Best Dixie De La Tour Podcasts (2024)

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#394 Butt Jam Worthy - with Dixie De La Tour 1:26:26

4d ago1:26:26

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Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that …

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Episode 299: ‘Both My Vaginas’ (Sara Lederach) 36:43

2h ago36:43

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Is Sex one of your favorite ways to meet people? Sultry midwest feminist and sex-positive realtor Sara Lederach is a mother and wife who had squished herself small to serve others, but everything changes when she opens up her failing marriage, gets on Tinder, and meets the love of her life, Chuck. So when Sara reveals that she has fully functional …

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#396 A New Type of Erotic Touch You Should Know About - with Monica Jayne 1:06:46

1h ago1:06:46

1:06:46

Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch? About our g…

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Bonus: Play Out Your Hoe Phase with Amy’s Favorite “Porn” - with Pretty Ink 42:05

1h ago42:05

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In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo devel…

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#395 Rejection, Disappointment, and How to Stop People Pleasing In Sex - with Hailey Magee 1:08:42

7d ago1:08:42

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This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasi…

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Episode 298: ‘Gloryhole Virgin’ (Jeffrey Allen Hayes) 29:42

39m ago29:42

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In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and awkward world of Gloryhole etiquette with professional Game Master Jeffrey Allen Hayes. New to the world of anonymous sex, Jeffrey finds himself perplexed by an invite on the Scruff app. As he navigates the uncharted territory of Gloryholes, he wonders: Do you RSVP? Should you bring baked goods? And w…

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#393 An Inside Look into Stripping, Camming, and Being a Proud Sex Worker - with Marcela Alonso 1:05:57

7d ago1:05:57

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This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker. About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of man…

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#392 What You Could Learn From Sex Parties (even if they aren't your jam) - with Michael Hollice of The Play 1:37:42

14d ago1:37:42

1:37:42

What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people …

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Episode 297: ‘Strap-On Olympics’ (Tatyana Brown) 30:46

22d ago30:46

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My friend, has life gotten you so down that you’ve forgotten that you have Superpowers? Bay Area-based writer, performer, and educator Tatyana Brown is battling break-ups, job loss and the Sads; so should she really given up on sex at this young age? Hoping to jumpstart her libido, she heads to a play party and when a beautiful woman says “I could …

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#391 Sex Toys, Praise Kinks, and AHA Moments - with Finn 58:48

20d ago58:48

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How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting…

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#390 How to Find (or Become) a Great Sex and Relationship Coach or Therapist - with Heather McPherson, LMFT-S 1:07:18

28d ago1:07:18

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When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist o…

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Episode 296: ‘A Stubborn of Queers’ (Kelli Dunham) 33:49

1M ago33:49

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When you’re incapable of an emotional connection, can hookups fill the gap? When Nonbinary Polyamorous Storyteller Nurse Comedian Ex-Nun Kelli Dunham loses multiple partners to cancer, she looks for community in a Brooklyn LGBT Grief Support Group, and ends up loafer-deep in anonymous sex among the scrubby pines of Fire Island. Plus, Dixie talks Se…

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#389 Opening Up Without Blowing Up - with Ally Iseman 1:19:27

2M ago1:19:27

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In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skil…

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#388 Vaginas, Vulvas and Vibrators (and Period Sex!) - with Jordan D’Nelle 1:15:21

1M ago1:15:21

1:15:21

What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to …

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Bonus Episode: A Porn Star's Best Friend - with Making Magic 17:43

2M ago17:43

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This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic, featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator. Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves…

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#387 All About Pleasing That D from the Fellatio Expert - with Jody ProHOEvocative 1:04:55

2M ago1:04:55

1:04:55

In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below. About our guest: Jody is a…

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Episode 295: ‘Orgasm Leader Board’ (Kevin A. Patterson) 26:40

2M ago26:40

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Has a bad breakup ever made you think ‘the only way to get over someone is to get under someone else’? Author and Ethical NonMonogamist Kevin A Patterson is feeling a bit lost and confused, so he grabs his Bang bag and orchestrates his own gender non-specific traveling hand orgy. For one entire day, he schedules tag team handjob deliveries, because…

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#386 MUNCH: Everything You Need to Know About Eating Pussy - with Tyomi Morgan 1:13:50

