Ryan Gray: Compassion and Understanding in the Face of Addiction

The Death Dhamma Podcast

Ryan Gray, shares his personal experience with addiction and homelessness. He describes how addiction can make even basic tasks like getting to a shelter on time incredibly challenging. The stigma around homelessness and addiction often leads people to wrongly assume those struggling can simply "get a job" and fix their problems.

Gray explains that addiction is not about seeking pleasure, but rather about avoiding the excruciating pain and sickness of withdrawal. The addiction becomes all-consuming, leading to desperate and uncharacteristic behaviors just to stave off withdrawal. He emphasizes that addiction is a disease, not a choice, and that willpower alone is often insufficient to overcome it.

Gray's path to recovery involved years of intensive treatment, including inpatient rehab, dual diagnosis programs, and long-term mental health support. He credits the unwavering support of his family, as well as participation in 12-step groups, as crucial to his ability to get and stay sober. The concept of a "higher power" was important, as it helped him let go of the ego and admit he could not conquer the addiction alone.

Now sober since 2007, Gray has channeled his experiences into writing. He reads a poignant excerpt from his book "Twilight in York," which poetically describes the heartbreak and loss he caused his loved ones during his active addiction. Gray sees his writing as a way to help others struggling with addiction and mental illness by sharing his story.

Find out more about Ryan and "Twilight in York," here:

www.twilightinyork.com

https://www.amazon.com/Twilight-York-One-Ryan-Gray/dp/B0CKS6F9XK

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