Best Melanie Curtin Podcasts (2024)

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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay] 1:10:01

21m ago1:10:01

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Has your woman ever been in her masculine, and you wished she was in her feminine? Here's something that doesn't work: "Hey, could you drop into your feminine already?" ;) So how do you polarize your woman well? Polarity is one of those mysteries in life like electricity: We don't fully grasp why it works, but we can harness its power to make our l…

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321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange) 47:34

4d ago47:34

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Have you ever been concerned about getting involved with a woman because you didn't want to hurt her feelings if it didn't work out? Ever felt like you shouldn't go deeper emotionally with a woman you were dating because you weren't sure you wanted to put a ring on it? Does it ever feel like all women want a long-term, committed relationship, so if…

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320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange) 51:31

11d ago51:31

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If you’ve become aware that you experienced developmental trauma (and/or attachment wounding), you may wonder how to heal from it. Where do you go to move through stuck parts of yourself that are holding you back? How do you get things moving and release blocks so you can finally get what you want in sex, dating, and relationships? Jason was a self…

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319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange) 54:36

21d ago54:36

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Ever felt like when it comes to your relationship, you're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or that when you come home, you don't know what (or who) you're going to get? Or that every moment is, "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" Reality check: It is not normal to be constantly on guard or anxious in your relationship. That k…

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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!? 1:21:46

25d ago1:21:46

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Ever wanted to explore role-play in sex? If so, you're not alone! According to research, one in three people in North America alone wants to try some kind of role-play in the bedroom, whether that's doctor/patient, professor/student, cop/detainee, pirate/wench or some other sexy dynamic. Why is sexual role-play so intriguing? Is it different from k…

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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:55

1M ago1:00:55

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"It felt kind of like a trap, but at the same time felt like a soothing warm blanket to feel safe and ruminate within." "The codependent relationship is filled with drama. There is blaming, a victim and the rescuer/protector. That rescuer is filled with needing to be needed. That’s where it began for me." "It was years of trying as hard as I could …

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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 1:06:26

1M ago1:06:26

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Did you have a deeply present, emotionally aware father who took the time to attune to you and teach you how to be a trustworthy, integrated man? If so, you're in the minority. ;) Most of our clients had far-less-than-ideal role models when it came to the masculine -- which makes becoming a trustable adult man challenging. For example, do you feel …

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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) 1:15:29

2M ago1:15:29

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There's a lot out there about Nice Guy Syndrome. But what happens after? What is the magical land of Boundaries, for example? If you’ve figured out you’re a Nice Guy, you’ve likely been in a love relationship or two (or five) where you felt like your partner walked all over you, or where you developed resentment after overextending yourself. Or per…

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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero) 1:02:02

2M ago1:02:02

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Ever contended with anxiety, depression, chronic pain, ADHD, or OCD ... and had that affect your sex or love life? Ever suspected that you have generational trauma, or thought you were broken? Ever felt like there was something wrong with you because you just can't seem to get it together when it comes to relationships? Spoiler alert: There is noth…

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313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder) 1:31:06

2M ago1:31:06

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"I took responsibility for things that wasn’t mine to take." So begins the brave stories of four men who share their personal experiences of what it was like being in relationship with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (or with traits of it). If you've ever been unsure about whether your partner may have traits of BPD, this is a good one…

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312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter? 1:06:38

2M ago1:06:38

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Have you ever felt like you needed to make a lot of money to impress women? Ever had a dynamic shift around money in a relationship, and not known how to deal with it (for example, she starts making more than you, and you have unexpected feelings about that)? Have you wondered who should pay on a date (do you offer to? Is that considered sexist now…

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311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange) 47:38

3M ago47:38

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Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like something was "off" but you couldn't quite name what it was? Ever been uncomfortable with the "mess" of dealing with someone else's emotions, or been hesitant to share your own out of a fear of rocking the boat? Then this episode will resonate…

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310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me) 28:46

3M ago28:46

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Sexy time, pickers, and dating, oh my! Here I answer the following three common client or listener questions: "I’ve heard women say it’s a red flag if the man has not had relationship experience. What do you say?" "One issue I've had is selecting the right female partner. What is a good way to guide myself to go about doing this?" (My picker is off…

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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:13:48

3M ago1:13:48

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When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can relate to scenarios like these: You're worn out and exhausted because you're always the one reaching out to your wife and never getting anything back You're great co-parents but your sex life is DOA As a couple you rarely or never open…

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308: Are you staying together for the kids? There may be another way to go. (ft. Jason Lange) 53:20

