:34

22 days ago28:34

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Today we’re talking about Good Friday —and reflecting on why something so awful was called ‘good.’ Karen walks through the events leading up to the cross, explains why Jesus had to die, and answers some common (and hard!) questions your kids and teens might be asking. Whether your children are little or nearly grown, we hope this conversation equips you to talk about Jesus’ sacrifice and bring the hope of Easter into your home this week. Episode Recap: 2:10 - We don’t have to know everything, moms! But it’s our job to point our kids to answers 2:36 - Recap of events leading up to Good Friday 5:42 - Matthew 27:51-53 shares some incredible things that happened when Jesus died 8:44 - Jesus willing endured the Cross for us - that makes Friday good! 9:30 - Why did Jesus have to die? Wasn’t there another way? 12:51 - Jesus was fully man and fully God, He is our High Priest 13:35- Forgiveness doesn’t mean justice is ignored 14:24 - How do we know Jesus’ death was real? What about the Resurrection? 20:16 - What are practical ways to bring your family together around the story of Good Friday and Easter? 24:00 - Don’t be afraid of your kids’ questions, dive in together and look for the truth! Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 53:5 (NIV) “But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.” Questions for Discussion: What makes Good Friday “good,” even though it was such a dark day? How can we engage well with our kids when they ask hard questions about Jesus’ death or the resurrection? What does it mean to you personally that Jesus said, “Not my will, but yours be done”? How can your family focus on Jesus this Easter in a meaningful way—especially if your kids aren’t naturally interested? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com…

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461: When Little Ones Push Back: Practical Discipline for Moms 26:26

29 days ago26:26

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From dealing with toddlers who constantly say "no!" to navigating three-year-old stubbornness, today Karen is answering your questions and sharing practical strategies to help you respond with consistency and grace. You’ll learn how to set boundaries that stick and understand why repetition is key to laying a foundation of obedience. Whether you're managing meltdowns or guiding a strong-willed child, this episode will equip you to keep calm and parent on! Episode Recap: 2:43 - Is age two or three more difficult? 4:41 - My four yr old doesn’t listen and it puts him in danger! How can I get him to take me seriously? 7:15 - Toddlers HAVE to know that you are going to follow through! 8:50 - I’m constantly threatening my 2.5 yr old daughter with consequences for not obeying, is she only obeying out of fear? 11:00 - My 7 year old daughter has no motivation to do anything! How do I get her to get moving? 14:25 - Talk to your child’s teacher if their homework seems to take them forever at home, there could be something to pay attention to there. 18:55 - Help! My husband and I are at our wit’s end with our combative 4 year old. Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:9 (NIV) "Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Questions for Discussion: What are some challenges you face with your toddler or preschooler’s strong emotions? How do you typically respond? How do you balance immediate consequences with teaching long-term obedience? What strategies have you found helpful for setting boundaries with strong-willed children? How can you maintain consistency when it feels like your child isn’t getting the message? Resources: Download the BOAW app to send us your questions! https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927 Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Kathleen Edelman’s A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/4lmF5VF Wire Talk episode 433 with Wellesley Jongko: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/433-you-can-set-your-child-up-for-readin…

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460: Title: Help! My Teen is Struggling 31:07

5 weeks ago31:07

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The stakes feel high when you’re parenting teenagers, but you don’t have to go it alone! Today Karen is answering questions from moms facing challenges as they are navigating the teen years. From dealing with inappropriate relationships and emotional struggles to setting boundaries and having tough conversations, Karen offers encouragement to help you parent with confidence. Whether your teen is acting out or just feeling melancholic, you'll find practical wisdom and support in this candid conversation. Episode Recap: 4:06- It’s critical to be a parent rather than a friend during the teen years. 6:48- My 16 yr old is texting inappropriate pictures with his girlfriend, what do we do? 11:49- Strategies for connecting with a melancholic teen. 16:50- My college-age child is making poor choices when it comes to grades/work ethic - what does tough love look like? 23:07- How do I firmly address drug/alcohol use concerns with young adults who aren’t living at home anymore? 26:21- My 16 year old is dealing with depression and thoughts of self-harm - help! Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (NIV) "Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it." Questions for Discussion: Do you struggle with balancing being a parent versus being a friend to your teenager? Think of a time your teen has made a poor choice. Did you manage your own emotions well while addressing the behavior? If not, what would it look like to have a re-do in that particular situation? What role does prayer play in your parenting during the teen years? What are 3 things you can be praying for your teen right now? Write them down and hold one another accountable to praying daily for those things in our teens’ lives. Resources: Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremoms Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: https://www.soaratsea.com Listen to Raising Emotionally Strong Boys with David Thomas: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/347-raising-emotionally-strong-boys-with-david-thomas…

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459: Not Every Conflict With Your Child Is Defiance (Sometimes, It’s Just Personality) 23:44

6 weeks ago23:44

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From preschool power struggles to teenage arguments, this episode is full of real mom moments. Today, Karen’s answering your questions on sibling conflict, possessiveness, and strong-willed kids. Whether it’s a four year old not wanting to share, or a teenager pushing against boundaries, Karen reminds us that parenting isn’t about controlling every outcome—it’s about cultivating character, modeling grace, and being a steady presence as kids grow and learn. Episode Recap: 5:24- How do I help my child get over her excessive possessiveness? 9:50 - Should I get involved over the messiness of my daughters’ room? 12:18- My teens’ argumentativeness ruins the mood of our entire family, help! 17:55- How can I help cultivate a close relationship between siblings? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Questions for Discussion: Have you ever struggled with a child being overly possessive or anxious about their belongings? What has helped (or what would you try based on this episode)? How do you handle arguments with your strong-willed children, especially when they push back against authority? Is what you’re doing working? What’s one way you’ve helped your kids build or maintain a strong sibling bond? How do you balance honoring your child’s temperament with helping them grow in areas like generosity, respect, and submission? Which part of Karen’s advice in this episode resonated most with you today—and why? Resources: Check out our studio glow up on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/@birdsonawiremoms Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com Want more on parenting toward your child’s temperament? Check out A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/4c34sYC Listen to Karen’s episode with Abby: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/wt-284-worth-the-fight-with-karen-and-abby Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional for Teen Girls: https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/all-active-products/products/preorder-teen-devotional Want to know your or your child’s temperament? Take our FREE Colors Quiz! www.boaw.mom/quiz…

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458: Handling Hard Conversations with Grace 26:09

7 weeks ago26:09

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Navigating hard conversations can feel like walking a tightrope, especially when it comes to extended family! Today Karen is answering your questions about setting boundaries, honoring traditions while carving out your own space, and maintaining peace without losing your voice. We hope you’ll take away some practical nuggets for the next time you find yourself facing a difficult conversation. Episode Recap: 5:20 How do I know when to stand up for myself and when to bend? 6:22 My husband’s family celebrates religious holidays in a purely secular way. I’m always frustrated by it when we are with them! What can I do? 10:18 We feel guilted into vacationing with extended family every year when it really doesn’t work for us anymore. It has become a source of tension between my husband and I. How do we navigate this? 15:26 How do I “uninvite” our babysitter on our family vacation??! 20:00 My dad doesn’t want to see us at the holidays because he says we haven’t seen him/done enough with him all year long. How do I approach him? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." Questions for Discussion: Did you relate to Karen’s story about being “afraid” of the 7 year old neighbor? Do unpleasant conversations make you nervous? Have you experienced tension around family traditions or expectations? Do you have particular family members you find it difficult to communicate with? When navigating family gatherings or vacations, what boundaries have you established that have been helpful? How can you invite God into these difficult conversations for wisdom and peace? What steps can you take to ensure your core family unit is nurtured and protected, even amidst extended family obligations? Resources: - Don’t miss the boat! Register for Soar at Sea today: www.soaratsea.com - Check out Wire Talk’s viral clip - https://youtube.com/shorts/yd-lyxHD0HU?feature=share - Take the free colors quiz - www.boaw.mom/quiz…

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457: Talking to Kids About Loss: Lessons from Where Did TJ Go? 25:55