2M ago1:13:50

1:13:50

In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international p…

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Episode 294: ‘First Nude, Last Nude’ (Dirty Lola) 28:49

3M ago28:49

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Have you ever cried because you hate the body you’re in? Netflix celebrity Dirty Lola gets onstage at Bawdy in Baltimore to tell the story of Sir, a kind Texan with a Southern Drawl who slides into her DMs to propose an arrangement. A fan of her Titty Tuesday posts, Sir suggests a year of virtual service, and quickly becomes Lola’s online Dom. Soon…

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Episode 293: ‘Man’s Country’ (Race Bannon) 30:43

3M ago30:43

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My God, that Leatherman is so hot - but why is he limping? In this vintage 70’s story, Leather & Kink Legend Race Bannon take you on a private tour of his first Gay Bathhouse, and this story is a doozy! Join us as we venture into Man’s Country, a private membership gay men’s club featuring 3 stories of wild adventure, including a theater, gym, rest…

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#385 Your Friend Filmed You Having Sex? - with Come Curious Podcast 1:14:51

3M ago1:14:51

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This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people mov…

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#384 Bi the Way, Have You Taken the Slut Pledge or Had a Threesome? - with April Hirschman 1:02:24

3M ago1:02:24

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What is the slut pledge and why should we take it? How does embracing our desires relate to bravery? What does it mean to “lose your erotic virginity”, and how does this bring more pleasure and aliveness into one's life? How does being a bisexual person require a lot of erotic bravery? Are bi folks the ultimate unicorn for threesomes? And what are …

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#383 How to Build a Sex Room - with Melanie Rose 59:52

3M ago59:52

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How did the fabulous designer Melanie Rose of Netflix's hit show How to Build a Sex Room become known as the “Mary Poppins of sex rooms”? How would someone know what kind of sex room would be the right fit for them, and what they lived in a small two bedroom apartment and have kids? Or a one bedroom or studio…can they make a sex room (or closet/tru…

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Episode 292: ‘Dixie loves Wet Bread’ 24:39

3M ago24:39

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Did you know that there’s an enclave of Bawdy SuperFans in Nashville, Tennessee? This episode is a Behind-The-Scenes story, the story behind the stories, if you will. For those who love the Dixie Ramble, get ready for a Puppet and Clown and Music Video filled birthday party (spoiler alert: wemay have broken the Birthday curse). Plus, the story of 2…

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#382 Behind the Sex Scenes in Film, Television and Porn - with CINTIMA 1:25:56

3M ago1:25:56

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What is happening behind the scenes when sex/intimacy happens in film, television and porn? What us an "intimacy coordinator" and why do they play a pivotal roll in the on-set production? How do intimacy coordinators choreograph a scene, awnd hat makes CINTIMA’s training important and unique? How does watching a show with intimate plots deepen a co…

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#381 How to Pull Your Sex Life (or Relationship) Out of the Gutter - with Dolly Josette 1:08:41

3M ago1:08:41

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What is a “relationship/sex life reboot”? What are some of the main reasons why women and/or couples find themselves in a place that needs a reboot, and is this the same as a "sexless" marriage or relationship? How do hormones tie into all of this? Are there any preventative measures people can take to avoid entering the “I/We need a reboot”? And w…

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Episode 291: ‘Freaks Need Love, Too’ (Flora Goodthyme) 23:23

3M ago23:23

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Can you guess the best makeup remover? Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Flora Goodthyme grew up feeling the pressure of her family’s heteronormative expectations, and struggled with what commitment could look like (some family members were on their sixth marriage, and many cheated). So she moved her single gay ass to San Francisco, discovered the sex…

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#380 Sex on the Road and Oversees - with Tracy Felder 1:26:26

3M ago1:26:26

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In this episode we chat with dear friend and fellow sex educator Tracy Felder. Tracy has traveled the world and has years of experience mastering the art of "sex on the road". From optimizing your (sexual) health while traveling, sex on airplanes, knowing what should be in your sexy travel kit, safety regulations with sex toys, and staying connecte…

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Episode 290: ‘Magic Trick’ (Scoby Goo) 22:29

4M ago22:29

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Is that a Magic Wand in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me? Cuddle Party Facilitator and Intimacy Coach Scoby Goo feels like an outsider until she stumbles upon our little storytelling show, and its inclusive atmosphere changes everything for her. Obsessed, Scoby follows Bawdy from city to city, and becomes captivated with a Seattle magic…

