Best Desire To Control My Husband Podcasts (2024)

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How to be Happy, Minus the Envy and Comparison {Melissa Kruger} 39:26

5h ago39:26

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I’d love to hear from you! Have you been comparing yourself? Are you envious of someone God has treated "better" than you? In a story about envious grumblers who are comparing, Jesus invites you to be one of the happy ones instead. Guests: Melissa Kruger Bible Passage: Laborers in the Vineyard - Matthew 20:1-16 ESV Get your Freebie: The Live Like I…

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What the Betrayed spouse wants the Unfaithful to know after D-Day | E172 21:26

4h ago21:26

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Do you wish you had a resource you could share with your unfaithful spouse to let them know a few things you are feeling after D-Day? I've heard you loud and clear! After much research and polls, I created a list of things you, as the betrayed spouse, want you unfaithful spouse to know since the discovery of his betrayal. It can be hard to articula…

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Ep 94 \ Helping Your Husband (or Other Family) Understand Your Desire to Plan a Home Birth 40:48

2h ago40:48

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When you want to have a homebirth but your husband or family isn't on board, it can be a very stressful and frustrating for everybody involved. They love you dearly and the lies of the world can have them believing that home birth is dangerous and reckless. Often with the right information, they will change their perspective, so this episode dives …

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3 reasons the betrayed struggle with trusting the unfaithful | E171 18:35

4h ago18:35

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You've decided to reconcile after betrayal. You feel like things should be going better, but your spouse is still having a difficult time trusting you. Why? How do you get your spouse to start trusting you again? Is it always going to be this way? In today's episode, I am giving you 3 reasons why your spouse struggles to trust you after betrayal an…

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EP 93 \ Why Real Food During Pregnancy Matters: More About Prenatal Nutrition with Lily Nichols, RDN, CDE 56:48

15m ago56:48

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Prenatal nutrition is one of the only things you can truly control during pregnancy. If you've listened long to my podcast, you know that's something I preach over and over, especially in episodes 23-26 and 88. In today's episode, I have the pleasure of talking with Lily Nichols, RDN, CDE, author of three books all about this topic. You can find th…

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7 Clear Signs he is not really changing after Betrayal | E170 21:23

1h ago21:23

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D-Day has happened. All the evidence of his betrayal has been laid bare. There is no hiding it anymore. You are in massive pain. The devastation is beyond words and you are seeking relief. You are hoping he will change - maybe this will help you heal. But you are still doubting his behavior. Is he really changing? Is he really sorry for what he has…

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Why therapy doesn't always work after betrayal | E169 23:37

10h ago23:37

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You discovered his betrayal - either through an affair or sexual addiction. You googled what to do. First option - therapy. Like most, even me, we immediately panic and want to know what we SHOULD do after we find out we've been betrayed. 99% of the time, Google will tell you to seek out therapy - either for yourself or for your marriage. But is th…

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When She Has More Wealth And I Want What's Fair {Lydia Brownback} 50:40

14d ago50:40

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I’d love to hear from you! Why does she have more? Why do I have less? And what does Jesus say, when I want what's fair? In this episode of the Live Like It's True Podcast, we're looking at a story Jesus told in response to these very questions—the parable about the bigger barns. I'm so honored to have Lydia Brownback, author of the Flourish Bible …

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EP 92 \ How to Reduce Your Risk of Tearing During Birth 32:09

16d ago32:09

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It is only natural that many moms are afraid of tearing "down there" during birth. Perineal tears (aka perineal lacerations) seem pretty scary, but the best way to deal with fear is by getting the information so you can think about it more rationally. Yes, tears do happen, but they are rare and the risk that you have one can be reduced by doing som…

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How betrayal trauma affects you spiritually | E168 39:46

1h ago39:46

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Can betrayal trauma affect you spiritually? Can it cause you to blame God? Can it cause you to be angry with God for not stepping in and stopping the affair or porn use? Can it cause a crisis of faith? Beautiful, there is a spiritual side to infidelity and while the unfaithful cannot blame their choices on the devil, could the enemy played a role i…