8 weeks ago25:55

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Grief and joy don’t have to be opposites—sometimes, they go hand in hand. In this tender conversation, Annie F. Downs shares the story behind Where Did TJ Go?, a book she co-authored with her sister to help families navigate the loss of a child. Annie opens up about how her nephew TJ’s brief but impactful life deepened their family’s bond and taught them the beauty of holding joy and sorrow together. Whether you’ve experienced loss yourself or want to support a grieving family, this episode is filled with wisdom, encouragement, and hope. Episode Recap: 4:26- Annie F. Downs joins us today! 5:40- Prior to TJ’s death, Annie’s family was not nearly as close 8:00- Annie’s sister discovered she was pregnant with a child who had a life limiting diagnosis 10:45- Aunts and uncles get to say yes, so do it often! 12:45- How can we love on families who are raising kids while grieving? 14:30- Where Did TJ Go? is a conduit for families to connect while grieving 16:00- There is good news in sad stories, this is a Gospel story 20:50- Get a bookplate customized with the name of a child you want to honor Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:15 (NIV) "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." Questions for Discussion: Annie talked about how grief and joy can coexist. Have you seen this play out in your own life or in the lives of those around you? How can we, as moms, create space for our children to express their emotions—both happy and sad—without feeling like they have to choose one over the other? Annie’s family found a surprising closeness through their loss. Have you experienced a hardship that has brought you closer to family? How did it change your relationships? What are some ways we can support grieving families, especially those with young children, in a way that honors their loss while also bringing hope? Resources: Pick up Where Did TJ Go? anywhere books are sold: https://amzn.to/4kxSYzT Get a bookplate customized with a name you want to honor at wheredidtjgo.com Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don’t procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Connect with Annie: https://www.anniefdowns.com/…

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456: Raising Kids with Unshakable Faith 47:04

9 weeks ago47:04

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What is it like to raise children in the middle of a war? In this special episode, Karen sits down with Kimmie Saado, an American mom raising her five kids in Israel, to hear about the realities of life during conflict. From sirens and safe rooms to worshiping through fear, Kimmie shares how faith has anchored her family in uncertain times. Listen in as she encourages moms to raise up the next generation of Daniels—children who stand firm in faith, no matter the circumstances. Episode Recap: 1:26- Kimmie is an American mom raising five kids in Israel 3:03- How Kimmie and Sahar met and challenges of cross-cultural dating/engagement 7:50- What it’s like to lead a Bible tour company in Israel 13:20- Karen and Kimmie’s favorite places in Israel 15:45- what has it been like to raise children in a conflict zone? 19:39- how Kimmie’s son led their family in worship during moments of fear. 22:30- how faith-filled habits help equip our kids and others to stand firm in faith. 24:31- what does it mean to be a “Daniel”? 28:15- what Kimmie and Sahar are doing in the States this year 30:00- how Americans can pray and support the Jewish people right now 37:30- we have made God so small and our problems so big Scripture for Reflection: 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV) “For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.” Questions for Discussion: Kimmie shared a vivid story about responding to a bombing by shouting a Bible verse and also, how her son responded to bombing sirens with worship. How do you model turning to your faith in scary times? Do your kids get to witness that? What does it mean to raise a "Daniel" in today’s world? How can we instill resilience and faith in our children? Kimmie and her husband took intentional steps to prepare for challenges before those challenges arrived. How can we spiritually equip our families before trials come? Kimmie spoke about finding peace in God’s presence, even in uncertainty. What are some practical ways we can cultivate that kind of faith in our own lives? Resources: Last chance to register for the Soar Conference! Don’t procrastinate another day: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Check out Kimmie and Sahar’s company: Israel Bible Tours: https://www.israelbibletours.com/…

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455: Helping Moms Lead Their Families in Faith 16:12

10 weeks ago16:12

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Discipling our kids can feel like a big responsibility, but moms don’t have to do it alone! In this episode, the new BOAW Moms operations manager, Erin Mashaw, shares her journey in ministry and her passion for equipping parents to lead their children in faith. She opens up about her own experiences as a pastor’s kid, her years in church ministry, and the resources she’s excited to create to support moms. Tune in for encouragement that you absolutely can disciple your kids with confidence! Episode Recap: 1:10 - Erin is going to be a breakout session speaker at the Soar Conference 4:05 - True discipleship happens at home 5:25 - Moms are the faith catalyst in American homes right now 7:20 - During difficult times, we experience the deepest intimacy with God 8:48 - How do we trust God in the waiting and the what ifs? 10:40 - What can moms expect from you in your breakout session? 11:30 - Sign up for the Soar Conference! 12:15 - Fill your mind with truth through Scripture, worship, etc. Scripture for Reflection: Isaiah 41:10 (NIV) – “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Questions for Discussion: Do you feel like the primary catalyst for your family’s faith journey? If so, do you resent your husband? Are you content in that role? How do you typically respond to uncertainty or fear in parenting? What helps you refocus on God’s truth? Erin talked about using worship music, scripture, and even meditation apps to combat anxiety—what are some ways you can incorporate these practices into your daily routine? What’s one step you can take this week to invite your spouse or children into a deeper faith walk alongside you? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Barna study on the influence of moms in Christian homes: https://www.barna.com/research/moms-christians-households/…

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454: Raising Kind and Respectful Kids 31:08

11 weeks ago31:08

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Raising kind and respectful kids feels like a lofty goal some days, but it's possible! Today Karen tackles your questions about guiding kids through friendship struggles, addressing disrespectful behavior, and teaching them to stay true to their values. Whether your child struggles with peer pressure, sibling dynamics, or showing respect at home, listen in for Karen’s practical wisdom and discipline strategies to shape your child’s heart for the long haul. Episode Recap: 5:45 - The Soar Conference is a chance to pour into your home, get signed up! 9:00 - My 8 year old is picking up bad behavior from friends, how do I influence her? 11:30 - Sometimes our kids have to learn the hard way 12:15 - My daughter changes her personality depending on who she’s with- how do I handle it? 17:30 - My husband and I have different approaches to parenting disrespect, what can we do? 23:35 - My child is so stubborn! How do I motivate her? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV) "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love." Questions for Discussion: Have you felt like your influence as a mom is fading as your child’s friendships become more important? How do you navigate that shift? How do you encourage your child to stay true to who they are in different social settings? How do you handle discipline in a way that connects with your child’s personality? If you and your spouse differ in your parenting approaches, how have you worked toward unity? What has helped you get on the same page? For moms of green-wired children, what strategies have worked best in motivating them without overwhelming them? Resources: Snag your ticket for the Soar Conference: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/soar-2025 Our Parenting Together curriculum is FREE in the BOAW Moms app: [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Curious about your child’s personality “color”? Take the free quiz: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz…

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453: How to Parent a Sensitive Son By Encouraging His Strengths 23:18

12 weeks ago23:18

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Today, we’re diving into your questions about parenting kids with melancholy personalities—from helping a 5-year-old navigate self-critical thoughts to encouraging a 10-year-old who always wants to leave the party early, to figuring out how to connect with a tween who keeps butting heads with you. If you’ve ever wondered how to better understand your child’s temperament and parent with both wisdom and grace, you’re in the right place. Episode Recap: 9:15 - My son can be so negative about himself, how can I coach him? 12:10 - My melancholy child always wants to leave events early - how would you approach this? 14:45 - We have to learn not to be embarrassed our kids behavior 15:40 - How do I build a better relationship with my blue son? 17:55 - Practice encouraging your son in his strengths 19:00 - How can I figure out my child’s personality color? Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 139:14 (NIV) – “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Questions for Discussion: How do you see your child’s temperament influencing their everyday experiences? What strengths do you notice in your child that may be hidden beneath their struggles? How can you shift your parenting approach to encourage and support, rather than correct, your child’s personality? What strategies have worked for you in connecting with a child who tends to be more withdrawn or self-critical? Are you praying for the Lord’s guidance so that you can parent your son according to his strengths? Resources: Register for the Soar Conference today: https://subsplash.com/birdsonawire-ga/lb/ev/+j2j9wpq Take the Colors Quiz for yourself or your child! https://birdsonawiremoms.com/personality-quiz Download our FREE temperaments guide: www.boaw.mom/colors Pick up the book A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring https://amzn.to/40QLoaO…

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452: How to Build a Stronger Bond with Your Daughter – With Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney 38:52