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#379 Calling All Bi and Bi-Curious Women! - with Genevieve from Skirt Club 1:06:01

4M ago1:06:01

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Why is it so important to create a safe erotic space for bi and bi curious women (as compared to other sex parties)? What actually happens at Skirt Club parties? Why do a lot of people feel bisexuality is an “invisible” orientation? Who are all women play parties for? And how can people talk to their partners about wanting to attend Skirt Club (or …

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#378 Pheromones and the "Should I Bang You" Sniff Test - with Jacqui Rubinoff 59:34

4M ago59:34

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What is the purpose of pheromones? What do they do and how do they work in the body? Do pheromones change based on hormones? Is it true that certain people’s pheromones are not for us? Is there anything that can be done when pheromones don't feel aligned? Is the universe saying this person isn’t compatible with me? About our guest: Jacqui Rubinoff …

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Episode 289: ‘Surprise Party’ (Phoenix Mandel) 33:44

4M ago33:44

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Have you ever desperately craved ‘grown-up time’? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they’re determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-the…

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#377 Scrotox, Dicktox, and Erections - with Dr. Paul Gittens 1:09:55

5M ago1:09:55

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What is ED, what are the main causes, and who does it affect? What are some of the common treatments and exercises that can help with blood flow issues that cause ED? Is Scrotox really Botox for the balls? What does it do and does it really work? What about Botox for the penis? Is it a thing and how can it help with erections? How does a person’s m…

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Episode 288: ‘Momsexual’ (Tracy Clark-Flory) 30:42

4M ago30:42

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Holy Baby Bump, talk about the best sex of your life! In this week’s story, journalist, essayist, and author Tracy Clark-Flory is eight months pregnant and the bigger her belly grows, the more distant she feels from her usual spank bank cravings. Should impending motherhood change her fantasies? In search of answers, Tracy interviews a whip wieldin…

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#376 Porn and (Empowering) Gang Bangs - with Erika Lust 1:01:32

4M ago1:01:32

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How has the porn industry shifted over the past 20 years, and how is it that Hollywood still gets it wrong when it comes to intimacy? What are the most common fantasies that women have based on their top porn interests? What about men/other genders? If I identify as a feminist and yet I’m super attracted to porn that involves dominance and submissi…

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Bonus: Your Mom's Favorite Sex Toys 32:31

4M ago32:31

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In this episode Amy talks about our current favorite sex toys including Amy's mom's favorite, which just might be your mom's kryptonite too. From pussy toys to cock stimulators, Amy shares all about what's getting us off in 2024, as well as how to find the right sex toy for you. For toy references: Check out the Womanzier with air-pulse technology …

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Episode 287: ‘Footwear on Fire’ (Al Rahm Lujan) 27:29

5M ago27:29

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Dixie is back, and so is the Podcast! In this episode: You’ve been told ‘Don’t do Bondage when you’re High’, but have you ever heard a true story that illustrated that point? Well, Science tells us that we learn best from a story, so this week, we have an informative ‘Don’t Try This at Home’ story for you. Punk Rock Leather Daddy Al Rahm Lujan was …

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#375 How to Do (and Not Do) Single Life - with Brianne Hogan 52:34

4M ago52:34

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What’s the truth about being single? The good, the bad, the ugly? Why is being single at some point in your adult life important? How can single people become “single and stoked”? What are the steps or what does it take to love single life? What if I’m single and want to stay that way for a while. How can I navigate casual sex without getting into …

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Bonus Episode: Abortion Pills Are in My Medicine Cabinet and They Should Be in Yours Too - with Amy Merrill, MA 49:22

5M ago49:22

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Amy Merrill is an artist/activist at the intersection of creative communications, technology, and social change. In 2015, she co-founded Plan C to transform access to abortion pills by mail in the US, and under her co-leadership Plan C has grown to an annual audience of millions on an award-winning website, press reach in the billions, nationwide p…

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#374 Kiss Like a Pro - with Erwan and Alicia Davon 1:06:39

