Welcome to “Wicked Wednesdays” a weekly podcast about my experience as an amateur porn actor and producer. I’ll be sharing my insights into the process of making porn, how we got started and lots of candid talk about sex and and relationships with an emphasis on BDSM, Kink and Polyamorous relationships. Obviously this will not be a kid safe podcast, so discretion is advised.
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Hey, I'm Mary! A muse of many mediums. You'll notice that a few things are different looking about this little podcast. (formerly known as Sex Work for the Soul) Well, dear listener. I am rebranding my business. It has been a year of transformation- and I'm excited to get back into all things, sensual, spiritual & self growth with you soon! Enjoy last season's episodes of our first rendition, "Sex Work for the Soul." Next season will be "Musings with Mary," and I can't wait! I'll be in touch ...
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Pink Ladies Inc. founders Ariie & Mz. Pinky take their shenanigans to the air waves with an uncut, freestyle podcast. The unfiltered duo get into candid discussions about today's hot topics and relevant issues with a series of guests. New episodes every other Saturday, available on all platforms. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pink-ladies-show/support
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Wicked Wednesdays No 65 “Can BDSM be Therapy"
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This week I answer a listener's question "Do you think BDSM can be therapy? Join me as I talk about potential pitfalls and benefits of therapeutic Kink. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Hey ya'll! Today's episode is a little different. I needed to get a few things off my chest. I appreciate you so much for following me and listening to this podcast- it really means the world to me to have an audience to speak to. I'm going through a period of re-alignment when it comes to my NSFW and spiritual businesses- and today I thought I'd t…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 64 “How Will A.I. Effect the Adult Entertainment Industry?"
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This week I dive in the question of how Artificial Intelligence will affect the adult entertainment industry. Will powerful A.I. tools make porn safer for all of us?, will computer generated porn take over and displace human performers? What does the near future hold for all of us?” Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com…
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This week: BDSM breakups. How do Kink and BDSM breakups differ from your normal vanilla break up? What can Doms do to help provide relationship aftercare, what happens when a sub wants to break up with their Dom? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 62 “Surviving Breakups”
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This week: Surviving breakups. I talk a lot about how to have successful healthy relationships on this podcast but sometimes things just don’t work out. I talk about how to get through the end of a relationship and hopefully come out the other side with your friendship intact. I also answer some listener questions about my relationship with leather…
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In this week's episode we talk about ways you can weave a little magick into your self care routine. Self care should be an essential part of your routines- you deserve it! And it doesn't have to look like the typical, mass produced version of self care, either. Listen to this episode to hear all kinds of ways you can make your self care into ritua…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 61 “Non Toxic Masculinity Pt 3 With Race Bannon”
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This week: part two of my interview with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. With trans and gay rights being a hot topic in the news we talk about why and how these social issues have become a political battle ground. We also talk about how some groups actively recruit disenfranchised and isolate…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 60 “Non Toxic Masculinity Pt 2 With Race Bannon”
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In the weeks episode I have a conversation with author and activist Race Bannon about how societal pressures and expectations shape men. What does it mean to be “a real man”? Who gets to decide what a man should be and how they should act? Join us for part one of this conversation in my ongoing series about non toxic masculinity. Find out more abou…
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Right in time for Valentine's Day. ;) Listen to hear about how astrology can help us to connect with our sexual preferences & inner power. In this episode I have my very first guest joining us- Dani Wright from That Witch Podcast! Dani is a witchcraft mentor and astrology instructor, with her very own witchcraft school that you can access below. We…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 59 “The Ethics of Porn Pt 3: Does Mainstream Porn Lead to CSAM”
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“In the weeks episode I tackle the very difficult subject of whether or not I believe mainstream porn can lead people down a path to CSAM, especially porn that has an “Age Play” element. This a very sensitive subject for many and I do want to warn anyone listening that I do discus the exploitation of children in the episode. Show notes and links ca…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 58 “Age Verification”
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In this weeks episode I talk about age verification, how do we make certain that kids aren't watching porn. Can we have reliable age verification? What age is OK for porn? Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Do you love sex workers? Me too. Let me give you my opinions on how you can best support the sex workers you love- and dispel some harmful beliefs along the way. This is an important episode, folks- and a topic that is very near and dear to my heart. Thank you for listening. I hope that you'll join me in the fight towards destigmatizing sex work, t…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 57 “The Ethics of Porn Pt 1”
