Best Queer Sex Ed Podcasts (2024)

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Sex, Science, and Secrets to Satisfaction (ft. Dr. Tara) 56:32

11h ago56:32

56:32

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠) chats with the internet's resident sexpert, ⁠Dr. Tara⁠, on a candid journey through Dr. Tara’s sexual history, insights, and expert advice on improving relationships. Dr. Tara opens up about her childhood in Thailand with parents who avoided discussing sex, her early sexual experiences with girls at 13, and …

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Inside Joyride: Sex-Positive Raves, Queer Spaces, and Play Rooms (ft. MJ Fox) 40:49

4h ago40:49

40:49

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) sits down with MJ Fox, co-founder of Joyride (@joyride.rave) a sex-positive rave redefining inclusive nightlife in London. In this episode, MJ shares their journey into the sex-positive space and how Joyride was born, a rave known for its vibrant, safe atmosphere and all-queer staff and DJs. We dive into what …

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Building Klub Verboten: Consent, Inclusivity, and Evolving Kink Spaces (ft. Karl) 55:57

6d ago55:57

55:57

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Karl, the founder of Klub Verboten, one of the most inclusive and progressive kink spaces in Europe. They delve into how the club was born, who can attend, and the rules that ensure everyone’s safety and comfort. Karl shares his hot takes on why straight cis men tend to stay away and how he learne…

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Surrogacy: Everything You Need To Know But Were Too Afraid To Ask ft. Nici of Hive Surrogacy 1:11:58

7d ago1:11:58

1:11:58

The nitty-gritty of surrogacy—how it works, why it matters, and what the queer community needs to know. We’re joined by Nici, co-founder of Hive Surrogacy, who’s here to speak on queer birthing, the dark side of the global surrogacy industry, and what it’s like to be a surrogate herself. Is surrogacy empowering, exploitative, or a little bit of bot…

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Ep. 32. AI Roasted Me… I Cried (Kind Of) 24:12

8d ago24:12

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In this episode, Yancy lets ChatGPT roast the podcast's Instagram profile—spoiler alert: it did not hold back! After the roast, Yancy tackles a round of questions from GPT and even shares a spooky dating story that’s perfect for the season. Do you have thoughts on AI and want to be featured on the podcast? Leave a voicemail: https://memo.fm/thatsex…

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S5E14 - Firsts Vol.7: High School Heartstoppers 55:21

12d ago55:21

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Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. This episode is the first of a three part series about first love. Specifically, the messy, inconvenient, heartbreaking chaos that first love often inspires for people in high school as well as all the sweetness, optimism and exciting feelings of discovery both about ourselves and that special someone. Mi…

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From Law to Polyphilia: Exploring Non-Monogamy, Neurodivergence, and Pleasure (ft. Leanne Yau) 1:06:13

20d ago1:06:13

1:06:13

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Leanne Yau (@polyphiliablog), who shares her journey from growing up in Hong Kong to leaving a law career behind to become a full-time content creator focusing on non-monogamy. They discuss what it's like getting recognized at sex parties, balancing a large online platform, and how being neurodive…

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What Does It Mean to Be Indigenous & Queer? ft. Chelazon Leroux & Haley Robinson 1:11:12

26d ago1:11:12

1:11:12

Humanity’s oldest, most suppressed queer identities, 2-Spirit. Tiktok star Chelazon Leroux and actor/model Haley Robinson tear open the wounds of colonial erasure and reclaim the beauty of being both Indigenous and Queer. From navigating intergenerational trauma to confronting settler microaggressions, they expose the raw truth about what it means …

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Fingering, Toys, and Genital Confidence (ft. Poppy Scarlett) 58:26

29d ago58:26

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Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by sex educator and non-monogamy content creator Poppy Scarlett (@polyampoppy). In this candid episode, we dive into what we got up to in Barcelona, Poppy's journey through sex chat rooms, and her experiences as an emo kid. Poppy opens up about her sexual awakening, being slut-shamed for the first ti…

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The DARK History Of Women's Sports ft. Tyra Blizzard 1:15:02

