Best Nate Bagley Podcasts (2024)

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The Curse of Religious Perfectionism 52:56

2y ago52:56

52:56

Scrupulosity, or religious perfectionism/OCD, can be debilitating for both individuals and couples. The belief that unless you do everything right, keep all the rules, are perfectly obedient, and live according to God's will... something terrible will happen. This episode with perfectionism expert, Dr. Menije explores how our anxiety leaks out into…

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What Is Differentiation? | Anxiety Series #2 8:51

2y ago8:51

8:51

In order to master your anxiety, you must become differentiated. Differentiation is the ability to separate your thoughts from your feelings, and to separate your own thoughts and feelings from the thoughts and feelings of others. This is a practice you will be working on for the rest of your life. Today's episode will introduce you to the first pa…

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Friendship In The Age of Loneliness with Adam "Smiley" Poswolsky 42:17

2y ago42:17

42:17

Friendship is the foundation of your marriage. If you can't be a good friend to people outside your marriage, it's unlikely you'll be a good friend to your partner. Also, friendships outside your marriage are CRUCIAL for the survival of your relationship. Your community is your bedrock. In today's episode, I talk to the author of the new book, "," …

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Your Internal Smoke Alarm | Anxiety Series #1 6:21

2y ago6:21

6:21

Anxiety is basically negative emotions that your brain manufactures to help keep you safe from potential threats... kind of like a smoke alarm. But just like a smoke alarm, there's no special mechanism to help it detect the severity of the threat. Bacon burning on the stove gets the same treatment as a house fire. This is a problem because at some …

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The Go-Giver Marriage 52:04

2y ago52:04

52:04

Some people have relationships that just look so easy, so smooth, and so natural. How do they do it? Are they just lucky? Or are they doing something that everyone else is missing? In this episode, I sit down with John and Ana Mann, authors of the book "The Go-Giver Marriage." This interview (and their book) uncomplicates love and marriage in a rea…

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What Should You Do If You're Caught In An Affair? 45:27

2+ y ago45:27

45:27

Affairs are more common than you'd think. Roughly 50% of marriages are faced with some sort of infidelity at some point during their relationship. So... what do you do if you're caught up in an affair? What do you say if you've fallen hard for someone that's not your partner? How do you respond if your spouse just told you they've been cheating? Ho…

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Why You Shouldn't "Become One" With Your Parnter 4:55

2+ y ago4:55

4:55

Were you ever told that "Becoming One" was the ultimate goal in marriage? Or if you put your partner's needs before your own (and if they do the same) your relationship would flourish? Every day I see people who buy into these nice-sounding mindsets, only to watch their marriage slowly crumble. If you are: A fixer... Or you avoid negative emotions …

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Why Is Being A "Nice Guy" Bad? 1:00:48

2+ y ago1:00:48

1:00:48

Dr. Robert Glover says,"Nice Guy Syndrome represents a belief that if Nice Guys are 'good,' they will be loved, get their needs met, and live a problem-free life. When this life strategy fails to produce the desired results — as it often does — Nice Guys usually just try harder, doing more of the same. Due to the sense of helplessness and resentmen…

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The Four Horsemen Of The Apoclaypse 50:14

2+ y ago50:14

50:14

Dr. John Gottman has spent the last 4 decades studying what makes marriages succeed or fail. Through his research, he discovered 4 specific behaviors that, if left unchecked, will result in the destruction of any marriage. These 4 behaviors are known as The Four Horsemen of the Marriage Apocalypse. Today, we're going to share with you what the Four…

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5 Tips to Change Your Partner 17:01

2+ y ago17:01

17:01

Is your partner checked out, no longer invested, withdrawn, or distant? Do you want to know what you can do to change them? To re-engage them? To get them invested in the marriage again? In this episode, I'll show you how the concepts of animal training can be utilized to help you take responsibility for your actions, words, and thoughts to influen…

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The Cost of Perfectionism with Dr. Menije [FULL EPISODE] 43:24

2+ y ago43:24

43:24

This is the full, unedited version of my interview with Dr. Menije, the Queen of Perfectionism.By Nate Bagley and Dr. Menije

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An Introduction To Boundaries 1:01:32

2+ y ago1:01:32

1:01:32

The concept of Boundaries is not something we talk about in Sunday School.It's not a merit badge, or a young women's value.But without boundaries, our marriages will not flourish and thrive like we want them to.So, today we're going to give you an introduction into the concept of boundaries. What are they? How do they work? Why are they important? …

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The Cost of Perfectionism with Dr. Menije 8:46

2+ y ago8:46

8:46

Perfectionism will ruin your happiness and fulfillment in life and in your relationships. Perfectionism is NOT a good thing. It's often a symptom of deeper issues, like depression, anxiety, or OCD. Check out this clip with Dr. Menije, the queen of perfectionism, to better understand what perfectionism is, why it's harmful, and what we can do about …

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The Two Types of Marital Conflict 58:53

2+ y ago58:53

58:53

Did you know there are actually two types of conflict in marriage?Some conflict, like what to eat for dinner tonight, is resolvable conflict.The rest of our conflicts - 69% to be exact - are unresolvable conflicts, like what to do if you're an early riser, and I'm a night owl. Or if you're fastidious and I'm cluttery.If you try to solve an unsolvab…

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Overcoming Despair with Chad Brown 55:57