13 weeks ago38:52

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This week on Wire Talk, we welcome Sandra Stanley and her daughter Allie Cooney, co-authors of Meet Me in the Middle, a book designed to help moms and daughters build strong, faith-filled relationships. Sandra and Allie share lessons from their own relationship, and insights from their book—covering everything from communication struggles to the challenges of raising (and being) a teen girl today. They discuss the importance of creating a safe space for daughters, avoiding the “know-it-all” trap as moms, and learning to let go of control while guiding daughters toward wisdom and faith. Episode Recap: 6:30 - Sandra Stanley & Allie Cooney join us to talk about their book, Meet Me in the Middle 13:00 - This book was written for girls in 5th through 10th grade and their moms 14:30 - Social media creates so much noise for our daughters today 17:20 - Moms and daughters are facing many of the same pressures, just at different times in our lives and at different levels of maturity. 20:02 - When our girls feel safe with us, they are more likely to share with us 22:00 - We don’t need to turn everything into a teachable moment, be interested and be humble 24:00 - It is normal for teen girls to pull away in this season 27:35 - How do we help our daughters deal with comparison? 31:10 - What we do in parenting is far more important than what we say Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 4:4-9 (NIV) "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you.” Questions for Discussion: Sandra and Allie emphasize that moms should aim to be a safe place for their daughters. What are some ways you’ve seen this play out in your own parenting? What challenges make it difficult for you to be that safe space? Allie mentioned that her mom, instead of forcing conversations, placed wise mentors in her life. Does your daughter have wise women in her world other than you that she could learn from? Have you ever found yourself turning every conversation into a teachable moment? How can you shift toward more natural, two-way conversations with your kids? What are some practical ways you model faith in your daily life, and how do you encourage your daughter to cultivate her own personal faith journey? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Pick up a copy of Meet Me in the Middle : https://amzn.to/42JaRp1…

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451: Reclaiming Peace in Your Home 17:14

14 weeks ago17:14

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If you’ve ever felt buried under clutter, you’re not alone. Today Maria and Rebecca of Simple Spaces Ohio join us to share how decluttering has transformed their lives, how you can help your kids understand the value of less, and how a simple morning routine can bring order to the chaos. Whether you're naturally sentimental or just in need of a little guidance, this episode will encourage you to reclaim peace in your home and take back valuable time in your day. Episode Recap: 2:15 - Clutter affects the way we feel in our homes 4:00 - Young moms are overwhelmed by the chaos in their homes 6:30 - As your kids get older, you can help them understand they don’t need so much stuff 9:45 - Some people are naturally more sentimental than others 11:10 - Having a morning routine with just a few chores can help manage the overwhelm 13:00 - Decluttering gives you back time in your day Scripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 14:33 "For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—As in all the congregations of the Lord’s people." Questions for Discussion: What areas of your home feel the most overwhelming to you right now? What would it look like to create a sense of peace in those spaces? How do you balance keeping sentimental items with the desire to declutter? Are there any items you find hard to let go of? What small changes or routines have you implemented in your daily life that have helped you manage the clutter and find more peace? How can we involve our kids in the decluttering process without overwhelming them, and what are some ways to teach them the value of less stuff? Resources: Register for the SOAR Conference in the BOAW Moms app [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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450: Handling Grandparents and In Laws: Tips for Healthy Boundaries 23:04

15 weeks ago23:04

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Navigating relationships with in-laws and grandparents can be tricky, especially when it comes to setting boundaries for the safety and well-being of your kids. Today Karen tackles your questions about managing challenging family dynamics with wisdom, grace, and confidence. Whether you're dealing with safety concerns, feeling smothered, or struggling with differing parenting approaches, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you protect your family while fostering peace. Episode Recap: 2:10 - Check out our new podcast set up on YouTube 4:35 - How do I graciously handle having two sets of hyper-involved grandparents? 9:15- How do I handle my mother-in-law’s disrespect in a kind but firm way? 12:45- My mom hovers and overprotects my kids - what should I do? 16:45 - My in-laws have repeatedly shown they do not respect my boundaries, is there anything I can do? Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV) If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. Questions for Discussion: Have you ever had to set boundaries with family members? What was the outcome, and how did you approach it with kindness and firmness? What role should prayer play in preparing for difficult conversations about boundaries? In what ways can we shift our focus from trying to please everyone to focusing on our responsibilities as moms? What practical steps can you take this week to ensure your nuclear family has time to bond without extended family involvement? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional: Moments with God for Moms…

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449: New Habits for the New Year 28:32

16 weeks ago28:32

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Description: As we step into a new year, Karen and Emily are here to help you start fresh. In this episode, they discuss practical tips for breaking bad habits, finding contentment in your current season, and making space for your own growth as a mom. If you’re ready to embrace 2025 with renewed purpose and encouragement, you’re in the right place. Episode Recap: 2:30 - Jumping into the New Year, what are your New Year’s resolutions? 9:02 - My childrens’ bad moods put me in a bad mood! What can I do about this? 13:34 - How do I prioritize my spiritual growth with 3 under 3 in my home? 17:15 - How do I break the habit of having my 5 year old share the bed with us? 20:50 - I’m struggling with contentment because I want another child but my husband and I both feel like we can’t afford another one, help! Scripture for Reflection: 2 Corinthians 5:17 (NIV): “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” Questions for Discussion: Does your child’s behavior affect your own emotions? Practically speaking, how can you disconnect your emotions from your child’s behavior? What strategies or tools have helped you find time for spiritual growth during a busy season of motherhood? Are there any bad habits you’ve developed when it comes to behavior or situations in your home (like the mom who was bed sharing longer than she wanted to)? What are they and are you ready to work to break them this year? Do you struggle with contentment? Maybe it’s the size of your family or your financial situation…how can you practice contentment while trusting God with your family’s future? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional: Moments with God for Moms…

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448: Do Less For Your Kids - Parenting for the Long Haul 29:55

17 weeks ago29:55

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Today Karen and Emily sit down with Elizabeth Pehrson to discuss how moms can parent with purpose by focusing on the long game. In this conversation, Elizabeth shares her no-nonsense approach to raising independent, contributing adults. Whether you’re navigating the pressures of parenting littles or wondering how to prepare your teens for the real world, this episode will leave you inspired and equipped. Don’t miss the rest of the interview over on Patreon! Episode Recap: 2:09 - Elizabeth is a long time friend of BOAW Moms and a breakout speaker at Soar 2025 3:36 - She is mom to 8 and founder of The Exchange 8:08 - Most women live a Groundhog Day kind of life, but they don’t have to 10:32 - We can’t love others when we’re not loving ourselves well 12:37 - How did The Exchange come about? 18:25 - We need to raise adults who are contributors, not consumers 21:00 - We are overprotecting and under preparing our kids for the real world 24:00 - Young adults today do not know how to problem solve on their own 25:01 - We run a race differently when the length of the race changes - keep the long game in mind! Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 22:6 (ESV) Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old, he will not depart from it." Questions for Discussion: What areas of parenting do you feel pressured to “do more,” and how might adopting a “do less” mindset bring freedom to your family? How are you currently preparing your children for independence, and what’s one practical step you can take to help them contribute more? Elizabeth emphasizes the importance of rediscovering yourself as a mom. What’s something you used to enjoy that you can reintroduce into your life? How can shifting your focus from short-term achievements to long-term character development change the way you approach parenting? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Become a Patreon member and listen to the rest of the interview with Elizabeth Check out Elizabeth’s organization, The Exchange How Do I Get Some Help Around the House? previous WT episode with Elizabeth…

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447: Staying Connected When Life Gets Busy 25:40

20 weeks ago25:40

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As we wrap up Wire Talk for 2024, we’re diving into practical ways to connect with your spouse during busy seasons. From showing appreciation in small ways to navigating family expectations and finding joy in spontaneity, Karen has got wisdom and real-life practical tips for you! Whether you’re balancing the holidays, family dynamics, or simply trying to plan a date night, we hope this conversation inspires you to be intentional in your marriage. Episode Recap: 5:30 - How can I show my spouse they matter in small, but meaningful ways? 9:00 - How can I accommodate my in-laws' tendency to plan way ahead? 11:45 - Communicating clearly is gracious, even if it disappoints others 13:30 - I don’t feel lovey-dovey when we’re travelling, but my husband does. How do we navigate this dynamic? 16:50 - Did your yellow ever rub your blue husband the wrong way? How do I be more spontaneous to accommodate him? 23:00 - Thank you for all of your support this year! Sign up for SOAR in 2025 Scripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 16:14 (NIV) "Do everything in love." Questions for Discussion: What are some small but meaningful ways you can show your spouse they are appreciated during busy seasons? How can you find balance between accommodating family expectations and maintaining boundaries for your immediate family? Have you experienced differences in how you and your spouse handle travel or holiday dynamics? How do you navigate those differences? How can you practice flexibility in your plans while still honoring your own needs and personality? What’s one new date-night idea you’d like to try with your spouse? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate…

