Best Allison Hare Podcasts (2024)

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Moms in Charge: Redefining Motherhood & Community with Boss Mom's Dana Malstaff 50:27

1d ago50:27

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Sheesh! As moms who are juggling our families, our selves, our businesses, and everything else under the sun, the state of motherhood is shifting in a new way. My guest, Dana Malstaff, founder of the big and beloved Boss Mom community, podcast, book, and business has a very unique perspective that will change everything for you. Building a communit…

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Etymology with Adam Aleksic, Engagement Expectations, and Philanthropy [MINISODE] 24:09

2d ago24:09

24:09

Gabe hates glass mugs. A listener writes in because she is worried that her engagement won't be special because it is taking so long to happen. Tiktok's EtymologyNerd Adam Aleksic joins the pod to talk about the secret stories behind words, the historical evolution of slang and acronyms, and replacing words to make them more inclusive. And finally,…

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Ep 452: Adib Khorram and "The Breakup Lists" 48:18

4d ago48:18

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Adib Khorram talks with Jeff about his new YA novel, "The Breakup Lists." He discusses what inspired the story of stage manager Jackson and swimmer-turned-actor Liam, including some elements that come from Adib's real life. We also find out about how Adib approached the deaf representation in the book, why he chose the plays he did to be staged wit…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: Detective Woof Woof and Sergeant Bow Wow 35:28

9d ago35:28

35:28

Gabe shares his secret Halloween costume. Allison shares a story about a woman's husband's friend who keeps bringing up her husband's ex randomly. Is it weird for a husband to have female friends? A bouncer cuts a person's license in half even though it wasn't actually a fake. Dating advice for women vs. dating advice for men. Allison worries she w…

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A new social media strategy for Gen X with Chelsea Peitz 42:56

16d ago42:56

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Social media for Gen X? More heart and humanity, less hacks and hustle? YES PLEASE! Chelsea Peitz is my guest today and she's flipping everything we know about social media on its head and creating a MUCH more productive space to connect and create meaningful relationships. I can't wait for you to hear this! She's SO refreshing and real. Timestamps…

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Autism on Tiktok with Paige Layle, Religious Siblings, and Trad Wives [MINISODE] 24:28

16d ago24:28

24:28

tw: suicidal ideation Allison is excited to go on a vacation and not have to write! The duo then try to help a listener who is worried her sisters' religiousness is having a negative impact on their lives. Author and activist Paige Layle joins the pod to talk about letting herself be autistic, how being on Tiktok made her advocate for herself, stim…

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Ep 451: "Accidentally Undercover" with Layla Reyne, Allison Temple, and Cari Z 46:47

18d ago46:47

46:47

Jeff welcomes authors Layla Reyne, Allison Temple, and Cari Z to discuss the new "Accidentally Undercover" romantic suspense series. We talk about the origin of the series (which includes secret message chicken wings), and what it was like for Allison and Cari to write their first solo romantic suspense books. Plus, they talk about their own books …

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Too Long Did Read [It]: Likable Villain Is My Whole Deal 35:45

24d ago35:45

35:45

Content Warning: Racism, Sexual harassment Everyone is feeling chatty up top so there are a few detours into reality TV, Gabe's psychology and ageism. (Per usual.) r/datingadvice reveals the positive parts of rejection. Melisa shares her friends-to-lovers moves. r/askreddit wonders what is the most inappropriate thing anyone has ever said to you. A…

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Late diagnosis, high-functioning, high masking ADHD and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) 1:00:08

30d ago1:00:08

1:00:08

Genius or ASD? In this episode of the Late Learner Podcast, Allison Hare and guest Cindy Robinson discuss being diagnosed later in life with ADHD and ASD. We explore topics like high masking, setting the record straight on why we shouldn't say high or low functioning, and as always, bringing a fresh perspective. We are challenging old paradigms and…

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Keith Haring with Brad Gooch, Getting Your Spouse To Go To Therapy, and Celebrity Interviews 39:09

1M ago39:09

39:09

New Yorkers v. The French. A listener wonders the best approach to get her husband to actually go to therapy. Historian Brad Gooch joins the podcast to fanboy radical queer artist Keith Haring and discuss the rule breaking 1980s art scene in New York. And finally, what's with all the unhinged celebrity interviews lately?? Check out all of our conte…