2+ y ago55:57

55:57

If you're feeling tired, burned out, or like a failure... If you're feeling unfulfilled, unimportant, or disrespected... it could mean despair is creeping into your life. And despair can lead to resignation, checking out, apathy, and even nihilism. In today's episode, we talk about things you can do to get rid of the despair, and feel good again. F…

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How To Create A Marriage That Can Withstand Any Trial 53:07

2+ y ago53:07

53:07

How do you create a marriage that can withstand any trial?And let's be honest, we want to do more than merely survive... we want to THRIVE, even amidst the struggles of life.God didn't give us marriage to endure. It's to enjoy. And that's what we'll show you how to do today.By Angilyn Bagley, Nate Bagley

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Our Struggles With Depression 17:20

2+ y ago17:20

17:20

Depression has been a struggle we've dealt with throughout our marriage. It's even been at the source of some of our most painful arguments. In today's episode, we want to share about our journey with depression, and shed some light on what depression is, what it's like to struggle with it, and how you can help yourself, or your partner if they are…

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Becoming Independently Happy with Seth and Melany Studleys 52:34

2+ y ago52:34

52:34

You know who has happy marriages? Happy people. If you bring happiness into the marriage, it multiplies. If you rely purely on your partner to make you happy, the relationship consumes all the happiness and leaves miserable, demanding partners in its place. Find out how to create your own happiness in today's episode.…

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The Purpose Of Your Marriage 1:00:32

2+ y ago1:00:32

1:00:32

This episode is a recording of a live marriage preparation class Angilyn and I taught as part of our calling with the YSA Ward. This week's lesson was on the purpose of your marriage... ie: why we get married.The answer might not be what you think...By Angilyn Bagley, Nate Bagley

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4 Things You Have To Do For An Epic Marriage 16:26

2+ y ago16:26

16:26

Truly incredible marriages don't happen by accident. In today's episode, we're going to talk about 4 qualities you need to develop in order for your marriage to be truly epic. If you don't... you'll likely get stuck in perpetual conflict, boring routines, and have an unfulfilling relationship. This episode matters a lot. It will change your perspec…

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Busting Common Cultural Marriage Myths 53:01

2+ y ago53:01

53:01

There are tons of really stupid, damaging marriage myths that we get told growing up. If we try to act out on those marriage myths as if they are true, they do SO much harm.Today we're going to talk about some of the more common marriage myths, and how to avoid falling into their trap.By Angilyn Bagley, Nate Bagley

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How To Restore Safety, Intimacy, & Trust To Your Marriage After Porn 39:53

2+ y ago39:53

39:53

Today, I wanted to share a special presentation I did for couples struggling with unwanted pornography use. Most couples focus on the question, "How do we get rid of the porn?" And the porn keeps coming back... because they're focusing on the wrong thing. This episode will show you an alternative that has worked for thousands of couples... and I'm …

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The Power Of Receiving with Laura Doyle 51:21

2+ y ago51:21

51:21

Laura Doyle is the NYT Bestselling author of The New York TImes Bestselling book The Surrendered Wife. Her advice about the importance of being a good receiver in this episode is game-changing. I hope you enjoy it! Check out more of her work at

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Want An Epic Marriage? There's An App For That! 46:18

2+ y ago46:18

46:18

Check out Dan's Intimately Us app at IntimatelyUs.comBy Nate Bagley, Angilyn Bagley, Dan Purcell

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Would You Put A Shock Collar On Your Partner? 5:42

2+ y ago5:42

5:42

Shock collars are used to train dogs not to leave the yard. They use pain and fear to incentivize action. Are there things you're doing in your marriage to inflict pain on your partner in exchange for compliance? What do you think is the cost of that?By Nate Bagley

Podcasts Worth a Listen

Nate Bagley Podcasts

Podcasts Worth a Listen

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Rethinking Porn Addiction - A Sexual Health Show

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Growth Marriage

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Mormon Marriages

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The Curse of Religious Perfectionism 52:56

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What Is Differentiation? | Anxiety Series #2 8:51

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Friendship In The Age of Loneliness with Adam "Smiley" Poswolsky 42:17

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Your Internal Smoke Alarm | Anxiety Series #1 6:21

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The Go-Giver Marriage 52:04

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What Should You Do If You're Caught In An Affair? 45:27

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Why You Shouldn't "Become One" With Your Parnter 4:55

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Why Is Being A "Nice Guy" Bad? 1:00:48

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The Four Horsemen Of The Apoclaypse 50:14

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5 Tips to Change Your Partner 17:01

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The Cost of Perfectionism with Dr. Menije [FULL EPISODE] 43:24

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An Introduction To Boundaries 1:01:32

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The Cost of Perfectionism with Dr. Menije 8:46

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The Two Types of Marital Conflict 58:53

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Overcoming Despair with Chad Brown 55:57

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How To Create A Marriage That Can Withstand Any Trial 53:07

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Our Struggles With Depression 17:20

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Becoming Independently Happy with Seth and Melany Studleys 52:34

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The Purpose Of Your Marriage 1:00:32

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4 Things You Have To Do For An Epic Marriage 16:26

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Busting Common Cultural Marriage Myths 53:01

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How To Restore Safety, Intimacy, & Trust To Your Marriage After Porn 39:53

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The Power Of Receiving with Laura Doyle 51:21

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Want An Epic Marriage? There's An App For That! 46:18

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Would You Put A Shock Collar On Your Partner? 5:42

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