Best Lets Talk About Gay Stuff Podcasts (2024)

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291: Max Austin – We can’t be wrong and other gay truths 33:49

2h ago33:49

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Throughout history, all we have heard as gay men is that being gay is WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. Yet, we often ask ourselves, "How can we be wrong?" Debut author Max Austin, shares his insights about his life in the '90s amongst the HIV/AIDS crisis and the shame, vile bullying he experienced as a nurse, which led him to constantly ask the question that i…

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290 – Never Let The Making of Our Gay History Be Forgotten – Erick Marcus 34:07

4d ago34:07

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Daily life is a culmination, in the moment, of all the history that has preceded our lives. For gay men, there is such a rich history of gay men and others in our LGBTQ history that have brought us to these moments. And, as gay men we need to be the flag bearers of continuing to make history for the generations to come. Joining me today is Journali…

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289: Luis Baez – Charting your course and career as a gay man 37:53

4d ago37:53

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Career, money, success, and rising above our circumstances. There's not to many gay men who have pursued these goals. But what happens when you struggle to get there? Do you give up? Telling us not to give up, Luis Baez, a kick as Sales Coach shares his story of rising out of poverty and his journey to find the career he loves and the lessons he's …

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Ep. 84: Exploring Menopause and Buttholes 54:42

11d ago54:42

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Lauren visits the gyno and he can't find one of her ovaries. Blood test results? Post Menopause! Why is no one talking about menopause and the lifestyle? Oh, because it's really difficult to make sexy. We give it our best shot. Richard works on his magic with a new ball weight trick in the shower. Lauren is inspired by a friend to give anal a try a…

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288: – Finding Peace As A Gay Man – Dr. Wade Maggert 45:20

20d ago45:20

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The pursuit of peace-of-mind, serenity, of "Can this crazy life just let me breathe?" As gay men this is the hamster wheel that we struggle with from the time we realize we are gay, to present day - the pursuit of peace. But what changes when we have the tools to slay the "everything, everywhere, all at once" dragons in our lives? We learn to activ…

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287: Christopher Adams – Reliving Where We Came From As Gay Men To Thrive 30:21

21d ago30:21

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As gay men, we know that many have paved the way for us to enjoy our lives as they are today. But the fight isn't over, and it's always humbling and inspiring to revisit history and the arts that got us here. Today we are joined by writer Christopher Adams who invites to revisit, the re-release of Fritz Peter's Finistère a trailblazing, 1951 publis…

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286: Mark Pettit – Living his best ANKRBOY life 45:06

25d ago45:06

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As a 40+ gay man, he's now living his most authentic life being the ANKRBOY he'd never dreamed hed be in this way. During the height of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, his life and career was shattered because of one innocent move out in public. But that didn't stop him from rising to the top of his now delicioous 40+ gay life. Joining us today on the podca…

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285: Ronald Hunter – Discover what happens when gay angels get their wings 39:44

1M ago39:44

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From finding himself on the streets at a young age to thriving in the military, this former Boy Scout found his wings, gave back to his country, and literally and figuratively learned the power of finding his own gay wings to thrive beyond the chains of sexual abuse victimhood. You're invitied into an intimate conversation where Ron Hunter, author …

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284: Jay Claypool – Gay AF from the farm, military, to the drag stage! 50:04

1M ago50:04

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Yes sir, I'm a farm boy. Yes sir, I'm ready to serve my country. No sir, I'm not gay or do drag - but your not supposed to ask and I'm not supposed to tell. Taking us on his journey to stand up for who he is, virgin author, Jay Claypool shares his life and story about growing up on a rural farm in Georgia and keeping his life as a gay man and drag …

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Ep. 83: Getting (almost) Everything Out of Soft Swap 56:36

1M ago56:36

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In this episode, come on a silent, but wet, ride as we move studios and homes and make just enough time for a hot and sexy soft swap with a couple. We make a Shivers delivery to a Patreon couple to help make their first Desire trip extra special! Learn the positives of a soft swap and the struggles of soft swap couples. Stag Vixen? Lean about a sex…

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283: C. Travis Rice – Making Room For Romance In Your Gay Life 33:53

2M ago33:53

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Is gay romance dead? Do you feel like no gay man has a romantic bone left in his body? Well grab your beach chair, your Speedo, and sunscreen and get ready for your next summer read. Steamy, passionate, and full of sizzling romance, author C. Travis Rice (Christopher Rice) shows how ghosts of gay men's past can lead to an happy ending. In this cand…

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282: Wade Maggert – Breaking Free and Practicing Self-Love 45:08

2M ago45:08

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Happy Pride. That's what today's guest said over the pounding beat of his DJing life for many years. The thrill, the fun, the drugs, the sex. It all made him feel desired and alive...so to speak, until it didn't. Then he woke to the truth that to be desired and loved, he had to do that to and for himself. Dr. Wade Maggert, brings his Buddhist sensi…

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281: Kadeem Alphanso Fyffe – Threading the needle of gay success 47:56

2M ago47:56

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From the moment he was a young man, he knew, and was taught - no one is going to hand you anything and you have to go out and get it yourself. And as a Jamaican-American man that is exactly what he did. He's gone out and fiercely pursued his dreams and lived his life authentically. Author and Fashion Designer, Kadeem Alphanso Fyffe shares is though…

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Ep. 165: Celebrating Five Years of Gay Stuff with JD Doyle 1:59:11

3M ago1:59:11

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This week Thomas, Chris, and Dusty celebrate five years of the podcast by interviewing with Author and Historian JD Doyle.