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446: Loving Like Jesus During the Holidays 26:07

21 weeks ago26:07

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Today Karen and Emily are diving into what it means to love like Jesus, even when it’s difficult. They cover preparing your heart, navigating tricky relationships, and approaching family gatherings with humility. You’ll learn how to manage expectations and hear practical ways we can love others like Christ loves us. Whether you’re juggling in-laws, extended family, or just trying to survive the season, this episode is packed with encouragement and wisdom for the holidays. Episode Recap: 5:41 - Why is it so challenging to love our extended family like Jesus? 10:26 - How can we shift our mindset and love family when it feels impossible? 12:33 - You can’t ignore your feelings, but you don’t have to act on your feelings. 13:30 - What are some practical ways we can prepare our hearts before family gatherings? 16:00 - Pray and ask God to show you what He loves about hard to love people 23:44 - The holidays can bring joy, but they can bring a lot of trigger points as well Scripture for Reflection: John 13:34-35 (NIV) "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another." Questions for Discussion: How can you demonstrate love to family members who may be difficult to connect with during the holidays? What practical steps can you take to prepare your heart to approach family gatherings with humility and grace? How does Jesus’ example of unconditional love challenge the way you interact with extended family or in-laws? What boundaries could you set to help maintain peace and joy during the holiday season, while still showing Christ-like love? Resources: Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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445: Creating Stress-Free Holiday Memories with Your Family 29:37

22 weeks ago29:37

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The holidays can often bring stress and guilt for moms as we try to make everything perfect for our families. In this episode, Karen and Emily share how to embrace a simpler, more joyful approach to Christmas. From favorite childhood memories to navigating tight budgets, they remind us that the best moments often come from just being together! We hope this episode inspires you to let go of the pressure, focus on what truly matters (Jesus’ birth!), and create meaningful traditions—whether planned or unplanned. Episode Recap: 3:08 - Karen and Emily “This or That’ Christmas edition 9:30 - Emily’s favorite Christmas memories growing up in the Stubbs’ home 11:20 - The best memories aren’t always the ones you plan 16:54 - Pick a few things that are important to you and forget the rest 18:20 - Some traditions happen organically and end up being the kids’ favorite 20:10 - How do I keep the holiday spirit alive as my kids grow? 23:00 - Explain the budget to your kids and don’t feel bad about sticking to it 25:32 - Mishaps can lead to new traditions and memories. 27:30 - Give yourself grace and just enjoy this holiday season! Scripture for Reflection: Luke 2:10-12 (NIV) “But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” Questions for Discussion: What are some of your favorite childhood holiday memories? How can you simplify your holiday plans this year to focus more on connection and less on perfection? What are some inexpensive ways to create lasting memories with your family during the holiday season? How can you be intentional about letting go of comparison during the holidays? What new traditions could you start as your children grow older and your family’s needs change? Resources: Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Give today to support BOAW Moms and our plans in 2025: boaw.mom/donate…

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444: Letting Go of Mom Guilt and Overthinking 20:39

23 weeks ago20:39

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Moms often struggle with guilt and overthinking, especially when it comes to making decisions for their families. In this episode, Karen talks about how to avoid the trap of overanalyzing every choice and instead focus on what brings peace and unity to your family. Whether you're navigating school decisions, holiday traditions, or just everyday challenges, this discussion will help you let go of guilt and embrace the best yes for your family with confidence. Episode Recap: 4:00 Navigating mom guilt around holiday decisions 7:30 Deciding whether to do Elf on the Shelf 13:00 Setting boundaries for attending kids' birthday parties 17:45 Learning to communicate clearly with your children before making commitments 22:00 Making decisions that are right for YOUR family, without comparison Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 3:5-6 (NIV): "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." Questions for Discussion: What kind of mom guilt are you facing in this season of parenting, and how can you let go of it? How do you decide which traditions to embrace and which to let go of? What are some ways you can involve your kids in making decisions, like attending parties or events? How can we give ourselves grace if our plans or decisions don’t look like those of other families? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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443: Holiday Survival Guide for Grandparents 25:36

24 weeks ago25:36

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Navigating the holidays as a grandparent can be tricky, but holding plans with open hands can make all the difference. In this episode, we talk about how to foster unity, embrace flexibility, and keep a spirit of grace at the center of holiday gatherings. Whether you're a mom of grown children or still in the thick of raising kids at home, Karen offers practical tips to help you approach the season with love and understanding. Episode Recap: 4:56 Grandparents need to hold holiday plans with open hands 7:45 Remember what it was like to be a young adult and all of the pressures they are facing 10:00 Be open and flexible to new traditions 13:00 Enjoy the kids when they are around and be okay if they are not present some years 14:55 Learn how to communicate plans early 16:30 It’s okay for grandparents to spoil the grandkids and overindulge them once a year! 19:30 Ask your grown children, “what can I do to make holidays easier/better for you?” 23:00 The holidays aren’t about exactly ‘when’ or ‘how,’ they are about being together Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 2:3-4 (NIV ) : "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Questions for Discussion: In what ways can you be more understanding of the pressures your grown children face during the holiday season? What new traditions could you embrace that might help create a more joyful and flexible holiday experience for everyone? How can you learn to hold your holiday traditions with open hands? Is there anything specific you know will be hard to let go of? What steps can you take to communicate our holiday plans early, while still being considerate of everyone’s needs and desires? How can you maintain a spirit of grace if plans change or things don't go as expected? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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442: Protecting Your Kids from Screen Addiction with Practical Tech Limits 39:44

25 weeks ago39:44

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Today, DeDe Wilbanks joins us to explore how we can set healthy boundaries around the technology in our homes. With John 10:10 as our guide, DeDe reminds us of our God-given role to protect our children's hearts and minds from the addictive nature of technology. While we can't control everything, we can be intentional about setting limits that nurture our families, trusting God with the rest. Episode Recap: 4:30 What downtime and screen time parameters do you put on your devices? 9:43 Is there a right age to give kids a phone? 13:09 Why do screen time limits matter? 15:15 What mistakes have you made when it comes to technology in your home? 19:10 I had to learn to enjoy the “no” 22:00 How do you actually set limits on the iphone? 31:22 What simple practical tips can you offer to get started? Scripture for Reflection: John 10:10 (NIV) "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” Questions for Discussion: What boundaries are in place around the tech that your kids have access to? (Games, ipads, TV, phones, etc.) Have you made any mistakes with the technology you have allowed in your home? How do you model healthy technology habits for your children? What challenges do you face when setting screen time limits, and how do you handle them? What action steps are you taking after listening to this episode? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt…

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441: A Faithful Approach to an Anxious World 24:54

26 weeks ago24:54

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Election Day can bring a lot of uncertainty and even fear into our lives. Today, Karen and Emily remind us to keep our focus on God, no matter who ends up in the White House. They encourage us to pray for our leaders and show us how to foster peace, especially if our families are divided on political views. Karen shares powerful biblical truths to help us navigate the ups and downs of the election season with faith and grace, reminding us that our hope is always in Christ and that we are citizens of heaven. Episode Recap: 7:12 How should Christians approach political elections? 10:20 What does Jesus say about engaging with governments and politics? 13:04 Daniel 2:21 says God “deposes kings and raises up others” 14:30 We have to focus our eyes on God and not our circumstances 15:45 Go vote! And also, pray for our leaders 17:45 Look at the story of Nebuchadnezzer, God can turn the hearts of evil leaders 20:39 We can have different opinions and still love one another 21:58 Your children are watching you Scripture for Reflection: Romans 13:1 (NIV) "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God." Questions for Discussion: Do you enjoy talking about politics, would you rather ignore it, or do you fall somewhere in between? Has this election season disrupted your internal peace? Do you pray for the leaders in our country? Would you be willing to commit to praying for the President Elect until Inauguration Day? Did any of the verses Karen mentioned during this episode resonate with you? What is something you can do to practically apply the message of this conversation? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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440: How Can I Effectively Discipline My Young Children? 33:12

