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Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women

Rhonda Noordyk, CDFA® | The Women’s Financial Wellness Center

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Divorce is the second highest stressor for women, second only to the death of a spouse. Are you feeling overwhelmed and not even sure where to start? If so, you are in the right place! We are so glad you are here. Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women is for women who want to be heard, want to step into their financial power and want to get a better outcome. What is your next best disruptive move? Join Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Rhonda Noordyk, as she provides you with candid ...
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Rhonda sits down with Health Advisor, Leah Perry to discuss the options for Health Insurance after you’re divorced. It’s not fun to talk about - but necessary - and one of the biggest post-divorce expenses. Topics include: 3 options to get coverage for you and your kids Timing is crucial How to best evaluate your needs as you move forward Schedule …
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Rhonda and Attorney Max Emmer talk through some of the latest trends they are seeing in the divorce process. There is more than one way to get divorced - be informed. Preparation and information goes a long way. Learn some of the newest trends and changes. Imperative that you build the right team for your situation. About today’s guest: Max Emmer h…
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Join Rhonda and CPA Kathy Bue as they walk through some of your tax questions. It’s never too early to be thinking about tax planning, especially if you’re in the midst of divorce. Tune in to learn: What should you be doing now? How should you file? What you need to gather (we can help you with that!) What questions should you be asking? About toda…
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Today’s conversation is an important one, but may be triggering for some. Guard your heart and be gentle with yourself as you listen. Rhonda sits down with Attorney Allison Mahoney to discuss abuse including: coercive control, sexual abuse and cyber sexural abuse. Here are some things they cover: Learn the various types of abuse. What is cyber imag…
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Rhonda and Professional Counselor, Sue Bruckner sit down to discuss emotional wellness, particularly for highly sensitive women going through divorce. Here are some highlights: Navigate your divorce and come out stronger. How to make emotional wellness a priority. Learn the 3 pillars of emotional wellness. How do you know if you’re highly sensitive…
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Spoiler: YES. If you’ve got kids over 18 - listen up! Rhonda sits down with Estate Planning Attorney, Ashley Lillesand and her 18 year old daughter, Jenna to discuss the importance of having a Medical and Financial Power of Attorney. This is especially important if you are divorcing. What is a Power of Attorney? Why is it important to have it in pl…
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Rhonda’s guest today is Cathy Himlin, Family and Marriage Therapist and court officer in Dependency Court. Rhonda and Cathy take an honest look at parenting through divorce and how the court system doesn’t always support what’s best for the child. Here is what they cover: Divorce shifts a parent’s role. The developmental stages of a child must be c…
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Rhonda sits down with esteemed Business Coach and CEO, Judy Weber for a candid conversation around being divorced, finding your voice, and building your future. Rhonda and Judy are passionate about advocating for women and you’ll hear how they both use their time and talents to further this mission. About today’s guest: Judy Weber works exclusively…
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Rhonda’s guest today is Trainer and Consultant, Doug LaBelle who specializes in Gambling Disorder. If you’ve discovered your spouse has a gambling problem, you know how that influences the entire household. If it’s a part of the divorce process, it gets even more complicated. Listen in as Rhonda and Doug unpack what it’s like to live with someone w…
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Rhonda is joined by Coach and Author Rebecca Davis to discuss telling your story post-trauma, particularly if you have experienced spiritual abuse. Your life lessons matter and can help others! Here is what they cover: How do you know when you’re ready to share your story? Organize your thoughts in a way that helps others. Be in a place of healing …
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Rhonda sits down with Social Worker, Veteran and Military wife, Vanessa Lech to discuss life in the military. Vanessa shares how important it is to advocate for yourself - particularly if you are a spouse in the military. Maintaining your career and occupational credentials Learn the laws that apply to your situation and location. Locate safe acces…