5M ago1:06:39

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This episode is all about kissing, smooching, making out, and doing the nasty tongue dance. Repeat guests and relationship experts Alicia and Erwan Davon teach us all about the skills needed to be a great kisser, how to match your lover's kissing style, what to do if your partner is just so so in the kissing department, as well as hickeys, spitting…

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#373 How to Get (or Not Get) Pregnant - with Lisa Hendrickson-Jack 1:21:05

5M ago1:21:05

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What non-hormonal options are available to prevent pregnancy OR increase fertility/support getting pregnant? What are some of the most common issues or health risks from using hormonal birth control? What is missing in the common fertility nutrition advice out there today, and why can it be problematic? What do both ancestral practices and modern r…

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#372 Soft Cock Play (and why we love them) Round Two - with Michelle Renee and Erica Leroye 1:32:21

5M ago1:32:21

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This is a continuation of episode #338 Soft Cock Play and Why We Love Them (which is also our top viewed video on YouTube!). You asked, so we are answering by responding to the following questions: why are “you” women able to talk about soft cocks and penis owners' bodies in general? Why is reframing sex so important when it comes to soft cocks? Wh…

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Bonus: Keeping the Spark Alive in Long-Term Relationships featuring the Sex Ed with DB Podcast 18:24

6M ago18:24

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This bonus ad-free episode is a 10 minute teaser from one of our favorite sex-ed podcasts Sex Ed with DB. DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positiv…

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#371 Domination and Anal Training - with King "Daddy" Heff AKA the Duke of Debauchery 1:00:33

5M ago1:00:33

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Learn why King "Daddy" Heff says “In submission there is freedom. In dominance there is responsibility”. King Heff also teaches us how to be more dominant in the bedroom, how to master the sensual art of impact play (spanking), as well as the in's and outs (pun intended) of anal training. About our guest: King Heff is a sexual enhancement product s…

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#370 Circumcision and How to Repair Sexual Function - with Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille 1:11:49

6M ago1:11:49

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Trigger warning! This episode is about genital mutilation, female (and male) and circumcision, healing after physiological trauma in and around the genitals, and most importantly how to repair sexual function. Repeat guests and sexual health specialists Dr. Castillo and Remy Paille, NP teach us about the modern day medical technology and tools that…

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#369 Ethical Non-Monogamy - with Taylor Sparks 1:17:17

6M ago1:17:17

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What is ethical non-monogamy and how does it differ culture to culture? Why is it important to consider how BIPOC folks experience ENM, marriage, and sexuality as a whole? What cultural stereotypes about sexuality still exist to this day for BIPOC folks? And what are some tools and top tips for people who are new to ENM? About our guest: Taylor Spa…

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#368 Is Porn (and Sex) Addiction Real (Round Two)? - with Neuroscientist Dr. Nan Wise 1:24:57

7M ago1:24:57

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This episode is intended to continue the conversation we had on #359 with Gigi Engle. You asked us to host a neuroscientist to discuss what’s happening in the brain during compulsive use of sex and porn, and repeat guest Dr. Nan Wise is the perfect fit for this discussion. Dr. Nan shares her definition of sex and porn addiction and whether or not i…

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#367 Sexual Confidence and the Best Sex Positions from the Internet's Resident Sexpert - with Dr. Tara 1:23:00

6M ago1:23:00

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Why is sexual confidence so important in great sex and relationships? How can I gain more sexual confidence? What is body neutrality and how is it different from “loving yourself”? What if I don’t think I’m hot or sexy? How can I discover my inner sexy beast? The internet's resident sexpert Dr. Tara answers all this, and to add a little more spice …

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#366 Erotic Bucket Lists and How to Handle Rejection - with Wyoh Lee 1:07:51

7M ago1:07:51

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What is... The “Whorearchy” and how is it related to the social expectations that drive sex-related commerce? A secrecy kink and how is it connected to our creative and sexual expression? An erotic bucket list and how can people create their own? The benefit of experiencing rejection, and how can people learn to better handle it when it comes? Abou…

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#365 How to Say F to the Dating Myths and Live Your Own Love Story - with Damona Hoffman 1:02:08

7M ago1:02:08

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Where did the idea of “happily ever after” or “finding the one” even come from in the first place? Is it even obtainable? What are some of the common myths that people buy into regarding dating and relationships? What are some of the ways people can break free from those dating myths and create the dating or love life they truly desire? About our g…

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