3M ago53:20

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If your marriage isn't working, you're suffering. Maybe you're fighting all the time (whether aloud or not). Maybe you're great co-parents, but you don't connect in an intimate way anymore. And when I say "intimate" I'm not just talking about sex; I'm talking about warmth, closeness, and connection. Should you automatically stay in a relationship b…

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307: What's the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James) 48:57

4M ago48:57

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Have you ever been scared of your wife / woman partner? Ever been harmed by her? If yes, it's likely you never felt like you could talk to anyone about it because you were afraid of what they would say, or whether they would shame you. In polarity work, we often talk about feminine storm. But where's the line between feminine storm, feminine rage, …

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306: Boner shame! Let's talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange) 49:25

4M ago49:25

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"I’m getting a boner — what’s she going to think??" So begins the conflict for a lot of boys and men have around their cock. From a young age -- basically from the time boners start to be a thing, "It’s like a lot of men are constantly tracking, ‘Am I having an erection and if I do, how do I hide it?’" The thing is, hiding and secrets go hand-in-ha…

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305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming 1:40:24

4M ago1:40:24

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Did you grow up with a religious background? Then congrats, you likely experienced sexual shame! Perhaps you still do to this day. The truth is, it's deeply confusing to grow up having completely natural sexual urges, but be told you're bad or wrong for having them. In the words of the panelists: "For a long time I thought, 'What’s wrong with me? W…

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304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:09:18

4M ago1:09:18

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"Needing space within a love relationship is crucial for maintaining my identity ... It’s not merely about taking a break; it’s about preserving a sense of self that can slowly wither in the absence of such space." So says one of our clients, eloquently speaking to the need and also the cost of not getting space when it's required. Here we discuss …

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303: 'Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.' (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men)) 1:11:54

5M ago1:11:54

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When you were a boy, did you feel comfortable being your full self? Did you feel at ease around becoming a man -- like you knew what that meant and smoothly moved into that identity? We live in a world where boys and young men often feel like it's not safe to be themselves, and where it can be confusing to grow into manhood. According to Nat Damon,…

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302: 'I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.' (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore) 1:14:24

5M ago1:14:24

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What if you could read about the sex that affected someone so profoundly they were never the same? What if you wrote about the sex that changed you in that way? If you're turned on by audio porn, ASMR, or sexy stories (either reading them or them being read to you), you're not alone. While we seem to be fixated on men being obsessed with visual por…

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301: What's the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:03:20

5M ago1:03:20

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"As men, it often feels like we should just know how to succeed in a relationship, how to be great in bed, how to be successful in life, all under the counterintuitive expectation that we figure it all out on our own and never ask for help." Part of our my intention with this podcast is to help men succeed in sex, dating, and relationships with wom…

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300: What's it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas) 1:24:08

5M ago1:24:08

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A lot of our clients crave more intimacy or closeness with their wife/relationship partner. Often this includes a longing, or a sense of something missing. As Lucas, our guest here, put it, "The feeling I recall most strongly was a sense of loneliness." Have you ever felt lonely in your relationship? If you’ve wished you and your partner were close…

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299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun) 1:02:42

5M ago1:02:42

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Would you ever consider using a matchmaker? In a world of dating apps (and let's be real -- those are rough for a LOT of people!), not to mention a whole lotta ghosting, matchmaking is an appealing notion for many. Plus, matchmakers play a unique role in that they speak to both parties, before and after dates. They're able, therefore, to give peopl…

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298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication -- let's talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women) 57:34

6M ago57:34

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This episode is pulled from the podcast Ask Women, where I myself was the guest! We delve into my sex research here, in which I asked over 1,065 women about the men who were best in bed. But this isn't just about finding the clit. It's a deeper conversation about how to talk about difficult subjects. Why is hard to talk about what we actually like …

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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay] 1:10:01

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321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange) 47:34

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320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange) 51:31

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319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange) 54:36

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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!? 1:21:46

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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange) 1:00:55

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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay] 1:06:26

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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) 1:15:29

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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero) 1:02:02

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313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder) 1:31:06

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312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter? 1:06:38

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311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange) 47:38

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310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me) 28:46

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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:13:48

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308: Are you staying together for the kids? There may be another way to go. (ft. Jason Lange) 53:20

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307: What's the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James) 48:57

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306: Boner shame! Let's talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange) 49:25

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305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming 1:40:24

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304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:09:18

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303: 'Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.' (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men)) 1:11:54

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302: 'I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.' (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore) 1:14:24

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301: What's the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange) 1:03:20

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300: What's it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas) 1:24:08

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299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun) 1:02:42

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298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication -- let's talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women) 57:34

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