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Is rough porn, or pornography in general, unethical? Does watching rough pornography cause people to commit crimes or become abusive? Are content creators responsible for the actions of their viewers? In this first part of a new series I give my thoughts on these questions sent in by a listener. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFello…
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Pleasure isn't all about sex- but it certainly can be found there. You'd be surprised how much pleasure we can find in daily life. A huge part of being human is about taking in the wonders of the world around us, and finding pleasure within the small things. Listen to this episode to get my take into how we can connect sensually with the world arou…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 56 “Incels and Sex Workers”
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Would legalizing sex work resolve the Incel problem? Should “Real Men” bother with consent or just do what they want? On this weeks episode I talk about these issues and more. Thanks to our new Patrons: Saavik, Miss D, and MJ your support is so important to the this podcast. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and …
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In our first episode of the new year I wanted to get back to some Kinky fundamentals and with Consent being of foundational importance to any relationship I wanted to take a deep dive and talk about this very important issue. What is consent? How do you give it, how to receive consent, how is consent withdrawn? What is a violation of consent? Show …
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For my last episode of this year, I decided to do a Q&A! I collected questions over on my instagram (@marysue_xoxo) and I answered favorites for you. Thanks so much for your submissions- I had fun doing this, and will definitely do more in the future. Take a listen to the first few minutes of today's episode for a few exciting announcements for 202…
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In this episode, I discuss how I bridge the gap between sex work and my "vanilla" life. I share about how I created & cultivated my online persona "Mary Sue," and what I do to stay grounded in myself while navigating my work/life balance. We touch on how the story & lessons of Persephone, Goddess of Spring & Queen of the Underworld have helped me a…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 54 “When Does Kink Become Unhealthy”
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In this weeks episode I talk about Kink and mental health, specifically when does kink go from being a healthy and fulfilling part of your life to becoming something that causes you distress and and real harm. A very good article about the fight to de-stigmatize Kink and BDSM can be found here https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2015/01/bdsm…
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In today's episode- we discuss theories behind ancient Goddess-worshiping matriarchal societies, and how the Goddess has been resurging in modern witchcraft today. Centered around Nature- Goddess worshipers work to understand the intrinsic sacred nature of humans through the connection of life, death & rebirth. Stick around for more episodes on God…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 53 “Interview with Race Bannon Pt 2”
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In this weeks episode we continue our conversation with author and activist Race Bannon, we talk about the more fluid role of domination and submission in the gay kink scene in contrast with the more rigid roles in the straight scene. You can find more info about Race here: https://linktr.ee/BannonRace Show notes and links can be found at: www.Wick…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 52“Kinky Threesomes Pt 2 and Kinky Dating Red Flags”
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This week we have the second part of my conversation with Katja about playing with multiple people in a three way plus situation, negotiating Power exchange with more than one person and I also answer a listener’s question about some Kinky Dating red flags. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found…
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Listen to hear about the winding little road of my spiritual journey. From the Christian church, to atheism, to Buddhism and witchcraft... it's been a long road thus far- and there's still quite a long way for me to go. I hope you'll come along with me. If you liked this episode, reach out to me to share about your spiritual journey! I'd love to he…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 51 “Interview with Race Bannon Pt. 1”
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This week we have our season 3 premier and we are happy to bring you an interview with author and activist Race Bannon. Katja and I had a wonderful interview with Race and in this first part of the interview we talked about his origins in the Kink and Leather community, changes he’s seen in those scenes, and some differences and commonalities betwe…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 50 “BDSM and the Law No 2”
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In this weeks episode we are joined by MeanStreakMileWide for a conversation about how the Kink world intersects with the Legal world. We talk about how consent works in a legal setting, contracts between Doms and subs, how important societal changes effect our lifestyle and more. While we are talking about the law in this episode, remember that th…
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Hi there! I'm Mary, your host for Sex Work for the Soul. I'm an OnlyFans model, eclectic witch, musician, teacher & lifetime student- coming here to share all the sides of myself with you. Take a listen to this sneak peek to get a feel for my podcast. Thanks so much for listening- I hope you'll come along for the ride! Make sure to follow & share t…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 49 "Kinky Threesomes and Moresomes"
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In this weeks episode Katja and I talk about our experience playing with multiple people in Kink environments, both intimately and non intimate settings. We also have some great news about our upcoming season of Wicked Wednesdays Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 48 “How do I know if I’m a submissive?”
