Best Tally Solutions Podcasts (2024)

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(56) Inviting Single Religious Women to the Sexuality Conversation 1:09:00

1M ago1:09:00

1:09:00

The discourse on marital intimacy and sexuality in Judaism has become a normative topic of conversation. Rabbanit Shayna Goldberg, an educator and spiritual advisor at Migdal Oz, a Midrasha of higher learning for young women in Gush Etzion, believes that conversations about desire, sex and sexuality are relevant for unmarried women as well, and not…

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(55) Loving Again After Loss: Dating and Remarriage After Widowhood 59:18

3M ago59:18

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Losing one’s spouse is one of life’s most difficult and painful experiences. The process of grieving includes feelings of loneliness, abandonment, and isolation. While grieving the loss of a spouse, one also mourns the loss of identity as a member of an intimate partnership and acceptance of a new identity as a widow/er. Well-intentioned friends an…

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The Sex Strike Controversy: An Intimate Judaism Live Conversation 41:03

4M ago41:03

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The infamous “Sex Strike” was recently spearheaded by influencer Adina Miles, AKA “Flatbush Girl,” in order to apply communal pressure to men and their rabbis to free Malky Berkowitz, who has been refused a get for four years. This initiative has created a great deal of outrage in Jewish Orthodox communities, and the “responsa” on social media plat…

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The Failure of Sexual Health Organizations to Condemn Sexual Violence (crossover episode with Orthodox Conundrum) 1:06:01

4M ago1:06:01

1:06:01

After October 7th, Jews around the world have felt besieged by some erstwhile allies, as some have been silent in the face of rampant antisemitism, and others have openly supported Hamas and its genocidal goals. While there have been many who openly support Jews and Israel, the war in Gaza has also provided a moment of reckoning as we discovered so…

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(54) Sex Positive Premarital Kallah Instruction 56:29

5M ago56:29

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In many Orthodox communities, premarital sex education taught by Kallah teachers is limited to ensuring wedding night “success” and encouraging strict observance of Nidah laws in order to "guarantee" sexual satisfaction. Join Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum as they interview two Kallah instructors, Dr. Hadassah Fromson and Dr. Yosefa Wruble, w…

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(53) Navigating Sexual Desire Discrepancies with a Focus on the Emotional Relationship, with Dr. Laurie Watson 47:22

6M ago47:22

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In last month's episode, we discussed many of the physical, psychological and social factors that can contribute to sexual desire discrepancy in couples. This month, we are taking a deep dive in to the role of emotional intimacy, attachment styles and relational dynamics on desire. Joining us is expert Dr. Laurie Watson, sex therapist, author, and …

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(52) Why Doesn’t My Wife Want to Have Sex With Me? 52:07

7M ago52:07

52:07

When there are desire discrepancies between couples, women are often identified as the partner with less sexual desire. Yet the experience of desire may be different for men and women, and the expectation that desire should be equally matched can create feelings of frustration and rejection. The right question may not be “Why doesn’t she want?” but…

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(51) Love in War: Strengthening Security and Connection Amidst Trauma and Threat 42:44

9M ago42:44

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As Jews in Israel and worldwide absorb the realities of the horrors of threat, murder and violation, it seems surreal to think or talk about intimacy. Yet, in the face of threat, the safety and security of a committed partnership can be a comforting resource. And in the confrontation with death, people sometimes seek the vitality and life affirming…

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Episode 3: A Toe-tally Unexpected Date 3:43

11M ago3:43

3:43

I can not make this up.

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Should We Sympathize with Sexual Offenders? (Special Episode) 1:13:36

11M ago1:13:36

1:13:36

A podcast hosted by an Orthodox comedian recently featured a controversial interview with a child sex offender. In response, Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum created a panel to discuss whether there are potential benefits to learning more about people who struggle with attraction to minors and do not offend, as well as those who do. (This episo…

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Episode 2: Tears, Tacos, and Heartache 3:35

11M ago3:35

3:35

Going on my first date in 18 yrs.

