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Brace yourself for gripping real stories from guests who were shattered by heartbreak but found the power to rebuild. Uncover insights and strategies for transformation in your own life. From the depths of despair to triumphant breakthroughs, join me on this remarkable journey of healing and growth.
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There’s nothing wrong with you for caring deeply about your child’s addiction. For five years Heather used tough love while waiting for her daughter to hit rock bottom. Her health deteriorated and her daughter's addiction escalated. The only thing that hit rock bottom was their relationship. Both their journeys changed when Heather discovered compassionate, evidence-based approaches like CRAFT that healed their relationship and the wounds of tough love. Join Heather as she explores tools and ...
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Host Matthew Cochran's in-depth exploration of the strange and beautiful world of the guitar, it's players, makers, and teachers from world famous virtuosos to the first-time garage band
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This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and their far-reaching impacts, providing valuable insights for parents, caregivers, and anyone impacted by these experiences. Through this lens, we explore the often-overlooked trauma that ACEs represent and the importance of understanding these experiences. Join u…
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New season, new name, and Heather’s unfiltered perspective. Topics covered in this episode: The significance of creating a supportive and non-judgmental environment. The impact of stigmatized language and beliefs. The concept of "rock bottom" vs. "turning point" inaddiction recovery. The double standards in labeling parental behavior as codependent…
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In Episode 15, "From Tragedy to Triumph: Nanette Kohn's Journey Through Grief," we hear the heart-wrenching yet inspiring story of Nanette Kohn. Facing unimaginable loss, Nanette recounts the devastating experiences of losing both her nephews—one to suicide and the other in a car accident—followed by the breakdown of her marriage and eviction from …
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In Episode 14, "From Defeat to Determination: Alex Watts' Journey Overcoming Adversity," we delve into the compelling story of Alex Watts. Once a promising footballer, Alex's life took a dramatic turn when a chronic back injury left him sidelined for months. Struggling with a poor mindset, he turned to drinking and fighting, feeling defeated and di…
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In Episode 13, "From Sorrow to Strength," we sit down with Leanne Murphy as she bravely shares her poignant story of loss and resilience. After losing both her parents in quick succession, with her mother succumbing to alcohol abuse, Leanne found herself rushing into a new relationship. She quickly married and bought a restaurant with her partner, …
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In Episode 12, "From Beaten to Brave," we hear the powerful and inspiring story of David Wright, who courageously shares his journey of escaping domestic abuse. David opens up about the harrowing experiences of being physically beaten and the emotional turmoil he endured. Through his story of survival, resilience, and ultimate triumph, David sheds …
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In Episode 11, we sit down with Philip Cochrane, an emotional intelligence coach, for a candid conversation on his remarkable journey. Philip shares insights gained from 24 years in recovery, navigating through challenges stemming from a dysfunctional family dynamic, a narcissistic father, and battles with alcohol and gambling addiction. Delving in…
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In Episode 10, "Purposeful Pursuits," join us as we engage in an insightful conversation with Asyah Heidar about the importance of defining your "why" in life and career. Asyah shares her journey of breaking away from conventional career paths and embracing purpose-driven choices. From discussing the significance of mindset to emphasizing the power…
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Join us for Episode 9, Navigating the Now, as Ben Millston shares his profound narrative on the power of living in the present moment. Ben takes us on a transformative journey from his tumultuous past, marked by struggles with drug use, self-doubt, and self-harm, to his current role as a life coach dedicated to helping others thrive. Through his de…
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In this podcast episode, guest Mike Brown, president and founder of the Never Use Alone Hotline (NUA), shares his journey from substance use to becoming a recovery advocate. Mike started NUA in response to his experience with the treatment industry, focusing on harm reduction and overdose prevention. NUA operates as a peer-led nonprofit, offering s…
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Licensed Clinical Social Worker Lara Okoloko and Heather discuss the delicate balance of influence and autonomy in parent-child relationships, particularly in the context of addiction. Lara empathizes with parents caught in the bind of being blamed for the negative aspects of enabling without receiving any credit for the positive influence they may…
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Your Questions Answered. A few months back, Heather reached out to her Facebook group to inquire about their burning questions on eating disorders. Why? Because navigating a child's struggle with both substance use and an eating disorder can feel like playing an endless game of whack-a-mole. Just as you address one issue, another one seems to surfa…
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In this powerful episode, join us as Chris Miller courageously shares his harrowing journey through an abusive relationship marred by deception. From enduring physical and emotional abuse to uncovering shocking lies, Chris reflects on the red flags he missed and the manipulative tactics employed by his ex-wife. Delve into this candid conversation a…
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Do you want regret free interactions and a stronger connection with your child? The art of authentic communication takes you from resentment to connection. You can find out how to achieve this result while taking care of yourself. This podcast episode takes an emotional turn, as the host shares her journey of self-awareness and vulnerability. The e…
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Join us in this compelling episode as we delve into the raw and inspiring journey of Greg Burnett, who bravely opens up about his struggles with alcohol addiction. From the depths of despair to the triumphant ascent to sobriety, Greg shares his poignant experiences of navigating emotionally neglectful childhood, battling with alcohol, and overcomin…