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280: Michael Pezzullo – How To Navigate The Partying Ways Of Gay Life 51:40

3M ago51:40

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There's a stereotype about gay men that all we want is sex, partying, and drugs. For some that might be true. For others we just enjoy the occasional dip into that space. But what happens when navigating the drinking, drug, partying way of being becomes blurred and we don't realize that we're on the verge of addiction? Joining me today to unpack th…

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Ep. 82: Hotel Hottie Booty Call 56:42

3M ago56:42

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Richard accepts a booty call invite for us with a super hot, young couple. We decide to try and infiltrate an all-inclusive hotel with no plan and Lauren is caught by security. Lauren decides to break the ice by asking for a lap dance in the form of Magic Mike Last Dance? Thanks to SHIVERS, she gets all the tingles in all the right places. Go try s…

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287: Michael Andor Brodeur – The true meaning of muscle in a gay mans world 46:11

3M ago46:11

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Men, muscle and masculinity. It seems to be that constant tug-of-war in our male psyche. Then add to the mix being gay, and suddenly we're a mess. Whether you're a muscle chaser, worshipper, or it's not your thing, there is that swole that happens in your loins when you feast upon a man, regardless of how you land on the muscle spectrum. Taking a d…

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278: Dr. Gary Bucher – Making Butt Health A Priority 35:41

3M ago35:41

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We go to the gym, watch what we eat, many of us use condoms for safer sex experiences, yet one area we don't concern ourselves with - so to speak is our butt health. Sure we know about prostate cancer and the such, but when was the last time you ask your Doctor about the health of your butt. Starting today, we make butt health a priority - and it h…

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277: Rick Clemons – Your Pursuit of Passion is BS 16:37

3M ago16:37

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Passion, passion, passion. I just want to find my passion. Yup! Don't we all. But for gay men, this desire is a consistent rumbling that often leaves us high and dry with no passion to make us fill fulfilled. Well, today we're going to debunk the pursuit of passion and ask you to instead get curious. Inspired by Elizabeth Gilbert of Eat, Pray, Love…

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276: Matt Boyles – Fitter Confident YOUNIVERSE for Gay Men 41:56

3M ago41:56

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We want that gym body, but as gay men, it can be intimidating to get to the gym or just a frickin drag. Yet, if we gave ourselves some love and confidence and got to the heart and soul of that dread, we can move mountains and have a loving relationship with fitness, health, and our bodies. Author and personal trainer Matt Boyles shares how you can …

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275: Jeza Belle – Yes You Can Be Christian and a Drag Queen 47:02

3M ago47:02

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Today we are going to church to talk about being Christian, Gay, and a Drag Queen. And who better to discuss this topic then Jeza Belle, author of Jeza's Jesus Juice: A Drag Queens Christian Devotional. She proves you can be Christian, gay, and a Drag Queen. Hallelujah! About Jeza Jeza Belle is a Drag Queen, Comedian, Screenwriter, Director, Produc…

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Ep. 81: Doing Gay Stuff in the Manliest Man Way Possible (at Desire) 39:41

4M ago39:41

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1. Everybody wins in this episode! We are invited to Desire by some dear friends and experience the new Eden resort. Surprise Richard, you are getting pegged for your birthday! 2. First night at Desire, Richard volunteers Lauren for DVP with the right couple, wrong piece of junk. 3. Richard's DVP studies have him calling out positions like training…

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274: Kevin Spirtas – Navigating Fame, Love, Loss, and Hollywood 53:28

4M ago53:28

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He may be an actor, broadway star, and producer, but that doesn't mean he is immune from the every day challenges of love, fame, and loss. In this candid interview, Kevin Spirtas shares insights of being a gay man in limelight and how he learned to unhide himself. About Kevin KEVIN SPIRTAS has become one of Hollywood's most watched talents. From Br…

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Ep. 164: Tales of Multiple Cities 1:44:32

4M ago1:44:32

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Thomas, Chris, & Dusty talk about the victims of Andrew Cunanan and the novel Tales of the City by Armistead Maupin.

