This podcast and community create a safe space for women to find support, inspiration, and tools to uncover more joy and fulfillment in sex. Everyday women share stories, successes, and struggles, and experts give insights, address relationship/sexual challenges, and teach practical tools to help you embrace your sexuality. Join Ariel Finlinson as we talk about influences such as connection, culture, body image, religion, and anatomy. Together, let’s create a world where women’s sexuality is ...
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71: Create a Life You Love // Melissa Havertz
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Don’t put joy on hold until your next getaway. Start loving the life you’re in right now! Connection and fun can be found right where you’re sitting. In this episode, Melissa Havertz gives real tips to discover joy in the little moments of life and how to use them for greater connection with the ones that matter most. 💜 Learn more from Melissa at h…
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If you are out of practice in making love with your partner, it might feel awkward or even intimidating. But connecting with your partner on a regular basis will help your intimacy thrive. If you are out of the rhythm of sex, it's time to try again! In this episode, Ariel shares her own story of what it can feel like to be out of practice and why i…
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69: Navigating the Changing Seasons of Sex // Tammy Hill
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Tammy Hill joins Ariel to cover what you can expect in your sex life throughout your lifespan. From newlywed to empty nester, Tammy shares what she has seen in each stage and tips on how to help your intimacy thrive — no matter the season you’re in! 🌟 Use code TALKINGLOVE for 10% off Mentionables Lingerie 💜Find Tammy @tammy_hill_lmft and her websit…
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68: The Unseen Journey of Pregnancy // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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On social media, pregnancy can look like all rainbows and sunshine. But this isn’t always the case! If you feel like a train wreck while carrying a little one, you aren’t alone. Carlie and Ariel share what pregnancies can look like (without the glowing filters), and how to get through when it’s the hardest thing in the world. ☀️Need a joy boost in …
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67: Ideas for Initiating Sex // Ariel Finlinson
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You’ve probably heard plenty of spicy ideas to initiate sex, but in this episode I’m going to give you the bread and butter of making initiating sex work for your relationship like it never has before! ☀️ Want more? Download my free guide: Top 10 Things to Ask Your Spouse About Sex Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit lad…
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66: You Deserve Pleasure // Dr. Lindsey Brooks
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Stop believing your pleasure is not a priority! Dr. Lindsey Brooks joins this episode and teaches about breaking down barriers to a better sex life with your partner. Through society, there can be beliefs we carry with us that hold us back from understanding pleasure and allowing it to flourish in our lives. Dr. Brooks will open up your understandi…
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65: Sharing Housework // Dr. Dave Schramm
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The overwhelm of housework seems never ending. While it should be shared between spouses, it can feel tricky to ask for support in tackling these tasks. Dr. Dave Schramm talks about how to troubleshoot the balancing act of housework. He teaches the key to better discussions when emotions are high and how to get on the same page with your partner. 🌟…
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Laura and Sharon share stories of infertility from two different perspectives. This intimate conversation will shed light on a difficult challenge and what these women have learned in the process. 🎗️Learn more about endometriosis here 💜 Checkout “Staying Connected Through Infertility” episode here Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instag…
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63: What You're Doing to Stifle Connection // Dr. Amber A. Price
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As women, we desire to make our relationships deep and fulfilling. We sacrifice ourselves as we try live up to all the ‘shoulds’ and ‘should-nots’ that make a “good” wife and mother. But living this way makes it almost impossible to create the authentic relationships we desire. Dr. Amber Price joins us for another episode to dig into her research a…
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In this special Valentines episode, Ariel shares a quick win you can take on today to add a little more joy to your relationship. I caught one of Kyle’s bids for connection on video here 🌟 💜 Missed my live FREE masterclass? There’s still time to sign up for my signature course: FROM PRESSURE TO PASSION, but only until 4 PM (MST). Learn more here! J…
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61: Functioning at Your Peak // BreeAnn Allred
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It’s time we stop accepting peeing our pants or painful sex as the 'norm' after baby. Enter pelvic floor therapy. BreeAnn Allred, an experienced pelvic floor physical therapist of 17 years and mother of 4, talks about the ins and outs of pelvic floor PT. Learn what can be treated with pelvic floor therapy, what an appointment might look like, and h…
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60: Tips for When You Feel Touched Out // Ariel Finlinson
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If you have ever felt touched out, this episode is for you! Get inspired to find ways to connect in meaningful ways despite sometimes feeling touched out from your kids. 💜 Sign up here for my *Free Masterclass* From Touched Out To Turned On before it closes! 💜 Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s recent reel “What if you treated your kids like you treat yourself?” …
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59: Finding Joy Through Boundaries // Ralphie Jacobs
