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Female Fake Orgasm Spectrum, Too Long, Too Short, Male Climax Clues
Manage episode 372442905 series 2296204
For a man, orgasms are pretty much binary. Sure, there are some tantra afficionados who will tell you that ejaculation and orgasm for a man can be separate and the like. But for most men, they either cum or they don't, and the semen is the proof.
For women, the tale of the tape can be quite different. We can all agree that a woman is "faking it" if she receives nothing resembling an orgasm from the act. But what if she has one proper orgasm and then a series of "aftershocks". Should she be accused of faking if the subsequent events are, in her mind, orgasms in their own right?
Alongside this, why do men obsess over being able to "make" a woman orgasm. Sure, I can see the allure of her receiving intense pleasure from the same organ that gives you such pleasure (I'm referring to your penis). But, women's pleasure isn't really vicarious in this way. They have their own apparatus to manage. And, as with most things in life, to do it well you must first do it yourself.
Can any woman (or man for that matter) seriously enjoy thrusting that lasts an hour? What if a man needs this duration of stimulation to get him there? What should his partner do?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/128/dick-feel
https://ymmv.me/128/mad
https://ymmv.me/128/faking
https://ymmv.me/128/attraction
https://ymmv.me/128/duration
Twitter: @ymmvpod
Facebook: ymmvpod
Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com
175 episodes
Manage episode 372442905 series 2296204
For a man, orgasms are pretty much binary. Sure, there are some tantra afficionados who will tell you that ejaculation and orgasm for a man can be separate and the like. But for most men, they either cum or they don't, and the semen is the proof.
For women, the tale of the tape can be quite different. We can all agree that a woman is "faking it" if she receives nothing resembling an orgasm from the act. But what if she has one proper orgasm and then a series of "aftershocks". Should she be accused of faking if the subsequent events are, in her mind, orgasms in their own right?
Alongside this, why do men obsess over being able to "make" a woman orgasm. Sure, I can see the allure of her receiving intense pleasure from the same organ that gives you such pleasure (I'm referring to your penis). But, women's pleasure isn't really vicarious in this way. They have their own apparatus to manage. And, as with most things in life, to do it well you must first do it yourself.
Can any woman (or man for that matter) seriously enjoy thrusting that lasts an hour? What if a man needs this duration of stimulation to get him there? What should his partner do?
We get a lot of our questions from Reddit, so for our listeners' enjoyment, here are links to some of the questions we discussed this week:
https://ymmv.me/128/dick-feel
https://ymmv.me/128/mad
https://ymmv.me/128/faking
https://ymmv.me/128/attraction
https://ymmv.me/128/duration
Twitter: @ymmvpod
Facebook: ymmvpod
Email: ymmvpod@gmail.com
175 episodes
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