5 Signs A Fearful Avoidant Misses You But Won't Say It

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Do you wonder if your fearful avoidant partner misses you but is too afraid to say it? Discover the five subtle signs and learn how to bridge the gap for better understanding and connection.

In today’s episode, Thais Gibson reveals five subtle but powerful signs that a fearful avoidant partner may miss you, even if they don’t say it outright. Learn how behaviors like pushing you away, seeking quality time, or showing negative framing can indicate their desire to reconnect. Listen now for insights into decoding their actions and fostering better communication in your relationship.

Timestamps

00:00:00 – Introduction: Does the Fearful Avoidant Miss You?

00:01:04 – Sign #1: Pushing You Away to Test Your Response

00:02:00 – The Role of Validation in Their Behavior

00:04:02 – Sign #2: Asking About Small Details of Your Life

00:05:32 – Hypervigilance as a Coping Mechanism

00:06:39 – Sign #3: Inviting You to Novel Experiences

00:08:01 – Why New Experiences Help Them Bond

00:08:50 – Sign #4: Planning Quality Alone Time

00:10:30 – Sign #5: Negative Framing Instead of Direct Expression

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5 Signs A Fearful Avoidant Misses You But Won't Say It

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published about a year ago

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Do you wonder if your fearful avoidant partner misses you but is too afraid to say it? Discover the five subtle signs and learn how to bridge the gap for better understanding and connection.

Timestamps

00:00:00 – Introduction: Does the Fearful Avoidant Miss You?

00:01:04 – Sign #1: Pushing You Away to Test Your Response

00:02:00 – The Role of Validation in Their Behavior

00:04:02 – Sign #2: Asking About Small Details of Your Life

00:05:32 – Hypervigilance as a Coping Mechanism

00:06:39 – Sign #3: Inviting You to Novel Experiences

00:08:01 – Why New Experiences Help Them Bond

00:08:50 – Sign #4: Planning Quality Alone Time

00:10:30 – Sign #5: Negative Framing Instead of Direct Expression

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The Dismissive and Fearful Avoidant Relationship Dynamic 22:02

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What happens when a dismissive avoidant and a fearful avoidant are in a relationship? This dynamic can be one of the most intense and emotionally turbulent attachment pairings due to conflicting needs, emotional push-pull behaviors, and deep-rooted fears around intimacy and abandonment. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , we explore the key challenges, patterns, and strategies for building a healthier connection between these two avoidant attachment styles. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why the fearful avoidant switches between anxious and avoidant behaviors in this pairing ✔️ How the dismissive avoidant’s emotional withdrawal triggers the FA’s fears ✔️ The push-pull cycle and why these relationships feel unstable ✔️ How both partners can meet each other’s emotional needs without overwhelming themselves ✔️ Key communication strategies to break the cycle of conflict and emotional shutdown ✔️ How to bring more security into the relationship for lasting connection If you've ever wondered, “Why does this relationship feel so intense yet so distant at the same time?” , this episode will help you understand the dynamic and how to create a healthier balance between independence and connection . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #relationshipdynamics #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Signs No Contact is Working Based on Your Ex’s Attachment Style 22:54

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3 Things That Get Every Dismissive Avoidant to Open Up 9:39

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Dismissive avoidants can seem emotionally shut down—but there is a way in. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship where the other person won’t open up, especially if they’re dismissive avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast is for you. Thais shares the top 3 proven ways to gently support a dismissive avoidant in letting down their emotional walls —without pushing, overgiving, or losing yourself in the process. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How asking specific—not general—questions creates space for meaningful sharing ✔️ Why emotional safety and non-judgment are essential to helping a DA open up ✔️ The power of validation, empathy, and simply remembering small details ✔️ How to express your needs without sounding critical or shaming ✔️ The role of acceptance and consistency in building long-term trust ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often test the waters before becoming emotionally vulnerable If you’ve ever wondered, “What can I do to connect with a dismissive avoidant partner—or know if it’s even worth it?” , this episode will offer clear, actionable tools to deepen emotional intimacy and assess relationship alignment . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipcommunication #emotionalconnection #datingadvice #selfhealing #attachmenttheory #personaldevelopment Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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The Fearful Avoidant and Anxious Attachment Style Relationship 34:35

