Best Demisexual Podcasts (2024)

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102. Demisexuality & how to date without initial physical attraction w/ Celia Gurney 55:14

1h ago55:14

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In this episode, you'll hear from Celia Gurney, a writer and creator who covers demisexuality and asexuality. We get into Celia's journey and how she discovered demisexuality, different resources that helped her along the way, and different levels of attraction. You'll hear about primary attraction vs. secondary attraction and how to approach datin…

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Let’s Talk About… Demisexuality - RCB #12 9:17

4d ago9:17

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If you would like to support the work we do at Random Chatterings, please donate if you can at the links provided below. PayPal: https://paypal.me/ranchatpod Venmo: https://venmo.com/u/Arlill-Rodriguez Cashapp: https://cash.app/$ranchatpod1 CW: Amisia, Misogyny, Parental Abuse In this month’s special podcast, not in time for Pride, Arlill talks abo…

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The Chase, First Dates, and Learning to Be a Better Lover (ft. King TM) 55:03

1h ago55:03

55:03

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by content creator Taiwo (King TM) for a candid conversation about sex education in the UK and his first masturbation experience. We explore how growing up with a single mom gave him the freedom to explore, and why he made a pact not to have sex until he was 16. Taiwo shares how he learned to be a go…

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101. What success in early dating looks like (featuring your dating wins!) 35:33

3d ago35:33

35:33

Get ready to be inspired! In this special episode (yay 101 episodes!), you'll hear from 5 members of this community about how they've found success in their dating lives. Success in dating is NOT just about finding a relationship (or whatever you're looking for). We can define it however we want. I'm so excited to have made it to over 100 episodes …

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100. Finding love on the apps after having a baby at 40 (listener story) 49:25

6d ago49:25

49:25

In this episode, you'll hear from a Dating Intentionally listener named Sara who decided to take her future into her own hands and start a family on her own before meeting her fiance on Bumble. Sara walk us through how she decided to have a child on her own at age 40, then through her experience dating (even though it was so short - she met her fia…

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Sex Ed Ceramics: Body Image, Growing Up Naked, and Big Penis Obsession (ft. Hani Dresner) 52:51

10h ago52:51

52:51

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Hani Dresner, founder of @gashtrays, a unique ceramics line focused on sex education. We dive into Hani’s upbringing in a naked household, how it shaped her body image journey, and what it was like growing up as the "weird kid" in school. Our conversation explores why sex education is so important…

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99. How to fully embrace being single (while also dating) 30:50

1h ago30:50

30:50

In this episode, you'll learn about the most important thing you can do while single if you want to enjoy dating and learn how to detach from the outcome: embracing your life without a partner. I talk about how to date NATO (not attached to the outcome) and the major steps you can take to lower the stakes in your dating life. I speak from experienc…

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Ep 313: Sexuality is Fluid! 44:59

18m ago44:59

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Hey what's up hello! This week we're talking about sexuality (and gender) are fluid, the idea of being "born this way" and honestly a lot about coconut trees. Virgin Radio Pridecast Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4Cb6mSudbWXnRSdRgqCsPp?si=fe0fcd6bbe894442 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W…

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98. The psychology of early dating w/ Jemma Sbeg (@thatpsychologypodcast) 59:55

10h ago59:55

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In this episode, you'll hear from Jemma Sbeg, the host of The Psychology Of Your 20's! We get into the psychology behind comparison and feeling behind, the paradox of choice and dating apps and navigating dating in hook up culture. Jemma shares the top two things daters need to be focused on if they want to get into a relationship, and tips for wha…

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Same Upbringing, Different Results: Orgasms, Relationships, Femininity & Bisexuality (ft. my sister) 1:03:19

2h ago1:03:19

1:03:19

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by a very special guest—her sister! In this episode, they dive into everything from their easy orgasms and first boyfriends to their Catholic upbringing and how it impacted their body image and relationship with femininity. They share stories of sexual exploration as teens, their journeys with mastur…

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97. When to wait vs when to walk away in early dating 29:16

6h ago29:16

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Let's say you meet someone you hit it off with, but they say they're not sure what they want. Or they're going through a lot and they can't focus on dating. Or they want to commit, but they're scared. Do you wait? Or do you move on? This episode breaks down when to walk and when to wait, and how to navigate conversations that come up in this sticky…

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Ep 312: Reddit Rabbit Hole (AITA 12) 58:55

7d ago58:55

58:55

Hey what's up hello! You know that time it is. The artist formerly known as Am I the Asshole is back — this week we come to you with Reddit stories of all sorts, and also a Google review for some reason. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/reddit-rabbit-hole-aita-12 ELLE article: https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/a6…