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Join us in Episode 6, where we dive into the incredible journey of Joanne Smith. From a life-altering crash that left her struggling to rise from bed, Joanne takes us on a transformative adventure. Against all odds, she turned her despair into determination and emerged as a beacon of resilience. Joanne's inspiring story unfolds through countless ma…
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The pain of feeling disconnected from your child can be overwhelming, but there are powerful ways to shift your approach and create the deep, meaningful connection you desire. Empathy, compassion, and effective communication are at the root of human connection. They’re also a critical component of shaping your experience of your child’s addiction. …
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In Episode 5 of our podcast series, join us on a powerful journey with Marty H Bailey as he shares his remarkable transformation. From surviving perilous situations in the wrong crowd, facing threats with a bottle to his neck and a gun pointed at him, Marty emerged with a newfound clarity. Today, he is a purpose and mindset coach, inspiring others …
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In this deeply moving episode, join us on an intimate journey as we explore the transformative story of Samantha Louise Hollett. Facing the heart-wrenching loss of both her parents in rapid succession, Samantha found herself navigating the turbulent waters of grief, grappling with the profound impact on her life. Amidst the shadows of mourning, Sam…
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Does this sound familiar? As a parent of a child struggling with addiction, you may have been told to use tough love and set strict rules to help them recover. However, this approach can often lead to feelings of guilt, frustration, and helplessness as you watch your child continue to struggle or get worse. It's time to discover a more effective an…
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In this episode of "The Bounce Back to Breakthrough Podcast," we delve into the remarkable journey of our guest, Mark Snell. From battling drug addiction to navigating the dark alleys of selling himself as an escort, Mark shares the harrowing chapters of his life, including encounters with psychosis and a period of homelessness. Yet, against all od…
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In Episode 2 of the Bounce Back to Breakthrough Podcast, your host Ross Rolph engages in a powerful conversation with the inspiring Delphine Legat. In this emotionally charged episode, Delphine courageously opens up about her journey through the tumultuous waves of a long-distance relationship marred by infidelity. Delphine shares her deeply person…
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In the debut episode of the "Bounce Back to Breakthrough Podcast," join us for a powerful conversation with Lizzie Teymourian, a remarkable relationship coach who has triumphed over adversity. Lizzie candidly shares her personal journey, navigating the challenges of an abusive relationship and the profound impact it had on her life. In this emotion…
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Do you have a child or loved one struggling with addiction or mental health issues? Are you dreading the holidays? Happy Enough Holidays is an interactive workshop hosted by Heather Ross and Beth Syverson on Tuesday, November 14th, 4:30 -6:00 pm PST / 7:30 - 9:00 pm EST $20 for a 90-minuteinteractive workshop. Here's What You Get: A Supportive Imme…
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In a world full of responsibilities and societal expectations you may find that instead of the self-discovery and empowerment you crave, you're left feeling disconnected and unseen. It's all too common for women to lose themselves in their various life roles, especially under the immense pressure of helping a child struggling with substance use. Ye…
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Heather and Pam Lanhart from Thrive Family Recovery Resources dive deep into a topic that's often misunderstood in the world of recovery: ambivalence. It can be one of the most challenging aspects that families face when dealing with a loved one's journey towards change. Ambivalence is complex but often oversimplified and stigmatized which leads to…
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Living your life fully and wholeheartedly even when you're in a challenging place. That's the focus of part 2 of Heather's conversation with Barb Klein, Family Recovery Coach and the Author of 111 Invitations Step Into the Full Richness of Life. Topics covered in this episode: How not to abandon yourself Honoring yourself Cultivating a heart that c…
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Author of 111 Invitations Step Into the Full Richness of Life and Family Recovery Coach Barb Klein shares her experience loving and supporting her son Nate through his struggles with substances and an eating disorder for over 13 years. She shares how it’s important to live your life fully and independent of your child’s experience and find peace an…
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Mary Tilson is a Certified Professional Recovery Coach, Trauma-informed Yoga and Meditation Teacher, the Founder of Sun & Moon Sober Living, and a person in long-term recovery. There is so much you can learn by listening to Mary's journey from substance use to recovery. Instead of focusing on your differences, Mary’s story offers a chance to recogn…
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Learn the unique advantages of using Community Reinforcement and Family Training (CRAFT) to support your child’s recovery journey with guest Gail Embt, a Certified CRAFT Clinician. CRAFT offers powerful tools, yet many professionals and parents who need it don’t know about it. Whether you’re seeking solutions or understanding, this episode offers v…
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In this episode, we hear from Susie Armstrong, a multi-talented writer, healer, actor, artist, mother, and one of the key figures in Heather’s recovery journey for 8 years. Every time you've heard Heather refer to her counselor, she’s talking about Susie. Susie's journey has been shaped by her unique experiences and her commitment to sharing love t…
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Heather talks to Michelle Weidenbenner the founder of Moms Letting Go and the All-Mighty Mom Tribe. Michelle is a passionate advocate, podcaster, and author dedicated to stopping the stigma of substance use disorder and providing hope, courage, and support to moms with addicted loved ones. Her latest book, "Unhackable Moms of Addicted Loved Ones, C…