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The Right and Wrong Way to Compare Sin {Lindsay Schott} 1:05:33

21d ago1:05:33

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I’d love to hear from you! Have you ever felt unworthy, because of your sin? Or have you every tried to comfort yourself by comparing with someone who sinned in worse ways that you? In this series, we're looking at comparison stories that Jesus told, and this one is a story about comparing sin. But it's a story with a twist that might surprise you …

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EP 91 \ The Beautiful Symphony of Hormones: Fertility Awareness and Understanding Preconception and Pregnancy Hormone with Bekah Yawn 43:24

29m ago43:24

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If you are struggling now or have every struggled with infertility, or if you are currently trying to conceive (TTC), you are going to love this episode. Even if you haven't struggled, you will learn so much about your body and tracking your cycles which will help you know your body even better, so you are going to love this episode too! Today, I t…

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How do I heal if he won't confess to the affair? | E167 21:48

3h ago21:48

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You suspect your husband is having an affair. He has been acting strange for weeks on end. You may even have "circumstantial evidence". But how do you know if he really is cheating or is using porn? He won't confess it. Now you're left with just wondering and it is driving you crazy. What do you do? In today's episode, I'm going to guide you throug…

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The Interesting and Surprising Origin Story of God's People {Courtney Doctor} 30:04

25d ago30:04

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I’d love to hear from you! Have you considered the magnitude of God's promises to you? Has your life been shaped by those promises, the way Abraham and Sarah's were? I'm so grateful for Courtney Doctor and her brilliant mind. Don't miss part one of this great conversation. This time, we're talking about all of the surprises tucked into the origin s…

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The Surprise of the Story is That God Takes Initiative {Courtney Doctor} 29:24

28d ago29:24

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I’d love to hear from you! When Courtney was in her early twenties, she was in a church membership class, where the gospel was being explained and she kept raising her hand, saying, "I chose God. I know; I was there..." Can you relate with the sense that you were the one who chose God? What if your story is actually one of God taking the initiative…

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5 steps to redeem D-Day. It doesn't have to control you anymore. | E166 25:17

1h ago25:17

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D-Day It's the day we remember as the DAY OF DESTRUCTION. The Day my world shattered into a billion pieces. The day I found out he betrayed me. What if you could actually REDEEM that day so it no longer has that kind of power over you? What if that day could have a different meaning? Well, it can. You CAN redeem D-Day. In today's episode, I share 5…

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EP 90 \ Newborn Transition to Life on the Outside: How To Make It Smooth and Beautiful 35:09

2h ago35:09

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SHOW NOTES Kinda like with birth, if you listen to people around you, you probably think that the newborn period is a traumatic time of screaming babies and nobody sleeping much. Babies are either colic or teething or allergic to this or that or won’t sleep at night. It can sound pretty scary. But what if I told you that all of that is something th…

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Jesus's Backward but Foolproof Way to Be Great {Kelly Needham} 57:33

1M ago57:33

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I’d love to hear from you! "Which of us is the greatest, Jesus?" Jesus's response to the disciples might surprise you, but it also might bright you comfort and peace. There's a foolproof way to be great in the kingdom of God, and it's backward from the way of the world. Want to learn the secret? Join Kelly Needham and I on the Live Like It's True P…

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EP 89 \ Change Your Language & Change Your Birth: 3 Mindset Shifts That Will Transform Your Pregnancy & Birth 35:52

10d ago35:52

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SHOW NOTES: Have you noticed this terminology that pretty much everybody uses about birth? The doctor said I “had to”. I asked the nurse if I “could”. They wouldn’t “let me”. Do you hear that? There’s a structure here that puts “THEM” above you…..and yet it’s YOUR birth. YOU hired THEM to be there. I wanna talk to you today about how a simple chang…

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Why won't he tell me the truth about his betrayal when he has the chance? | E165 12:21

6d ago12:21

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Is it "normal" for the unfaithful not to tell me everything until I absolutely force the issue?Why won't he tell me the truth when he has the chance? Unfortunately, this problem is more common than we'd like to believe. When someone is caught, they tell only what they absolutely have to tell - and no more. There's a basic human survival mechanism i…