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96. Dating & confidence tips for plus-sized daters w/ Jasmine King (@thejasexplains) 55:42

1h ago55:42

55:42

I'm so excited to bring you this highly requested episode topic: dating in a bigger body! Jasmine King, a plus-sized dater and the founder of Jas Explains, provides incredible insight, tips and mindset shifts for those who want to get the most out of dating, but fear their body size holds them back. Jasmine and I dive deep into how to build confide…

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Sex-Positive Cartoons, MFM Fantasies, and Getting Through Dry Spells (ft. Jessica Stahl) 52:49

12d ago52:49

52:49

Kicking off Season 3! Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Jessica Stahl (@vanillacooldance), a sex-positive cartoonist and creative director. We dive into Jessica's mfm fantasy, her experience growing up in an open household, and how her mom gifting her her first vibrator shaped her advocacy for pleasure. Jessica shares her journey …

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95. Infatuation vs. genuine connection (how to tell the difference) 29:38

8h ago29:38

29:38

Is it just lust or something more? Do you really like them, or just the idea of them? In this episode, I'm breaking down the difference between infatuation and genuine connection so you know when something is real (and when it's more of a fantasy). You'll also learn how to avoid infatuation and create connections that last. At the end, I share my b…

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Ep 311: Trad Wives and Ballerina Farm 58:43

11d ago58:43

58:43

Hey what's up hello! This week we are talking about trad wives by way of the Ballerina Farm controversy. What are they? Why are they? Are they okay??? Content Notice: Mentions of miscarriage Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/trad-wives-and-ballerina-farm The Times Article: https://www.thetimes.com/magazines/the-sunday-times-maga…

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94. Egg freezing 101 with Dr. Srini Reddy (@springfertility) 55:32

28d ago55:32

55:32

What if you could take the pressure off yourself to start a family by a certain age? In this episode, I chat with Dr. Srini Reddy at Spring Fertility all about freezing your eggs, how it works and what to consider if you're thinking about doing it. I learned so much in this episode and love that there are so many options available when thinking abo…

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Body Love, Masturbation Variations, and Oral Sex Expectations (ft. Tara Michaela) 56:46

14d ago56:46

56:46

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Tara Michaela, a sex educator and founder of the Youth Sexpert Program. We dive deep into body image, sharing our personal experiences and discussing the importance of sensate focus and overcoming spectatoring. Tara offers insights on changing up your masturbation technique, the benefits of doing …

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93. Why you need momentum in early dating (and how to create it) 34:10

28d ago34:10

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Isn't it so annoying when you hit it off with someone, and the connection suddenly dies? Or when a whole month goes by between your first and second date due to mismatched schedules? Keeping momentum is one of the many challenges in early dating. In this episode, learn how to keep the momentum going and why it's key to going from dating to getting …

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Ep 310: Yapping 1:02:54

22d ago1:02:54

1:02:54

Hey what's up hello! We are back and ready to utilize our hard-earned PhDs in yappology. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/yapping Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book…

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92. Making friends & finding your people as an adult w/ Rachel Saslaw (@storytellnyc) 1:00:03

1M ago1:00:03

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In this episode, I discuss making friends and building community as an adult with Rachel Saslaw, the founder of StoryTell. She also happens to be my childhood best friend! We talk about the difference between community and friends, how to be open to new platonic connections and the various ways Rachel has made new friends in cities that she has liv…

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Communicate, Reassure, and Heal: Tips from a Sex Therapist (ft. Rachel Wright) 1:09:38

1M ago1:09:38

1:09:38

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Rachel Wright, a therapist, sex therapist, educator, and non-monogamy expert. We dive into the most common issues she sees in her sex therapy practice and her 4-step process for better communication with your partner. Rachel shares her unique journey as a pregnant woman with another pregnant wife,…

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91. How to speak up and advocate for yourself in early dating 37:56

1M ago37:56

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Are you obsessed with figuring out if your crush or date likes you back? Do you find yourself spiraling over someone who's sending mixed signals? This is the episode for you. I'm breaking down why we need to focus more on ourselves (our emotions, actions, and experiences) than on the other person's behavior in early dating. I provide tips on how to…

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Demisexuality vs Hypersexuality 35:20

1M ago35:20

35:20

The Frantic Romantic has her long-time best friend on the show to talk about her demisexuality. They compare the differences in their extreme experiences in love and sex experiences. Support the Show. This podcast is solely representative of the host and guests opinions. It is not represented by any specific programs or organizations More info: fra…