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In this episode, we have the pleasure of speaking with author Pamela Brinker, whose book "Conscious Bravery: Caring for Someone with Addiction” explores the intersection of parenting and substance use. Pamela shares her personal experiences and insights, starting with her journey that led her to write the book. We dive into the concept of conscious…
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In this episode, Heather discusses the misunderstood emotion of anger and explores its valuable purpose. The discomfort that anger causes can lead to numbing and distracting behaviors that keep you from tapping into anger’s powerful messages. Heather offers 5 insights about anger to help you embrace and learn from it, and a 3 step process to move t…
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Join Heather and guest Andrea Seydel from the Saving You is Killing Me podcast as they delve into the challenging world of supporting loved ones struggling with addiction. In this episode, they share their experience with the stigmatized beliefs surrounding the term "enabling" and offer alternative perspectives that prioritize compassion, support, …
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Heather and guest Marcie Steinberg discuss her journey of reliance and transformation. Hear her heartfelt account of learning that attending a wildernessprogram was just the first step in her son’s recovery journey and how she pivoted to learn the skills she needed to walk beside her son on her own recovery journey. Some topics discussed in this ep…
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In this episode, Heather speaks with Catherine Becker, founder of the nonprofit group Joys and Challenges of Relative Caregivers, along with her daughter Katie, who shares her perspective as someone in recovery from substance use disorder and a mother whose children were adopted by her parents. Catherine shares her experience of becoming a full-tim…
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Addiction within a family can be a challenging experience, particularly when more than one family member is affected. Whether it's a child or a spouse, the common thread is the experience of stigma and shame. In this episode, guest Amanda Lockyer from Addiction Makes Three, shares her experience as a wife, and Heather shares her experience as a mot…
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Jeff Foote, PhD co-founder of the Center For Motivation and Change and author of Beyond Addiction How Science and Kindness Help People Change answers questions submitted by members of Heather's Invitation to Change groups and Facebook group. Topics covered in this episode: Talking to your child about substance use when there are no green light mome…
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Prioritizing your physical, emotional, and mental health is essential when navigating the challenges of supporting a child struggling with substances. Taking care of yourself is not selfish, but rather necessary for your own well-being so you can support your child in a sustainable way. Today's guest Corinne Crabtree is a master weight and life coa…
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Heather and guest Cordelia Kraus talk about addiction, recovery, and parenting while challenging traditional beliefs and exploring alternative perspectives and approaches to what “it works” means. Their hope is to provide insights, information, and support while encouraging thoughtful reflection and understanding in navigating the complexities of a…
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Heather Interviewed parent coach Cathy Taughinbaugh. As a result of her journey with her own child's drug use, Cathy wanted to become an advocate for parents and create awareness about substance use disorder. Cathy is the author of The Compassion Antidote: A Path to Change for You and Your Child Struggling with Substance Use. She is also the creato…
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Addiction is influenced by bio-psycho-social factors, yet biology has been mostly left out of treatment considerations - until now. Dr Evelyn Higgins from Wired For Addiction® created a genetic test that measures brain chemicals, hormones, and specific genes linked to risk taking, impulse control, addiction, depression, and anxiety. Measuring those…
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Adoptees are almost twice as likely to develop substance use disorder. That statistic gave Beth Syverson insight into why her adopted son Joey was struggling with substances. Beth is using her lived experience to help adoptive parents who are coming "out of the fog" and realizing the adoption that created their family also created trauma for their …
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Shame doesn't just show up in your mind, it shows up in your closet too. When you're struggling with your child's addiction and life is throwing challenge after challenge your way; self-care and what you put on your body might not be a priority. Heather talks with master certified coach and personal stylist Judith Gaton about how your thoughts and …
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Do you feel guilty or blame yourself a lot? Forgiving yourself is the path to emotional freedom and connection. If you feel guilty about something you did or didn't do or you're blaming yourself for your child's substance use then forgiving yourself is how you work through it. If you don't forgive yourself, the guilt and blame keep you stuck. In th…
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Every parent experiences anxiety worrying about their kids, but parents who are watching a child struggle with substance use experience even more intense levels of anxiety and more instances of it. It doesn't have to be that way though. You can start changing your anxiety experience today. All you have to do is take the time to bring yourself into …
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Heather talks to guest Gillian Tietz who is the host of Sober Powered, a top 50 mental health podcast, and the founder of Sober Powered Media, a podcast network with 5 other top mental health podcasts. Gill was Heather's first guest on the podcast for episode #9. In that episode, they talked about some of the science behind substance use. This time…
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Today marks one year since Helanna passed away from a fentanyl overdose. This podcast would not exist without Helanna so her interview is being released again to honor her memory. It is one of the most listened-to episodes on the podcast. Heather also shares some of the realizations she's had since Helanna passed, in an updated intro to the episode…
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Did you know we can want two things that contradict each other at the same time? It's called ambivalence and it's a complex emotion. It’s part of the messiness of being human. When we feel complex competing emotions the last thing we want is someone to minimize how we feel by oversimplifying it, yet that’s what we do when we label our kid’s ambival…
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