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Rhonda is joined today by renowned podcast host, Kate Anthony! They have an honest conversation about making the big decision about your marriage - should you stay or go? You have a choice Ask yourself the right questions Get informed Tips on how to be prepared once you do decide Know your worth Get Kate’s Book! https://kateanthony.com/dword/ About…
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Attorney Evan Schein sits down with Rhonda to talk about what happens when you’re facing litigation. Is litigation as bad as it seems? Ways you can make the process move more smoothly. Finding the right team. Ask the right questions. Do not short circuit the divorce process. About today’s guest: Evan Schein is a partner with the firm and leads the …
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Enjoy this recording from our recent live stream with Attorney and Divorce Coach, Kara Francis. Kara and Rhonda have an honest conversation about feeling stuck and what you can do to break free. You can decide how your divorce will go - you have more power than you think. Learn the types of blocks that are holding you back. What to do when fear and…
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Rhonda sits down with Real Estate Expert, Jeremy Doering for a candid conversation about all of the changes in the industry right now. They discuss how this will affect you - especially in divorce - and what you can do to successfully navigate the buying / selling process. They cover; National Association Realtors Lawsuit Finding the right experts …
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Rhonda is joined by Certified Life and Conscious Parent Coach, Mikki Gardner for a conversation about disrupting the traditional co-parenting path. As you move through divorce, YOU get to decide what your family looks like. Mikki and Rhonda delve into 3 tools you can use right now to create a successful home environment for you and your kids. Grab …
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[Warning: This episode may be triggering for some, be gentle with yourself and take breaks while listening, or pass on listening until you’re ready. It is not meant for children’s ears.) Rhonda sits down with Marriage and Family Therapist, Dr. Sheri Keffer of the Brave One Community to discuss sexual deception and betrayal and how that intersects a…
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Rhonda and Jeanne Kelly have an honest conversation around credit - the good and the bad. Being educated and informed of resources is imperative - especially if you’re divorcing. They cover: We learn by mistakes - how to get financial confidence around your credit Knowledge is power Credit cards points - they could be worth more than you think; don…
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Listen in on our live stream episode with Certified Divorce Lender, Josh Bucio with Waterstone Mortgage. Josh and Rhonda discuss all the things to consider when considering keeping or selling your home in divorce. You might be surprised to learn you CAN keep it, if you want to. Topics they cover: Supply and demand and how that affects the market St…
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Rhonda sits down with Attorney Michael Johnson to discuss physician compensation packages and how to unravel all of the potential avenues for income. This episode focuses on wives of physicians, but can be applied to other situations. They discuss: Types of employment for physicians and how that affects their compensation. Ways to break down compen…
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Rhonda sits down with Attorney Julie LaBenz, to discuss ways to be prepared if you find that you need to represent yourself in your divorce trial. Trials are complicated, even more so if you are representing yourself. Julie gives us some guidance: Preparation is key Know the procedure Categorize and be crystal clear about your end goal Discovery is…
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Rhonda is joined by Trauma Informed Parenting Consultant, AJ Gajjar. Co-parenting is always the goal, but what if that’s a challenge? AJ shares 3 key things if you are dealing with trying to co-parent with a high-conflict / maladaptive parent. Safety for your kids and how to help them cope Prioritize the relationship - you have the power! Have a ch…
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Rhonda sits down with Life and Divorce Coach, Meagan Norris. They discuss: Mindset around money - what and how you think about money matters! The lies we tell ourselves and how to combat them with truth. Divorce is an opportunity to live a life bigger than you imagined. 4 buckets to look at when making decisions. Do not give in to fatigue - be your…
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Rhonda sits down with Patty Jackson, Founder of Clear Inner Focus Mindset Coaching to talk about disrupting the conversation we have with our spouse and more importantly, with ourselves. Here is what you can look forward to as you listen: How can you disassemble the landmines around you 4 things you CAN control Why you need to forgive yourself and …