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Ep 450: Steven Salvatore Talks About His Very Gay Take on "Pretty Woman" 50:30

1M ago50:30

50:30

Jeff & Will welcome Steven Salvatore to discuss his new book "The Boyfriend Subscription," which is a queer retelling of "Pretty Woman." Steven talks about the inspirations he took from the Julia Roberts film, why he's started writing adult romance after several young adult titles, plus we get some hints about what's coming in the sequel. Steven al…

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Too Long Did Read [It]: Just Holler At Me If You Need Any More Info My Hombre 29:33

1M ago29:33

29:33

Content Warning: Poop r/stories brings us a tragic bowel movement. It also reveals the trio's different approaches to office bathrooms. r/paralleluniverse shares a story about a wedding and a possibly supernatural traffic jam. An OP has some fun with r/chatgpt. And most shocking of all, Gabe still uses DVR. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes A…

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To cut or not to cut: Plastic surgery and culture with Dr. Louis DeJoseph 33:40

1M ago33:40

33:40

What do you do when you look in the mirror and gravity has stricken your once very youthful high and tight face? Not gonna lie - it’s a beeeyach. It can really mess with you. And it’s no secret that our society for centuries and centuries has put premium value on youth as a moral imperative to beauty. And wherever you may stand on plastic surgery, …

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OUR FIVE YEAR ANNIVERSARY SPECTACULAR!!! [FULL EPISODE] 1:34:53

1M ago1:34:53

1:34:53

Welcome to the very special 5 year anniversary show!! Two former International Question writers give us INCREDIBLE updates. Then, our very first producer John Asante joins the show to reminisce about the podcast's origins and some dramatic, spicy behind the scenes tea. Plus, where will we be in five more years? Hopefully still here! Watch clips and…

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Ep 449: Brad Gooch Discusses His "Radiant" Biography of Artist Keith Haring 1:09:31

2M ago1:09:31

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Jeff & Will kick off this episode discussing books that Jeff's recently read including "A Different Kind of Brave" by Lee Wind, "Mona of the Manor" by Armistead Maupin, and "Radiant: The Life and Line of Keith Haring" by Brad Gooch. Brad then joins Jeff to discuss "Radiant," a biography that explores the life of artist Keith Haring from his earlies…

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Special Announcement 1:50

2M ago1:50

1:50

We're going back to once a week on the feed, switching off between full Wednesday episodes and expanded, longer TLDRI episodes. So there will be four episodes a month but longer. Our Sponsors: * Check out mylifeinabook.com and use code JUSTBETWEENUS at checkout for 10% off. Create an unforgettable gift for your mom this Mother’s Day. Support this p…

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Predicting Trends with Lilah Raptopoulos, Loving Yourself While Dating, and Sensory Sensitivity 24:34

2M ago24:34

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Allison loves Olivia Rodrigo more than anyone. Next, Gabe and Allison answer a listener's complicated question about feeling good enough to date after coming from a racist hometown. Then, the Financial Times' Lilah Raptopoulos joins the show to answer the question of what culture is, what trends are coming in 2024, and what we're missing now that c…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: A Squat Corrupted Flesh Sphere 34:48

2M ago34:48

34:48

A discussion about movies and lawsuits inspired by a mouse. r/relationshipadvice explores the ICK. Melisa and Gabe reveal they are stalking Allison. r/coworkerstories proves people need to mind their own business. r/divorce_men tries (and fails) to make a sick burn. And finally, who doesn't like cotton??? Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND…

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Pro aging and debunking skin and beauty myths with Dr. Mary Alice Mina 42:28

2M ago42:28

42:28

What are the skincare and beauty trends that are useful and effective and which ones are marketing gimmicks feeding into a $104B industry? Silicone patches, infrared masks, simplified skincare, what do you actually need? What does it look like to move away from anti-aging rhetoric and move towards pro-aging. The beauty industry has truly shaped our…

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Attachment Styles with Thais Gibson, Career Compromises, and Excited Delirium [MINISODE] 33:43

2M ago33:43

33:43

Hold onto your pants. Gabe is going through it. A listener writes in wondering how to assuage her guilt around asking her partner to compromise his career so they can kids. Then, counselor Thais Gibson joins the show to talk about attachment theory and make Gabe emotional. And finally, Allison brings up a very important and enraging topic: excited …