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Relationships & The Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style 21:01

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What does a relationship look like with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant attachment styles often struggle with emotional closeness, vulnerability, and expressing needs , which can create unique relationship challenges. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or you identify with this attachment style yourself, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast explores why dismissive avoidants behave the way they do—and how to navigate these dynamics in a healthy way . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The core childhood experiences that shape dismissive avoidant attachment ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle with emotional connection and communication ✔️ How to support a dismissive avoidant partner without triggering them ✔️ The most effective ways to build trust and closeness over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants self-soothe—and why they withdraw during conflict ✔️ Key strategies for overcoming avoidance and building a healthier attachment style If you've ever felt frustrated in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or struggled with opening up, trusting others, and maintaining deep emotional connections , this episode is for you. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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10 days ago22:58

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What happens when a fearful avoidant reflects on a breakup? Fearful avoidants have complex emotional patterns —they crave connection but fear intimacy, making breakups especially intense. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais shares three major realizations fearful avoidants often have after a breakup , including the emotional patterns they struggle with, their regrets, and what happens when they gain clarity about their role in relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How fearful avoidants reflect on their breakups over time ✔️ The three major relationship patterns they often regret ✔️ Why they feel trapped by their own emotional cycles ✔️ How their subconscious fears of abandonment and engulfment play out post-breakup ✔️ Why they often expect others to fight for them while simultaneously pushing them away ✔️ How self-awareness and healing can shift their relationship patterns for good If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my fearful avoidant ex ever realize what happened?” , this episode will help you understand their post-breakup reflections and what it means for your own healing journey . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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The Fearful Avoidant & The 6 Stages Of A Relationship 21:38

11 days ago21:38

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How does a fearful avoidant experience the six stages of a relationship? Fearful avoidants go through unique emotional cycles in relationships , often fluctuating between deep connection and emotional withdrawal . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down how fearful avoidants move through each stage of a relationship , including the challenges they face and how to navigate these stages for a healthier, more secure connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 6 stages of a relationship and how fearful avoidants experience each one ✔️ Why they thrive in the dating phase but struggle with commitment ✔️ How fear of engulfment and abandonment plays out in relationships ✔️ Why the power struggle stage is make-or-break for fearful avoidants ✔️ How to move toward stability, deep commitment, and lasting love ✔️ Practical strategies for working through emotional triggers and avoidance If you've ever been in a relationship with a fearful avoidant (or are one yourself), this episode will help you understand their patterns and how to navigate relationships more effectively . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshipstages #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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When Your Ex Avoidant Realizes They Made A Mistake… 13:51

14 days ago13:51

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do dismissive avoidants ever regret leaving? Dismissive avoidants are known for suppressing emotions, pulling away from closeness, and avoiding vulnerability —but what happens when they realize they made a mistake after a breakup? In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down the most common patterns dismissive avoidants go through post-breakup, how they process regret, and whether they will reach out or avoid dealing with their emotions altogether . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants take longer to process regret after a breakup ✔️ The key signs a dismissive avoidant is realizing they made a mistake ✔️ Why they often don’t reach out—even when they miss you ✔️ How they suppress emotions to avoid feeling loss and vulnerability ✔️ What happens when they reflect on past relationships in hindsight ✔️ How to handle it if they do reach out (or if they don’t) ✔️ The difference between genuine regret vs. reaching out for comfort If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my dismissive avoidant ex ever think about me?” or “Will they ever realize what they lost?” , this episode will help you understand their post-breakup mindset and what it means for your healing and closure . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Overcome Your Core Wounds & Reprogram Your Subconscious Mind 25:49