1M ago1:15:02

1:15:02

Transvestigation conspiracy theories are targeting women athletes. Are trans athletes really threatening fairness in sports, or is this just another excuse for exclusion? We’re joined by pro-athlete and gender nerd Tyra Blizzard to break down the myths, misinformation, and the shady politics behind it all. From Olympic scandals to TERFs being TERFs…

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Queer, Kinky, and Inclusive Sex Parties: Welcome to Quench (ft. Lily) 56:32

1M ago56:32

56:32

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Lily, co-founder of @quench_london, a unique queer party that centers people who are queer, kinky, of colour, trans, neurodivergent, disabled, and of all sizes. In this episode, we talk about who can attend Quench, what to expect when you walk through the doors, where you're allowed to play, and h…

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Postpartum Body Insecurities, Bisexuality, and Dating as a Lover Girl (ft. @cydneythelight) 51:51

1M ago51:51

51:51

Sexologist Alexa Andre (⁠@sexwithalexa⁠) is joined by Cydney (⁠@cydneythelight⁠) in this episode where they dive deep into postpartum body insecurities, bisexuality, and dating. Cydney opens up about her journey from being confident in her body before giving birth to hiding her body for 8 years after having her son at 19. They also discuss how her …

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I Was Forced to ‘Prove’ I’m Queer To The Government ft. Latoya Nugent of Rainbow Railroad 54:51

2M ago54:51

54:51

What happens when your home turns hostile? We dive deep into the raw realities of LGBTQI+ refugees with activist Latoya Nugent, who fled Jamaica with the help of Rainbow Railroad. From persecution to queer liberation, learn about the global trends in anti-LGBTQI+ violence, how resettlement systems are failing refugees, and what it’s like to ‘prove’…

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Vibrators, Bedroom Conversations, and Changing the Sex Ed Game (ft. Emma Richardson-Gerrard) 51:08

2M ago51:08

51:08

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Emma Richardson-Gerrard, CEO and founder of Knude Society, for a deep dive into her upbringing in the UK, where sex education was lacking, and how she’s changing that with her own daughter. Emma shares her story about her first boyfriend gifting her a vibrator, but never achieving an orgasm with h…

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The Chase, First Dates, and Learning to Be a Better Lover (ft. King TM) 55:03

2M ago55:03

55:03

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by content creator Taiwo (King TM) for a candid conversation about sex education in the UK and his first masturbation experience. We explore how growing up with a single mom gave him the freedom to explore, and why he made a pact not to have sex until he was 16. Taiwo shares how he learned to be a go…

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Polyamory: The History You Never Thought to Ask 1:17:19

2M ago1:17:19

1:17:19

Was it agriculture, capitalism, or the patriarchy that pushed us into "pair bonding"? Are humans actually wired to stay faithful, or is cheating in our genes? We'll dissect scientific theories, challenge old-school narratives, and maybe even giggle a little about group sex and jealousy. Whether you’re team monogamy or polyamory curious, this episod…

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Sex Ed Ceramics: Body Image, Growing Up Naked, and Big Penis Obsession (ft. Hani Dresner) 52:51

2M ago52:51

52:51

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Hani Dresner, founder of @gashtrays, a unique ceramics line focused on sex education. We dive into Hani’s upbringing in a naked household, how it shaped her body image journey, and what it was like growing up as the "weird kid" in school. Our conversation explores why sex education is so important…

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Same Upbringing, Different Results: Orgasms, Relationships, Femininity & Bisexuality (ft. my sister) 1:03:19

2M ago1:03:19

1:03:19

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by a very special guest—her sister! In this episode, they dive into everything from their easy orgasms and first boyfriends to their Catholic upbringing and how it impacted their body image and relationship with femininity. They share stories of sexual exploration as teens, their journeys with mastur…

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Guest Podcast: "Nuances - Queering Premodern Asia" 1:03:08

3M ago1:03:08

1:03:08

Enjoy this bonus episode of the podcast series Nuances: Our Asian Stories. Hosted by Lazou, Nuance's latest season is titled Queering Premodern Asia and each episode explores different aspects of sexual diversity in premodern Asia with commentary and personal stories from guest scholars and artists. Lazou reached out recently and, because our podca…

