Best Talia Koren Podcasts (2024)

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86. Dating with disability & chronic illness ft. Jessica Slice 52:00

1d ago52:00

52:00

In this eye-opening conversation with writer Jessica Slice, you'll learn what it's like to date with a disability and chronic illness. We get into so much in this episode, like when to disclose a disability, tips for using dating apps, where dating apps fall short when it comes to inclusivity for disabled folks and tips for what to do when you enco…

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85. You're in a new relationship. Now what? 42:53

4d ago42:53

42:53

So, after a few months of listening to this podcast, you find yourself in a new relationship. Yay! Now, what do you do? This episode is about the four main things to focus on in the early stages of a new relationship after you've decided to officially become a couple. Listen and learn how to make the most of the honeymoon phase and keep learning ab…

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84. Conversation tips to make you a better dater with Topaz Adizes of The Skin Deep 58:49

8d ago58:49

58:49

What kinds of questions are you asking on dates, and are they the kind that will help your date open up? In this episode, I talk to Topaz Adizes, Founder of The Skin Deep and creator of the Emmy award-winning series {The And} about how to have deeper, more intimate conversations. We get into the types of questions that lead to deeper conversations,…

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83. How to feel hopeful while dating, even if you keep getting ghosted 33:12

11d ago33:12

33:12

If dating were easy, this podcast probably wouldn't exist. This episode is packed with reminders and mindset shifts to help you stay positive on your dating journey, even when you keep striking out. I discuss believing vs. hoping, checking our own expectations, and examining the reality of what's actually happening in your dating life, despite how …

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82. How to get a guy to approach you & other lessons from a men’s dating coach ft. Blaine Anderson (@datingbyblaine) 53:10

15d ago53:10

53:10

It's always so interesting to hear dating advice from a different perspective. This episode features Blaine Anderson, the founder of Dating By Blaine who was recently featured on Shark Tank! Blaine spills the tea on what men look for on women's profiles on dating apps, why they're hesitant to approach women in public and what women can do to be mor…

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81. Mismatched love languages, deciding to have kids alone, dealing with bad texters, and more 30:34

18d ago30:34

30:34

I'm switching it up this week with a new format! I answer five of your dating dilemmas. Submit your dating dilemma below to have a chance of getting it answered on the pod! In this episode, I answer questions about needing more words of affirmation, making the decision to pursue single parenthood in your mid-30s, how to define the relationship, dea…

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80. Enjoying sex & expressing your needs without shame ft. Jessica Stahl (@vanillacooldance) 56:48

22d ago56:48

56:48

Shame holds us back from what we truly want and need in dating, sex, and relationships. Jessica Stahl shares how she transformed her shame into something else - something way more empowering in the form of a feminist cartoon named Vanillacooldance, which takes on taboos around female sexual pleasure, normalizing bodies, speaking up for yourself in …

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79. How to manage emotional triggers in a relationship 38:28

25d ago38:28

38:28

You've done so much healing work, so why do you still feel so emotionally triggered? In this episode, I get into why you still feel so emotionally triggered in some situations, despite all the work you've done on yourself and how to manage it in a relationship. I talk a lot about what has triggered me in my current relationship and how I deal with …

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78. Dating skills you need to find the relationship you want w/ Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (@dateablepodcast) 59:09

29d ago59:09

59:09

Today's episode features the amazing hosts of Dateable Podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. They have been sharing their dating advice for 8 years with thousands of daters everywhere. We get into super practical tips for having better conversations on dates, the importance of screening your matches, and the mindset shifts you need to be more curiou…

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77. How to deal when they don't ask questions on a date (and why it happens) 33:41

1M ago33:41

33:41

Have you ever been on that nightmare date where they don't ask you a single question or make an effort to get to know you? Unfortunately, it's a pretty common situation. In this episode, I explain why your date (usually it's men) doesn't ask questions and share various ways to handle that situation. I also provide ten of my favorite date questions …