27 weeks ago33:12

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“You just have to last one second longer…” If you are constantly fighting discipline battles these days, we hope those words stay with you long after this episode! In this conversation, Karen tackles questions about disciplining your younger children. From chaos in the car, to rough play, to bad behavior that only happens at school, Karen offers practical advice for finding consequences that work for your child. Episode Recap: 6:37 My four year old is constantly getting in trouble at school - what can we do? 12:30 Car rides are the worst! How can I stop the cycle of craziness? 17:00 You just have to last one second longer than they do! 18:25 My son plays too rough at school - does he need therapy? 21:30 How do I know which things are discipline worthy and which things I should let go? 27:18 My son gets really angry- we don’t want to punish him for feeling emotions, but know we need to find ways to help him regulate, any advice? Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 29:17 (NIV) “Discipline your children, and they will give you peace; they will bring you the delights you desire.” Questions for Discussion: What are some of the biggest discipline challenges you face with your young children? Have you found any specific consequences that seem to work well with your child? What hasn’t worked as well? How do you decide which behaviors are worth disciplining and which ones to let go? How do you handle situations where your child gets very angry? Are there strategies that help them regulate their emotions? Resources: Send Karen your questions using the BOAW Moms app (for FREE!) [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Raising Emotionally Strong Boys by David Thomas: https://amzn.to/48r4ZkZ Listen to Wire Talk episode 347 with David Thomas: https://wiretalk.transistor.fm/episodes/347-raising-emotionally-strong-boys-with-david-thomas A Grown Up’s Guide to Kids’ Wiring: https://amzn.to/3YmsRlo Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://amzn.to/3NKXXyd…

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439: Birth Order and Sibling Squabbles 26:59

28 weeks ago26:59

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Are your kids’ personalities shaped by their birth order? In today’s episode, Karen and Emily explore how birth order influences personality. They share insights from their own families and tackle questions like, “How do I help my oldest think of others before herself?” and “How can I teach my daughter to let go of things without holding on to everything?” Plus, Emily talks about how she’s using the BOAW Moms app to keep up with studies and episodes! Episode Recap: 2:00 Emily is loving using the BOAW Moms app to watch studies and look up podcast episodes 3:45 Karen and Emily share how their personalities were shaped by their birth order 7:13 Is it possible to avoid reinforcing birth order stereotypes as a parent? 10:25 How do I help my 5 year old let go of things? She wants to hold onto all the things! 15:24 How do I help my oldest daughter think of others before herself? 20:45 How do I help nurture my daughter’s kindness? 24:50 Send in your question on the app using the “Ask Karen” section Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:9 (NASB) “Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we do not grow weary.” Questions for Discussion: How do you think birth order has influenced your children’s personalities? Can you see any traits that match typical birth order stereotypes? How do you encourage your child to let go of unnecessary items or habits without making them feel pressured? What did you think of Karen’s story about taking Kelsey to the Dominican Republic and the change she saw in her heart afterwards? Is that something you have done or would consider doing with your children? Karen mentioned several times that some issues we see in our kids are heart issues while others are merely maturity issues (things they will grow out of)- do you feel like you can tell the difference in your children? Resources: Check out Karen’s new study: The Counter-Intuitive Parent on Right Now Media or from the BOAW Moms store Download the BOAW Moms app: [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Kevin Leman’s Birth Order book: https://amzn.to/3AdPCzI…

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438: A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity 42:41

29 weeks ago42:41

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“There is nothing that beats conversation with our kids.” Today we’re chatting with Erin Mashaw about the new book she co-authored, A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity . We touch on purity culture, pornography, and the constantly shifting cultural values around us. Erin shared the importance of having small conversations early and often and offered practical tips for getting over the awkwardness! Our hope is that you will be encouraged to engage in new conversations this week in your home and feel equipped that YOU are the best source of information for your child. Psst - pop some earbuds in for this one! Episode Recap: 3:20 What is the difference between integrity and purity? 6:54 ‘The Talk’ is no longer one marathon session, it’s simpler than that! 8:30: Is it possible to make these conversations less awkward? 11:37 Your mind is your most important sex organ 14:00 Teach your kids to live by the Integrity Code 18:30 How do we share the truth that the historical biblical sexual ethic is loving and not exclusive with kids who are seeing something different all around them? 20:30 It’s parents’ job to be the first voice speaking to our children a consistent message on sexuality 24:00 What do moms need to know about protecting our (even young) kids from being sexualized online? 30:10 It’s never too late to start this conversation! 33:00 God is writing your child’s story and His Holy Spirit will guide you as you lead your kids in this area of their lives Scripture for Reflection: Deuteronomy 11:18-19 (NIV): “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” Questions for Discussion: When did you begin talking with your kids about topics related to sex? If you haven’t started yet, what’s holding you back? Did this episode encourage you to initiate those conversations in your home? How do you define sexual integrity versus purity, and why do you think this distinction is important when talking with your children? What stood out to you in Erin’s explanation? How can you be proactive in protecting your children from exposure to inappropriate content online? What strategies have worked for you, or what new steps could you take based on the information shared in this episode? What does it look like to trust God with your child’s journey while still being intentional about shaping their understanding of sexual integrity Resources: Check out Karen’s new study: The Counter-Intuitive Parent on Right Now Media or from the BOAW Moms store Grab a copy of A Student’s Guide to Sexual Integrity Jim Burns book, God Made Your Body , How God Makes Babies More resources from HomeWord ministry: https://homeword.com/ Download the BOAW Moms app for FREE [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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437: Balancing Marriage, Parenting, and Life’s Big Decisions 31:04

30 weeks ago31:04

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When your kids are little, the challenges of day-to-day parenting often pit one spouse against another. Today Karen and Emily are answering questions from weary moms. They discuss practical ways you can connect with your spouse, strategies for handling the stress that comes with parenting young children, and remind us of the importance of prioritizing our husband’s needs during this season of life. Episode Recap: 4:50 BIG announcement coming later this month - get the app to be the first to know 10:45 How do we find time to connect as spouses with 3 little kids at home? 15:05: Help! My 3 yr old twins are pitting us against one another! 17:14 Our marriage is struggling! We need help. 22:20 Ask your spouse: what is one way I can love you better this month? 25:20 I want to move back to where my family lives. What do you think we should do? Scripture for Reflection: Mark 10:9 (NIV): “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Questions for Discussion: How do you currently prioritize connection with your spouse while raising young children? What practical strategies have worked for you, and where do you feel there’s room for improvement? How do you and your spouse handle conflict when your children (especially young ones) try to pit you against one another? Do you feel like you have a united front, or is this something you struggle with? What’s one way you could better support your husband’s needs during this busy season of life? Have you asked him how you can show love to him in the coming weeks? When making major family decisions, such as moving or changing jobs, how do you and your spouse communicate and weigh each other’s opinions? What steps do you take to ensure that both of your voices are heard? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app for FREE [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Watch the Parenting Together curriculum in the app! [ App Store ] [ Google Play ]…

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436: Resolve Conflicts by Tapping into Your Child's Unique Personality 27:13

31 weeks ago27:13

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Understanding how your child is wired can be a key to resolving conflict in your home! In today's episode, Karen dives into the dynamics of family conflict and emphasizes how important it is to recognize your child's personality type. By taking the time to understand their unique traits, we can cultivate patience and empathy in our relationships. Join us as we explore practical ways to bear with one another instead of butting heads! Episode Recap: 6:08 I’m worried about my 9 yr old son’s lack of sociability…should I be? 9:05 My daughter and I are constantly butting heads! Help! 12:15 What are the four core needs of the Red personality? 14:08 How did your husband being away for so long affect your children and the home? 18:32 My 1st grade daughter’s social awkwardness is affecting her relationships, what can I do? Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 4:2 (NIV): Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Questions for Discussion: How well do you know each of your children’s personalities? Share with the group the personalities of each of your family members. Do any of the personalities in your family butt heads more so than others? Can you see how taking personalities into account could create a more peaceful home? Refer to the four needs of each personality type in the resource packet linked below: do any needs stand out that you could work to be more mindful of in your parenting? Resources: Download the BOAW Moms app for FREE [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Not sure your child’s color? Take our Colors Personality quiz Print off the FREE personality resource packet from BOAW…

