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Guys with Feelings

Jaemin Yi and Gabe Rose

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Jaemin and Gabe are childhood friends whose lives went in radically different directions. Jaemin dove into spirituality, nomadism, and communal living - while Gabe organized political movements, read nerdy history books, and got married. Yet they’ve always been able to meet somewhere in the middle and learn from each other’s journeys. Join Guys with Feelings as they continue their lifelong exploration of the ideas, influences, epiphanies, and yes – the feelings – that make them better men. F ...
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Gabe falls in love with his first TV show ever...and it's a cartoon about a talking horse. Jaemin and Alan join him in discussing why it's the perfect Guys with Feeling show! The guys also talk about the Coronavirus pandemic and how it's affecting them. And Jaemin touts the importance of morning routines (and cold showers!)…
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We've been gone for over a year! Why?? We've got a few good reasons... Jaemin talks about living in Puerto Escondido and giving up achieving...forever. Gabe shares what it's like being an expectant father - and how it's already changed his life and marriage. *Please excuse the poor sound quality from Jaemin's mic. **Mentioned:** Jaemin's latest pos…
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The guys take a look back on a wild year and share the feelings that inspired, moved, and challenged them in 2018. Also in this episode: - they divulge their (embarrassing) Spotify "Year in Review" results LIVE - Gabe survives a bike-totalling crash - Jaemin's tips on plugging away at chronic illness - when a friend becomes a Twitter-famous meme - …
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We sit down with Andrew Dunn (Co-Founder of Siempo) to hear about his journey with gender and the surprising challenges and joys along the way. We also dive into: how embracing the feminine helped Andrew’s startup thrive, why yoga pants rock, the ever infamous “bro voice”, and how Gabe learned to embrace the color pink. **Mentioned** - [Zebras Unit…
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Jaemin and Gabe sit down with Amanda Biccum, a health & mindfulness coach for men, to talk about masculinity in the #MeToo era and the growing #MenNeedSpaceToo movement. We also dive into: the hidden pain that men carry (and often hide from themselves), the difference between masculinity and divine masculinity, what dance + creativity + sex have in…
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Jaemin and Gabe are joined by Annette Wong (mindfulness coach) to dive deep into mindfulness: why it matters, how it's changed our lives, and why burnt-out professionals need it! We also talk about: the joys of becoming a morning person, how meditation is like lifting weights, realizing you are not your thoughts, and why you should stop time travel…
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Jaemin, Gabe, and their resident lawyer & culture expert, Alan Ai, are back with another round of Quick Picks! Their recommendations include: sleep tracking rings, barefoot shoes that DON'T look stupid, growing your own living drinks, minimalist wallets, and GPS guided walking tours (perfect for the date that Jaemin set you up on!). Send us thought…
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This weekend saw the opening of Crazy Rich Asians, the first studio film with an all-Asian cast in 25 years - and you know we had some feelings about it! Jaemin and Alan discuss why this is such a monumental event for them, what their theater experience was like, and what this means for movies and people of color going forward. **Mentioned** - [The…
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Jaemin and Gabe bring on Brian Thompson (founder of IRL Men) to break down how to start your very own men's group - and why it's such a damn good idea! We cover a TON of territory in this episode, including: how men's groups bring greater intimacy to all your relationships, how to get bro's to talk about their feelings, and whether or not you shoul…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome Sharon Avesar (integrative therapist) to talk about her work using ketamine, a controversial club drug, alongside therapy to quickly and effectively treat severe cases of depression. We talk about the surprising breakthroughs Sharon has seen with her clients, why ketamine combined WITH therapy is so damn effective, the futur…
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In this special episode, Jaemin and Alan dive deep on something they've been waiting their ENTIRE lives for: The Rise of the Asian-American Hunk! The guys discuss how shittily Asian men have always been portrayed onscreen (silent, serious, and sexless) and how that's finally starting to change. They explore Jaemin's lifelong struggle with his Korea…
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Jaemin and Gabe bring on Connor Moss (men's coach & therapist) to talk about a word that strikes fear into the hearts of men everywhere: COMMITMENT. We dive into the gifts of committed relationship, monogamy as a spiritual growth path, how a lot of guys are misusing polyamory, and why James Bond is a shitty role model. ### **Find Us Online** Connor…
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Today the guys tackle a topic that's afflicting millions of daters in our culture today: ghosting. Jaemin, Gabe, and Alan discuss what ghosting is, why it's affecting so many of us, how to STOP ghosting once and for all, and most importantly - what Drake thinks about all this. Have any ghosting stories or anti-ghosting maneuvers of your own? Share …
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This week we have a special episode for you: Jaemin tells a story live, at The Embassy Network, on how getting mugged in Colombia helped him find an authentic life...and Chamillionaire. You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll wonder how you still know the lyrics to "Ridin' Dirty". **Mentioned:** Jaemin's [blog post](http://www.jaeminyi.com/mugged/) on get…
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Kanye's back on a tweeting rampage and you know we had to talk about it! Jaemin and Gabe bring back Alan Ai for a deep dive into Kanye's latest string of controversial tweets on Trump, love, and scoopity poop. We debate whether Ye's causing damage, wasting everyone's time, or spreading empathy & love across the political divide. Is Yeezy the hero w…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome Enrico Moses (entrepreneur, Multicultural Chair of The ManKind Project) to talk about the project and how the men's organization completely changed his life. We discuss the power of men's work, letting go of your fear of fucking up, discovering a new approach to parenting, getting in touch with your inner warrior (and lover …
