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How do you know when it’s time to make your next big career move? With International Women’s Day around the corner, we are excited to feature Avni Patel Thompson, Founder and CEO of Milo. Avni is building technology that directly supports the often overlooked emotional and logistical labor that falls on parents—especially women. Milo is an AI assistant designed to help families manage that invisible load more efficiently. In this episode, Avni shares her journey from studying chemistry to holding leadership roles at global brands like Adidas and Starbucks, to launching her own ventures. She discusses how she approaches career transitions, the importance of unpleasant experiences, and why she’s focused on making everyday life easier for parents. [01:26] Avni's University Days and Early Career [04:36] Non-Linear Career Paths [05:16] Pursuing Steep Learning Curves [11:51] Entrepreneurship and Safety Nets [15:22] Lived Experiences and Milo [19:55] Avni’s In Her Ellement Moment [20:03] Reflections Links: Avni Patel Thompson on LinkedIn Suchi Srinivasan on LinkedIn Kamila Rakhimova on LinkedIn Ipsos report on the future of parenting About In Her Ellement: In Her Ellement highlights the women and allies leading the charge in digital, business, and technology innovation. Through engaging conversations, the podcast explores their journeys—celebrating successes and acknowledging the balance between work and family. Most importantly, it asks: when was the moment you realized you hadn’t just arrived—you were truly in your element? About The Hosts: Suchi Srinivasan is an expert in AI and digital transformation. Originally from India, her career includes roles at trailblazing organizations like Bell Labs and Microsoft. In 2011, she co-founded the Cleanweb Hackathon, a global initiative driving IT-powered climate solutions with over 10,000 members across 25+ countries. She also advises Women in Cloud, aiming to create $1B in economic opportunities for women entrepreneurs by 2030. Kamila Rakhimova is a fintech leader whose journey took her from Tajikistan to the U.S., where she built a career on her own terms. Leveraging her English proficiency and international relations expertise, she discovered the power of microfinance and moved to the U.S., eventually leading Amazon's Alexa Fund to support underrepresented founders. Subscribe to In Her Ellement on your podcast app of choice to hear meaningful conversations with women in digital, business, and technology.…

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We deeply desired a marriage based on God's design: two people coming together as "one flesh," but we had no idea how to do it. We tried and fell flat many times, going through many dark seasons. We wondered when the oneness was supposed to begin. Renewing grace and love in our marriage wasn't an easy process, but now, more than 20 years later, our marriage is thriving, and Brad is a licensed counselor, and Kate is a relationship coach. We work with couples and individuals who want to discover what building a one-flesh marriage means, helping them uncover and understand their stories and the unique challenges that keep them stuck. We invite you to journey with us as we are Still Becoming One.

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#Society #Relationship #Religion #Christianity #Podcasting Education #Self-Improvement #Brad & Kate Aldrich #Kate Aldrich #Marriage #Christian Marriage #Wife #Husband #One Flesh Marriage #Coaching

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Sorry Not Sorry: Why Your Apologies Might Be Making Things Worse 35:31

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Send us a text Relationship conflict is inevitable, but the key to healthy relationships lies in effective repair—acknowledging impact and taking responsibility rather than just saying, "sorry you were hurt." • Conflict in relationships is normal, but repair is essential for rebuilding connection • There's a critical difference between "I'm sorry you were hurt" and "I'm sorry I hurt you" • Effective repair involves listening well, owning your impact, and discussing future changes • Different personalities seek different things in apologies—understanding your partner's needs is crucial • Managing different perceptions of reality without arguing about "facts" helps resolve conflicts • Forgiveness involves acknowledging harm and choosing not to require payment for it • Modeling good repair with children teaches them relationship skills for their future • Repairing doesn't always mean changing your decision, but it does mean acknowledging the impact • The sooner we repair, the smaller our relationship ruptures remain Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Taking One for the Team: When Sex Feels One-Sided 37:13