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435: Transform Your Parenting By Renewing Your Mind 29:43

32 weeks ago29:43

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Today we’re diving into the idea of being a countercultural parent. Join us as Karen shares how important it is to parent in a way that aligns with God’s will instead of seeking the approval of others. From practical tips on renewing your mind to choosing God as your guiding “North Star,” Karen offers encouragement to moms who may feel out of step with the world – but exactly in step with God’s design. Episode Recap: 3:51 Karen shares about her newest curriculum, The Counter Intuitive Parent 8:36 How have you seen parenting trends/choices change over the years? 11:38 Were you always countercultural as a parent or did you change as you realized you needed to parent differently from the world? 16:25 What worldly patterns do you see affecting families right now? 19:05 What can a mom do today to renew her mind? 23:00 God is our “North Star” as believers 26:30 There is a lot on the horizon for BOAW Moms this year! Scripture for Reflection: Romans 12:2 (NIV) – "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Galatians 1:10 (NIV) - “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.” Questions for Discussion: What parenting “trends” have you noticed in the circles you are parenting in these days? Do you feel pressure to conform to any of them? Karen spoke about renewing your mind and making choices for your family based on God’s will rather than the world’s expectations. How can you practically begin to “renew your mind” in your daily parenting? In what ways do you feel countercultural as a parent? Have there been moments where you doubted your approach because it went against what society expects? How can you make God your “North Star” in your decision-making as a parent? What are some distractions that keep you from doing this, and how can you overcome them? Resources: Download the Birds on a Wire Moms app now for FREE wherever you get your apps: [ App Store ] [ Google Play ] Check out The Counter Intuitive Parent available now through Right Now Media): https://app.rightnowmedia.org/en/content/details/883497…

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434: Setting Your Young Adult Up for Independence 24:45

33 weeks ago24:45

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Today Karen is answering questions from moms whose kids are in college or working and living on their own for the first time. She shares how to support them without enabling them, how to gently guide them toward wise-decision making, and how to encourage them toward maturity while simultaneously stepping back. She also reminds us that now, more than ever, is the time to get on your knees and PRAY for your kids! Moms, this season is hard, but the fruit of these years is worth the investment of time and energy. Episode Recap: 3:41 How do I help my college-age daughter who is already struggling with time management while she’s away? She’s calling me in tears weekly! 8:00 I feel like my son is growing apart from us as a young adult living in another state. Is this normal? How can I adjust my mindset? 13:02 My daughter calls me all the time about every little thing now that she’s living on her own. How can I help her be more confident in her decision making? 17:18 I think my son could be classified as “failure to launch” at this point in time. How can I get him to think about his future seriously?! Scripture for Reflection: Philippians 1:9-10 (NIV) – "And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ." Questions for Discussion: Were there any suggestions Karen offered during this episode that surprised you? Which ones did you love? When your young adult is constantly seeking advice, how do you balance offering support with encouraging them to develop their own confidence in decision-making? Do you struggle with feelings of separation or distance when your child is living far from home? What are some practical things you could do (besides visiting!) to close that relational gap? What are some practical ways we can support our young adults in their independence without overstepping or enabling them? In what specific ways can you be praying for your young adult as they transition into greater independence? Do you think prayer influences your ability to trust God in this season? Resources: Jump in on the Survival Guide to Motherhood study this fall! Today is the last day to register: boaw.mom/SGTM Download the Birds on a Wire Moms app FOR FREE wherever you get your apps! Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events…

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433: You Can Set Your Child Up for Reading Success! 37:22

34 weeks ago37:22

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Literacy coach Welsley Jongko joins us in the studio today to talk about the process of learning to read and to encourage those of us who have beginning readers at home! She explains the current reading crisis in America and the simple but effective things parents can do to support their children on their way to become lifelong readers. There are so many great tips and resources shared in the conversation today, be sure you check the links in today’s show notes! Episode Recap: 2:11 Welsley is a literacy coach supporting teachers in the K-5 school system 4:00 Karen shares the story of Abby’s dyslexia diagnosis 7:56 Tips for parents who are already overwhelmed by the new school year 9:40 How can parents help foster a love of learning in their child? 12:12 Is there a difference between a late learner and a struggling reader? 16:00 What are the red flags your child is struggling to read? 23:08 Additional early signs of dyslexia 26:00 What is the problem with “whole language” instruction? 30:37 Tips and strategies for helping your beginning reader enjoy the process 34:15 More resources from Welsley Jongko on learning to read Scripture for Reflection: Proverbs 3:13 (NIV) “Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding.” Questions for Discussion: Did Welsley’s insights on the reading crisis in America resonate with your own experiences? Have you had or do you have a child who struggles with reading? Were there any strategies or suggestions for helping your child that stood out to you as particularly helpful? Fostering a love of learning is crucial for young readers. Does reading aloud happen regularly in your home? What are some favorite books in your family? Have you ever tried listening to audiobooks together? Is this an area you can grow in as a family? Resources: Welsley’s book, Teach Me to Read: https://amzn.to/4d1lJAe Follow Little Literacy Nook! @littleliteracynook More resources on Welsley’s website: https://littleliteracynook.com Sold a Story podcast on flawed reading instruction: https://features.apmreports.org/sold-a-story/ The reading crisis among elementary students in America: https://edtrust.org/blog/the-literacy-crisis-in-the-u-s-is-deeply-concerning-and-totally-preventable/#:~:text=Last%20year%2C%20the%20National%20Assessment,a%20proficient%20level%20in%20reading. Love Every Reading Skills Set: https://lovevery.com/pages/the-reading-skill-set Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms…

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432: Choosing the ‘Best Yes’ For Your Family 20:52

35 weeks ago20:52

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Today Karen is answering questions from moms juggling packed schedules, managing family commitments, and trying to make a little time for themselves! From balancing kids' activities with family time to learning when to say no, in this episode you’ll hear practical advice to help you protect your energy and prioritize what matters most. Pop in those earbuds or grab a basket of laundry to fold and let's figure out what your best "yes" is for this season. Episode Recap: - 3:57 Survival Guide to Motherhood is now available as an online course! Register today - 6:14 My schedule is packed and I was recently asked to lead a group at church. I want to say no, but how can I? - 8:37 I’m conflicted about travel sports - help! - 12:31 I’m exhausted, how do I stay connected to my husband in this season of parenting? - 15:42 How can I set boundaries now to avoid overcommitment in the future? Scripture for Reflection: Matthew 6:33 (NIV) "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Questions for Discussion: How do you evaluate whether a commitment is a “best yes” for your family? What criteria do you use to make sure your commitments support your family’s well-being? How can you ensure that your marriage remains a priority amidst the busyness of life? Is this easy for you or is it a struggle? Karen talks about dividing your time into three categories: essentials, non-negotiables, and bonuses. How do you currently categorize your commitments? What activities or priorities fall into each category in your life? Are there any adjustments you feel called to make after reflecting on this concept? What strategies can you implement to create intentional rest and unstructured family time in your weekly routine? Resources: Register for Survival Guide to Motherhood today: www.boaw.mom/SGTM Use coupon code THRIVE for your exclusive Wire Talk listener discount. Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms…

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431: You Are Not Your Husband's Holy Spirit 21:26

36 weeks ago21:26

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Today Karen and Emily dive into the dynamics of marriage and parenting, reminding us that we are not our husband's Holy Spirit! Karen talks about letting go of the urge to control her husband's spiritual journey, addresses differences in parenting styles, and offers practical wisdom for managing the emotional ups and downs that come with doing life together. Lean in for practical advice rooted in love and respect, remembering that it is God who ultimately guides our growth. Episode Recap: 5:15 How do I let go of my husband’s lack of a quiet time? 7:41 Our job is to love and respect our husbands 8:00 My husband is harsh when he disciplines, what do I do? 11:29 How can I get my husband to take more initiative? 15:55 My husband’s moodiness brings me down! Scripture for Reflection: 1 Corinthians 3: 6-7 (NIV): "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God has been making it grow. So neither the one who plants nor the one who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow." Questions for Discussion: Can you relate to the feeling of wanting to control your husband's spiritual walk? When has this happened in your own marriage, and how have you handled it? In what ways have you seen differences in parenting styles between you and your spouse? What strengths does your husband’s style bring to the family? What strengths does your style bring? Do you think you make a good team or is there a lack of balance? Do you ever struggle with resentment or feeling overwhelmed in your role as a wife and mother? What steps have you taken to address these feelings, and how did your husband respond? When your husband is in a "blue mood," how do you typically react? Have you found any strategies that help both of you during those times, and how do you maintain your own emotional balance? Reflecting on the idea of giving space in your marriage, how have you or your husband used space to deescalate tensions? What are some practical ways you’ve implemented this in your relationship? Resources: Check out BOAW’s curriculum Parenting Together (from Preschool to Prom): https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/studies/products/parenting-together-digital-video Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms…