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Sex-Positive Cartoons, MFM Fantasies, and Getting Through Dry Spells (ft. Jessica Stahl) 52:49

3M ago52:49

52:49

Kicking off Season 3! Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Jessica Stahl (@vanillacooldance), a sex-positive cartoonist and creative director. We dive into Jessica's mfm fantasy, her experience growing up in an open household, and how her mom gifting her her first vibrator shaped her advocacy for pleasure. Jessica shares her journey …

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Dating Someone With HIV ft. Myles Sexton 1:03:09

3M ago1:03:09

1:03:09

The AIDS epidemic. There's a fierce stigma that still lingers, and the raw, real-life experiences of those living with HIV are often portrayed negatively. Our fabulous guest, Myles Sexton—a queer fashion nomad and HIV activist—shares their powerful journey, slaying myths and spreading love. From dating advice to radical vulnerability, this episode …

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Body Love, Masturbation Variations, and Oral Sex Expectations (ft. Tara Michaela) 56:46

3M ago56:46

56:46

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Tara Michaela, a sex educator and founder of the Youth Sexpert Program. We dive deep into body image, sharing our personal experiences and discussing the importance of sensate focus and overcoming spectatoring. Tara offers insights on changing up your masturbation technique, the benefits of doing …

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S5E13 - Firsts Vol.6: Young Adult 1:14:25

3M ago1:14:25

1:14:25

Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. You graduated high school. You packed up all your things and you’re moving into a dorm room or your first apartment. Finally, you have the chance to define life on your own terms. For many queer people, leaving our family and getting our own place is the chance to finally seek out the experiences we’ve al…

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Communicate, Reassure, and Heal: Tips from a Sex Therapist (ft. Rachel Wright) 1:09:38

3M ago1:09:38

1:09:38

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Rachel Wright, a therapist, sex therapist, educator, and non-monogamy expert. We dive into the most common issues she sees in her sex therapy practice and her 4-step process for better communication with your partner. Rachel shares her unique journey as a pregnant woman with another pregnant wife,…

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What Does It Mean To Be Non-Binary? Ft. Halal Bae & Gay Jesus 52:09

3M ago52:09

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Society loves boxes, but what if they don’t fit? Dive into the fabulous world of non-binary identities! Featuring Heath V. Salazar, aka "Gay Jesus," and Halal Bae from Canada’s Drag Race, we explore gender beyond the binary, tackle misconceptions, and celebrate the joy of being non-binary. Whether you're new to the concept or living it, this episod…

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The Demisexual Sex Worker: Making It Work (ft. Goddess Bats) 55:13

3M ago55:13

55:13

Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Goddess Bats, a versatile and empowering sex worker. We dive into their journey, starting with camming at 18 and transitioning to various facets of sex work, including findom. We uncover the realities behind porn productions, like where the lube bot…

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Navigating Consent in Complex Situations (ft. Sarah Casper) 50:58

3M ago50:58

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Sarah Casper from @comprehensiveconsent, author of The Kids and Consent Curriculum, and consent educator. We dive deep into the concept of consent, exploring its different types and how to ask for it. Sarah explains why consent doesn't necessarily have to be sexy but should always…

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What Laws Do Sex Workers REALLY Want? ft. Jenna of Maggies 38:11

4M ago38:11

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From indoor vs. outdoor work to the Nordic model’s pitfalls, we deep dive into the real sex worker experience. Discover why sex work is a queer issue and how allyship can transform lives. We explore what sex workers truly need from the law and society. Tune in for an enlightening, candid, and a bit cheeky conversation that shatters myths and celebr…

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S5E12 - Firsts Vol.5: The Art of Cruising 1:14:13

4M ago1:14:13

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Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. These days, thanks to technology, it’s easier than ever to hook up; but no app can provide the rush you feel when you lock eyes with someone in person and you know, without any verbal communication, that there is a mutual interest. In this episode, our interviewees share first-time stories of cruising as …

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How to Pick Up Women (ft. Violet) 46:47