8 days ago37:13

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Send us a text Can a healthy marriage include moments where one partner "takes one for the team" sexually? This candid conversation tackles the sensitive reality of differing desire levels and how couples navigate intimacy when interest isn't mutual. We explore this often used metaphor and unpack how this dynamic typically unfolds - often with one partner silently sacrificing while harboring resentment, and the other sensing something's off but unable to name it. The result? Disconnection where connection was intended. There are healthier alternatives, true intimacy requires honest dialogue where both partners can express desire without undue pressure and decline without causing undue rejection. Whether you're struggling with mismatched desire levels or want to deepen your understanding of sexual dynamics in marriage, this episode offers compassionate guidance grounded in both professional experience and the hosts' journey. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Who Is Family Anyway? 34:43

15 days ago34:43

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Send us a text What defines family in today's complex world? We dive into the often misleading notion that blood is thicker than water, encouraging listeners to reflect on the diverse definitions of family. We can seek to maintain loyalty to family while navigating the complexities of emotional needs in life. However, there's more to "family" than biological ties. We explore how a chosen family can sometimes be your strongest support system, emphasizing the importance of those connections in your personal growth and happiness. Deep connections formed with friends can provide the support and love typically attributed to familial bonds. Brad and Kate invite you to consider who you regard as family and how those relationships impact your life. If you've ever felt frustrated by familial ties, this episode is for you. Join us as we discuss embracing your whole support system and redefining what family means to you. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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And We Are Still Becoming One 31:58

22 days ago31:58

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Send us a text Welcome to Season 4 of Still Becoming One. We are excited to continue our own journey of growth and to bring all of you along with us. So What happens when high school sweethearts get married and realize they need to seriously address their struggles? That was our journey that eventually led to the creation of the Still Becoming One podcast. With roots that trace back to our One Flesh Marriage blog. In this episode, we wanted to reintroduce ourselves to all of our fantastic audience. We dive into the transformative power of story work, we talk candidly about raising four children, both biological and adopted, and the profound impact trauma has on family dynamics and relationships. Discover how Aldrich Ministries and our coaching network aim to enhance relationships through kindness, understanding, and continual growth. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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You Aren't Meeting My Needs- Now What? 41:24

19 weeks ago41:24

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Send us a text We hear it all the time: "My wife's not meeting my needs" or "My husband isn't meeting my needs!" What do we do about this? Of course, we want our spouse to meet our physical, emotional, sexual, and other needs. Yet, is it their responsibility to do so? The struggle to juggle demanding jobs and family commitments makes this a very common feeling. We explore the emotional tug-of-war many couples experience when they feel like the person they signed up to "do life with" is now not meeting their needs. Is this a reason to end the relationship? Are there ways to fix this? Let's dive into understanding and meeting each other's needs. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Politics Is Killing Our Family: Building Bridges or Boundaries 39:28

21 weeks ago39:28

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Send us a text How do you keep the peace at Thanksgiving dinner when political differences arise? As we approach the pivotal 2024 election, we dive into the divisive topic of how to engage in compassionate and understanding discussions, even when opinions clash. Family dynamics during politically charged times can be tricky to navigate. We've seen too many families torn apart by the enmity and contempt of rival politics. Sometimes, we need to build bridges of compassionate listening and other times; we need to build boundaries. Join us from both sides of the aisle as we navigate this tricky situation. (mentioned in this episode- The Power of Saying No: 5 Steps to Set Up Boundaries that Stick ) Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Faith, Marriage, and the Story of Uncle Nearest with guests Fawn and Keith Weaver 43:16

24 weeks ago43:16

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Send us a text Fawn and Keith Weaver take us on an unforgettable journey through their love story to becoming the CEO of the most-awarded American whiskey for 5 years running. Celebrating over twenty years of marriage, they share how their partnership was built on a foundation of deep connection, mutual respect, and connection with the Lord. Fawn's book, "Love and Whiskey," weaves their personal narrative with the rich history of Uncle Nearest, the first Black master distiller, and his friendship with Jack Daniel. Together, the Weavers are dedicated to preserving this incredible legacy through the Uncle Nearest Distillery and the Nearest Green Foundation, showcasing the power of love, faith, and a shared mission. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Asking for More Sex: Becoming Sexually Confident 37:38

25 weeks ago37:38

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Send us a text You've been stuck feeling like roommates and don't know how to ask for more sexual intimacy. OR maybe your spouse is the one asking but in ALL the wrong ways. This episode promises to equip you with the tools to understand and navigate sexual frequency concerns that both partners often experience. Tune in as we share candid insights and anecdotes about setting realistic expectations, fostering open communication, and addressing awkward yet essential conversations about intimacy. You'll leave with practical strategies to find a middle ground that works for you and your partner. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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The Sexually Confident Marriage: With Special Guest Shannon Ethridge 48:59

