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Join Trev every week as he discusses the news you should be getting, offers humorous anecdotes from his life, and interviews the most interesting people from his world. This is "Trev" - Gay doesn't mean happy.
 
YouthSpeaks was born out of a frenzied text sent late into the hours of the night. Sonya was thrilled about the possibility of diving into the world of mental health. Leela readily agreed, co-hosting season 1, but when she moved away to college, Sonya immediately FaceTimed her middle school best friend. Piya instantly agreed to carry the legacy, and the rest was history. YouthSpeaks brings in acclaimed guest speakers to discuss mental well-being, specifically in people of color, from a South ...
 
A podcast that explores sex, joy, trauma and healing. And just about everything in between. Ranging from informal chats to slightly more formal I NEVER KNEW THAT interviews. Tend Your Garden aims to explore all the things that could impact on how you have sex and how you feel about the sex you are having.
 
Two queer foreigner's guide to the city of Zurich.At first glance, the LGBTIQ+ community seems to offer easy access for newcomers to connect, either through online apps or queer community spaces. Yet for people with different cultural backgrounds sometimes assimilation into Swiss life has its challenges. The podcast “Visiting?” by Benjamin Hampel and Brian McCabe is here to offer a helping hand. Ben arrived from Germany, at the end of his time as a medical student. What was initially was pla ...
 
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➡️ { DETAILS } Hathor is Horny. She thought exploring erotic photography was just a gateway to hot sex, but she’s realized: it’s one of her kinks. We talk about unrequited kinkiness, early not-safe-feeling experiences of partners pushing (reinforcing the message of “sometimes guys will want to have sex, and you’ll just have to” that was present in …
 
Welcome back everyone! In this episode, our newest co-host is introduced--Piya Devidasani! Sonya and Piya quickly delve into the season's expectations, including their goals and passions for the rest of the year. They continue to speak of their own mental health struggles, offering vulnerability as a means to connect through this difficult time. Tu…
 
➡️ { DETAILS } “I need to be used” is a new—but *very* clear—sentiment for LG, a little who is three months into a brand new Daddy Dom/little girl dynamic. She shares everything that led up to this relationship: the deep intimacy and consistent amazing sex (especially oral) of her 5-year teenage relationship, growing up Christian-ish and the lack o…
 
🥳 Happy 3 years of Sex Stories!!! Celebrating with a celestial being: ➡️ { STATS } A goddess who uses whatever pronoun is needed, ageless, lover to all lovers, into worship, tribute, self lover; occupying a human container that is an artist, creative, origin: from inside all of us. ➡️ { DETAILS } A discussion of pleasure in human form, The Goddess …
 
➡️{ STATS } 45 year old caucasian non-binary person who uses he/she/them/they pronouns; pansexual, married/polyamorous and partnered with kinks that include (but are not limited to): voyeurism, lactation, cum play, sexting and curiosity about age play; works in corporate management in the South. ➡️{ DETAILS } Raised by a bi-mom who was clearly kink…
 
Talking about sex ahead of time didn’t just lead E and A into a few nights of hotness, but has led to a kink-tastic relationship (now that they both know how freaky they each are) of trust, healing and ongoing exploration. This episode is full of *so* many details, including: repurposing back massagers and lollipop vibrators, sex-positive parents, …
 
Hawthorn loves kinky sex, and:they’ve been exploring lots of vanilla sex lately! We talk about their evolution on the yes/no/maybe list, how sexy is an attitude (and also, a Dominant woman), and they tell us about the amazing sex parties they’ve experienced via a sex-positive, inclusive & safe group (https://www.curiouscreatures.biz). Their persona…
 
Do you know how HOT thigh sex can be? Let Roxie tell you. She’s 18, and while she’s still a 5 on the shame-o-meter, that’s loads lower than she was a year ago. Since then, she’s been having fun working as a stripper and posting on OnlyFans (especially her obsession w foot fetishes) and they’ve helped re realize that while she’s not everyone’s 10/10…
 
