Live the Life You Have While Looking Toward the Life You Want - Wendy Harrop

The Hell Yes! Habit

This week’s episode is going to light you up and help you to blissfully create space to fill your cup. If you don’t already have a morning routine, we’re gonna inspire you to get one of those bad boys! Our conversation is like a shot of Hell Yes right to your veins.

My guest is Wendy Harrop, a West Coast Wedding Planner turned East Coast barn lover who owns and runs the historic Phineas Wright House in Bolton, Massachusetts. She cooks up dreamy, curated experiences for guests in the kitchen, the garden, the barn, on the farm, and on the road. She is currently leading a group of women on a luxury curated trip in France that includes celebrating other female entrepreneurs who are living their own dreamy lives and is the co-host of the Love Letters, Life, and Other Conversations podcast.

Wendy delivers mic drop inspiration like it’s a favorite recipe she’s passing along to a friend. Here are a handful of the juicy #lillovebombs from today’s episode.

1. Let yourself imagine & ask what if. Sometimes the act of freely imagining without the burden of feasibility is enough to spark the momentum towards becoming a reality. When you think it’s impossible, simply ask yourself: If I could, what would it look like and see what comes. You might be surprised what flows from your lips when you allow yourself to simply imagine what if. Once you think it and speak it, it exists and from there, you can achieve it.
   
2. Flip the script. Turn frustrating things into a service to you. Shifting from lack to abundance allows opportunities to appear even in the most frustrating moments.
   
3. Live the life you have until you get the life you want. It’s possible to hold conviction for your dream & still completely revel in your present reality. Life is full of seasons. Don’t cheat on this season with last season or next season. They all play their roles to get us to our big goals. Don’t get so stuck on what you don’t have yet that you miss what you do have.
   
4. Be flexible. We’re in a reciprocal relationship of constant flow. Simply shifting from “this is happening to me'' to “this is happening for me” opens unnoticed possibility.
   
5. Say Yes to Yourself. Carving out time to fill your own cup is essential to living a life you dream of. Finding time to say yes to yourself is the game changer to field all that comes at you with grace & confidence.
   
6. Freedom is one permission slip away & it's the one you give yourself. We are the only thing standing in the way of our big, epic dreams.

Connect with Wendy
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About the Host
Kristi Nellor is a soul consultant, experience architect, reinvention strategist, and creativity catalyst for companies and individuals looking to transform their projects, mindsets, brands, and lives. She is a lighthouse calling people back home to the biggest and best versions of themselves and believes that Belief + Creativity + Action x Heart = Absolute Magic.

Need more Hell Yes in your life?! Follow Kristi @k_nellor on IG or check out programs and ways to collaborate at kristinellor.com
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