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The Demisexual Sex Worker: Making It Work (ft. Goddess Bats) 55:13

1M ago55:13

55:13

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Goddess Bats, a versatile and empowering sex worker. We dive into their journey, starting with camming at 18 and transitioning to various facets of sex work, including findom. We uncover the realities behind porn productions, like where the lube bot…

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90. How to stop analyzing your date's behavior w/ Todd Baratz (@yourdiagnonsense) 44:36

1M ago44:36

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In today's episode, I talk to Todd Baratz, LMHC, about the importance of self-awareness, why it's more than okay to be clingy in dating and relationships, and how our dating checklists hold us back from intimacy. We also discuss how we make dating more challenging for ourselves and how to focus our energy on analyzing other people's behavior inward…

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89. Ten tips for slowing down in early dating 45:47

2M ago45:47

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You've heard of the slow burn, but how do you take it slow in dating? This episode covers 10 of the most effective tips for taking it slow in early dating and not rushing the process. At the end of the episode, I discuss dating dilemmas such as asking for gifts in a relationship and dealing with a lack of physical affection. Submit a dating dilemma…

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The Target of My Obsession 37:36

27d ago37:36

37:36

Frantic Romantic interviews her friend, who has been the target of her fantasy addiction. They have managed to stay friends, while she has maintained her love addiction bottom lines. This podcast is solely representative of the host and guests opinions. It is not represented by any specific programs or organizations Email with your questions, conce…

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88. Hard dating truths from a matchmaker who has seen it all w/ Maria Avgitidis (@matchmakermaria) 1:04:54

2M ago1:04:54

1:04:54

In this episode, you'll hear Matchmaker Maria and I get into a ton of topics, from social media's effect on today's dating culture to whether or not my fiance and I should combine finances. We talk about online dating, meeting people IRL and a lot about how her company's matchmaking services work. We also got into Maria's 12 Date Rule, Green Dress …

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Navigating Consent in Complex Situations (ft. Sarah Casper) 50:58

1M ago50:58

50:58

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Sarah Casper from @comprehensiveconsent, author of The Kids and Consent Curriculum, and consent educator. We dive deep into the concept of consent, exploring its different types and how to ask for it. Sarah explains why consent doesn't necessarily have to be sexy but should always…

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The 13th Step + ADHD w/ Presley 58:09

1M ago58:09

58:09

Friend and love addict, Presley joins the show. She's a newcomer to SLAA and a delight. She discusses ADHD and how she accidentally found a 13 step when she met the Frantic Romantic. **Disclaimer that I am a little hypomanic and am hyperverbal especially in the beginning of the episode.** Email questions, ideas and requests for support tofranticrom…

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87. The social media mistake to avoid in early dating 32:20

2M ago32:20

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If there's one mistake to avoid in early dating, it's following each other too early. In this episode, I explain why it's best to wait to connect on social media, how it amplifies our anxieties, and how it breeds miscommunication. I also share best practices for navigating connecting on social media in the early dating stages and how to talk about …

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86. Dating with disability & chronic illness ft. Jessica Slice 52:00

2M ago52:00

52:00

In this eye-opening conversation with writer Jessica Slice, you'll learn what it's like to date with a disability and chronic illness. We get into so much in this episode, like when to disclose a disability, tips for using dating apps, where dating apps fall short when it comes to inclusivity for disabled folks and tips for what to do when you enco…

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How to Pick Up Women (ft. Violet) 46:47

2M ago46:47

46:47

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Violet, an extremely lesbian-leaning bisexual and founder of Mesh, a queer event app in NYC. We dive into the world of queer dating, discussing how to pick up women (or non-cis men), how to approach, what to say, and where to go. Violet shares her insights on figuring out if someo…

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85. You're in a new relationship. Now what? 42:53

2M ago42:53

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So, after a few months of listening to this podcast, you find yourself in a new relationship. Yay! Now, what do you do? This episode is about the four main things to focus on in the early stages of a new relationship after you've decided to officially become a couple. Listen and learn how to make the most of the honeymoon phase and keep learning ab…

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84. Conversation tips to make you a better dater with Topaz Adizes of The Skin Deep 58:49

2M ago58:49

58:49

What kinds of questions are you asking on dates, and are they the kind that will help your date open up? In this episode, I talk to Topaz Adizes, Founder of The Skin Deep and creator of the Emmy award-winning series {The And} about how to have deeper, more intimate conversations. We get into the types of questions that lead to deeper conversations,…

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106. ANSHAR SERAPHIM: non-binary dominant [autistic] 59:18