15 days ago25:49

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are your core wounds keeping you stuck in painful relationship patterns? Many of us go through life repeating the same emotional cycles, not realizing that our core wounds and subconscious programming are dictating how we feel, behave, and connect with others. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down how to identify, understand, and reprogram your core wounds so you can break free from painful triggers and experience deep, lasting transformation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The science behind core wounds and how they develop ✔️ How your subconscious mind filters reality based on past experiences ✔️ The 5-step method to reprogram painful emotional triggers ✔️ Why fearful avoidants struggle with emotional regulation and self-worth ✔️ How to stop over-personalizing situations and ruminating on negative thoughts ✔️ The most effective daily practices to create new, empowering beliefs If you’ve ever felt stuck in emotional pain, repeating old patterns, or struggling with deep-seated wounds , this episode will give you actionable tools to heal and reprogram your subconscious mind at the root level . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #corewounds Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Win Back a Fearful Avoidant Partner 22:18

16 days ago22:18

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you win back a fearful avoidant partner? Fearful avoidants crave deep emotional connection but often struggle with trust, vulnerability, and consistency in relationships. If you’re looking to repair a relationship, reconnect, or rekindle love with a fearful avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast walks you through the right way to approach reconciliation—without losing yourself in the process . What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why fearful avoidants pull away and end relationships ✔️ The biggest mistakes people make when trying to win them back ✔️ How to rebuild trust and emotional connection in a safe way ✔️ The key differences between male and female fearful avoidants ✔️ Why boundaries and self-awareness are essential for reconciliation ✔️ How to set a clear deadline to avoid emotional limbo If you've ever asked yourself, "Can this relationship be repaired?" , this episode will help you navigate the complexities of a fearful avoidant’s emotional needs while maintaining your self-respect and well-being . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshiprecovery #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Breaking Down 6 Avoidant Texting Patterns that Confuse Everyone! 15:53

17 days ago15:53

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why do dismissive avoidants send confusing texts? If you’ve ever been puzzled by the texting habits of a dismissive avoidant, you’re not alone! From indirect messages to last-minute plans, these texting behaviors can be frustrating and difficult to interpret . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais breaks down six common avoidant texting patterns, why they happen, and what they really mean —so you can stop feeling confused and start communicating effectively. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants send vague or indirect texts instead of being clear ✔️ How last-minute texts are often a sign of avoidance, not lack of interest ✔️ Why avoidants ghost for short periods—and what it actually means ✔️ How their fear of commitment and emotional vulnerability shapes their texting behavior ✔️ The most common reasons dismissive avoidants cancel plans indirectly ✔️ How to respond effectively without playing guessing games If you've ever thought, "Why are they so inconsistent?" or "Do they even like me?" , this episode will help you understand the avoidant mindset and navigate these texting patterns with clarity . Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #textinghabits #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #avoidantbehavior Love this episode? If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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Why Avoidants MUST Learn to Be Vulnerable to Build a Healthy Relationship 57:29

19 days ago57:29

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Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why is vulnerability so difficult—but so necessary—in relationships? Many people, especially those with avoidant attachment styles, struggle to open up and express their emotions. Yet, vulnerability is what transforms infatuation into love, strengthens bonds, and deepens emotional connection . In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast , Thais and co-host Mike DiZio explore why vulnerability is challenging, how to communicate it effectively, and why it’s the key to building lasting, fulfilling relationships . If you’ve ever struggled with expressing your emotions, setting boundaries, or feeling safe enough to be your true self in relationships , this episode will give you the tools to overcome fear, deepen intimacy, and create authentic connections . Timestamps: 00:00 - Intro 01:48 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Mike's Story) 05:24 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Thais' Story) 10:26 - 7-Day Free Trial 11:16 - Misconceptions About Vulnerability 17:31 - How to Approach a Dismissive Avoidant with Vulnerability 26:54 - Vulnerability Allows You to Be Loved & Fall in Love 33:10 - Rocket Money 35:02 - When You and a Loved One Have Opposing Views 41:01 - If You're Afraid to Share Vulnerably With Others 52:26 - Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources: 💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes : https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog : https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors: 💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices…

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How to Save a Relationship with a Female Dismissive Avoidant 22:55

22 days ago22:55