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Rom Com vs Real Life: He's Just Not That Into You 1:26:34

1M ago1:26:34

1:26:34

Did rom-coms ruin how we view relationships? This new series, Rom Com vs. Real Life, featuring my fiance and fellow film nerd Johnny, examines that question. In this episode, we're looking at the film He's Just Not That Into You and what it's teaching viewers about dating, relationships and how it all works. This move is packed with rules, exceptio…

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76. Getting real about confidence, assertiveness and abundance in dating w/ Talia Bombola 57:52

1M ago57:52

57:52

In today's episode you'll hear from confidence and assertiveness expert Talia Bombola, who's also a professor and LMFT. We get deep into where confidence truly comes from, why we look for it in a partner and an unexpected way to start building it up on your own. We also talk about the importance of assertiveness and why it's tough for women specifi…

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75. How to date multiple people in the "talking stage" (before commitment) 39:12

1M ago39:12

39:12

Maybe you've heard the advice "date multiple people," but you have no idea how it works, if it's even possible for you, or why you should try it in the first place. This is the episode for you! I'm breaking down exactly how to approach talking to multiple people and entertaining a handful of potential matches before committing to one person. This a…

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74. What to update on your dating app profile ASAP w/ Erika Ettin @alittlenudge 50:34

1M ago50:34

50:34

If you're using dating apps or thinking about creating a dating app profile, this is the episode to listen to. Erika Ettin, the founder of A Little Nudge joined me on the podcast to talk all things dating apps. We get into what makes a good profile, how to swipe more effectively, what mistakes to avoid when using dating apps and so much more. At th…

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73. How to set boundaries in early dating & why they're important 39:26

2M ago39:26

39:26

Do you feel like you're being harsh when you set boundaries with people you date? Are you scared of saying no? You're not alone. If you tend to be a people-pleaser, starting to set boundaries feels strange. Maybe you even feel a little guilt for having and setting boundaries. This episode breaks down what boundaries are, what they're not and why th…

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72. Dating when you're sober (or just tired of drinks dates) w/ Tawny Lara (@tawnymlara) 53:19

2M ago53:19

53:19

Whether you're sober or sober-curious, this episode is packed with sage advice from Tawny Lara, the Sober Sexpert. Tawny shares insights from her sober dating journey that will open your eyes to how much alcohol permeates dating culture and what you can do to decide if how much you drink in your dating process is working for you or not. We get into…

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71. Answering 10 juicy dating & personal questions (bday Q&A) 34:12

2M ago34:12

34:12

We're switching it up this week with some Q&A! I answered 10 questions you submitted on Instagram. Some are dating questions I've never really touched on before; some are personal questions about things I rarely get to talk about publicly. Questions I answer in this episode: How do you genuinely keep hope of finding your person when dating seems ha…

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70. Why it hurts more when short relationships end (and how to move on) w/ Amy Chan (@missamychan) 53:57

2M ago53:57

53:57

Break ups suck. Luckily, we have experts like Amy Chan, who wrote Break Up Bootcamp, to help us through them. In this episode, Amy and I discuss where to start with healing after a break up, the importance of anger in the process of moving on, why it hurts more when a short relationship ends and how to know when a relationship is worth trying to sa…

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69. Ten signs you're getting into a situationship (and how to get out of it) 40:12

2M ago40:12

40:12

Worried you're heading into situationship territory? This episode breaks down what a situationship is, what it isn't and why they're not ideal. I get into 10 different signs you're heading into a situationship and how to steer clear of them altogether. This episode is your guide for what to do and NOT do when you feel like the person you're dating …

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68. Self worth 101 & the power of your inner world with Jackie Glaser (@jackieglaserofficial) 46:13

2M ago46:13

46:13

In this episode, I talk to dating coach and former psychologist Jackie Glaser about how our inner world and the stories we tell ourselves dictate so much of how our lives unfold - especially when it comes to dating. We get into how to feel our self-worth, how to date when you feel like no one has ever been interested in you, showing up authenticall…