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273: Steve Milliken – A Late Bloomer, Baby Bloomers Guide to Being Gay 35:37

4M ago35:37

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Can we just talk about gay generation gaps? Why is it that the Millenials and Gen Z's have no time for the generations that paved the way for them to be so out and proud? Well rather than pointing fingers and being bitchy, let's enjoy stories and insights from a Late Bloomer, Baby Boomer, Author Steve Milliken who shares his book by the same name t…

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272: Allen Scott – From Pornography Addiction to Redemption 50:56

4M ago50:56

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We all make mistakes. For some of us those mistakes are harder than others to live with, especially when that mistake will follow us for life. From his own sexual abuse at a young age, to his porn addiction, to being arrested and having to now carry the weight of being a registered offender, Allen Scott is healing and growing into the man he is mea…

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Ep. 163: Billie Discusses the Church's Grave Errors 1:27:14

5M ago1:27:14

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This week Thomas, Chris, and Dusty discuss Pope Francis admitting to 'grave errors' and the rise of Billie Eilish.

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271: Adam Lippin – Tap into being heard with HearMe.app As A Gay Man 36:49

5M ago36:49

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Feeling a heard is one of the most critical mental health pills we can pop as humans. Yet, a growing number of people in society have no one to listen to them - especially gay men. Helping fill the void of loneliness and not being heard, Adam Lippin, founder of HearMe.app provides a solution for the world and especially gay men to have a listening …

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Ep. 80: Pounded by Amateurs, Pounded in Playroom, Pounded by Drugs 55:10

5M ago55:10

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We take you through our sexcapades from Flirtation. (Come check out SIN in October and see why couples leave and tell a friend to go to the next one.) Do we peak at a certain athletic level sexually? Lauren thinks she needs to start training, as she's being out sexed by newbies. Richard thinks reverse psychology is a better, more lazy, approach. Ri…

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270: Gregory Allen – 40 + and thriving beyond the monsters in his life! 46:27

5M ago46:27

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He's 40+. He's thriving. He's still tackling the monsters under his own bed. But, he's thrilled to be the gay man, artist, and creative he is, because he loves and accepts himself exactly for who he is. Gregory G. Allen, ward-winning author, screenwriter, filmmaker and actor candidly shares what he's learned about being a gay man since his coming o…

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Rick Clemons – Gay and Gray – The Party is Not Over! 14:15

5M ago14:15

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It's happening and you can't avoid it. You're going to age, and go gray, even as a gay man. Ok some of you may not go gray but we are all headed down the pathway of aging as gay man, but that doesn't have to be a death sentence. Here's my take on how to be Gay and Gray and embrace it with joy! Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk Chats The third…

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268: Justin Reinert – Creating a Sense Of Belonging For You and Your Community 36:42

5M ago36:42

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Feeling a sense of belonging as gay men is one of the things we struggle with the most. Using his book - Creating Belonging: A Practical Guide to Accelerate Belonging in Organizations and Communities - Justin Reinert shares how we as gay men can create a better sense of belonging for ourselves and others. About Justin Justin Reinert is a Talent Lea…

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267- Rick Clemons: 10 Ways To Move on After A Breakup 16:27

6M ago16:27

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Breakups suck, and anyone who tells you otherwise is kidding themselves. But, they don't have to be the thing you cling onto forever. Whether the break up is one sided, mutual, you can move on with love and understanding if you follow these 10 steps. Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay Men, Gay Talk Chats The third Monday of each month at 5:00 p.m. Pacific, …

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Ep. 79: The Special Kid Brought His Toolbox to the Orgy Again! 47:20

6M ago47:20

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Come check out SIN in October and see why couples leave and tell a friend to go to the next one. We go meet some friends for New year's eve and face the frigid temps at Temptation, Richard tries to remake his costume choices for winter temperatures. First night orgy, but were we actually invited? Once we all meet up, Richard goes into A/V mode. Set…

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Ep. 162: Only Barbie Can Know 2:06:19

6M ago2:06:19

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This week Thomas, Chris, & Dusty kiki about gay stuff and the icon that is Barbie and the book No One Can Know by Kate Alice Marshall.

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266: Stan Goldberg – Preventing Senior Moments 43:48

6M ago43:48

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We've all felt like we've had "senior moments!" Yet most are actually preventable. Helping guide as aging gay men to embrace our age and our real senior moments id Stan Goldberg - ally to the LGBTQ community who guides us on how to Prevent our Senior Moments as he shares his book by the same name - Preventing Senior Moments: How To Stay Alert Into …

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265: Rick Clemons – 10 Things Gay Men Can Do To Drop Their B.S. And Be Happier! 26:30

6M ago26:30

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Here we are. Almost the end of February, and what have you done this year to be happier and more productive as a gay man? Nothing? Or are you stuck in the hamster wheel of, "I'll get to it next week!" Take 20 minutes and listen to my thoughts on 10 Things You Can Do - Right Now - to get over your bullshit and be happier. Join Our Live 40 Plus Gay M…

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264: Joli Hamilton – Uncomplicating the fire of open relationships 44:01

6M ago44:01

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How do you do an open relationship? Should you do an open relationship? Why do gay men consider open relationships? These and many other questions are answered today with open relationship expert Dr. Joli Hamilton who uncomplicates the complicated. About Joli Dr. Joli Hamilton is the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. She i…

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