EP #4 Healing After IVF: A Childless Journey of Grief and Resilience with Anne Altimore

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In this episode, host Daisy May Reyes introduces Anne Altimore, founder of Life After IVF. Anne shares her 27-year journey of experiencing IVF, overcoming miscarriages, and feeling isolated due to lack of support. Daisy and Anne discuss the importance of processing grief, the emotional connections formed during IVF, and Anne's transition from a corporate career to becoming a certified counselor and psychotherapist. They highlight the significance of support groups, acknowledging disenfranchised grief, and the challenges faced by both women and men in their fertility journeys. Anne also emphasizes the role of self-care, understanding personal grieving styles, and the continuous effort needed to integrate grief into one's life. Tune in to gain insights and support on navigating the highs and lows of IVF and infertility.
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00:00 Introduction to IVF Challenges and Losses
00:58 Personal Journey and Podcast Mission
02:06 Guest Introduction: Anne Altimore
02:43 Anne's IVF Journey and Founding Life After IVF
04:40 The Emotional Impact of IVF and Miscarriages
05:54 Support and Counseling for IVF Losses
09:36 Disenfranchised Grief and Emotional Connections
17:01 Grieving Styles and Gender Differences
26:23 Childless Not by Choice: Terminology and Community
35:13 The Emotional Struggles of Childlessness
35:49 Breaking the Stigma Around Childlessness
37:11 The Impact of Societal Expectations
38:04 Finding Courage and Support
38:31 Personal Experiences with IVF
39:43 The Importance of Education and Awareness
45:59 Menopause and Re-triggered Grief
48:48 Understanding and Honoring Grief
01:00:46 Spiritual Connections and Grief
01:04:29 Building Grief Muscles and Self-Care
01:07:38 Upcoming Projects and Support Groups
01:08:49 Conclusion and Contact Information
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