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Episode 1: Welcome to App-solutely Fabulous 2:18

11M ago2:18

2:18

Welcome to App-solutely Fabulous!" whether you're someone in their 40s navigating the world of app-based romance or just curious to hear the tales from the front lines, App-solutely Fabulous promises to deliver a dose of relatability, humor, and genuine connection. Throughout this series, we'll laugh, cringe, and maybe even shed a tear or two as we…

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Ancient Love in Modern Times: Celebrating Love on Tu B'Av (BONUS EPISODE) 31:04

11M ago31:04

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The 15th of Av , also known as Tu B’Av, is a minor Jewish festival which in modern day Israel is celebrated as a holiday of romantic love, not unlike Valentine’s Day. In this mini bonus episode, Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum discuss the Mishnaic origins of this day, and compare ancient and modern day beliefs about love. To purchase I Am For …

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“Date 'Em 'Til You Hate 'Em”: A Visit with Netflix Star Aleeza Ben Shalom (BONUS EPISODE) 31:08

1y ago31:08

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Not since Yenta from Fiddler on the Roof has there been a matchmaker as famous as Aleeza Ben Shalom! Join Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum for a rollicking discussion with the colorful, engaging and entertaining host of “Jewish Matchmaking.”By Talli Rosenbaum and Rabbi Scott Kahn

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(50) Like Fine Wine: Sex After 50 50:48

1y ago50:48

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What happens to the sex life of couples during middle age? Does the familiarity of long-term marriage breed sexual boredom ? Does aging reduce sexual interest? What happens when intimacy is no longer mediated by nidah laws? Listen to Rabbi Scott interview Talli as she presents surprising research findings and insights that will dispel myths about s…

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(49) Sexual Compatibility, Condom Use, Defining Jewish Sex, and More 56:28

1+ y ago56:28

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In our annual Q&A episode, Talli and Scott answer many questions and discuss numerous issues dealing with Judaism and intimacy, including whether avoiding sex before marriage means a likelihood of being sexually incompatible with your spouse, how to proceed when you start off shomer negiah and then... you're not, finding porn on your husband's inte…

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(48) Is There a Modern Orthodox Shidduch Crisis? 50:06

1+ y ago50:06

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The shidduch crisis refers to the phenomenon in the Orthodox Jewish community whereby eligible single persons, especially women, have difficulty finding a suitable spouse. While there are definite differences between the way dating for marriage is approached and conducted in the Hasidic, Yeshivish and Modern Orthodox worlds, there are also some sim…

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(47) Unmarried and Dating in Midlife: Navigating Intimacy and Sexuality 47:08

1+ y ago47:08

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Whether divorced, widowed or never married, seeking a new relationship is complex. While each individual has his or her own unique experiences and perspectives, being unpartnered in midlife usually represents mourning for having loved and lost, or not yet having experienced the joy of partnered intimacy. Added to this for Orthodox Jews, are conflic…

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(46) Want, Will, Should or Must: Is the Sex You Are Having Really Consensual? 53:03

1+ y ago53:03

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Numerous sources in our tradition demonstrate that sex in marriage must be mutual and consensual, and at no time can sex be forced or coerced. However, If a woman has been taught that she must do what her husband wants and she is responsible for protecting him from sin, she will fear the consequences of saying no. In this episode, Talli Rosenbaum a…

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(45) Navigating Relational and Sexual Intimacy During Pregnancy, Childbirth and the Postpartum Period 50:11

1+ y ago50:11

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Pregnancy and childbirth are profound events in the life of a couple. The physical, psychological and hormonal changes that occur to women during pregnancy and in the postpartum period can impact both partners and affect emotional and sexual intimacy. Couples must learn to adjust to a changed family system and a new identity as parents. Observant J…

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(44) Infertility and Relationships 46:14

2y ago46:14

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Infertility and pregnancy loss affects relationships: with self, God, partner, family, friends and community. In part 2 of this two part series, Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum discuss the general implications of infertility and pregnancy loss on these relationships and on marital intimacy and sexuality. Listen to Talli and Rabbi Scott discuss…