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome back their resident culture expert and lawyer, Alan Ai, to do an all Quick Picks focused episode! Their recommendations include: matchmaking your friends, concert earplugs, date nights, Esther Perel, board games, and a cartoon about a talking horse. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingss…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome a very special guest - Gabe's wife, Sara Rezvanpour Rose. The two of them open up about their relationship: their strengths, struggles, and everything in-between. We discuss the joy of couples therapy, how breaking up saved their relationship, why community is a bedrock of their marriage, the importance of being "emotional d…
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In this Minisode, the guys share the tips that've helped them break free from their phone addictions and reclaim their sanity. **Mentioned:** - [Change Your Screen to Grayscale to Combat Phone Addiction](https://lifehacker.com/change-your-screen-to-grayscale-to-combat-phone-addicti-1795821843) - [Moment (iOS app)](https://inthemoment.io/) - [Ezra K…
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In this Minisode, the guys discuss the Netflix documentary, "[The Mask You Live In](http://http://therepresentationproject.org/film/the-mask-you-live-in/)". They explore masculinity in our culture and themes such as: why our boys and men are going through such a crisis, how men are longing to connect with one another (and Gabe & Jaemin's own story …
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Jaemin and Gabe dive deep on a topic that's completely changed both their lives: therapy! They discuss how seeing a therapist is like "5 years of growth in weeks"; how it may be the antidote to toxic masculinity; they share their own therapy journeys; and tips on how to find an awesome therapist. Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your …
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In this special Valentines Day Minisode, Jaemin mounts a passionate defense of the app everyone loves to hate: Tinder. The guys talk about how Jaemin went from hating the Tinder experience to appreciating it, how it's enriched his life, and the one tip that'll make the biggest difference in your quality of matches. Share your thoughts, feedback, or…
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In this Minisode, the guys talk about Jaemin's first 10-day spiritual retreat (in the mountains of Spain)! They discuss what he got out of it, how it affected his life moving forward, and tips on pitfalls to watch out for (like chasing the post-retreat highs), and how to integrate the experience into the rest of your daily life. Send us thoughts, f…
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Jaemin and Gabe take a look back at the feelings that defined their 2017 - and the ones they're looking forward to exploring in 2018.They also reflect on the 1st birthday of the podcast and share their top Quick Picks of the year!Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com### Show Notes(3:15) **The Feel…
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Jaemin and Gabe answer the question: "What advice do you wish you could've given yourself 10 years ago?"They also share a bunch of answers from their online community (including Gabe's mom), as well as discussing what alpha males can learn from alpha wolves, and why you should pancake surprise your friends.Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Pick…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome guest Kareem Hammad to dive deep into a topic near and dear to their hearts: Burning Man.They discuss what it is, why it's so transformational, how it helps men become more vulnerable, their controversial beliefs about it, and much more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.co…
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Jaemin and Gabe discuss embracing the lows of life, as well as manscaping, banishing phones from bedrooms, an easier way to call your representatives, updates on Jaemin's online dating life, and more! Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com### Show Notes(4:20) **Deep Dive: Embracing the Lows**(6:20)…
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Jaemin and Gabe discuss making writing an effortless habit, the birthday blues, online dating woes, new favorite podcasts, microfiber towels, and more!Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com.Show Notes(4:00) What Are You Bringing to the Table?• Gabe: The Birthday Blues…why is this such a prevalent t…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome Peter Krouse to discuss becoming a software engineer in just 9 months, conscious dog parenting, ethical men’s fashion, the virtues of slow reading, and more!Send us thoughts, feedback, and Quick Picks of your own at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com. Show Notes(2:47) What Are You Bringing to the Table?• Peter: How he went from …
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Jaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on Gabe's first weekend meditation retreat; navigating big life transitions (like moving!); silencing your phone's notifications; 7 minute workouts; and much more!Show NotesWhat Are You Bringing to the Table?• Gabe: How a weekend meditation retreat finally got me excited about meditation. – Deer Park Monastery –…
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Jaemin and Gabe welcome their first ever Guest with Feelings: Alex Zobel, a modern-day Renaissance woman who has a PhD in 16th century English Lit, teaches prisoners in San Quentin, is building her own tiny home, and opening a brewery with her brother, among other things.The three of them discuss: how to become a modern day Renaissance person, what…
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Jaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on going not-quite-full vegan, coming out of the hypothyroidism closet, better questions to ask when you meet someone, how to do the right thing monthly (and effortlessly), and much more!Show NotesWhat Are You Bringing to the Table?• Jaemin: What you can learn from struggling with chronic health issues.• Gabe: C…
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In episode #3 of Guys with Feelings, Jaemin and Gabe share their thoughts on:• dating more consciously• the magic (and danger) of solo backpacking• eating a plant burger that bleeds• how intentional communities can save your relationship• and much more!\- Show notes at: http://www.jaeminyi.com/podcast-3/\- Music for the podcast: "As Colorful As Eve…
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In this episode, Jaemin and Gabe cover topics such as:• re-thinking their views post-Trump • learning to be a disciplined half-ass • why you need a onesie (with a tail) • and much more!\- Show notes at: http://www.jaeminyi.com/podcast-2/ \- Music for the podcast: "As Colorful As Ever" by Broke For Free (brokeforfree.com/)…
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As part of Jaemin's October Creativity Challenge, he finally moved forward with something he's always wanted to do: record a podcast! So he sat down with Gabe Rose, a lifelong friend and frequent collaborator, and they decided to hit the record button and see what happened.In their first podcast attempt, they cover topics such as: • sleep drugs ext…
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