4M ago46:47

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Violet, an extremely lesbian-leaning bisexual and founder of Mesh, a queer event app in NYC. We dive into the world of queer dating, discussing how to pick up women (or non-cis men), how to approach, what to say, and where to go. Violet shares her insights on figuring out if someo…

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Are You Straight Or Is It Compulsory Heterosexuality? ft. Tyra Blizzard 1:00:08

4M ago1:00:08

1:00:08

Are we seeking male validation or is it all just comp-het? Unpack compulsory heterosexuality with Tyra Blizzard, the dynamic author and pro basketball player. We’ll explore queering relationships, smashing societal expectations, and Tyra’s own journey beyond the binary. Tune in and start deprogramming your comphet through an insightful talk into th…

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Trans Journeys: Sexuality, Safety, and Expression (ft. Maybe Burke) 55:40

4M ago55:40

55:40

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Maybe Burke, a trans woman, artist and educator for an open and heartfelt conversation. We discuss her sexuality, orientation, identity, and expression journeys, and delve into her dating stories. Maybe shares how she stays safe as a trans woman and the unique challenges she faces…

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S5E11 - Spilling Tea, 2024 Pride Edition 1:14:39

5M ago1:14:39

1:14:39

Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. Let’s end Pride 2024 with a bang! For this episode, Dave is taking a break from his series on First Times and he’s selected a few of his favorite moments when interviewees shared profound thoughts about queerness, community, identity and, of course, there are a lot of things to say about sex. So put your …

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Girls Gone Deep: ENM Journeys, Double Vaginal Penetration, and Play Party Tips (ft. Vee & Elle) 1:00:08

4M ago1:00:08

1:00:08

In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) hosts her first threesome on the podcast with Vee and Elle, hosts of the Girls Gone Deep podcast, besties and lovers. We dive into their ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) journeys, recounting our experiences at Hedonism and the play party where Vee and I first met. Vee and Elle share how they met and…

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Is It Too Late To Come Out? ft. Ralph & Eva Bloom 50:21

4M ago50:21

50:21

Coming out later in life can be both nerve-wracking and exhilarating. We dive into this journey with our fabulous guests, queer sex educator Eva Bloom and Toronto’s own sapphic pop diva, Ralph! From battling imposter syndrome to navigating intense first loves, we'll cover it all. Whether you're a "late bloomer" or simply queer-curious, this episode…

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Ep. 30. Strap? M ap Gere w! ft. Jade Fox 48:04

5M ago48:04

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Pride vibes all around! In this episode, Yancy and co-host Kas sit down with Jade Fox, content creator, to dive into her journey with identity, community, and a little Haitian Creole lesson. 🇭🇹 Let’s keep in touch on social media! Follow today’s guest: Instagram: @iamjadefox, @hillfoxshop TikTok: @iamjadefox YouTube: Jade Fox Today's cohost: Instag…

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S5E10 - Firsts Vol.4: Internet Hookups 1:11:32

5M ago1:11:32

1:11:32

Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. There’s a tendency to devalue first times that come as a result of the internet. There’s no meet-cutes; no love at first sight. The getting-to-know-you window happens on your device. Most of them are one-offs we will never see ever again. But, like it or not, this is the way most of us find first time par…

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I Have Two Pregnant Wives and One of Them is a Sex Therapist (ft. Yair Lenchner) 59:03

5M ago59:03

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Yair Lenchner, a private chef and husband to two pregnant wives (11 weeks apart), one of whom is sex therapist Rachel Wright. Yair shares his incredible journey from being a serial monogamist and cheater to embracing life as an open, polyamorous partner. We discuss how they’re nav…

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Can Men get Periods?! ft. Elgin And The Period Purse 38:33

5M ago38:33

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We're diving headfirst into the question: Are periods solely a “women's issue”? Join the conversation as we explore the often overlooked world of trans menstruation. From unraveling the mysterious history of menstruation to empowering you with ways to degender your menstrual vocabulary, we're covering it all. Plus, we'll be sharing personal insight…

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Herpes: Myths, Stigma, and Safe Sluthood (ft. Cassie Black) 50:32