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430: Empowering Moms to Pray on All Occasions 28:35

37 weeks ago28:35

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In the final episode of our 3-part series on Ephesians 6:14-18, we're taking an in-depth look at verse 18 and Paul's call to pray in the Spirit on all occasions. Karen and Emily explore what it means to be vigilant in prayer and the different types of prayers we should keep in mind. They also dive into how we, as moms, can cultivate a consistent and effective prayer life and teach our kids to pray. This conversation is rich with wisdom and Scripture, so pull up a chair and have your Bible nearby as we close out this powerful series! Episode Recap: 5:55 Ephesians 6:18- Paul’s admonition to the church to pray in the spirit on all occasions 8:54 What are the different types of prayers we need to keep in mind? 13:20 How can we develop a consistent and effective prayer life as moms? 14:41 How do we teach our kids to pray? 17:47 Putting on the armor of God empowers us 21:30 Karen shares various times from her life when she depended on prayer Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 6:18 (NIV): “And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.” Questions for Discussion: Reflecting on Ephesians 6:18, how do you personally practice "praying in the Spirit on all occasions"? What are some specific ways you integrate prayer into your daily routine, and how has that impacted your spiritual life? Karen and Emily discussed different types of prayers we should keep in mind. Which type of prayer do you find yourself leaning on the most, and why? Are there any types of prayers you feel you could focus on more in your life? Can you recall a time in your own life when prayer was essential in getting through a difficult situation? How did that experience strengthen your faith? What challenges have you faced in maintaining a regular prayer practice? What strategies have you found helpful in overcoming these obstacles? How have you approached teaching prayer to your children? What methods or practices have you found effective in helping them develop their own prayer lives? Resources: Check out BOAW’s 52 week prayer journal : https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/accessories/products/moments-in-prayer-52-week-prayer-journal Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms…

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429: Standing Firm: How to Equip Yourself with Spiritual Armor for Daily Battles 39:45

38 weeks ago39:45

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Today we're diving deep into Ephesians 6:14-18, exploring how to equip ourselves with spiritual armor needed for the daily battles we face. Karen and Emily discuss the practical steps to "put on" the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, and the gospel of peace, empowering you to stand firm against the challenges of life. This conversation is chock full of Scripture, so grab your Bible and follow along as we discover how to stand firm, knowing that God is with us in every fight. Episode Recap: 4:19 Today we’re looking at Ephesians 6:14-18 together 6:54 We have to strap on the truth of Jesus Christ. We have to know what He says, which means reading our Bibles 7:58 Use Scripture to combat the lies we face in our daily lives 15:10 How do we practically put on the belt of truth? 17:39 What is the breastplate of righteousness and how do we “put it on” practically speaking? 22:43 Let’s break down what it means to “have your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace” 26:00 We can’t hold it all together, we have to open up our hands and trust that God has us and our kids 34:20 Stand firm and fight, prepared with these spiritual weapons, because God is with you Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 6:14-18 (NIV): “Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” Questions for Discussion: How can we practically "put on" the belt of truth in our daily lives as mothers? Consider specific ways you can incorporate Scripture into your daily routine to combat the lies and doubts you might face. What does it mean to wear the breastplate of righteousness as a mom? Discuss how living righteously affects your parenting and the example it sets for your children. How can you model this for them? In what areas of your life do you need to trust that God "has you and your kids"? Reflect on situations where you may be trying to control too much. How can you release those burdens and trust in God's provision? How can being rooted in the gospel of peace help you navigate the challenges of motherhood? Discuss how staying grounded in God's peace can shape your reactions to stressful situations and bring a calming influence to your family. Resources: Grab Karen’s 365 day devotional Moments with God for Moms : https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/accessories/products/copy-of-moments-with-god-for-moms-daily-devotional-faux-leather Check out BOAW’s 52 week prayer journal : https://store.birdsonawiremoms.com/collections/accessories/products/moments-in-prayer-52-week-prayer-journal Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Join our private BOAW Moms FB group for community and collective wisdom: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms…

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428: Armor of God: Preparing for Spiritual Battles in the New School Year 29:02

39 weeks ago29:02

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Back-to-school feels like the start of a new year for moms, so it’s a perfect time to prepare our hearts and minds. Over the next three weeks, we're diving into Ephesians to explore the armor of God, a biblical metaphor Paul uses to remind us that we are in a spiritual battle every day. This isn't about fear—it's about living a victorious life through Christ. Join us as we encourage you to wake up, equip yourself with God’s truth, and get ready to stand strong in this new season. You’ve got this, and with God’s help, it’s going to be an amazing school year! Episode Recap: 4:30 Karen recaps upcoming speaking events and her travel calendar 6:00 The new school year as the real "new year" for moms 9:11 Why is the armor of God crucial for spiritual battles? 12:32 We don’t think about the fact that we are in a spiritual battle everyday 16:43 How do we practically apply this in our families? Karen offers tangible examples 22:14 ‘Stand firm’ means we have to be ready. Wake up! Expect the battles to come and be prepared. 24:23 We have to retrain ourselves to see the spiritual battles around us and plug into God’s power Scripture for Reflection: Ephesians 6:10-13 (NIV): “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.” Questions for Discussion: Why do you think Paul chose the metaphor of the armor of God to describe our spiritual battles? How does this imagery resonate with your own experiences as a mom? Karen emphasized the importance of 'standing firm' and being prepared for spiritual battles. In what areas of your life do you feel the most unprepared, and how can you start to equip yourself spiritually? In the episode, Emily mentions that we often don’t realize we’re even in a spiritual battle. What are some practical ways you can remind yourself to stay aware of this reality? How do you see the devil’s schemes manifesting in your daily life, particularly in your role as a mom? How can you counteract these schemes with the truths from Ephesians 6? Karen talks about the need to retrain ourselves to see spiritual battles and plug into God’s power. What steps can you take this week to start viewing challenges from a spiritual perspective rather than just a physical one? Resources: Grab a copy of Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood: https://amzn.to/4dxAL1o Come hear Karen teach at an event near you: https://birdsonawiremoms.com/events Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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427: Finding Your Worth in Christ 18:56

40 weeks ago18:56

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What does God say about you? Do you know?! It is all too easy to get caught up in who the world says you are, so today Karen and Emily remind us the truth of what God says. They talk about identity, the phrase “just a mom,” and fighting against comparison. We hope today’s conversation encourages you to celebrate your unique gifts and talents and focus on the truth that you are fearfully and wonderfully made! Episode Recap: 3:45 Survival Guide to Motherhood releases today! 6:30 Karen’s purpose at BOAW Moms is to be your biggest cheerleader 11:50 It is critical that we base our identity and find our worth in who we are in Christ 16:40 Get off social media and stay in your lane if you struggle with this! 21:15 You are fearfully and wonderfully made, start out each day by meditating on that truth Scripture for Reflection: Psalm 139:14 (NIV): “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” Questions for Discussion: Are there specific areas where you’ve struggled to see yourself the way God sees you? How has your understanding of your identity in Christ changed after listening to this episode? Karen and Emily talked about the phrase “just a mom.” Have you ever told anyone you are “just a mom”? Has this episode helped you reframe that mindset? Social media can lead to feelings of inadequacy and comparison. What steps can you take to "stay in your lane" and avoid comparing yourself to others? How can focusing on your unique gifts help with this? Karen shared that her purpose in starting BOAW Moms was to be a cheerleader for other moms. How can you encourage and support other women in your community to see their worth and celebrate their unique gifts? Resources: Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood is available now! https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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426: There's a Difference Between Nurturing and Enabling 19:15