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Parenting on a sex podcast? You bet! When it comes to our satisfaction in sexual relationships, there can be so many things that affect how we show up. Parenting is one of them. In this episode, Ralphie Jacobs, exceptional parenting educator and passionate advocate for strong families, teaches about setting boundaries with our children. You’ll lear…
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58: 4 Things Holding You Back from Sexual Fulfillment // Ariel Finlinson
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You are capable of immense sexual pleasure and deep connection. When this isn’t happening in your sex life, it can fill you up with all sorts of negative feelings towards your partner and any sexual encounter you two might share. It doesn’t have to be this way. In this episode, Ariel shares 4 things that could be keeping you from the fulfillment yo…
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57: Invisible Labor: What it is and How to Lighten the Load // Dr. Julie Hanks
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In this episode, Dr. Julie Hanks delves into the meaning of invisible labor. She uses her almost 30 years of experience empowering women to tackle the invisible load many of us silently carry; with the goal of helping us create partnership marriages. Listen in, as we discuss what invisible labor is, how it can strain relationships and how to unpack…
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The battle for positive body image can feel like an impossible dream. Our dislike for our body may seem like a truth that the universe can’t change. This negative focus on our bodies can steal so much of our lives without us even realizing it. Erin Palmer brings her passion and insight to this episode as she expounds upon ways we can obtain body pe…
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55: From Coping to Connection // Cameron Staley
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Cameron Staley (a clinical psychologist, Tedx speaker and program developer) reframes our understanding of pornography use from addiction to a coping mechanism. Even if you don’t have a direct connection to pornography use, you most likely have unhealthy ways of coping when things get tough. You’ll go away feeling empowered to lean into discomfort …
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54: A Formula for Connection // Ariel Finlinson
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The holiday season can be a difficult time to stay connected to our spouse, especially as we balance the demands of the season. In this episode, Ariel shares a quick formula to stay connected and bring more joy during the holidays. Get my FREE downloads by sending me the DM “BLUEPRINT” on Instagram @ladies.talkinglove or by clicking on one of the f…
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53: Creating a Partnership Marriage // Tim and Aubrey Chaves
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Partnership: a relationship of equals. This is something we all want in our marriage, but it can be surprisingly difficult to put into practice. Cultural conditioning and personal weaknesses can get in the way of living that partnership dream. Aubrey and Tim Chaves, hosts of the Faith Matters Podcast, join me in this episode to share their journey …
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52: A Reason for Sexual Purity // Dr. Camden Morgante
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Teaching kids sexual values and beliefs can be challenging when you’ve got your own baggage! Dr. Camden Morgante is back to help us know how to talk about sexual purity with our kids, while leaving out negative messages from purity culture. Listen in for practical tips on giving our kids a reason to stay sexually pure without the baggage! Get my FR…
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51: What You Didn’t Know: The Sexual Response Cycle // Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus
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Is spontaneous sexual desire the norm? Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, internationally recognized sex therapist and author, teaches us about a new way to understand our sexual response … Spoiler, it doesn’t start with desire! Join us as we break down a new understanding of the sexual response cycle and why that’s important in your sex life today. Find Dr. Ba…
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50: Pleasure - Courtesy of Female Anatomy (Encore!) // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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Sex researcher and educator Carlie Palmer-Webb dives into the ins and outs of female anatomy so that women can uncover pleasure in their sex lives. She gives us a deep look into how to navigate religious or cultural beliefs while also getting to know our bodies. Find Carlie Palmer-Webb on Instagram @thechristiansexeducator and access her courses an…
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49: Debunking Male Sexuality Myths (Encore!) // Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray
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Sexuality researcher Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray shares her groundbreaking discoveries surrounding male sexuality. In this episode, Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray challenges views of male sexuality that are prevalently accepted and believed. She opens the door to more understanding and authentic dialogues around male sexuality. You can find Dr. Murray’s blog,…
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48: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 3 (Teens) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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We often characterize the teenage years as being full of raging hormones and emotions. But is there a way to help our kids navigate this time without shame and fear while living within their values? In this episode, Dr. Laura Padilla-Walker shares foundational building blocks we can use to talk with our kids about healthy sexuality during the teen …