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67. How to start dating for the first time or after a long break 29:17

2M ago29:17

29:17

How do you know you're ready to date? How do you start dating if you've never done it before? This episode is the pep talk you need to get out there (or back out there) with a healthy mindset and knowing what to expect. I talk about how to know you're ready to date vs how to know you're ready for a relationship, my best advice for having the right …

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66. How to navigate new sexual situations with new partners ft. Claire Perelman (@sexclarified) 59:02

2M ago59:02

59:02

If you're looking to feel more comfortable and confident during sex, this episode is for you. I talk to Claire Perelman, a certified sex therapist and one of my favorite creators on social media, about navigating sex with a new partner, approaching sexual situations when you're newly out as queer, and creating safety while enjoying physical intimac…

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65. Ten reminders for handling rejection in early dating 23:08

2M ago23:08

23:08

Rejection will happen in your dating life, so you better be prepared! These ten reminders will help you stay grounded and positive when rejection happens, and I hope by listening to this, you'll be able to shake it off faster. Which reminder did you need to hear the most? DM me on IG and let me know! @dating.intentionally. Slide into my DMs on IG: …

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64. Tapping into your magnetism & dating as a single mom w/ Tiffany Cheung (@tiffanycheung.co) 59:43

3M ago59:43

59:43

Are you curious about manifestation? Do you want to learn how to have more of an abundance mentality? In this episode, I talk to business coach Tiffany Cheung about how to tap into your own magnetism, embrace an abundance mentality, and how she approaches dating as a single parent to a 9 y/o. Tiffany shares her story about overcoming financial hard…

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63. Why they lose interest after sex in early dating (and what you can do about it) 31:19

3M ago31:19

31:19

I've seen it repeatedly in my dating life and heard stories about people withdrawing after sex from the Dating Intentionally community. For some reason, after you have sex with someone you're newly dating, they tend to pull away. Why does this happen? This episode lays out the five most common reasons this happens and what you can do it about it in…

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62. Track your dates to get better at dating w/ Jillian Romero Chaves (@clarafordaters) 56:10

3M ago56:10

56:10

Have you tried tracking your dates? This episode features Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara For Daters (Not A Dating App), which lets daters track their dates and stay accountable. Jillian talks about how taking notes on her dates using Clara helped her (and other users) gain clarity in the process and make more informed decisions. Slide …

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61. Dating outside your type and what to do if you don't feel attraction 29:35

3M ago29:35

29:35

Dating outside your type seems to work for many people, but how do you do it? And what if it leads to dates where there's no attraction? This episode walks you through all my tips and tricks for dating outside your type and how to navigate a lack of attraction when it happens. I also share my experience, my type, and how my fiance doesn't fit into …

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60. We need to stop saying “if he wanted to he would” w/ Ali Jackson (@findingmrheight) 49:45

3M ago49:45

49:45

"If he wanted to he would" is one of the worst dating rules and on this episode Ali Jackson, the host of Finding Mr. Height, shares why. We also get into what happened when I hired Ali as a dating coach 2 years ago, dating through grief, meeting dates IRL, how to stop minimizing parts of yourself in dating, Ali's personal dating "rules" and so much…

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59. Top 10 Green flags to look out for in early dating 32:31

3M ago32:31

32:31

While we spend so much time looking out for red flags in early dating, we have to pay attention to green flags too! This episode features my top 10 green flags to look out for in dating, as well as more green flags submitted to the pod from the Dating Intentionally community on IG. As you listen to these green flags, I want you to reflect on whethe…

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58. How to talk about money in early dating w/ Delyanne Barros (@delyannethemoneycoach) 45:52

3M ago45:52

45:52

When do you talk about income? How do you approach dating if you're in debt? Is it a red flag if they bring up crypto? These are just a few topics money coach Delyanna Barros and I discuss in this episode. You'll learn how and when to bring up essential topics around finances in early dating, what red and green flags to look for and how to talk abo…

