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This podcast is all about navigating your way around life regardless of what season of life you are currently in. Whether you are a parent, stepparent, child, stepchild, or even from either side of the family or friends, 'Spill it With Rios' is a place where you can sit back, relax, and chat with your friend about any struggles experienced, tangible tools to break down negativity in your mind, and ignite personal growth. Nerisa Rios discusses about her journey as a millennial parent while ha ...
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Purposeful Profit is THE podcast for female business owners that are ready to take control of their business finances, build wildly profitable businesses and have more impact. The sexy parts of a business - marketing, sales and operations get plenty of attention - but finance is often a business’s neglected stepchild. It's time to show them some love - after all profit is how you have more impact and create financial freedom. Finance and strategy coach and fractional CFO Carla Moats will use ...
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The #NSFW stepchild of the Pride Social family. Weekly conversations with members of the #YYC #LGBTQ2+ community sharing laughs, tawdry tales and undeniably bad life advice. #CheersSluts!
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Rancho Notorious, a fortnightly podcast about movies (and other cool stuff), is the naughty stepchild of RNZ Widescreen. Produced by Dan Slevin and co-hosted by Kailey Carruthers, the show features local and international guests, news, reviews, giveaways and competitions.
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Join Stori and John (Dad), on their journey to grow in their unique "step" relationship. Sometimes stepparents and children have a hard time relating and working together. John and Stori wanted to grow their own bond through discovering new techniques and principles to live by. If you are a stepchild or parent, or looking for some laughs and lessons, listen in to Stepping It Up! Send questions to steppingitcast@gmail.com
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Welcome to Enjoying Your Blended Family! We bring new episodes every Monday and Friday. Mondays are on hot topics in blended families and Fridays are all about fun ideas you can do with your blended family. This podcast is all about strengthening your blended family relationships and having more fun, giving you hope and encouragement so everyone is enjoying the journey together.
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Let's Therapy

Scott & Vanessa Martindale

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Welcome to Let's Therapy—where faith, mental health, and blended family converge. We are your hosts, Scott and Vanessa Martindale, therapists and founders of Blended Kingdom Families. As members of a blended family, we know the importance of good mental health as well as a vibrant relationship with God. In this podcast, we offer a biblically-sound and therapeutic approach to the most pressing issues blended families face. Our hearts' desire is to serve, educate, support, and empower you and ...
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Dealing with stepchild resentment and rejection in blended families can be one of the most challenging aspects of blended family relationships. In this episode of Let's Therapy, Navigating Stepchild Resentment and Rejection, Scott and Vanessa offer thoughtful insights and practical advice for stepparents on managing difficult emotions related to re…
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Do you desire a relationship with your stepchild but don't know how or where to start? Maybe you have been rejected in the past and stopped trying. Even if your stepchild has nothing to do with you, check this out. Who knows maybe it's just what you need to turn things around. If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this...…
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Hey Believers, The answer depends on personal preference and family dynamics. Some stepparents may choose to be called by their first name, while others may prefer a more formal title such as "stepmom" or "stepdad." Some families may come up with their own unique nickname or term of endearment. Ultimately, the decision should be made in collaborati…
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We want you to have your best Summer yet with your blended family this year, whether that be with your whole family or strengthening the relationships you have access to. We know how it feels to be cut off from those you love. Over the next 5 weeks, we will post the videos that come straight from the E.N.J.O.Y the Journey Ultimate Guide which goes …
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We’re talking about a different kind of love and heartbreak 3 BREAKING UP WITH A FRIEND. Now let's be real: we all need friends to thrive and sometimes they're the people that see parts of your life where they become your chosen family. But sometimes we need to let go of certain people in order to grow. Let's discuss why friendship breakups can f…
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Hey Believers, Long-distance relationships can be challenging, but with effort and communication, they can certainly work. Here are a few tips to help: 1. Communication is key: Communicate with your partner regularly and try to have meaningful conversations. Use technology like video calls, text messages, and emails to stay connected. 2. Set expect…
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Hey Believers, Knowing when a relationship is over can be difficult, but here are some signs that may indicate it's time to move on: 1. Lack of communication: If you and your partner have stopped communicating or are constantly arguing, it may be a sign that the relationship is over. 2. Loss of intimacy: If you and your partner are no longer physic…