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(43) Infertility and Pregnancy Loss (Part One): A Conversation with Dr. Aimee Baron 41:12

2y ago41:12

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The liturgy we recite on Rosh Hashana includes references to fertility and childbirth. God remembers Sarah, Rachel and Chana by answerIng their prayers for a child. The poem “Hayom harat olam,” the ‘birth day’ of the world, evokes images of pregnancy. For individuals and couples struggling with infertility or pregnancy loss, this can be triggering,…

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8: Ep 008 - Alka Karnani - Director Money Plant 18:37

2y ago18:37

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Personal finance is a topic that is hotly discussed. Yet, what happens when you start your own small-scale personal finance consultancy? How do you stand tall amid other well-established organizations? How do you distinguish your brand from other bigger ones? And if you are a woman leader running this company, there are often biases that you face i…

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7: Ep 007 - Seema Baid - Co-founder, Herbice India 20:00

2y ago20:00

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The popularity of herbal products has exploded over the past decade, and especially during the pandemic time. So, if you are in a business that makes products that are already being sold by other bigger brands, how do you ensure your business also grows? How do you break apart from the clutter in the market especially when your resources as an SME …

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6: Ep 006 - Pranay Goyal - Director, Hajare Sales Pvt. Ltd. 15:54

2y ago15:54

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Siliguri-based electrical trade manufacturer, Pranay Goyal reveals his secret to the consistent growth his company has seen in the past decade: "Our strength is in the fact that our workforce comprises over 90% women. Our work requires dedication, and we have observed that women are meticulous with their work compared to men." Key points covered in…

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(42) ‘The Surrendered Wife’ and Marital Intimacy: Hierarchal Power Dynamics Versus Equal and Mutual Partnership 54:43

2y ago54:43

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Last month, Orthodox Jewish journalist Avital Chizhik-Goldschmidt published an article in The Atlantic highlighting the popularity of Laura Doyle’s 2001 New York Times bestseller, ‘The Surrendered Wife,’ among Orthodox Jewish women. Doyle’s book provides a practical guide to marital bliss and harmony, suggesting that women stop being critical and d…

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5: Ep 005 - Kishore Chhabra - Director of Rock Engines Pvt. Ltd. 11:10

2y ago11:10

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“You should have a vision board, and whatever thoughts come to you about what you want to achieve and what you dream about, should be posted on this board. And then, the complete modus operandi should be decided for it along with the time required to set it in motion.” This idea by Kishore Chhabra, Director of Rock Engines Pvt. Ltd., has ensured th…

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4: Ep 004 - Parthiban Ramaswamy, Managing Director of Fisher Pumps Pvt. Ltd 14:59

2y ago14:59

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Nothing can stop an idea the time for which has come. Parthiban Ramaswamy, the Managing Director of Coimbatore-based Fisher Pumps Pvt. Ltd exemplifies this. During the peak of the pandemic, he was driven to devise a solution that would help healthcare workers who were on the frontlines. Using his engineering expertise, he was able to develop a new-…

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(41) Mindfulness, Pleasure and Orgasm: The Jewish Pleasure Principle 43:14

2+ y ago43:14

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Judaism values sexuality in the framework of marriage, both for the purposes of procreation and for relational intimacy. But does Judaism sanction the enhancement of physical pleasure, or should it be minimized? Do the Sages relate to pleasure differently in men and women, and how aware were they regarding the female experience of desire, arousal a…

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3: Ep 003 - Prabudh Mishra, founder of Vanproz Agrovet 16:18

2+ y ago16:18

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What does it take to be a first-generation entrepreneur, especially in a business line that is not very popularly spoken about, like plant biotechnology? Discover the journey of scientist-turned-entrepreneur Prabudh Mishra, founder of Vanproz Agrovet in Bangalore, who transformed the way farmers do business and has enabled them to earn up to 70% hi…

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2: Ep 002 - Sumithra Foods founders - Ruchi Mandal & Shravan Roy 12:06