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57. How to start hard conversations in dating & relationships 35:25

3M ago35:25

35:25

This episode breaks down exactly how to approach hard conversations with someone you're romantically involved with so you never have to say the dreaded words "we need to talk." Listen to the full episodes for my scripts, tips, and mistakes to avoid when starting serious conversations, as well as my experiences doing this with an avoidant and secure…

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56. Divorcing self worth from relationship status & all about Love Isn't Blind w/ Alli Goldberg (@alli_goldi) 52:07

4M ago52:07

52:07

Would you still want to date someone after going through their phone or talking to their mom before going out with them? In this episode, we hear from Alli Goldberg, the mastermind and host of the incredible live comedy show Love Isn't Blind. We discuss how she came up with the concept of a dating show where men can't speak, why she's over dating a…

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55. The truth about getting the ick (and how to handle it) 31:00

4M ago31:00

31:00

Have you ever gotten the ick in dating? In this episode, you'll learn what the ick is, the three categories of icks, and how to tell if your icks are dealbreakers. I also talk about why you get the ick later on in a relationship sometimes and how I addressed mine in my current relationship. Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.…

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54. How dating expectations get in your way of finding love with Damona Hoffman (@damonahoffman) 49:09

4M ago49:09

49:09

Do you feel like your expectations are too high? Maybe they are, maybe they aren't. Listen in on this amazing conversation with Damona Hoffman, who's been a dating coach for over 15 years. We talk about her new book, "F The Fairy Tale" and the four dating myths, specifically the myth about dating rules. I love what Damona has to say about embracing…

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53. Ghosting - why it happens and how to deal with it 25:23

4M ago25:23

25:23

Have you ever been ghosted? Afraid of getting ghosted in the future? This episode has you covered with exactly what to do (and not do) when you inevitably get ghosted, as well as my thoughts on why people do it in the first place. If you tend to ghost people, this episode will walk you through how to stop doing that and start sending anti-ghost tex…

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52. Dating after divorce with Sade Curry (@sadecurry) 56:24

4M ago56:24

56:24

Dating after a divorce or a big breakup can feel daunting, confusing, and overwhelming. In today's episode, life and dating coach Sade Curry discusses how to navigate dating after divorce, discover your needs in a partner, and enjoy the process of getting to know new people. Sade also discusses how she met her husband on Bumble after her divorce. F…

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51. Settling vs. acceptance in dating and relationships 36:07

4M ago36:07

36:07

What does it mean to settle? Is accepting someone as they are the same thing as settling? This episode breaks down the difference between the two in dating and relationships, and why practicing acceptance is so important. I also get to a few questions about this topic in the episode that you asked me on Instagram! Connect with me on IG: https://www…

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50. Answering your burning dating questions w/ Ilana Dunn (@seeingotherpeople) 52:48

4M ago52:48

52:48

5 juicy dating questions we get into: Should you give someone a chance to change/prove themself? How do you know if you’re aligned after 3 months of dating? What’s the best way to communicate after a first date? What do you do if your friends don’t like your partner? If you live in Brooklyn can you date someone in NJ? Ilana also talks about how she…

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49. Ten signs it probably won't work out in a new relationship 28:31

4M ago28:31

28:31

If you just started seeing them and you're having doubts, this episode might confirm (or deny) what your gut is telling you. These 10 signs don't mean a new relationship will 100% not work out, but if one or more are present, then that's going to be a potentially painful relationship for you to be in. Don't forget to rate, subscribe and follow Dati…

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48. Navigating your needs when you're anxiously attached w/ Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide) 1:01:38

4M ago1:01:38

1:01:38

Why is asking for our needs to be met so scary? And how can we be our own secure base? These are the two main questions I explored with guest Rikki Cloos, who wrote an amazing book called Anxious Hearts Guide. We talk about what's happening when our anxious attachment is activated, what to do when we feel anxious in early dating situations, what's …

