DATING THE NOW with The Feels founder Allie Hoffman

Sex, Psychics, & Psychedelics

Allie Hoffman discusses the intersection of personal growth and conscious dating, emphasizing the importance of returning to one's body and being present in the moment. She challenges the superficiality of visual dominance in dating and highlights the power of eyes closed and felt experiences. Ali encourages moving beyond superficial connections on dating apps and embracing authenticity. She explores the journey from personal improvement to personal growth and the importance of being present and embracing the collective sigh of relief. Ali also discusses navigating discomfort and bravery in dating,, and the role of projection and storytelling in relationships. She concludes by emphasizing the importance of authentic communication, self-discovery, and self-acceptance. In this conversation, Allie Hoffman discusses her dating experience and her hopes for the future of The Feels.

Takeaways

· Conscious dating intersects with personal growth by inviting individuals to return to their bodies, be present, and connect on a deeper level.

· Visual dominance in dating, especially on apps, can lead to superficial connections and a focus on external qualities rather than genuine connection.

· Closing one's eyes and engaging in felt experiences can provide a more accurate and vibrant understanding of another person's energy and potential for connection.

· Moving beyond superficial connections on dating apps requires a shift in focus from external qualities to deeper, more meaningful connections.

· Authenticity and self-acceptance are key in unlearning assumptions and embracing genuine connections in dating.

· The journey of personal growth begins with self-improvement and self-awareness, leading to more fulfilling and authentic relationships.

· Being present and embracing the collective sigh of relief in dating events can create a deeper sense of connection and authenticity.

· Navigating discomfort and embracing bravery in dating allows for genuine connections and personal growth.

· The journey from I to Me to We involves understanding oneself, embracing authenticity, and communicating truthfully in relationships.

· Projection and storytelling can impact relationships, and it is important to communicate and understand one's own truth.

· Authentic communication, self-discovery, and self-acceptance are essential in building meaningful connections and thriving in relationships. Open and honest communication can enhance dating experiences.

· Creating a safe and judgment-free environment is important in dating.

· The Feels aims to provide a welcoming space for singles to connect.

· Expanding The Feels to include events for couples may be considered in the future.

Chapters

00:00The Intersection of Personal Growth and Conscious Dating

03:16The Impact of Visual Dominance in Dating

05:16The Power of Eyes Closed and Felt Experiences

07:40Moving Beyond Superficial Connections on Dating Apps

11:33Unlearning Assumptions and Embracing Authenticity

13:56From Personal Improvement to Personal Growth

18:11The Importance of Being Present and Embracing the Journey

20:56Connecting Through the Collective Sigh of Relief

24:54Navigating Discomfort and Bravery in Dating

29:50The Journey from I to Me to We

32:40The Role of Projection and Storytelling in Relationships

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