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47: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 2 (ages 9-12) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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Did you think you were dying when your period started? Or wondered what was in your underwear when you woke up? It’s time to do better for our kids! But when should I start talking about puberty with my kids? In this episode, Dr. Padilla-Walker breaks down when most children experience puberty and how to start the conversation. From puberty to sex,…
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46: Talking to Kids about Sex: Part 1 (Ages 0-7) // Dr. Padilla-Walker
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When should I start talking to my kids about sex? How do I talk to them about it? In Part 1 of this 3 part series, Dr. Laura Padilla-Walker breaks down how to talk with our kids about healthy sexuality from birth to age 3 and then from ages 3-7. Tune in to find tips for making these types of conversations natural and open. Find Dr. Padilla-Walker’s…
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45: Letters to My Younger Self // Bonnie Young
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Marriage and Family Therapist Bonnie Young joins us to talk about her new book, Sex Educated: Letters from a Latter-day Saint Therapist to Her Younger Self. This book covers common challenges women experience as they grow up with the shame and unknowns surrounding sex. In this interview, Bonnie brings to light several major roadblocks women face as…
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44: Help for Painful Sex // Dr. Sara Reardon
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It's time to shout it from the housetops… Intercourse should not be painful! In this episode pelvic floor specialist Dr. Sara Reardon (PT, DPT, WCS) shares some of the causes for painful sex and how to get help. Listen in and tell everyone you know! Find Dr. Sara and her resources below: IG: @the.vagina.whisperer Tik Tok: @thevagwhisperer Website: …
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43: Fostering Holiday Connection // Camille Jensen
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It’s that time of year where the hustle and bustle can take us away from what it’s really all about: connecting with our spouse, family, and friends. Join life coach Camille Jensen and I as we talk about tips for building connection with your partner not only during this busy time of year, but all year long. Find Camille on Facebook at CampJay Coac…
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42: Unpacking Purity Culture // Dr. Camden Morgante
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If you grew up in a religious faith tradition, purity culture has likely impacted you. Purity culture often holds back our potential for a thriving couple relationship by negatively impacting our sexual and emotional connection. Join us as Dr. Camden Morgante helps us deconstruct purity culture and gives tips to reconstruct our faith in a way that …
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41: Talking with Teens about Masturbation // Dr. Dean Busby (Part II)
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Figuring out how to help your teens make decisions that align with their values around masturbation can be challenging. In this episode, Dr. Busby gives parents helpful advice about navigating these tricky topics with their teens. Dr. Busby’s co-authored books include: A Better Way to Teach Kids about Sex Sexual Wholeness in Marriage Follow us @lad…
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40: What do I do When My Young Child is Masturbating? // Dr. Dean Busby (Part I)
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I remember feeling fearful as I watched my young children start to explore their bodies. I didn’t want to create shame around their sexuality, but I didn’t know how to handle the situation. The more I’ve learned about this topic, the more I understand that self-touch is a natural part of a child’s development and can be handled in simple ways that …
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You know that super sticky handful of lube you pull away after applying? Women’s sexual coach Dani Todd explains that it should not be that way. She shares the beauty of using a quality lube from orgasm to vaginal health. The Dating Diva’s 2022 virtual sex Seminar is AVAILABLE NOW!! Use this link for the 2022 Sex Seminar and get $15 OFF I’ve teamed…
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38: Celebrating Motherhood through the Eyes of Children
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Mother’s Day can be hard, beautiful, heavy, and joyful. Some of us have lost our moms, don’t have children but desperately want them, or don’t feel celebrated in a way that helps us feel loved. Others of us may love Mother’s Day. Whatever your Mother’s Day holds, I hope that this episode will help you lean into the joys, challenges, and beauty of m…
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37: Round Table - Overcoming Body Image Struggles
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Working through body image struggles can feel overwhelming and lonely. It can feel like everyone else has their life together, AND the body that you wish you had! In this episode, two friends share some of their journeys as they’ve worked to overcome body image struggles. They share tips of things that have helped and things they currently use to w…
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36: Uncovering Your Sexual Potential // Carlie Palmer-Webb
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Have you ever heard: “Women don’t like sex as much as men.” or “Just have sex to keep your husband happy.” Well friends, often women simply haven’t been taught how to have good sex! Pleasure in sex is just as much for women! In this episode, sex educator and researcher Carlie Palmer-Webb helps us uncover ways to create the pleasure and connection w…
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35: Do I Have Vaginismus? // Dr. Janelle Howell
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Do you have pain with sex? Women’s health physical therapist Dr. Janelle Howell shares not only common symptoms of vaginismus but how to get help. There is hope for those who struggle with pain during intercourse and it’s time to get help! Find Janelle at the vaginarehabdoctor.com and on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor Pelvic Floor PT Finder Follow us…
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34: Speaking Up for Sexual Needs // Amber A. Price