[[TW: includes formative kid-to-kid sexsploration stories]] What do horny neighborhood boys do when they know it’s wrong to pressure a lady outside of wedlock, but still want to practice sex? Each other, apparently — at least in the neighborhood Oscar grew up in. It definitely was *not* “gay” by their own definitions, and these early experiences le…
 
Marina is having the best sex she’s ever had, and she’s had some very hot sex with partners who had very yummy butts in the two decades she lived in Israel. Her current partner is in tune with her mentally, physically, spiritually—and exploring sex with a power dynamic is hot. They have a Daddy Dom/baby girl dynamic, a Dom/sub flavor, and even a Sa…
 
His first partner knew what she liked, his second one was super open to exploring, his mom was *not* happy when she found his (kink-filled) journal as he entered adulthood, and later on in life, he had a greater understanding of why exactly. We talk conservative upbringings, an uncle with nudie magazines, making VHS tapes of Blue Nuit softcore porn…
 
Sky Wind is now a 1 on the shame-o-meter, has learned his sexual lessons through trial-and-error, and is as creative in his sex life as he is in his work as an artist. He talks about prioritizing partner pleasure, learning about different social and cultural norms when he went away to school, including what it means to be Black in non-Black spaces.…
 
TW: first P-in-V sex was not consensual, and cultural messages led her to believe she wasn’t desirable post-virginity “loss,” so she went through a phase of dating heroin addicts until she left the states for an island life. Since then, she’s come a long way and is getting her PhD in human sexuality and now is a submissive exploring her kinky side,…
 
Axe was married for four years and never penetrated his wife; he lost his virginity on a first date at age 30 just before the pandemic hit, and has been exploring kink and poly and what a compatible form of family might look like.* We talk of the desperation of wanting to learn as a submissive, and the moulding, forming and changing word done on a …
 
Get Wyoh's sex/work updates on our FINAL Sex at Work episode before Sex Stories return/s next week! /// Wyoh answers her own set of Sex at Work questions and talks about Mission 69 [mission69.org] and catches up on her sexy work-related emails in this episode: (33:52) a Listener YAY re: talking to his 17-year-old son about sex! (37:22) how an arthr…
 
JESUS CHRIST I really made you wait for this one. I'm sorry, but being honest it just frightened the life out of me and I had to fully re-record it. Which truly fits in with the motif of this week, sometimes things take longer than expected and its ok and its important to be gentle with yourself. This is an incredibly heartfelt episode and if you a…
 
Cake creates specialty lubes and is out to make sex fun –– this brand is a Mission 69 ally for sure, and there is even an on-pod surprise discount code offer*. Mitch and Wyoh talk small condoms, how specialty lube fits into the list of FDA-approved items helps with social platforms, the silly hint of shame that still sticks with him, his experience…
 
SUBSCRIBE to the new Sex at Work feed!> TW: extreme kink fantasies, Work-sexy is what sells, private-life-sexy is *very* kinky, and yes, there’s overlap. Mistress Venus, a full-service sex worker who has worked at a brothel and with private clients, gives their perspective on the sexiness of sex work, what they love about it, the eye-rolling offer …
 
Wyoh loves personal questions, but she wants to ask business people about sex, too. Sex at Work is a new series where she does just that (and hopes listeners will send in stories about personal coworker rendezvous, too) ///// SUBSCRIBE TO SEX AT WORK NOW \\\\\ Turns out, selling an after-sex cleanup tool is sexy, just not in the way you might think…
 
138 | Loves to be Hunted, Wrestled, & Caught: Sam’s Sex Stories TW: assault/rape // Drawing kinky queer people having sex in consensual ways set Sam on a path of exploration and education and led them to create Shimpteeth, a place of sexy support. Sam and Wyoh talk Funishment Fridays, a monogamous first, the journey from corporate to learning & tea…
 