2M ago59:18

59:18

Anshar Seraphim is a consultant, trainer, speaker, and neurodiversity advocate. Anshar likes they/them pronouns, but because they present as male, they don't really mind he/him. They identify as non-binary, because of their lack of exposure to gender constructs as an autistic person. Find out what that means to Anshar in this episode. We also talk …

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Trans Journeys: Sexuality, Safety, and Expression (ft. Maybe Burke) 55:40

2M ago55:40

55:40

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Maybe Burke, a trans woman, artist and educator for an open and heartfelt conversation. We discuss her sexuality, orientation, identity, and expression journeys, and delve into her dating stories. Maybe shares how she stays safe as a trans woman and the unique challenges she faces…

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83. How to feel hopeful while dating, even if you keep getting ghosted 33:12

2M ago33:12

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If dating were easy, this podcast probably wouldn't exist. This episode is packed with reminders and mindset shifts to help you stay positive on your dating journey, even when you keep striking out. I discuss believing vs. hoping, checking our own expectations, and examining the reality of what's actually happening in your dating life, despite how …

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Ep 309: Do Romance Tropes Actually Work in Real Life?? 47:50

2M ago47:50

47:50

Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about common romance fiction tropes, try to decide if they would actually work in real life, and decide how we would react if one of our friends was in an IRL romance trope. See you again in August!!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/do-romance-tropes-actually-work-in-real-life Donate: pat…

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Meet the Frantic Romantic, Steps 4 + 5 34:49

2M ago34:49

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In this first episode, the Frantic Romantic discusses the Steps 4 and 5 of love and sex addiction recovery while in the process of completing them. She also describes how finding a 12 step program for her addiction has been life changing. TW: suicidal thoughts, adult topics (not graphic) Support the Show. This podcast is solely representative of th…

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82. How to get a guy to approach you & other lessons from a men’s dating coach ft. Blaine Anderson (@datingbyblaine) 53:10

2M ago53:10

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It's always so interesting to hear dating advice from a different perspective. This episode features Blaine Anderson, the founder of Dating By Blaine who was recently featured on Shark Tank! Blaine spills the tea on what men look for on women's profiles on dating apps, why they're hesitant to approach women in public and what women can do to be mor…

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81. Mismatched love languages, deciding to have kids alone, dealing with bad texters, and more 30:34

2M ago30:34

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I'm switching it up this week with a new format! I answer five of your dating dilemmas. Submit your dating dilemma below to have a chance of getting it answered on the pod! In this episode, I answer questions about needing more words of affirmation, making the decision to pursue single parenthood in your mid-30s, how to define the relationship, dea…

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Ep 308: Aspec Origin Stories 1:04:21

2M ago1:04:21

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Hey what's up hello! This week we talk about ~aspec awakenings~ and our own SFBO lore. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aspec-origin-stories Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com…

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80. Enjoying sex & expressing your needs without shame ft. Jessica Stahl (@vanillacooldance) 56:48

3M ago56:48

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Shame holds us back from what we truly want and need in dating, sex, and relationships. Jessica Stahl shares how she transformed her shame into something else - something way more empowering in the form of a feminist cartoon named Vanillacooldance, which takes on taboos around female sexual pleasure, normalizing bodies, speaking up for yourself in …

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Girls Gone Deep: ENM Journeys, Double Vaginal Penetration, and Play Party Tips (ft. Vee & Elle) 1:00:08

3M ago1:00:08

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. We dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting our experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and I first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and…

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79. How to manage emotional triggers in a relationship 38:28

3M ago38:28

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You've done so much healing work, so why do you still feel so emotionally triggered? In this episode, I get into why you still feel so emotionally triggered in some situations, despite all the work you've done on yourself and how to manage it in a relationship. I talk a lot about what has triggered me in my current relationship and how I deal with …

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Ep 307: Am I The Asshole pt. 11 54:55

2M ago54:55

54:55

Hey what's up hello! You already know what time it is. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/am-i-the-asshole-pt-11 DONATE TO ALAA'S GOFUNDME: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-alaa-d-alnajarrs-family-survive-genocide Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy ou…

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78. Dating skills you need to find the relationship you want w/ Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick (@dateablepodcast) 59:09

3M ago59:09

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Today's episode features the amazing hosts of Dateable Podcast, Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick. They have been sharing their dating advice for 8 years with thousands of daters everywhere. We get into super practical tips for having better conversations on dates, the importance of screening your matches, and the mindset shifts you need to be more curiou…

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I Have Two Pregnant Wives and One of Them is a Sex Therapist (ft. Yair Lenchner) 59:03

3M ago59:03

59:03

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re nav…

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