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Ep 448: Revisiting a Favorite: "Romancing the Rough Diamond" by Clare London 38:40

2M ago38:40

38:40

Jeff & Will begin by recommending "Most Ardently" by Gabe Cole Novoa, which is a retelling of "Pride & Prejudice." To wrap up Valentine's month, the guys take a deep dive on one of their all-time favorite romances, "Romancing the Rough Diamond" by Clare London. Complete show notes for episode 448 along with a transcript of the show are at BigGayFic…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: I've Made Up With Almost All Of My Enemies 31:14

2M ago31:14

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Always check under a rug. r/maincharacterenergy shows a really bad approach to activism. A brief foray into funeral planning. r/ohnoconsequences proves cousin jealousy won't get you anywhere. And finally, cast art! Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes: https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenus This has been …

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Check Out Sex Ed with DB 10:08

2M ago10:08

10:08

Today we’re excited to share an episode preview from our friends at Sex Ed with DB! In this episode, DB sits down with queer content creator Alayna Joy to talk about her "late bloomer lesbian” coming out experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental hea…

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Feet For Free??? A JBU Talking Episode! [MINISODE] 19:05

2M ago19:05

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Allison's parents want her to start an OnlyFans. Next, a conversation about how we pick guests and why we canceled one. A listener writes in wondering how she can know if someone she went no contact with has changed or not. Gabe proposes a life of no hope. Hypotheticals causes a big debate over children, smart phones and cousins. And finally, Allis…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: Cry Laughing Emoji, Cry Laughing Emoji 29:10

2M ago29:10

29:10

Allison makes one of her best intros yet. r/marriage shows what makes a bad friend. r/badroommates features a cringe text conversion. r/decidingtobebetter has a big twist and some good advice. r/amitheasshole shows sometimes kids don't deserve cupcake. And finally, castles! Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday ep…

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Better Together: 5 Uncommon Love Tips for a rock solid relationship 27:52

2M ago27:52

27:52

Everything we've been taught about relationships is totally outdated and can even create more unnecessary shame. Host Allison Hare shares relationship secrets that are not commonly known and discusses how they can work like magic. This episode is a powerful guidebook for those looking to revive their relationship or set a totally new standard for a…

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Polyamory with Dedeker Winston, How To Know If You're Moving On and the 2024 Elections [MINISODE] 29:31

2M ago29:31

29:31

Melisa's bday is coming up (even though Allison has no sense of time)! A listener wants to know how they can tell if they are healing from heartbreak. Relationship coach, Dedeker Wilson, joins the chat to talk about all things polyamory including her own journey. And finally, how do we not spiral into despair as another general election approaches?…

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Ep 447: Gregory Ashe Creates the Advanced Ashochism Reader Community 45:02

2M ago45:02

45:02

Jeff & Will kick off this episode with details on the "Box of Hearts: Sweet to Spicy Tales of LGBTQIA+ Love" available from authors on Ream. Jeff also reviews "The Invention of Wings" by Robin Knight. Gregory Ashe discusses how subscription communities can engage readers on a deeper level. He shares insights from launching his own community, along …

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: Shards Of Your Soul Go To Hell And Have To Be Redeemed 32:48

2M ago32:48

32:48

r/cults shows us some real terrible parents. r/youshouldknow puts casual liars on blast. Gabe has a new take on confrontation and codependency. And finally, the physics of dying. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes: https://www.patreon.com/justbetweenus This has been a Gallison Production Produced by Me…

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Boarding School with Jen Bashian, Using Your Privilege and Reviews [MINISODE] 29:27

3M ago29:27

29:27

Gabe is out of town so Allison and Melisa go rogue. A listener writes in because he feels guilty for his success in a non profit. Allison's high school classmate, Jen Bashian, joins the chat to discuss what it was really like to go to boarding school and her thoughts on high school Allison. And finally, reviews. How much do they matter? Watch clips…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: After The Last UFO Incident, The Government Reads My Mail 33:31

3M ago33:31

33:31

Gabe, Allison and Melisa all have stories about crooked funeral home directors. Allison doesn't understand how anything works. A Redditor rightfully freaks out listening to their fiance cover for her cheating sister. It's really bad! On r/sadcringe, someone quitting their job writes an awkward short story instead of, you know... submitting their re…