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The Shame of Betrayal | E164 17:19

1M ago17:19

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He was the one who betrayed me! He was unfaithful. Why do I feel so much shame? When your spouse's infidelity has been discovered, it can send a tsunami wave of shame to the one who has been betrayed. It can be caused by undue shame we place on ourselves as the betrayed or our unfaithful spouse ends up blaming us for their betrayal and it can cause…

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EP 88 \ The One Thing You CAN Control In Pregnancy 44:45

15d ago44:45

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SHOW NOTES: Today’s episode is all about nutrition because there isn’t much you can control about pregnancy, but what you eat is one of them and we need to be making sure we do our best to give our bodies and our babies the absolute best we can so we can be healthy and strong throughout pregnancy. This information is also especially useful to moms …

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The Truth From Jesus When You Compare Sin {Tasha Calvert} 39:42

1M ago39:42

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I’d love to hear from you! What if Jesus could read your thoughts about other people's sins? And what about your own sins? Do you have shameful secrets that seem too awful to even confess? In this episode, we're going to consider a story Jesus told at a dinner party where someone was comparing sin. It's a story that exposes our false narratives abo…

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EP 87 \ The Episode About The Thing You Can't Say 42:41

1M ago42:41

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Information on this family's story on Children's Health Defense website Article on FB This family's VAERs Report My resources to educated and prepare yourself Helpful Links: HOW TO WORK WITH LORI: --> Sign up HERE for the Your Birth, God's Way Online Christian Childbirth Course! This is a COMPLETE childbirth education course with a God-led foundati…

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How do you know if you can really forgive betrayal? |E163 20:16

30d ago20:16

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Today is Q & A day! Another great question from one of our loyal, beautiful women: How do you know if you can really forgive him for betraying you? It's so hard. Even God gives us a way out because it's so hard. How can I truly know if I can actually forgive him? This is such a hard topic but one that we must address if we are going to really heal …

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God can restore the most broken marriage - even after betrayal | E162 50:37

1M ago50:37

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I had the privilege of being a guest on the Unstoppable Growth Podcast with Tim & Rebecca Lindsay - my pastors and incredible mentors - to share my testimony of how God used the Unstoppable Growth program to catapult my life, marriage and ministry into what it is today. I pray you enjoy the interview and it inspires you to step into your healing jo…

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EP 86 \ Circumcision Series Follow-up: The Truth About Biblical Circumcision vs. Modern Routine Infant Circumcision 21:35

18d ago21:35

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Many of you have struggled since listening to my series on circumcision back in January with knowing how to make sense of the current circumcision situation in our country and how that relates to the Old Testament biblical mandate for circumcision. I got an email from one of my listeners that shed some new light on the topic that I think will help …

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Jesus's Warning About Your Obsession With Your Appearance {Heather Creekmore} 46:18

2M ago46:18

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I’d love to hear from you! What would Jesus say about your efforts to get healthy? When you wake up in the morning, is your first thought about what you ate the night before? Has your lifelong obsession been to finally like what you see in the mirror? With the launch of Comparison Girl for Teens, I've invited a number of guests to join me on the Li…

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5 ways to redeem precious memories when they have been tainted by betrayal | E161 21:51

1M ago21:51

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Today is Q & A day! Sarah sent in a question and asked how can you redeem the precious memories within your relationship when they have been tainted by betrayal? I am giving you 5 ways to "take back" what is rightfully yours. MORE RESOURSES: Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org Work with Lisa: Coaching Information Join our B…

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EP 85 \ Overcoming Birth Trauma To Have A God-Filled, Peaceful Homebirth with Aly McClain 59:15

1M ago59:15

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In today's episode, I interview Aly McClain from the Peaceful Homebirth podcast. Aly shares with us her background as a registered nurse, the story of her traumatic c-section birth with her first baby, her road to healing and recovery, and her beautiful, redeeming home birth she went on to have later. You will learn about how even those of us in th…

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First steps for the Unfaithful after discovery | E160 28:10

