Looking In The Mirror at Your Parts in Dating, with Lilli Bewley

The Uncharted Way Podcast

On this episode of the 'Uncharted Way' podcast, Sari invites dating coach Lilli Bewley to discuss love and relationships. We chat about the impact of how we perceive love based on what our parents portrayed, including self-sacrifice and self-abandonment, living in dominant and submissive relationships, not speaking out for our needs. Don't miss this empowering episode that encourages self-reflection, healing, and choosing partners based on alignment and healing, for one can not find love without the importance of finding love within oneself first. Uncover the significance of self-love, setting boundaries, and internal reflection for breaking patterns and fostering genuine growth.

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Sari Cowsert
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The Growth Goddess, who intimately understands the constraints of control and fear, and through her own personal transformation, she has garnered the wisdom to lead others on their transformative journey. As a Hypnotherapist, Master Imagery Facilitator, and Essence Curator, Sari's mission is to illuminate the path for every person she encounters, creating a sacred space for you to uniquely radiate in your own true authenticity.
Lilli Bewley
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Lilli Bewley is a Dating Coach for Finding Love with over 10 years of experience in personal development. She, herself, went from just surviving in life to thriving in love & purpose. Currently, she is helping single & successful women love dating & find true love. Lilli is on a mission to educate people on how dating can be fun again after a divorce, even in their 30s & 40s & 50s, & even if they’ve been single for forever. We have the ability to create magnetic energy in our dating lives even if we have to perform & be high achievers in other parts of our lives. Her signature Quiz, The Feminine Dating Archetype Quiz, will show women their blocks to love & help them find their true love match.
[00:00:03] Love was self-sacrifice and abandonment. Learned through dominant-submissive household model. Welcome to the uncharted Way podcast, breaking societal norms. Lily Bewley shares journey to finding love. Love stood for pain and hurt. Lost sense of self and needs. Childhood trauma shaped view of love.
[00:08:05] Constant healing, love over fear.
[00:15:24] Healthy boundaries, self-love, compassion, transformation.
[00:21:57] Parts of us protect us from looking deeper at things we need to address, reflecting in the mirror can be threatening.
[00:28:22] Healing work rewires brain for alignment.
[00:34:20] Building walls to protect from hurt.
[00:39:52] Healing involves self-compassion and discernment.
[00:45:23] Life happens, need support to heal.
[00:50:39] Relationships are about mutual growth.
[00:56:49] Relationships and dating require self-awareness and healing.