2+ y ago12:06

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Ever thought about what building a business with superfoods requires? Heard of Bihar's staple snack called makhana? Sumithra Foods founders, Ruchi & Shravan talk about their entrepreneurial journey, why they left their well-cushioned engineering jobs for creating a business with makhana, and how their organization supports the employment of the loc…

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(40) "Male and Female He Created Them": Trans, Non-Binary, and Orthodox Judaism 49:33

2+ y ago49:33

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According to Jewish sources, God created humans as distinctly male or distinctly female. The roles, obligations and privileges of each gender are clearly defined in our tradition. Yet, not everyone conforms to the gender assigned to them at birth and some individuals experience their gender as distinctly opposite. Can Orthodox individuals who ident…

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1: Ep 001 - Malavika Varadan, Managing Director - The Hive 17:33

2+ y ago17:33

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Leading the growth of any creative arts business requires innovation and an immense amount of grit. But leading the growth of a performing arts company and establishing it as a lucrative business opportunity while competing with our on-demand entertainment giants begs for a different level of business transformation and perseverance. This women’s d…

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(39) Straight FOMO, Hymenal Myths, Vasectomy Envy, Fetishes, BDSM and Mad at God: Listening to our Listeners Q&A 54:01

2+ y ago54:01

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In this month’s episode, we turn the mike over to you, our listeners, and answer a handful of the many questions you have sent in on email, Facebook and Instagram messenger. Listen to Talli Rosenbaum and Rabbi Scott Kahn discuss what happens to queer women who don’t want to miss out on traditional marriage and sexual reproduction, when you are angr…

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(38) Reproductive Health and Halacha Part 2: Birth Control Methods 58:26

2+ y ago58:26

58:26

Reproductive health ensures that couples can lead satisfying sex lives, and make informed decisions regarding family planning. Decisions related to birth control methods are generally guided by various factors, including health, convenience, cost, preference, and sexual or other side effects. For most observant Jewish couples, these decisions are a…

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(37) Reproductive Health, Birth Control, and Jewish Law 48:11

2+ y ago48:11

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Reproductive health is relevant to all couples in their childbearing years. Family planning, fertility interventions, and the use of contraception are guided by values and Halachic considerations, and involve several other factors including financial concerns, personal and professional goals, desired family size, and relationship stability. Join Ra…

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(36) Out of the Closet Without Shame: Balancing Conflicting Identities of LGBTQ and Orthodoxy 59:15

2+ y ago59:15

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In past decades, being Orthodox and gay meant suffering in the closet, or choosing to live authentically at the expense of religion. Today, more LGBTQ individuals and couples wish to retain their religious identities while embracing their sexual orientation. Join Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum in a moving interview with Rachel Weinstein, Shim…

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(35) Sex Positivity, Sexual Health, and Sexual Rights: Are These Jewish Values? 51:26

2+ y ago51:26

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The World Health Organization defines sexual health as fundamental to the overall health and well-being of individuals, couples and families, and considers sexual pleasure to be a basic human right. In Judaism, sexual pleasure is valued, but only in the context of marital sex, leaving many people in conflict between their sexual health and spiritua…

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(34) Men Are Pigs and Women Are Distractions: What Messages About Sex Are Taught in Yeshiva, Seminary, and College? 52:24

3y ago52:24

52:24

During the month of Elul, hundreds of high school graduates flock to Israel for their gap year programs, yeshivot, and seminaries. This year offers experiences of high level learning, spiritual growth, increased maturity, new friendships, and fun. But many students experience confusion, particularly around their developing sexuality. The legendary …

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Whose Business is My Unorthodox Life, Anyway? (BONUS EPISODE) 1:03:27

3y ago1:03:27

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The Netflix reality show, My Unorthodox Life, has been the talk of much of the Orthodox world since it was released less than two weeks ago. It tells the story of Julia Haart, who first developed a shoe line, and quickly rose in the world of fashion. She now is the the CEO and co-owner of Elite World Group, the world’s largest modeling network. As …

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(33) Painful Sex and Vaginismus: It’s Not Your Fault 44:22