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In this episode of "Let's Therapy," counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the challenges of emotional regulation for children and stepchildren in blended families. They provide practical advice on building trust, validating feelings, modeling healthy emotional responses, and setting clear expectations. They also emphasize the importance o…
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I found some old videos from a challenge I did with a group of ladies in 2020 about taking our thoughts captive. This concept changed my life. The information is so valuable, that I wanted to share it with you. It’s set up as a 5-day challenge so feel free to listen to it day-by-day or all at once. The key is putting these things to use. Day 1: Tak…
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Hey Believers, Building trust in a relationship takes time and effort from both parties. Here are some ways to build trust: 1. Be honest: Honesty is the foundation of any relationship. Be open and transparent with your partner. 2. Keep your promises: If you make a promise to your partner, keep it. This shows that you are reliable and trustworthy. 3…
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This episode was originally released on May 26, 2018. In this "rapid fire" episode, the Sugars read letters from four women who each have one not-so-tiny reservation about the men they’re dating. A Black woman is dating a white man who is unwilling to talk about race issues, claiming that she’s “too sensitive.” Another woman’s boyfriend, a Christia…
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Hey Believers, in today's episode, we will discuss a Reddit post and give our thoughts. Remember, it's Allan&Eve here to help you believe! Visit our website for relationship coaching, Christian women's blogs, and matching couple T-shirts, which are coming soon. Allanandeve.org Follow us on Social Media. * Tiktok: / allanandevee * Instagram: / allan…
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In this episode, I am sharing my best advice to a single mom or an alienated mom (someone who doesn't have contact with their children). If you are in this season of life you are not alone. Honestly, if you are an empty nester or struggling mom, this could help you too. EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND"…
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As a first generation child (and 30-something-ish years later) I have stayed silent about any feelings or thoughts on the reality of settling in a HUGE family (let alone a family filled with immigrants who had to assimilate to the US). Today, we are sitting down and BREAKING DOWN the barrier of "being the first" in the family, whether that me gradu…
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Hey Believers, Establishing boundaries with family and friends is essential to maintaining a healthy marriage. It's important to communicate openly with your partner about your expectations and concerns regarding interactions with family and friends. This can involve setting limits on the amount of time spent with specific individuals or establishi…
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In this episode of Let's Therapy, Co-Parenting in High-Conflict Situations, Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the challenging topic of co-parenting in high-conflict situations. They provide practical and insightful strategies for maintaining your mental health, and offer tips for conflict resolution with a co-parent. The discussion centers around…
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This episode is all about the hottest (and actually a typical controversy) topic in the stepparent community: DOUBLE STANDARDS. Why is it that we rally and give support around a mom, for example, who says "I need a break" but criticize a stepmom for saying the same thing? Whether it's being able to say "mom things", attending doctor's appointments …
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This episode was originally published on August 12th, 2016. The Sugars hear the latest from "Head or the Heart" -- a woman who'd fallen head over heels for a man with a troubled childhood. Everything seemed perfect, and yet, she couldn't help but wonder if the traumas of her love's past would surface at some point in their relationship. "Head or th…
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Hey, Believers; this episode will discuss how comparing your spouse to your ex can be slippery. While it's natural to draw comparisons between past and present relationships, it's important to remember that every person is unique and should be appreciated for their individual qualities. Focusing too much on the past can detract from the present and…
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Hey believers, Considering your spouse on all levels in marriage is an important aspect of building a healthy and happy relationship. This means taking into account their feelings, needs, and desires in all aspects of your life together, from major decisions to daily interactions. It's important to communicate openly and honestly, practice empathy …
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All businesses need bookkeeping. It’s part of doing business and it’s part of being a business owner. First you have to decide if you are going to DIY it or hire someone. But most business owners don’t have an accounting background and don’t know much about bookkeeping (and don’t really have the time to do it right). And if they decide to hire it o…
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Feeling overwhelmed in your blended family? In this episode,Therapy Essentials for Thriving in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the therapy options for your stepfamily. They provide insights on breaking through stigmas, opening up to emotional healing, and utilizing resources like family therapy, EMDR, couples counseling, and …