26 weeks ago48:59

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Send us a text Tune in as we welcome the phenomenal Shannon Etheridge, a million-copy bestselling author who shares her transformative journey and the evolution of her work on sexual confidence. Discover the inspiration behind her book, "The Sexually Confident Wife," and how it has evolved into helping couples discover their sexual confidence together. Shannon's insights shed light on what it takes to grow sexual confidence and its profound impact on nurturing stronger, more connected marital relationships. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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The Power of Saying No: 5 Steps To Set Up Boundaries that Stick 34:43

29 weeks ago34:43

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Send us a text Every "yes" you give is actually a "no" to something else- usually without you realizing the cost at the time, which means we NEED to learn how to put up boundaries! Join us while we explore the art of setting boundaries in relationships and give you 5 steps to find and hold the necessary boundaries in your life! Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Breaking the Silence: Healing from Sexual Abuse Together 37:09

31 weeks ago37:09

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Send us a text How long have you been carrying a secret too heavy to bear? Today, we address one of the most silent yet pervasive issues: the trauma of sexual abuse. Drawing inspiration from our former guest, Lindsay Lautsbaugh's stirring sermon , we uncover the heartbreaking reality that the average age of disclosure is 51, underscoring the critical need for understanding and support. Sexual abuse steals more than just innocence; it strips away safety and trust. We emphasize that healing is gradual and requires unwavering support. We focus on the importance of kindness and self-compassion. Healing from such trauma is not a linear path but an ongoing process that requires resilience and continuous effort. By sharing our own experiences and those of others, we illustrate how challenging negative self-beliefs and understanding our stories can lead to profound personal growth. Don't miss Lindsay's Message: Straight Lines Crooked Sticks: Dinah and The Samaritan Woman . Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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In Anxiety and In Calm: When Anxiety Invades Your Marriage with Abby Foster, LCSW 35:32

34 weeks ago35:32

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Send us a text Anxiety sometimes feels like a blaring smoke alarm in your life; it may be your own anxiety or your spouse's. You're not alone. On this episode of Still Becoming One, we are thrilled to sit down with Abby Foster, an LCSW from Lancaster Therapy Center , to unpack the nuances of anxiety and its profound impact on daily living and relationships. Abby illuminates the line between normal anxiety and the type that disrupts your sleep, relationships, and overall functioning, shedding light on when it might be time to seek professional help. Ever wonder how to truly support a spouse dealing with anxiety without making things worse? We explore how to move beyond well-meaning but ineffective strategies to discover how couples can work together to battle anxiety. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Overcoming Relationship Hurdles Together with Lindsey Lautsbaugh 43:53

36 weeks ago43:53

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Send us a text Discover the hidden challenges young married couples face today with our special guest, pastor Lindsay Lotzbaugh, who brings her wealth of experience from pastoring, missions, and motherhood. Lindsay opens up about sensitive topics like pornography, communication issues, and the critical lack of support systems that many newlyweds encounter. We explore how the generational gap in churches often deprives young couples of much-needed spiritual mentors, forcing them to turn to peers, sometimes with less-than-helpful results. Lindsay’s insights remind us of the urgent need to build strong, supportive communities within our churches to nurture healthier marriages. Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Navigating the Mission Field and Family Life with Chris Lautsbaugh 39:36

37 weeks ago39:36

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Send us a text What does it take to navigate marriage and family life while serving as a missionary? Get ready to glean invaluable insights from seasoned missionary and pastoral minister Chris Lautsbaugh, who brings three decades of experience to our discussion. We promise you'll learn about the unique challenges and rewards of raising children in a foreign culture, dealing with financial stresses specific to missionary life, and the crucial role of maintaining regular connections and good communication within the family. Chris’s wisdom on adapting to various seasons of life and ministry will leave you inspired, especially as he talks about the grace found in persevering through tough times. God's Whole Story Podcast Support the show Still Becoming One Facebook Instagram Aldrich Ministries…

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Turning Dark Years into Light: Lessons from Barb and Mark Case 47:30

39 weeks ago47:30