24d ago28:10

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In the aftermath of a discovery, there is chaos. Your spouse discovered your affair or sexual addiction. This was followed by shock, anger, sadness and an array of emotions. Now there is this huge disconnect between you. You view the story one way while your spouse sees it from a very different perspective. You are in crisis mode! What do you do? Y…

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How Teens Can Thrive in a World of Comparison {Lee Nienhuis} 44:34

2M ago44:34

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I’d love to hear from you! When a teen walks into a room, statistics show that there's an 80% chance she believes she doesn't belong there. She wonders, Am I okay? What are they thinking? How do I measure up? In our new book, Comparison Girl for Teens we're inviting teens to find new freedom, confidence and true influence in the middle of a world t…

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EP 84 \ How Routine Testing Can Ruin Your Birth Plans/ The Damage Of False Positives And Incidental Findings 46:18

1M ago46:18

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SHOW NOTES: Are routine prenatal tests a good idea or are they simply another tool of our medicalized maternity system used to derail our birth plans and get us back in line with the standardized care they prefer? This episode will look at things like routine STD testing (specifically syphilis testing which is called RPR and TPPA), routine gestatio…

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5 steps to begin healing from betrayal trauma | E159 19:59

29d ago19:59

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When you discover your spouse has betrayed you through sexual addiction or an affair, you are thrown into unknown territory. Your reality has been altered, your world as you knew it has ended, and your life has shattered into a billion pieces. It is like being in a major accident you didn't cause, yet you have been critically injured and now you ar…

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The Astonishing Resurrection of a Dead Marriage, Past Hope {Jill Savage} 34:02

2M ago34:02

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I’d love to hear from you! If you don't know what to do because your husband doesn't seem to love you anymore, and you're worried your marriage is dead, this conversation about what God did in my friend Jill's marriage offers so much hope. Jill Savage is an author and speaker, and she and her husband Mark do marriage coaching—which might surprise y…

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When He Lies And Betrays: One Wife's Story Of Redemption {Jill Savage} 32:10

2M ago32:10

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I’d love to hear from you! She never expected what she saw on his phone that night. And no one expected the surprise ending to their story. Joining me on the Live Like It's True podcast, Jill Savage tells her story of discovering her husband's affair, and how God sustained her through a very difficult season. This is part one of a two-part conversa…

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EP 83 \ Those Who Are Well Have No Need Of A Physician, But Those Who Are Sick: The Inherent Risks Of Being Seen By A Doctor For Pregnancy (Which Is Not An Illness) 35:23

2M ago35:23

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SHOW NOTES: Pregnant women are not sick. Pregnant women are NORMAL and they should be treated that way. But 90% of women choose to see obstetricians for their pregnancies. Obstetricians are trained surgeons. We can't be surprised when surgeons act like surgeons. This episode dives into the risks women take when they decide to see an OBGYN for their…

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Symptoms of Betrayal Trauma | E158 22:13

2M ago22:13

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You are depressed, overwhelmed, can't sleep, can't eat, and you have unexplained pain throughout your body since you've discovered your spouse betrayed you. Are these symptoms of betrayal trauma? Are there more? We are looking at an extensive, yet not exhaustive list of betrayal trauma symptoms in today's episode. Grab your pen and paper so you can…

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Ep 82 \ How The Medical Model Will Scare You Into Derailing Your Birth Plan: 3 Induction Lies And How To Deal With Them 39:48

2M ago39:48

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If you are getting your prenatal care from a traditional practice, it is almost a guarantee that you will be offered an induction, or worse, scared into thinking you need an induction when it's not really true. This episode will look at 3 of the most common "reasons" (read: lies) that obstetricians or medwives use to scare you into thinking you nee…

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Is Betrayal Trauma a real thing? | E157 35:08

1M ago35:08

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Sexual Betrayal is one of the most traumatizing experiences a woman can ever go through in life. The one you gave your heart to, the one who you put your complete trust in, the one who you love with all your heart has given himself to another. Had an affair, be it emotional, physical, or both. Or maybe it is pornography with sexual addiction. Eithe…

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From Trauma to Testimony: One Mom's Story of Tenacious Faith {Sana Latrease} 32:51