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With the holidays fast approaching, you may feel more tempted to turn to alcohol as a stress reliever as you navigate through your divorce. Our guest today, Alcohol-Free Life Coach, Beth Purcell is here to share that there is a different way! Beth and Rhonda discuss: Beliefs around alcohol and how to change your mindset Challenge yourself to do a r…
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Are you going through divorce and you or your spouse own a business? Listen in! Rhonda talks with Business Valuation Expert, Henry Kaskov about valuing your business. What should you consider as you approach this process? They discuss: Who needs a Business Valuation? Discovery Process (learn what DAM is!) Hire a licensed, certified neutral appraise…
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Our special guest today is CEO and Co-Founder of HerMoney, Jean Chatzky! Rhonda and Jean walk through how to step out in confidence when it comes to your money. Learn your money - it can be managed! Value based spending - what is important to you? Girl Math! Why wisdom over too much information is will get you where you want to be About today’s gue…
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We have some exciting news and a special announcement! Join Rhonda as she outlines her thought process about the new name for the podcast, and why we’re making this small but powerful shift. Rhonda covers: The origin story of the podcast Client stories How she can help you if you’re contemplating or moving through the divorce process Your host is R…
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Licensed Home Appraiser, Rachel Pader sits down with Rhonda to talk about the importance of home appraisal. Knowing your home is key! A few things they discuss: Why it’s important to have a good appraiser Tips on what you should look for Top 3 items to consider when having your home appraised About today’s guest: Rachel had been a home appraiser fo…
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Rhonda sits down with former high school teacher turned high conflict divorce coach and advocate, Lisa Johnson. Lisa and Rhonda discuss coercive control, how laws are changing across the country, and ways you can navigate through the long and arduous process. Topics include: Find community: gather your team, both personal and professional Timeline …
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Rhonda sits down with Tracy Malone, Founder of Narcissist Abuse Support. They discuss specific ways you can know if you’re being gaslit and how to handle narcissistic behavior. What is gaslighting? Specific questions to ask your attorney Strategies for dealing with narcissistic behavior Ways to build your team who will empower you About today’s gue…
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Barbara Majeski, Founder of The MORE Life Collective, TV Personality, and Lifestyle Expert joins Rhonda for a fun and important conversation! They cover a lot today - you’ll want to take notes! Topics discussed: Women’s tolerance level is high - but there is a limit Focus on YOUR own journey You can’t shortcut the process It’s never too late to rei…
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You will love today’s guest! Lori Barkus of Sustainable Family Solutions sits down with Rhonda to talk about some of the misunderstandings around Mediation. While it can be a great option, you need to be sure you know exactly what the process entails - and what it does not. Know what mediation is - and what it isn’t What are some key things you sho…
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Rhonda is joined by Attorney Lauren Hunt for a conversation about co-parenting and negotiating the big (and little) things in divorce and beyond. This episode covers: Communication is key when co-parenting Is splitting custody 50/50 always the right thing? Treat co-parenting like a business Negotiations and boundaries Navigating the family court sy…
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Attorney and Mediator, Lesa Koski joins Rhonda for an in-depth conversation around Mediation. Mediation is a great option and can provide a safe place for both parties to be heard and understood. Lisa and Rhonda cover: What mediation is and what it is not Mediation CAN work, even in difficult circumstances How to find the right Mediator for you Ass…
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Rhonda sits down with author and podcast host, Natalie Hoffman for an fascinating conversation about being a woman of faith facing divorce. They tackle some tough questions, but you’ll leave feeling empowered and encouraged. If you find yourself feeling confused about your marriage and contemplating divorce - pull up a chair and listen in! What are…
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Divorce is never easy, but what if you could take steps to help your kids navigate the process? Rhonda's guest today is Sarah Armstrong, author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce. They discuss ways to make things easier, especially if you’ve got kids. Pay attention to small changes that the children will be affected by - kids are observant! Take …