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Speaking up for our needs can be challenging, especially sexually. Researcher and educator Amber A. Price walks us through some of the tendencies we may fall into that cause us to silence our needs and how we can start to uncover, find, and meet those needs. Access Amber’s Handout here Find her at amberaprice.com or on Instagram @amber.a.price Ways…
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33: Talking with Kids about Arousal // Dr. Chelom Leavitt
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Helping our kids recognize arousal but also have the tools to channel it in healthy ways within their values can feel overwhelming. Dr. Chelom Leavitt, a mother of 8, professor, and researcher shares key insights into talking with kids about arousal and giving them helpful tools. Find Dr. Leavitt at www.chelomleavitt.com, @sexualmindfulnessproject …
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32: Round Table - Making Valentine’s Day Yours
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Valentine’s Day can be a holiday full of expectations. In this episode we talk about getting past the expectations to uncover a unique and fulfilling celebration for you and your partner. Affiliate Link to the Intimately Us app: https://r.intimately.us/ladies Join the conversation @ladies.talkinglove on Instagram or visit ladiestalkinglove.com This…
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31: Divine Femininity // Bethany Brady Spalding
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In this episode with author Bethany Brady Spalding, we share a unique and cherished belief in my faith tradition that has transformed my view of myself and my sexuality for good. Find Bethany’s books at www.deseretbook.com and more information about how the books began here. Information about the NYC art exhibit: The Sacred Feminine in LDS Art & Th…
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30: Rewriting the Script (for Christians) // Sheila Gregoire
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And everyone else! In this episode award-winning author Sheila Gregoire walks us through some of the harmful ideas around sexuality that can seep into religious teachings and have showed up repeatedly in top selling Christian marriage and sex books. Listen in to find out some of these harmful ideas and kick them out of your bedroom. Find Sheila’s b…
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29: Round Table - Creating Christmas Traditions
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Three friends talk about creating Christmas traditions as a family and with your partner. We also cover some of the challenges that may come up figuring out traditions and making the holidays a special time despite the tendency for hustle and bustle. Find @simplyonpurpose Gifts of Togetherness under “Christmas Bundle.” This is the awesome episode “…
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28: Empowering Kids by Teaching Consent // Rosalia Rivera
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It can be hard to know how to talk about sexual abuse prevention and consent with our children. In this episode, Rosalia gives age appropriate insights and tips for starting the conversation with your kids! Find Rosalia at consentparenting.com or on Instagram @consentparenting, or listen to her podcast About Consent Find her book recommendations he…
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27: Creating a Safe Space for Emotional Intimacy// Tammy Hill
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Creating a relationship where you can share the deepest parts of yourself is vulnerable and challenging. In this episode, Tammy Hill talks about some of the challenges we may face in trying to create safe spaces, and also gives some beautiful examples of what creating a safe space looks like in everyday life. Find Tammy on instagram @tammy_hill_lmf…
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26: Is My Vaginal Discharge Normal? // Christine Borden
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So many questions can come up around vaginal discharge that often remain unasked. Is my discharge normal? Why is white today? Do other women have this much discharge? In this episode with CNM Christine Borden, we dive into vaginal discharge and hope to help answer a lot of your unasked questions. Find Christine @midwifical on Instagram or midwifica…
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25: Round Table - Navigating Intimacy after Sexual Abuse
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This round table episode is an empowering reminder that healing, love, and sexual joy is possible after experiencing sexual abuse. Leticia and Shannon share insights about their healing journeys that are beautiful and raw. Even though we do not talk about specific details of the abuse, they share what helped them to recognize that what they experie…
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In this episode, April Davis walks us through why vibrators can be a helpful tool to enhance sex with our partner. We also discuss how to find a vibrator and myths that may hold some of us back from trying one. Find April @thevaginablog on Instagram or thevaginablog.com April’s Vibrator Recommendations: Smilemakers Ioba toys The womanizer B-vibe Bi…
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23: All Things Menstrual Cups // Meredith Tuttle
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Have you ever used a menstrual cup? Do you know what it is or how it works? In this episode, Meredith answers tons of commonly asked questions about menstrual cups. Find The Bloody Buddy Cup @bloodybuddycup on Instagram, their blog, Tiktok, or check out their website bloodybuddycup.com. Use the code ladiestalking for 10% off all of their products. …
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22: Living a Life of Wholeness // Vernique Esther
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Have you ever had big feelings show up out of the blue in response to a seemingly small event? In our discussion with Vernique Esther, we dig into uncovering the day to day manifestations of trauma (not the types of trauma we usually think of) that affect our ability to heal and thrive, and of course affect sex. Find Vernique Esther’s books, commun…
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