2M ago32:51

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I’d love to hear from you! When Sana when through the trauma of almost losing her nineteen-year-old son in a car crash, she did the unexpected: she shared the forty-three day experience on social media and asked the world to pray that God would do the impossible. Why? Because—as she says—then, "Everyone will know it was God." In part two of this co…

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Ep 81 \ BONUS EPISODE - Is The RSV Vaccine Safe And Effective For Pregnant Women? An Article Review 22:21

3M ago22:21

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SHOW NOTES: Today's BONUS EPISODE is an article from Children's Health Defense looking at the evidence behind the RSV shot and whether it is safe and effective for pregnant mothers and babies. Helpful Links: HOW TO WORK WITH LORI: --> Sign up HERE for the Your Birth, God's Way Online Christian Childbirth Course! This is a COMPLETE childbirth educat…

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From Trafficked to Triumph: One Woman's Faith Story {Sana Latrease} 35:00

3M ago35:00

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I’d love to hear from you! Where was God, when a little girl was being trafficked by the mother who should have kept her safe? On the Live Like It's True podcast, I'm talking Sana Latrease to talk about her story of God's faithfulness, even in the middle of her childhood trauma. This isn't the story Sana would have written, but it's the story God w…

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EP 80 \ Biblical Lessons: How Do You Apply A Parable To Birth? Like This. 23:42

2M ago23:42

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SHOW NOTES: There are a lot of lessons we can learn from scripture that are seemingly not about birth, and yet the lessons learned can be applied. In our evening worship this past Sunday, we talked about something that is not new here. I’ve told you and warned you before, but I want to show it to you from a different angle so maybe you’ll realize h…

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How to set realistic expectations for yourself after betrayal. | E156 26:44

2M ago26:44

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Betrayal knocks you off your feet. It turns your world upside down. Your mind is constantly racing and won't stop, your body is fatigued and you don't feel like you can go another minute. But there is so much to do. People to take care of. Places to go. Why won't the world just STOP and recognize you are in pain. You've been betrayed and it's like …

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5 simple ways to re-establish vulnerability in your marriage after betrayal | E155 19:25

2M ago19:25

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Just the thought of being vulnerable with your spouse after you discover they have betrayed you can be frightening. I get it. I remember thinking to myself, "I will NEVER open up to him again. I will NEVER let him into my heart again. I will NEVER share my thoughts, desires, hopes or dreams with him ever again!" I was wounded, devastated, and didn'…

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Should I risk being vulnerable if we are reconciling after betrayal? E154 22:25

2M ago22:25

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After betrayal, even if you've decided to reconcile the relationship, you can still have a hard time being vulnerable with your spouse. What if he/she betrays be again? What if I get hurt again? What if they lie to me again? What if he/she judges my feelings? All these are valid fears. But how can we get past our fears and anxiety to become vulnera…

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One Woman's Painful Trial and Promise-Driven Perspective {Gabriela Puente} 43:07

3M ago43:07

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I’d love to hear from you! At age 27, Gaby's cancer treatment are narrowing her options for one day having children. Yet Gaby walks this painful path between her trial and God's promises with perspective and hope. She shares her story in my latest episode on the Live Like it's True podcast. Gaby's story is also highlighted in my new Bible study, Sh…

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EP 79 \ What False Beliefs Do You Have About Birth That Are No Longer Serving You? 33:30

3M ago33:30

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Limiting beliefs about birth can completely change your ability to have a successful natural birth God's way, so in this episode we dig into a couple examples of limiting beliefs. We look at God's perfect design and then we look at how we can undermine that design with our choices when we choose not to work with and support God's way. Episode 43 & …

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Can my marriage be salvaged after betrayal? 3 questions to ask before you call it quits. E153 24:48

2M ago24:48

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Can your marriage really survive betrayal? Can you salvage it and pick up the pieces to build a better relationship on the other side of infidelity? How do I know if I should stay with my spouse after he/she cheated on me? In today's episode, we are looking at 3 questions that can help you decide if you should stay or go after betrayal. I pray this…

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