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Rethinking Perfectionism: what kind are you? Katherine Morgan Schafler 1:12:18

3M ago1:12:18

1:12:18

Where are my fellow control freaks? Such an interesting and way more helpful perspective to rethink and redefine perfectionism. You know when you read a book and it’s so groundbreaking and helpful, you can’t help but tell all your friends, post about it? Well, I was the recipient of essentially being attacked on all sides that I needed to read this…

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Child Stardom with Danny Tamberelli, Cutting Out A Friend, and Romanticizing Your Life [MINISODE] 28:57

3M ago28:57

28:57

Allison and Gabe didn't notice each other's hair changes. Are they even friends? A listener writes in asking what to do about a friend whose mental health and addiction is putting a huge strain on their friendship. Writer, comedian, and former child star Danny Tamberelli joins the podcast to talk about his life starring on Nickelodeon, his love sto…

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Ep 446: Charlie Cochet & Victoria Sue on Connecting with Readers Through Subscriptions 47:36

3M ago47:36

47:36

Jeff & Will kick off this episode discussing the comments they got from members of the Big Gay Fiction Podcast community about authors offering subscriptions. Authors Charlie Cochet and Victoria Sue discuss the creative freedoms and community engagement that they have found since beginning their subscriptions. They also share details on upcoming pr…

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Too Long, Did Read [It]: Allison's Husband, WHO WE LIKE 31:22

3M ago31:22

31:22

Allison shows off her hands without anyone asking. r/entitledparents brings a story of a nightmare father-in-law. r/changemyview causes an argument about flaking. r/love proves good partners are possible. And finally, stuff stuck in your teeth. Watch clips and the full TLDRI episodes AND listen to the full Wednesday episodes: https://www.patreon.co…

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Patient Centered Dementia Care with Katie and Jeffrey Norris, Relationship Compromises, and Book Recommendations [MINISODE] 26:24

3M ago26:24

26:24

Allison shares an epic baby picture. A listener writes in to get some advice about whether it's unfair to ask her partner to move in before getting engaged even though it will upset his family. Mother-son duo, Katie and Jeffrey Norris join the chat to talk about Montessori-based dementia care and why so many people don't seem to understand it. Fina…

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Too Long Did Read [It]: Stop Giving Advice To Murderers 29:29

3M ago29:29

29:29

Melisa and Gabe explain We Are The World to Allison. Who do each of them text the most? Why isn’t Gabe the favorite child, according to their dad? r/screenwriting asks a question about cops getting away with crime. A sassy sex worker on r/sadcringe exposes fake age gap relationships. Also, soldiers fight as drag queens in WWII, huge skeletons for X…

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Emotionally Uncomfortable to feeling good with Heather Chauvin 50:18

3M ago50:18

50:18

Energetic time management, over capacity, toxic motherhood, rethinking, emotional intelligence, identity death, OH MY! Heather Chauvin, a leadership coach and strategic parenting expert is my guest today and we are giving you the tools you need and discussing shifting identities and the process of letting go and rebuilding. Heather shares her uniqu…

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Sex For Life with Myisha Battle, Not Having Friends and Millennials [MINISODE] 23:25

3M ago23:25

23:25

Allison fishes for compliments after getting her grad degree. A listener thinks they are a red flag because they don't have enough friends. Sex coach Myisha Battle joins the chat to talk about sexual desire, asexuality, fake dating rules and putting too much pressure on ourselves. And finally, being millennials in a Gen Z world. Watch clips and the…

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Too Long Did Read [It]: It Sounds Deep, But It's Not Real 32:28

3M ago32:28

32:28

Some sex jokes set the mood off right. r/relationshipadvice pits a husband against a best friend. r/friendship poses some tough questions about human nature. r/cults provides some lovely support for an OP who doesn't want to talk about their past. r/im14andthisisdeep makes Gabe die laughing. And finally, dogs in dads. Watch clips and the full TLDRI…

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Ep 445: Empowering Readers and Storytellers with Subscriptions 56:16

3M ago56:16

56:16

Jeff and Will kick off the show with a review of "The (Fake) Dating Game" by Timothy Janovsky. Michael Evans, an author and co-founder of the subscription platform Ream, discusses the rising trend of author subscription programs and Ream's role in bringing readers and storytellers together. Michael shares the inspiration behind Ream, and the valuab…

