The Trauma Within Navigating The Adult Industry and Finding Empowerment W/ Carly S

Trauma Queen

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What if trauma isn't just something to be overcome but an essential part of being human? Join us for an eye-opening discussion with Carly S, a pleasure educator, porn star, model, and blogger, as she takes us on her captivating journey through the adult industry. From her days managing New York's top sex toy stores to her influential roles at Spectrum Boutique and NASTOY, Carly opens up about the multifaceted world of sex work. We also share how our paths crossed through mutual admiration and explore how trauma has shaped Carly's unique outlook on life and work.
In our candid conversation, Carly addresses the unique challenges faced by non-white sex workers, highlighting the stark realities of rate disparities and societal perceptions. We explore the tricky dynamics of forming genuine friendships within the sex work community, balancing the fine line between survival sex work and voluntary participation. Carly also discusses her personal journey, sharing how she transitioned from dancing to mainstream jobs before finding her niche in the adult industry. This chapter is a powerful reminder of the resilience and determination required to navigate this complex landscape.
As Carly moved to a fully digital career during the pandemic, she found solace and strength in a supportive community, therapy, and meticulous organization. We discuss the emotional and logistical efforts sex workers put into fulfilling clients' fantasies while confronting societal taboos and financial penalties. Carly's story is a testament to the importance of community and self-care. Listen in as we celebrate Carly's achievements and her hopes for a future where sex work is less stigmatized and more equitably treated. This is an episode you won't want to miss if you're curious about the true intricacies of sex work.

Thank you all for listening. Set a boundary with yourself this week, set a boundary with someone else. If someone else does not respect that boundary. LET THEM LOOSE YOU! Stay hydrated internally and externally. We do not have an ashy family.
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Chapters

1. The Trauma Within Navigating The Adult Industry and Finding Empowerment W/ Carly S (00:00:00)

2. Exploring Sex Work (00:00:20)

3. Challenges of Non-White Sex Workers (00:14:51)

4. Navigating the Sex Work Industry (00:20:39)

5. Exploring Personal Highs and Community (00:29:38)

6. The Complexities of Sex Work (00:44:52)