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47. How to deal with a "bad" kisser (and other kissing tips) 26:53

5M ago26:53

26:53

Don't you hate it when you meet someone amazing, but their kissing skills aren't up to par? Don't worry. There are ways to address this. In this episode, I'm sharing different ways to handle a "bad" kisser and how to make sure YOU aren't the one whose kissing skills need work. I also talk about how to ask for consent before kissing without making i…

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46.Take your flirting to the next level w/ Benjamin Camras (@benjamincamras) 47:15

5M ago47:15

47:15

Do you feel like you have no idea how to flirt? Does flirting feel awkward? Benjamin Camras, aka The Flirt Coach, shares his best tips for getting started with flirting, even if you have no idea how to do it. We discuss the five dimensions of the flirt, the four different flirting styles and how to use body language in a subtle way to flirt in real…

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45. Who should pay on the first date and why? 35:15

5M ago35:15

35:15

I get so many questions about what to do when the check comes at the end of the date. The easy answer is, that whoever asks is who pays. However, it goes so much deeper when it comes to heterosexual dating. In this episode, I deep dive into the reasons why women believe men should pay and why men are increasingly bitter about it. What we're experie…

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44. A realistic approach to healing body image issues while dating w/ Leah Kern (@leahkernrd) 1:03:19

5M ago1:03:19

1:03:19

Do you feel like you have to wait until you lose weight to start dating? Are your feelings about your looks holding you back from getting on the apps or putting yourself out there? In this episode, I talk to Leah Kern, and anti-diet dietitian, about how to approach realistically improving your body image. Because you can't go from hating how you lo…

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43. How to build chemistry on dates (and stop chasing sparks!) 23:49

5M ago23:49

23:49

We need to stop chasing sparks in dating! Just because you don't feel a spark does not mean that connection is doomed. In this episode, I talk about what the spark is and what it isn't, and why we feel attracted to some people and not others. I focus heavily on tips for building chemistry in early dating, but with the caveat that chemistry alone ca…

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42. Be the CEO of your love life w/ Evan Marc Katz (@realevanmarckatz) 54:21

5M ago54:21

54:21

In this episode, I talk to veteran dating expert Evan Marc Katz about all things early dating! We get into why your confidence is the first thing to work on in your dating journey, tips for moving on from a past relationship you’re still stuck on and why you might be having a hard time finding men you actually like. I also had Evan give his take on…

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41. We met on Hinge 18 months ago and now we're engaged (engagement story) 52:10

5M ago52:10

52:10

On this episode of Dating Intentionally, you'll hear our engagement story (including a real-life nightmare scenario) from my fiance, Johnny, and how he selected a ring for me! I also talk about why I proposed back to him and how I chose a ring for him as well. At the top of the episode, you'll hear a mini tangent about Valentine's Day and the impor…

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40. How to heal your insecure attachment w/ Julie Menanno @thesecurerelationship 56:31

5M ago56:31

56:31

Yes, you can work on healing your attachment wounds even if you're not in a relationship. I got to talk to Julie Menanno about her new book, Secure Love, and how to apply its insights even if you're single. Julie and I cover steps to healing attachment if you don't work with a therapist and how to tune into your body to figure out what you need whe…

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39. Self sabotage vs trusting your gut in dating 27:45

6M ago27:45

27:45

Are you following your intuition and trusting your gut feelings, or are you self-sabotaging? In this episode, I talk about why we self-sabotage and how it's different than trusting your gut. I get into eight different ways we get in our own way and tips for tapping into your intuition more. I'm also sharing a very exciting update on my relationship…

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38. How to get out of your head during sex w/ Abigail Jensen @vibeslut 48:28

6M ago48:28

48:28

Not sure how to get your needs met in the bedroom? Feel awkward talking about sex with someone new? Abigail Jensen from @vibeslut and I get into how to talk about sex and navigate new experiences with new partners with confidence and ease. Abigail provides so many practical, realistic tips for good sex and great communication in this episode. Conne…

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