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Art About Suicide with James III, Having Kids, and Modeling Behavior [MINISODE] 22:48

4M ago22:48

22:48

Content Warning: Suicide and Suicidal Ideation Allison is overwhelmed and everyone needs a cry. A listener wonders if they should have kids. Writer James III joins the chat to talk about his horror-comedy comic based on his father--who he never knew. And how he has processed his late father through different creative pursuits. Finally, how consciou…

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Too Long Did Read [It]: Revenge Is Self-Care 29:48

4M ago29:48

29:48

Gabe is being inflammatory again. r/relationships is a jaw dropper that brings up some BIG questions about revenge and self-esteem. (Reminder, pee isn't sanitary.) r/confessions includes some iconic behavior in the workplace. r/writers gives a good tip on maintaining social order. And finally, r/noburp because apparently that's a thing. Watch clips…

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EP203: Do Gen X women get the worst of both worlds? Dr. Whitney of Modern Mommy Doc 45:29

4M ago45:29

45:29

In this episode of the Late Learner Podcast, host Allison Hare dives into the topic of hustle culture and its connection to Generation X. She discusses an article she read about Gen X women getting the worst of both worlds and invites Dr. Whitney Casares, also known as Modern Mommy Doc, to share her insights on the subject. Dr. Casares, a Stanford-…

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The Baby Scoop Era with Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne, Wanting Different Things Than Your Crush, and Inside Jokes [MINISODE] 34:58

4M ago34:58

34:58

Gabe is on a mission not to feel shame about his acne. A listener writes in to see if she can ethically pursue someone who wants different things than her long-term. Podcasters Sarah Reinhardt & Louise Browne join the chat to share their own adoption stories, the role of coercion in adoption and why adoption is so misunderstood. And finally, the et…

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Ep 444: Enemies to Lovers in Hollywood with Kacen Callender 39:57

4M ago39:57

39:57

Jeff and Will share some favorite reads of 2023 from Big Gay Fiction patrons. Jeff also reviews "Heartstopper Volume 5" by Alice Oseman. Kacen Callender discusses their first adult romance novel "Stars in Your Eyes." They talk about writing and researching the enemies-to-lovers romance between two actors, and incorporating themes of mental health a…

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REPLAY: TLDRI: If You Can't Be Around Somebody's That Pregnant, That's Part Of The Problem 31:11

4M ago31:11

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Original Air Date: May 8, 2023 In r/relationship_advice, an UNBEARABLE man's best friend wants him to dump his girlfriend, a single mom who he's already broken up with numerous times. Allison admits she'll be terrible and demanding during pregnancy. Then, a Redditor finds creepy Post-its around his house. Allison loves pranks, Gabe loves revenge. M…

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REPLAY: K-pop! with Denise Kim, A Co-Worker's Inappropriate Jokes, and Gabe's Top Surgery 1:27:58

4M ago1:27:58

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tw: surgery Original Air Date: December 14, 2022 Gabe and Allison start off with a lively discussion about Raskin pranks and bachelorette party fantasies. The duo then answer a listener's question about how to get over feeling uncomfortable about a co-worker's past inappropriate jokes. When do you need to move on and when do you need to address it?…

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REPLAY: Too Long, Did Read (It): Not My Cup Of Tea, But If My Friend Got It I'd Be Happy For Her 26:02

4M ago26:02

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ORIGINAL AIR DATE: February 13, 2023 In a brand new weekly show, Gabe and Melisa attempt to teach Allison the ins and outs of the wonderful chaos that is Reddit. Our first episode includes a subreddit about Allison's engagement ring, incredible duck facts and a post about whether or not married people should have opposite sex best friends. Buckle u…

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Heavy to hopeful in 3 simple steps before 2024 26:17

4M ago26:17

26:17

As we wind down a year that was....well, might have taken a few unexpected turns and left us feeling a little more heavy, I wanted to give you 3 non-obvious tips that can help you clear the decks for a truly better 2024. Timestamps: 00:01:22 - Reflecting on the Heaviness of 2023 00:03:10 - Personal Development and Redefining Success 00:04:45 - The …

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