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Rhonda’s guest today is Life Mastery Coach, Donna Tashjian. They discuss ways to move past the pain of divorce to a place of peace and empowerment. We know you will be inspired and encouraged! They cover: Choose joy - joy is not happiness You can find healing through trauma - forgiveness is not an emotion Look for the gifts - gratitude can change e…
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Don’t miss this episode if you’re contemplating keeping your house in your divorce. Join Rhonda and Jeff Landers for this in depth conversation on keeping the house - is it a good idea? What factors should you consider? Learn what the 6-36 rule is and how it plays a pivotal part in planning for your future. Gather all of the information. Evaluate y…
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Rhonda and Clinical Therapist, Jennifer Parker discuss a topic we’ve been addressing a lot recently: Coercive Control. Today’s episode covers: Ways to recognize you are being controlled How to get the help and support you need Why isolation is your worst enemy Grab a copy of Jennifer’s book: Coercive Relationships: Find the Answers you Seek About t…
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Budgeting. No one wants to talk about it, but it's essential - especially if you're contemplating divorce. Rhonda sits down with Chuck Howard, Assistant Professor at Texas A&M University to discuss the importance of creating a budget and then establishing a routine to continuously track and re-evaluate it. Listen in as Chuck gives us 5 easy steps t…
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Rhonda sits down with Dr. Melissa Kalt to discuss practical things to implement when dealing with a narcissist: Examine your motives Be aware of the narcissist’s behavior patterns Give narcissistic supply for the purpose of negotiating Extracting the trauma They delve into each of these steps in a way that will make you feel empowered and encourage…
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False Sense Series False Sense of... Amicability It is far wiser to judge people by their deeds than their speech – judge their track record rather than their talk. -Rasheed Ogunlaru Do you find yourself believing what your spouse says rather than believing their actions? This is what I call creating a false sense of amicability. What is a false se…
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Did you know that according to a Forbes article nearly half of the women surveyed said they had “financial surprises” during the divorce? Say what?! Here is a short list of the things I have seen with my clients (changing life insurance beneficiaries, setting up separate business entities, establishing private bank accounts, transferring money to a…
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Rhonda sits down with Trauma-Informed Coach and author, Houa Utech to discuss covert narcissism and what it’s like to move through the divorce process when you feel like you have no control. They discuss: What can you do to build your team? Ways the court system is broken. How to end up with what you deserve. Tips to deal with the trauma you carry.…
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Recently, Rhonda sat down with Divorce Mortgage Planner, Tami Wollensak, on her YouTube video series, Peaceful Divide. We are pleased to be able to share that conversation with you here! Tami and Rhonda discuss strategy, finding the right team, and moving the needle to enable women to walk away empowered. Have you ever wondered how Rhonda approache…
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If you’re contemplating divorce, or in the middle of the process, you may not see what your life can look like moving forward. Our guest, Laura Ericson believes in new beginnings! Laura and Rhonda talk about how you can prioritize travel - even if it’s just a weekend away. Taking time for yourself can be an important part of the healing process. Ab…
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Are you contemplating divorce? Do you feel unsettled and can’t quite answer the question, “What do I really want?” Today’s episode is a special one. Rhonda is joined by Certified Energy & Performance Coach, Nicole Isler as they honor and remember a mutual client who lived out her next best move to the fullest. You’ll be encouraged and inspired as y…
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“Don’t be afraid to be your own advocate.” Attorney Brian Blitz and Rhonda have an eye opening conversation about the divorce process, how it affects women, and ways to get the support you need. Spoiler: it takes a team; one that will provide the strategy you need to come out ahead. About today’s guest: Brian says: You do better for people when you…
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Rhonda’s guest today is AJ Grossman, owner of Leap Frog Divorce. AJ is a master at navigating tough conversations in divorce. How do you respond? Is a response required? How to engage in a difficult conversation with a learning mindset. Establishing good boundaries Neutralize the emotion Determine how to protect yourself if a civil conversation isn…
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