This was a hiiiighly requested episode and honestly a fascinating conversation amongst two Róisíns. Róisín Nolan, an incredible collagist, joins me to pop off about being constantly fucked zoned by the straight men in her life. And just to clarify we are not talking about honest, open communication we are talking about DM slides, late night booty c…
 
His shame-o-meter used to hover around an 8, these days it’s down to a 2—he used to feel like his desires were allowed, but post-14-year marriage and with the internet acting as an equalizer, he’s been able to welcome and even explore his kinkier side. We talk online dating successes and non-success, feeling safe enough to tell a new partner “every…
 
[TW: sexual assault // partners AND a stranger] “I wanna be spoiled, I wanna be fucked, I wanna be cared for” …but Rachel *also* gets wet if a cock or pussy is in her mouth and she’s giving. These days, her partners all love going down on her — but it’s been a journey from leaving behind life-size wall paintings of Jesus in a hyper-Catholic home (w…
 
I know I say this every week but this episode is glorious. The one and only Sian Conway joins me to chat neurodivergency in the queer community, the mental health issues that come with not knowing you have ADHD, what exactly does it mean to be queer coded and Sian's very special place in my own bisexual awakening. I also throw in a little bisexual …
 
It’s not the size of Leo’s penis, it’s the way he feels when he uses his entire body to connect deeply with a lover. Controlling when he cums has been a struggle since his first partnered experience, but he spent 18 years with his wife with whom he still has a beautiful and daily relationship with, and the last few years have been a new era of expl…
 
TW: details of top surgery, mention of non-consensual & boundary-pushing experiences. Charlie had to ask for a sex talk, was told masturbation could lead to hurt, and watched the same sex ed pancake video as Wyoh in school. They discovered a bratty side with their first boyfriend in high school, and got their heart broken by their girlfriend from w…
 
This episode was everything I needed right now. Myself and the glorious Amy Clarkin sat down to chat about navigating dating with chronic conditions. As you all know I am NEWLY dating again so this felt like a cold glass of water on a hot day. Amy who is my first guest who was originally a fan of the podcast sent me some of her writing on the theme…
 
No one ever told her to be ashamed by sex or nudity, so she wasn’t. Early sex ed included bitch.com and an enthusiastic teacher in Kentucky when she was 12 who talked about how amazing sex is, and that it should absolutely be avoided. She tells us why she’s currently playing with the label “autosexual” to describe herself, talks about the internet …
 
When his first girlfriend cheated on him in high school, Sean started getting turned on and thought something was wrong with him—but he’d get off on it all the time. With internet came knowledge, and he’s happily into cuckoldry, small penis humiliation and chastity, and though he’s new to sharing details about these kinks, his stories and insights …
 
TEND YOUR GARDEN TURNS TWENTY OOOOOONNNNNEEEEEE!! I can't believe we're here already. What a journey this has been. To celebrate we've got the incredible Eadie McCarthy on to discuss polyamory. She talks about how growing up on a new-age traveller site influenced her understanding of family, what she learnt through looking back on her old journals …
 
What do you do if you grew up queer in a homophobic household with parents who got together via arranged marriage? Literally learn to fall in love with yourself, if you’re Andie. In her first partnership now, she has truly enjoyed navigating hookup culture, and her relational ease shines through the many juicy details in her episode, including: lea…
 
This week the incredible Aoife Murray returns to chat about fake doms and why that term can help and harm the BDSM community, mental health and learning our limits. This conversation felt so necessary to talk about considering so many people are on their way to getting vaccinated and the chance for a frenzy seems hiiiiigh. Truly I've learnt so much…
 
Sex is complicated for Alex, a bisexual dude who grew up in an Orthodox Jewish household and had a traumatic predatory experience with a teacher in high school. Coming out and a felt sense of pressure to “choose” a sexual identity has been an ongoing struggle, but after a couple years of hookup culture, Alex realized he’s tired of objectifying hims…
 