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In this weeks episode I answer a listener’s question about how to know if they are submissive as well as how I know when I’m talking to someone who is submissive or dominant. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 47 “Threesomes Pt 2”
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In this episode I answer some great questions about collars from our last episode and give more tips and advice for healthy happy three way sex. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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In this episode I answer a listeners question about collars, what they mean in the BDSM and Kink scene above and beyond a piece of play equipment. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 45 “Threesomes Pt 1”
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In this weeks episode I talk about threesomes, how to have safe healthy sexual relationships with more than one person. In this first episode I address the importance of communication and consent when you first approach the idea of introducing another person to your relationship. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 44 “How I got Started in BDSM and Porn
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I answer a couple of questions and concerns from last week and talk about how I got started in Kink and Porn Show notes and links can be found at: www.Wic…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 43 Non Toxic Masculinity: How to deal with stress “Like a Man”
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 42 “Poly do's and don'ts”
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Th…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 41 “How to be a Dom without being an Asshole”
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I give some advice about how to be a Dominant person without alienating everyone around you, both in and outside of BDSM and Kink relationships. As always I welcome y…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 40 "How Overturning Roe v Wade Can Effect the Kink Community”
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I ask Katja to put on her constitutional scholar hat and help us understand how overturning Roe v Wade is not just undermining reproductive rights but how it might ve…
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I want to talk about Trust, earning it, keeping it, dealing with trust issues from past bad relationships and finding the courage to trust again. As always I welcome …
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Wicked Wednesdays No 38 "Mind the (Age) Gap"
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week I address a listeners question about whether it’s an issue or not to have a significant age gap in a BDSM relationship or in relationships in general. I talk quite a …
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Wicked Wednesdays No 37 “"Kink and Family Pt 2"
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. This week Katja joins me for an in depth conversation about Kink and family, How and when to talk to kids about sex and Kink, why its so hard to speak candidly with family abou…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 36 “"Kink and Family"
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. In this weeks episode I discuss about when and if to talk to your family about kink, especially in relation to kids. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes …
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Wicked Wednesdays No 35 “"Katja Answers Your Questions"
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Welcome to Wicked Wednesdays where we talk about all things BDSM, Kink and Poly along with relationship advice and a behind the scenes look at producing amateur adult films. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 34 “"Three Levels of Submission"
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In this weeks episode I explain the three levels of submission as I see them; Fear, Reward, and Fulfillment. I also discuss the importance of clarity in Dom/sub communication. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 33 “What Makes a Good Submissive?”
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In this weeks episode I go over the qualities I think are necessary to be a happy and successful submissive. As always I welcome your thoughts and comments. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 32 “What Makes a Good Dom Pt 2”
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In this weeks episode I have a conversation with Katja about qualities she looks for in a Dom as well a wide ranging discussion on Dom vs Dommes. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 31 “What Makes a Good Dom”
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In this weeks episode I go over seven virtues that I believe it takes to be a good Dom. What are your thoughts? I always welcome feed back and I’m interested in your thoughts on these as well as other attributes you believe are important for a good Dom to possess. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 30 "Ask a Dom Anything”
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In this weeks episode I give some advice on how to interact with people who are new to the scene especially in regards to personal safety with a bonus Q&A with my subs where they get to ask me anything and I have to answer. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.comBy Wicked Fellow
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Wicked Wednesdays No 29 "Why Would You Hurt Someone You Care About?"
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In this weeks episode I answer a listener's question about how consent makes it OK to "hurt" or other wise harm someone you care about in BDSM relationships. I also talk about how to help your partner get over that initial hesitation they may have when it comes to BDSM. Show notes and links can be found at: www.WickedFellow.com…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 28 “Long Distance D/s Relationships”
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In this weeks episode Wicked Katja joins me for an in depth discussion on how an online BDSM relationship transitions to an in person relationship, how we managed our long Distance D/s relationship over several years, how our 24/7 Dominant/submissive relationships works day to day and I also talk about some new episodes and projects I have planned …
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Wicked Wednesdays No 27 "Sadism, Humiliation, and Degradation Play"
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In this weeks episode I talk about Sadism, humiliation, and degradation play in BDSM (you dirty little sluts) How Sadism, which would normally be a negative personality trait, can be a healthy and positive aspect of Kink and BDSM relationships. I also discus how to negotiate boundaries in humiliation and degradation play. Show notes and links can b…
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Wicked Wednesdays No 26 “Thanksgiving Q&A Special”
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In this weeks episode I catch up on some of the questions I’ve received recently including: Is there a hierarchy in Polyamorous relationships? What are some relationship red flags for you? Can you have a romantic BDSM relationship and why are you so sweaty? Answers to all those questions and more in this weeks episode.Show notes and links can be fo…
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