3y ago44:22

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Although quite common, painful intercourse is a topic that is rarely talked about. Couples who are unable to experience pain free intercourse, or are unable to consummate their marriage, may not know why this is happening or with whom to consult. Is this problem physical or psychological? How is it diagnosed and treated? In this episode, Rabbi Scot…

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(32) Lubricants, Vibrators, and Sex Toys for Marital Enhancement 51:42

3y ago51:42

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Modesty, lack of information, and embarrassment are just some factors that inhibit observant couples from using products designed to enhance sexual intimacy. In this episode, Rabbi Scott Kahn and Talli Rosenbaum host Beverly Damelin, who shares her expertise in the field of sexual enhancement products and explains how they can help improve the sexu…

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(31) Consent and Coercion: What Does Forced Marriage and Obligatory Sex Look Like in the Jewish Community? 44:23

3+ y ago44:23

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“Forced marriage" and coercive sex are terms that most believe have no relevance to Judaism. Nevertheless, in communities where marriages are typically arranged by parents and matchmakers, does the couple truly have the freedom to reject the match? And even in modern Orthodox circles, do young men and women sometimes feel pressured to marry when th…

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(30) Fantasy, Premarital Sex, Kink and More: An Intimate Judaism Q and A 55:09

3+ y ago55:09

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In Episode #30 of Intimate Judaism, Talli Rosenbaum and Rabbi Scott Kahn answer practical sex questions from listeners. Among the subjects covered are: Can a couple experience sexual pleasure when intercourse is medically inadvisable? Why must couples get the first time "over with" on the wedding night? (Or must they?) Is it permissible to masturba…

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(29) Intimacy After Sexual Abuse 48:52

3+ y ago48:52

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Sexual intimacy provides the opportunity to express love with connection, pleasure, and satisfaction. Yet, for people who have experienced sexual assault, sexual violence, and abuse, intimacy can feel very unsafe. Being on guard, and sometimes checking out and dissociating, is what has allowed abuse victims to survive, and the idea of “relinquishin…

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(28) Tzniut: Modesty, Female Masturbation and the Media 45:33

3+ y ago45:33

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Orthodox girls and women are traditionally taught to dress modestly in order to avoid attracting the male gaze and to keep men from sinful thoughts or behaviors. These messages, according to Rabbanit Oriya Mevorach, an educator and doctoral student of Gender and Philosophy, objectify and sexualize women and girls, and are actually influenced by Wes…

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(27) “It Is Not Good for a Man to Be Alone”: Guiding Religious LGBTQ Jews 33:51

3+ y ago33:51

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Harav Binyamin Lau, community leader, author, teacher, and former Rabbi of the Ramban Synagogue in Jerusalem, recently introduced a document providing guidance for members of the religious LGBTQ community and their families. This document is a collection of recommendations that, according to Rav Benny, “Do not permit prohibitions or prohibit things…

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(26) What is Tantra and is it Kosher? Enhancing Sexual Intimacy Using Ancient Eastern Philosophy and Techniques 54:45

3+ y ago54:45

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Tantric sex originates from ancient Hinduism and revolves around sexual practices that focus on creating a deep, intimate connection. It is a meditative sexual practice that encourages people to focus on the connections between the mind, the body, and the soul. It is intended to lead to fulfilling sexual experiences and greater intimacy. Taoism is …

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(25) Sex and Guilt 41:10

4y ago41:10

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Intimacy and sexual experiences are so closely connected with a person's sense of identity, and so seldom discussed in many religious communities, that they often are the source of tremendous feelings of guilt. When are these feelings misplaced and when do they serve a constructive purpose? How should a religious individual manage his experience of…

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(24) “Unorthodox” and Male Sexual Functioning Problems 33:16

4y ago33:16

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The Netflix series “Unorthodox” inspired two Intimate Judaism ZOOM panels on female and male sexuality respectively. But many listeners had further questions about sexual functioning in men -particularly with regard to "performance anxiety" - and asked us to discuss the topic in more detail. Join Talli Rosenbaum and Rabbi Scott Kahn in this bonus e…

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