41 weeks ago19:15

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Are you raising confident kids? Today Karen encourages moms to take a step back so our kids can step up. She and Emily discuss the pitfalls of doing things for our kids and the reasons we often fall into that trap. They also talk about the difference between nurturing and enabling and share the critical connection between kids who take ownership and confident kids! Episode Recap: 6:40 Why is there a whole chapter on confidence in this book? 8:32 Where are moms missing the mark when it comes to raising confident kids? 12:56 What role do chores play in confidence? 14:04 Small, practical ways you can allow your children to grow in confidence Scripture for Reflection: Galatians 6:5 (NIV): "For each one should carry their own load." Questions for Discussion: Can you identify any specific behaviors or actions where you might be enabling your child rather than nurturing their independence? What changes could you make to shift from enabling to nurturing? Reflect on a recent situation where you stepped back and allowed your child to handle something on their own. How did it go, and what did you learn from the experience? How do you incorporate chores into your child's routine? How have you seen chores impact your child's sense of responsibility and confidence? What are some small, practical steps you can take to help your child grow in confidence? How can you implement these steps in your daily routine? Resources: - Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD - Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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425: You Can Learn to Discipline Well, No Matter the Age of Your Child 24:14

42 weeks ago24:14

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In this third part of our series on Karen's new book, "Survival Guide to Motherhood," Karen and Emily discuss the importance of raising kids with a strong foundation in biblical principles, even when it goes against the grain of today's world. They chat about how teaching kids to obey their parents leads to a more peaceful home in the long run. Don’t miss Karen’s prayer at the end of the episode asking for wisdom, courage, and blessings for all the families tuning in! Episode Recap: 6:29 Discipline is hard and different for every child and in every season 7:43 Discipline has to be taught - it does not come naturally to children 11:42 Discipline has to be consistent. 13:00 The 3 stages of discipline each require a different focus from parents 17:07 The “B”s of discipline are: Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear 18:08 In the later years, we have to give our kids the “why” behind the no Scripture for Reflection: Hebrews 12:11 “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” James 1:5 “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” Questions for Discussion: Are there any negative behaviors you see in your child now that you are tempted to ignore, thinking they will grow out of it? Karen mentioned the idea that "pain now will equal peace later" when it comes to parenting. Have you experienced this in your own life? How have you seen this in your parenting journey? Which stage of discipline are you in right now? (Laying the Foundation, Teaching the ‘Whys’, The Coaching Years) Do you think the pace of your life is preventing you from disciplining effectively? How so? Of the three “B”s (Be Consistent, Be United, Be Clear), which do you struggle with most? Have you ever prayed and asked for wisdom to know how to discipline your child? Pray together as a group today for the wisdom to discipline effectively. Resources: Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD More Wire Talk episodes on discipline: Laying the Foundation , The Middle Years , The Coaching Years Find ALL the episodes we’ve ever recorded on discipline HERE . Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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424: A Healthy Mom = Healthy Kids 21:57

43 weeks ago21:57

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How do you make sacrifices for your kids without sacrificing yourself in the process? In today’s conversation, Karen and Emily explore this question and Karen offers wisdom on knowing when it’s time to prioritize yourself. We'll dig into taking care of your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health because a healthy mom equals healthy kids! Episode Recap: (3:31) There is a difference between sacrificing for others and sacrificing yourself in the process (5:42) Surround yourself with the wise counsel of those who are ahead of you on the journey (10:19) Good emotional health for a mom results in good emotional health for her children (15:26) Take care of your spiritual health and invest in a resource to help you Questions for Discussion: Can you share a time when you felt you were sacrificing too much of yourself for your children? How did you recognize this, and what steps did you take to find a better balance? If you’re in the middle of this right now, can you share more about what’s going on? Karen mentions the importance of surrounding yourself with wise counsel. Who are the people in your life that provide you with wisdom and support, and how have they helped you navigate motherhood? Karen shares that emotional health is passed from parent to child. What was the emotional climate in your home growing up? What effect did that climate have on you and the way you respond emotionally now? How do you want to change or maintain that climate in your home now as a parent? On a scale of 1 (not at all) to 10 (all of the time) how well do you think you are prioritizing your physical health? What changes if any do you need to make in this area? How are you nurturing your faith right now, and what resources or practices have you found most beneficial in staying connected to God during this season of life? Resources: Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD Grab a copy of Karen’s Six Truths of Motherhood and use code WTSix for free shipping Pick up the Moments with God for Moms daily devotional or Karen’s weekly prayer journal for your quiet time. Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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423: Your Kid is a Crock-Pot, Give Them Time! 30:39

44 weeks ago30:39

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Today we’re cracking the spine of Karen’s newest book, Survival Guide to Motherhood . Karen shares insightful excerpts from the opening chapters, exploring the ideas that kids develop like Crock-Pots, joy is a choice, and moms are the CEOs of their homes. Grab your copy of Survival Guide today. Check the show notes for the link. Episode Recap: 3:17 Survival Guide to Motherhood is available for pre-order 9:58 Process of recording the audiobook version 13:25 Moms all want to “get it right” and we all want someone to walk alongside us 16:43 Kids are like Crock-Pots 21:19 Joy is a choice 24:20 Moms, you are the boss of your home 26:25 You’re not in control (God is!) but you can control the atmosphere in your home Questions for Discussion: Reflecting on Karen's analogy that kids are like crock pots, how have you seen your child's growth and maturity reflect the concept that progress takes time, much like a slow-cooked meal? Is there something going on right now with a child where you are finding it hard to be patient with their slow maturation process? Is it easy for you to “choose joy” in your day to day situation right now? Can you share a time when choosing joy made a difference in your approach to a difficult situation with your children or spouse? In what ways do you see yourself as the "boss" of your home, and how does this influence your daily decision-making? Can you share an example of a time when taking charge in your household led to a positive outcome for your family? Resources: Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: https://www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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422: Knowing When to Lean In and When to Let It Go 26:00

45 weeks ago26:00

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In this episode, we're tackling one of the biggest challenges moms face: determining when to address a child's behavior and when to let things slide. Today Karen is answering your questions about managing high expectations, handling stress-induced blow-ups, guiding toddlers through tantrums, fostering honesty in kids, and navigating family dynamics with your less disciplined relatives. We hope today’s encouragement helps you find the balance between leaning in and letting go! Episode Recap: 4:20 Are my expectations for my 5 year old too high? 8:06 Help! I have zero patience for my energetic kiddo right now! 12:28 You don’t have time “not have time” for your daily quiet time with God. 14:45 How do I handle a toddler who won’t stop crying? 18:53 I always have to fact-check my child. How do we stop the habit of lying? 21:09 My siblings’ children are wild at family functions and it sucks the joy out of our time together. What can I do? Questions for Discussion: How do you decide when to address your child's behavior and when to let things go? Do you turn to prayer during challenging parenting moments, and can you share a time when it made a difference for you or your child? Did you relate to the question about the toddler who won’t stop crying? Are any of your children especially sensitive or outwardly emotional? How do you help your child learn to express their emotions in a healthy way? Do you have any relatives or close friends who have different parenting styles from you? Does it make those interactions challenging or have you found effective ways to handle those relationships? Resources: Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: https://www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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421: The Secret to a Happy Marriage After Kids 31:23

46 weeks ago31:23

31:23

Want to know the secret to being happily married for 37 years? Listen and learn from Karen in today’s episode! We’re exploring how to navigate differences, keep the love alive, and build the strong, united front that benefits your kids. With personal stories, practical tips, and plenty of laughs, this episode is all about celebrating the joys and quirks of married life. Tune in and learn from the best. :) Episode Recap: 5:21 A strong marriage brings security to children 7:53 Principle #1- Be United 10:14 How to actively listen to your spouse 17:05 Strategies to navigate and embrace differences 21:39 Principle #2- Be FOR one another 27:01 Be your spouse’s #1 cheerleader Questions for Discussion: What shared values are most important in your marriage, and how do you reinforce them? How do you and your partner handle differences in parenting styles? What are some ways you keep the romance alive amidst the chaos of family life? Can you share a time when overcoming a challenge together strengthened your relationship? How do you celebrate the small, everyday moments in your marriage? Resources: Pre-order Karen’s all-new Survival Guide to Motherhood today! Orders ship July 30th: https://amzn.to/3Vr7LlD Want to bring Karen to speak in your community? Reach out: https://www.birdsonwiremoms.com/invite Connect with Birds on a Wire Moms on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsonawiremoms and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsonawiremoms…

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