5M ago50:32

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Cassie Black (@safe.slut), a sex educator, herpes advocate, and adult entertainer. We dive deep into the world of herpes, discussing whether your sex life is over after a diagnosis or if you can still be a safe and empowered slut. Cassie shares her personal story of discovering sh…

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Relationship Reveal, Adjusting to Living With a Partner & (Finally) Getting Big Girl Jobs 50:08

5M ago50:08

50:08

Sextras is back! Once again it's been a while but we promise it's for good reason and we get into why in this little catch up episode. We start with the headlines, namely revealing a new relationship, the challenges of living with a partner, moving out of a family home, and the fact that neither of us are unemployed any longer. Honey discusses movi…

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Storytime! The Origins of Queer Kid Stuff 24:32

5M ago24:32

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Queer Kid Stuff is COMING BACK! Support & share the Kickstarter Campaign --> https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/queerkidstuff/bring-back-queer-kid-stuff Happy pride month! I'm coming back into your ears to tell you the full story behind how Queer Kid Stuff started and why we want to reboot the series! Visit the brand new Queer Kid Stuff website: …

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The Magic of Birth: Insights from a Full Spectrum Doula (ft. Cory Bush) 57:06

5M ago57:06

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Cory Bush, a non-binary full spectrum doula and sex educator. In this episode, we explore the profound role of a full spectrum doula and the magical aspects of birth, challenging the notion that childbirth must be traumatic. Cory shares insights on why opt-out consent can be benef…

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What It’s Like To Be A Trans Woman In A Men’s Prison Ft. Moka Dawkins 34:37

5M ago34:37

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The data is clear: LGBTQ2S+ people are overrepresented at every stage of the criminal justice system and this is especially true for trans people, who are subject to particularly inhumane conditions and treatment while incarcerated. Today we’re taking a deep dive into the experience of being trans behind bars. We’re using the Canadian correctional …

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S5E9 - Firsts Vol.3: High School Hookups, Part 2 1:14:38

6M ago1:14:38

1:14:38

Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. As I was editing this second high school hookup episode, I realized that many of the stories I have collected over the years have striking similarities. People who grew up thousands of miles apart, often in different decades, had coming of age experiences that had a lot in common. So I decided to create a…

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Ep. 29. French with Benefits ft. Shan Boody 54:50

6M ago54:50

54:50

In this episode, Yancy virtually sits down with the fabulous Shan Boodram—bestselling author, and sex and relationship expert. Shan spills all the tea on building a roster, navigating friends with benefits, and non-monogamy. With a library of insightful content on love, relationships, and sex on her YouTube channel, Shan BOODY, she's here to break …

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Pleasure, Getting Better at Feedback & Performing during Sex (ft. Portia Brown) 52:12

6M ago52:12

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by Portia Brown, a renowned sex coach and educator, for a candid discussion on the importance of vocalizing pleasure in the bedroom. Together, we explore techniques for performing during sex, advocating for your pleasure, and giving and receiving feedback to enhance intimacy and sati…

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Fat and Fabulous: Bold, Beautiful, and Unapologetically You (ft. @msgiggles) 55:31

6M ago55:31

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In this episode, sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) is joined by the incredible Megan, known as @msgigggles, a fierce fat activist and self-proclaimed hottest whale in the ocean. Together, we embark on a journey of empowerment, discussing the nuances of reclaiming the word "fat" and challenging societal beauty standards.Megan fearlessly dives i…

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Trans Fetishization & Dating. Lover or chaser? ft. Ms. Myles & King 49:17

6M ago49:17

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We're getting vulnerable as we delve into the complex experience of dating as a trans person. Throughout this episode you’ll hear from King, a trans man and Ms. Myles, a trans woman, about their personal journeys and realizations. From navigating positives and negatives, to addressing issues of disclosure, fetishization and violence, we’re going to…

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S5E8 - Firsts Vol.2: High School Hookups, Part 1 1:18:18

6M ago1:18:18

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Listen on Apple Podcasts Listen on Spotify. For queer people, our sexuality is not something that just switches on one day. It reveals itself over time - usually during adolescence - and the experience is often internal and private. Our first explorations into physical intimacy with other people often serve as a kind of test to see if we like it an…

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