DISCLAIMER: there were so many techinal difficulties with this one so please bear with me and the slightly dicey editing. But aaaaaaawwwwww this episode is a tonic for the soul. Myself and one of my favourite people in the world, Niki sex educator and friend extraordinaire, chat about sexual exploration, sexting and dating. We literally spend the w…
 
Tune in for a frank conversation about depression with our amazing guest speakers, Bonisha and Amina. We cover dealing with mental health on a daily basis, as well as the stigma it comes with in our own South Asian community. This is also a goodbye episode— we’ve finished with season one! As usual, thank you for supporting and listening! --- Send i…
 
TW*** // A self-identified sex camel, Jensi introduces Wyoh to Shell Silverstein’s adult work, and then we proceed to talk about getting ostracized for calling herself “bi” at a young age, what it was like to be a stripper, why she loves strip clubs, and where to find the best thongs, there is intense stuff: ***molestation, rape, abuse and abortion…
 
This week we are joined by the incredible Mx Bel Morrigan who is so fearless and vulnerable that they took my breath away. I couldn't get over how open they were about everything. We discussed them exploring their sexuality with sex workers, coming into their queerness and non-binary identity and so, so much more. I laughed so much this episode. We…
 
This couple knows how to invite a lover into their relationship so a good time can be had by all, and they walk us through the specifics from app to date to bed to aftercare and their reconnection after, and share their sexual origin stories of confusion and underwhelm and desire that led them to their current relationship of connection and pleasur…
 
WE ARE BACK IN BUSINES BAAAAAAABY. It's been a minute. In fact its been a full week longer than I'd hoped it'd be. But we're here, I'm queer, (Indira making TYG history told me that how she identifies is none of my business. Iconique) get over it. Indira Toussaint posted on IG a few months ago looking for candidates to interview for her dissertatio…
 
Why is her girlfriend the best sex of her life? How did she get more comfortable with her sexual self? How does she handle her sexual predator that comes out when she drinks? Lola tells us about everything from “shiners,” to first kisses at the bus stop and giving herself a “feeling” to a sex talk that consisted of germs, pregnancy, and a boiled eg…
 
They like to call their partners things like kitten, pup, princess, sweetie, cutie, whore, slut, cumsleeve, cumslut, filth, garbage and waste of space—but once upon a time they thought they were asexual. Envi shares stories of porn in the woods, boys in literal dick competitions in the locker rooms, body dysmorphia, fat phobia, “luxury jerks,” disc…
 
What are you Into? Ben and Brian take a look at what is happening in the queer world and try to answer the gayest question ever – what are you Into? Tune in to find out what they are into this week, month or year and they want to know what you are Into too – send your questions (or nudes) and they will discuss anything from sex, politics, health or…
 
He loves sex, but not having it much isn’t a dealbreaker when it comes to relationships — which means he’s found some creative ways to explore. From naked hand stands to phone sex to actual full-body massages, Thomas is a curious spirit with a sexual mind that is wiiiide open. Straight W M from the Midwest 60’s into porn, phone sex & erotica Love y…
 
[tw: molestation] Imagine being in high school and your mom starts dating your ex’s dad. And then you move in together (and they both suck). Josie has used art to process her early trauma, and created a new relationship with her body that includes pleasure. She has a soft spot for sweet-looking guys with really huge dicks, and loves Owen Gray, show…
 
The incredible Dani Wijesinghe joins me today to discuss how gender is performed, the beauty of alter egos and how gender can be constructed in opposition, as in I don't want to be like that so instead I'll be like this. Dani is bisexual too so we chat about why its the most realistic sexuality and how are sexuality is informed by our gender and th…
 
[TW: depression/addiction/gay exorcism] His coming out was coming, but born into a world where being gay was not ok, his formative years were heavy on addiction and disassociation—but now? He’s living his best gay life in Florida, transforming a life of secrecy and glory holes into permission to embrace his desires and flaunt his handsome horniness…
 
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