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Is your stepchild being manipulative causing drama and division in your stepfamily, is it a misunderstanding, or is your child just hurting? In this episode, I will talk with my stepdaughter about her perspective. EPISODE RESOURCES: If you're tired of waiting for your "STEP" family to "BLEND" try this… STEPFAMILY JUMPSTART: WAYS TO CONNECT INSTANTL…
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Hey Believers, Sexless seasons in marriage can be a difficult and frustrating experience for couples. It can lead to feelings of loneliness, rejection, and even resentment. However, it's important to remember that many factors can contribute to a temporary decrease in sexual activity in a marriage, such as stress, fatigue, or health issues. Communi…
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We have a special guest: Jennifer Morales (La Fresita!!!). Everyone knows her by Jenny. She is a 23 year old Latina, treatmaker entrepreneur who owns her own business, college drop out at age 19, and born in NJ but raised in PA. She graduated from Norristown Area High School and a coffee lover. She is SUPER passionate about her business, ReyesParad…
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Hey Believers, in today's episode, we will discuss the consequences of sex before marriage. In Christianity, premarital sex is generally considered to be a sin. The Bible teaches that sex is a gift from God and should only be enjoyed within the confines of marriage. Engaging in sexual activity before marriage is viewed as a violation of God's comma…
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Recently, I was talking to someone, and they asked me why profit mattered. I'll admit, was taken aback a bit. I felt like they were asking me why I needed to breath. It seemed so obvious to me. Businesses need profit to survive over the long-term. And business owners need profit if they want financial freedom or just to support their lifestyle. But…
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Feeling caught in a destructive family triangle? Whether it's biological parents pitting a child against each other or in-laws taking sides, triangulation wedges people apart. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale define and provide examples of triangulation in blended families. They also offer strategies for coping with these toxic dynamic…
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Transition Day is rough in a stepfamily. Many different factors cause that. Today I'm talking with my stepdaughter who is now 25 about her thoughts and feelings when she was transitioning from house to house as a child. We might not have all the "right" answers, but we hope it stirs up conversations in your house. If you're tired of waiting for you…
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In today's episode, we will discuss how much sex married couples should have. Sex in a marriage is a personal and private matter that varies significantly from couple to couple. It can be an essential aspect of physical and emotional intimacy but is not the only factor contributing to a happy and fulfilling marriage. Open communication, mutual resp…
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In continuation of our conversation (Toxic... RETURN TO SENDER). We get a little heavy in the episode back from our little hiatus. Coming in HOT and SPICY with this one. After a one month hiatus, I'm coming in rapid fire with this episode. We get to the nitty-gritty as to why we encounter HATE and the discovering of TOXIC people. Why they do what t…
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Sometimes what we mistake for fear or avoidance of our business finances, is really money trauma, which is a deeper issue than just being overwhelmed or confused or fearful of your finances. Join me for a conversation with Hailee, a trauma coach, as we talk about and try to normalize money trauma. We talk about how money trauma is different from fe…
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In this episode of Let’s Therapy, Scott and Vanessa explore the definitions and signs of enmeshment and emotional incest within blended families. They define this problem from a clinical perspective and discuss how these unhealthy dynamics can deeply impact family relationships. They also offer strategies to break free from these toxic patterns, su…
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Today Ryleigh (stepdaughter) and Scarlett (Stepmom) talk about menstrual cycles and how they affect mood, which puts a strain on their relationships. This was a hard conversation to have, because PMDD has taken Ryleigh down some dark roads, but we have seen God show up every time. Follow Ryleigh and her musical journey on YouTube https://www.youtub…
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Do you have an LLC but are confused about how to file your taxes? This week's podcast episode is just for you. April 15th is less than a month off, which means you need to get those LLC taxes done. Tax laws can be complicated and overwhelming., but whether you are doing your own or hiring a pro, it's important as a business owner to know the basics…
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In this third and final episode of the series about the impact of narcissism on blended families, Scott and Vanessa share effective strategies for dealing with narcissistic relationships. They share helpful action steps that include setting boundaries, finding peer support, developing assertiveness skills, and using discernment. Did you enjoy this …
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I have been getting messages lately from stepmoms asking how they can better support their stepdaughter during different seasons of life. Ironically Ryleigh (my stepdaughter) wrote a song about our stepmother/stepdaughter journey. I immediately asked her if we could discuss it on a podcast and if she would sing the song for you. In this episode we …
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